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Archived questions from: 8 January, 2006 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Any disagreements and my boyfriend walks out. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 859 days ago

8 January 2006 (F) - Hi i am really confused i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years he stays at my house most of the time if we have a disagreement rather than sorting it out he walks out and i dont hear from him for a few days he then contacts me by texs and phone calls constantly.i keep ... (155 words)

The town turned against me and my boyfriend dumped me. Should I seek revenge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 856 days ago

8 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, So me and this guy were together for a bit and everything was going good. I mean we were the perfect looking couple...we were hot together. Then the whole town got angry at him for being with me(the new girl) and left me for this other girl. How do I get him back... (84 words)

Calling all "toyboys"... Your views are needed!

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

8 January 2006 (F) - Hi! I know there is no definitive answer to this question but I'd appreciate some 'toyboys' responses to this one - what is that you 'toyboy's, for want of a better word, love about your older women? What is it about older women that you find attractive? Do you believe that ... (78 words)

My fiance asked a lady co-worker of mine to sleep with us on New Year's Eve! Are girls her "thing"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 858 days ago

8 January 2006 (M) - i am a 25 yr old male New Years Eve my fiance and i went out and ran into a co worker of mine who is also female .we all got drunk and my fiance started touching me in a sexual way in the car in front of her on the way home.then my fiance asked her if she would " sleep " with ... (161 words)

He talked me into anal on the basis that I'm still - technically - a virgin. That doesn't make it feel any better though!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

8 January 2006 (F) - I am a 16 yr old girl. I have been involved with the same guy for 2 years. We both had are both sexual experience together. Ii went down on him but he is pressuring sex on me and I keep saying no. So now he has talked me into anal sex, saying I am still a "technical virgin" ... (87 words)

I'm a divorced man who loves my son. But my new girl wants me to see less of him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 858 days ago

8 January 2006 (M) - I am a 39 year old man and my marriage broke down in june 2004 in september 2004 i meet a girl that i really liked, she gave me the impression that she had no problem with me being divoiced and supported me thourgh the whole thing. she even played with my son 5 years old. i was ... (156 words)

Unsure of how to bring it up... Engagement and moving in.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 859 days ago

8 January 2006 (F) - i want to take my relationship to the next level ie; moving in and getting engaged, i don't know how to bring it up... (24 words)

Any advice for a ginger guy?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 80 days ago

8 January 2006 (M) - Hi i am 18 and i have never really had a girlfriend and i have been unfortunate enough to be born with the worst astetically pleasing hair colour. ( thats my excuse). i dont think i am that unattractive (apart from the above) but it seem that i simply cannot get a partner. does ... (62 words)

How do I get pregnant when my man has genital herpes? Turkey baster anyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

8 January 2006 (F)

- I need some advice from anyone with any knowledge of this subject if possible. Me and my boyfriend have decided to try for a baby. However, he has genital herpes so we can rarely have unprotected sex. I don't want to put myself in any danger of catching this, as I know it can... (98 words)

Hurt in the past, now finding it hard to trust my new girl... Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 859 days ago

8 January 2006 (M) - dear cupid i wondered if you could help me. i have been hurt in the past by an old girlfriend and now that im starting to see someone else i'm finding it realy hard to trust my new partner. she always says that she loves me and that she wont do to me what my last one did,... (222 words)

Does my (now) gay ex girlfriend still have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 859 days ago

8 January 2006 (M) - I've posted here before about my situation, but things keep developing. About six weeks ago, I got told by my new girlfriend suddenly that she was gay. At this point, we weren't that close so we just agreed to be friends. We'd email each other a lot and as we got to know e... (394 words)

Are my mate and my girlfriend getting it on together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 859 days ago

8 January 2006 (M) - I am unsure if my best mate and my girlfriend are sleeping together. The suspicion comes from several things. The way the talk about each other is too personal. Whenevr they are in both with me they get on really well and have a really good laugh with each other, yet my ... (380 words)

My gf is getting cold feet about moving in with me...I'm not pushing her into it. Is there anything else I can do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

8 January 2006 (F) - hi!, I have been with my patner for 5 months, we have been talking about me moving in for about 3 months,I have always known she has a problem with commitment (never commited before). We get on really well and love eachother loads, but suddenly she is getting 'cold feet' about ... (124 words)

Met a guy on the dating site but after he seen my photo..he said it just wouldn't work out. Help me understand.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 859 days ago

8 January 2006 (F) - I've been chatting to a guy I met on an internet dating web site we decided to send photo's. when I did this he responded to me by sending this message:- 'You look really nice, but unfortunately you also look remarkably similar to someone I know very, very well and that ma... (120 words)

When we were long-distance,, he couldn't see a future for us, but now he's back and he won't let me move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 859 days ago

8 January 2006 (F) - I was going out with this guy for 3 months. Before that we were best friends for a year and a half. It was a great relationship. My mom liked him, his mom liked me - that kind of thng. He moved out of my city for a project and we decided to continue. It became a long distance... (185 words)

How do you get closer to a guy who is afraid of a relationship because he got hurt before? Advice is appreciated.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 859 days ago

8 January 2006 (F) - How do you get closer to a guy who is afraid of a relationship because he got hurt before? I'm 15, he's 16. His friends said he likes me, but we never get past just small talk at school and on the computer. I am scared to be too pushy like ask him to hang out because I am shy... (151 words)

I know my husband is still communicating with an ex lover, but what do I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 859 days ago

8 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, What do you do when you know that your husband is still communicating with his ex-lover, lying that he is not? However, I have proof that he talks to her everyday, but does not see her...different states.... (42 words)

I don't understand why Grandad has to get married again! I think it's disrespectful to Nan's memory...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 859 days ago

8 January 2006 (F) - The situation is ... I've lived with my nanna and grandad since I were young. They loved me as if I was their own and iI loved them like they were my parents. My nan died a couple of years ago, but after two years my grandad is getting married again =O. I really cannot g... (139 words)

Is a long-distance relationship the way to happiness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 859 days ago

8 January 2006 (F)

- I have been friends with a guy for about 2 or so years now and over recent months me and him have both expressed deeper feelings for each other. I truly do love him, and I am not using that world lightly either. I care for him so much, more then I have for anyone else and he ... (412 words)

What balance should I strike with this "friends just for now" girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 859 days ago

8 January 2006 (M) - I have met this girl in a nightclub over three months ago. I'm 39 and she is 30. She has recently come out of a relationship. She has clearly stated to me that she wants the friendship first then will consider a relationship. We havent't gone out as friends although she has ... (154 words)

Girls, your help is needed. Is the girl in my life playing hard to get?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 820 days ago

8 January 2006 (M) - Women/Girls....PLEASE HELP!!! Game Playing!!! A girl I absolultely LOVE plays the hot/cold game with me (at least in my mind). I gave here this xmas gift (nothing serious,,just simple gift....and she absolutely loved it and gave me so, so much attention upon receivin... (156 words)

People say my ex-boyfriend's gay. He says he's not. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 846 days ago

8 January 2006 (F) - My ex boyfriend says he is not gay, but he has lived with a gay male for over 20 yrs. He says it started out intimately, oral only just a couple times when he was like 16, but then it never happened again. He is now 44 and still lives with him, but he stayed with him cause he ... (376 words)

So shy that my family bought me an online dating subscription. Then Mom was shocked when I met some guys I like!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 859 days ago

8 January 2006 (F)

- I don't know if anyone can help me here but it's worth a shot. I am 18 years old and never had a boyfriend. I guess its because I am not the partier type and I am so shy. I get nervous when a guy even sits next to me. My family constantly teases me about not having a boyfrien... (378 words)

What can I do to keep my mistress's interest in sex alive?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

8 January 2006 (M) - I am in my 40s and have been married for 26 years. During this time i have had a number of affairs but now i have found a woman i have been in a relationship with for over 3 years. My wife has poor health and I have work related ties. I have explained this to my love but her ... (157 words)

I have spent my entire life ensuring my family is happy. Despite the fact that they'll hate me for it, should I now make *me* happy and leave my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 832 days ago

8 January 2006 (F) - how can i leave my husband when my family will turn there backs on me? please help me i have been married for 20 years and have 2 grown up kids. 10 years ago i became pregnant and my husband felt i could not cope. so he persuaded my mum and dad help him convince me to have abo... (226 words)

What should I do... Ex-wife, 26, is hooking up with a guy, 38, and making a BIG mistake!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 802 days ago

8 January 2006 (M) - me and my wife have separated twice now and because of my verbal anger problem as well as the first time we separated i got involved with a women witch was the icing on the cake for us spliting that time.at the time i was 28 the other women was 41.it took 6 months for my wife ... (810 words)

My wife is unhappy and demanding I "prove" that I'm going to be a better husband. How?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

8 January 2006 (M) - My wife and I have been seperated for 4 months now. I met her in her country 4 years ago. We married 16 months ago in Australia and have a son. We decided to live in Australia for several years and then maybe move to her country. She couldn't find a job here and was homesick... (239 words)

Honey to the bee?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 860 days ago

8 January 2006 (F)

- How would you attract a guy without looking desperate?... (9 words)

Get back together with my indecisive ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 859 days ago

8 January 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend of 9 months and I recently broke up because he was indecisive about school(university) and went back home to another state. When we broke it off, it was a clean break-up, basically we both agreed it was the best thing to do. But now that he's gone I miss him ... (120 words)