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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2006 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My wife and I had a wild fight on New Year's Eve and ended up in court. Will things ever be the same between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 845 days ago

19 January 2006 (M) - on new years eve i had a wild fight with my wife and we both ended up in court. we have only spoken tywice since and she blames me for everything. Will we get back together ? Or should struggle against the pain and let her go.... (47 words)

I've fallen in love with my married co-worker. I don't think she'll leave her husband, and I don't want to ruin our friendship. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 795 days ago

19 January 2006 (M) - I have fallen in love with the woman i work with. We chat a lot and we can tell each other anything. She knows things about me that i've never told anyone else. Problem is she's married. Things are not that rosy between her and her husband, but i don't think they would ever ... (130 words)

He cheated and we worked through it. Then I cheated too and my husband walked out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 815 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - I really need your advice. My life is such a mess. I'm married to the man of my dreams but we have been seperated for about two months. The seperation was hard for me to take and still is, to the extent where I tried to take my own life. I even saw a shrink after. You see, we ... (381 words)

I made her wait and wait for my affection. Has she waited too long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 847 days ago

19 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for the last three years. She left her job and her family to be closer to me even though I never gave her any promise of a future together. Over this past year I haven't given her any affection and have always made her last on my list of ... (156 words)

Always felt that I should have been born male. Now I find myself in love with another girl...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 845 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - Growing up, I was always a real "tom-boy", which is normal, but ever since I was little, and even to this day, I wish I were a male. I always find myself becoming attracted to girls, but lately it's been getting more serious: I'm falling madly in love with them. This is a ... (172 words)

My man and I have been together for just over 2 years. For over a year and a half, he had another girl on the side and didn't bother to tell me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 847 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - I have been with a man for just over 2 years. 1 year into the relationship he moved in with me and my children. He has asked me to marry him. I know find out he has had another girl for over a year and a half of our relationship. I found out, he lied at first, now says he is ... (91 words)

Do we ever stop masturbating? If so, when?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 847 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - i wasn't sure or not but is their a certain time u stop masturbating?... (27 words)

Was it really the age gap between us that made him break up with me, or was it something more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 792 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - I just broke up with my first serious boyfriend. He's 18 and I'm 15, and everyone was telling me to break it off with him because it would end in tears etc but we kept on going because we were in love and were enjoying ourselves. His reason for breaking up with me was the age ... (401 words)

My husband is cold, tetchy and always has to have the last word. I'm so unhappy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 841 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - I am very unhappy in my marriage. My husband is cold and we have no physical contact, not even a hug from him. He is hardly ever in the wrong. He seems to take great delight in outwitting me in conversations and always has to have the last word. His family are constantly in ... (214 words)

How do I react when my co-workers find out I was seeing him while he had a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 829 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - hi, ive been seeing this guy from work who has a g/friend. its over between us but i think he might have hinted to people what we got up too! his g/friend also works with us...how do i react when it comes out?? ... (43 words)

We broke up 7 months ago and I'm currently seeing someone else, but I still can't get him out of my head!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 848 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - Help!! i broke up with my ex 7 months ago coz he wasnt treating me with enough respect and it was all take take on his part. This wasnt the first time id been out with him so i should of expected it but i cant get him out of my head even though im going with someone else now!! ... (72 words)

How do get the one guy I like away from his pack of friends, and get to know him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 848 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - hey I don't really know what to do.. so I won't beat about the bush: There's somebody I like at school. His crowd of friends, including him, sometimes come to see me at lunch, and sometimes after they hug me - though all of them do this, not the specific guy. He's never... (149 words)

My fiancee doesn't trust me, but she still rings me to see how I am...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 848 days ago

19 January 2006 (M) - If you were getting ready to be married and your Fiancee' walked out two weeks before the wedding saying because you hadn't made a conscious effort to buy a new house before the wedding and her saying she didn't trust you because of that. Months go by, and I still would like ... (117 words)

We love each other so much, but have we shared too much about each of our sexual histories?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 847 days ago

19 January 2006 (M) - Agony aunts couples, how can two adults re-married that are completely in love allow our sexual pasts to infect, haunt and disturb our thoughts? We both acknowledge that the past is the past and we cant do a thing to change it. But being open as we are, we have given each other ... (183 words)

I'm a married guy, but I fancy another man I work with!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 845 days ago

19 January 2006 (M) - I'm a married man with kids but really fancy a straight guy from work. I can't get him out of my head. I don't know what to do?... (28 words)

My partner can't get all the way into me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 848 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - Hi there I have just started to have sex for the last three months. The problem is my partner cannot fully enter me. His penis doesnt go in all the way, it stops half way in. I want him to go all the way inside me but he says that doesnt matter. How can I make him g... (125 words)

Did I do the right thing, breaking off with my lover to fix my marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 848 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - I am married and have a son, about three years ago, I was very close to my co-worker, we were very good friends until we feel for each other. At first we agreed to only have a little fling, but as time passed we both started to fall hard for each other. About six months into ... (449 words)

Hubby's not attracted to me, and he's not shy about telling me what I lack!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 834 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - My husband doesn't find me phyically attractive but says hes attracted to me because of the person I am and that he loves me. Should I not worry about this? I have done evrything I can think of to be attractive to him but he prefers a woman in her 20s, much taller than me and ... (78 words)

My boyfriend is a loving, caring man, but he has a past history full of sex and drugs. I feel like I must be such a bore to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 848 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I have been seeing this guy for 6 months and im really happy. But I just don't know how to let go of his past. I'm 21 and he is 26. We have a great relationship and are really happy but his past really upsets me. He has slept with over 50 women, used to drink and take dru... (279 words)

Not afraid of commitment to someone, so why can't I tell my friend that it's him I want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 845 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - I'm not in a relationship now but this guy I like, who's also a good friend and enjoys teasing me. The other day we were watching a horror movie and he told me about the time when he was watching another horror movie with his ex and he was so scared, squeezing her hand and... (430 words)

There's something going on between my ex and my friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 848 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid I was in a strong relationship with my boyfriend. We never left each other's side. Then about 2 weeks ago, my old friend started bothering back with me, and since then my boyfriend has changed with me. He walks away from me and doesn't text me any more. My frien... (109 words)

My ultimatum: get your own place or it's over. Am I being unfair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 847 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - My partner still lives at home with his mum and dad. He declares that he loves me and treats me well but I find it hard to stay at his house because his mum complains of us talking late. I suggest he gets his own place but he explains that he needs to save. He does work but... (116 words)

Anything wrong with having sex in the bath?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 848 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for a couple of months and we always talk about new ways to enjoy sex. Last night I came up with the idea of having sex in the bath, but I have heard that it is dangerous for females to do so. Is this true? ... (52 words)

Before Christmas is was Love At First Sight. Now when I speak to him, he's just "really busy". What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 847 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - Does he want me? I met a guy about 3 months ago and it was basically love at first sight. I have a little girl of 2 and he was just so natural around her. We spent every possible minute together. However, he was only here for work and actually lives in Miami. He went ... (159 words)

Since living with his new girlfriend, my ex doesn't want to talk to me, even though we used to be friends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

19 January 2006 (F)

- I can't seem to get over my ex...I met him in 2004 when 15 and we fell in love with each other. It was a really good relationship. After we broke up, we stayed friends and often went out together to gigs, parties and I spent time at his and him at mine. (even tho he lives kinda ... (286 words)

Madly in love with my best friend and I think he feels the same. How do I tell him? Should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 845 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - You know that movie called My Best Friend's Wedding with Julia Roberts? Well I am kind of in that situation. Except my best friend is single and I am hopelessly in love with him. What do I do? How do I tell him? I think he feels the same way, but I'm not sure. I am going th... (110 words)

How can I make my breasts look better??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 842 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - hey there.ifeelso selfish writing this because i have alovley face and body.its just my boobs.all of the girlsin my b/fs mags have got gorgeous tits thatare full with massive nipples.mine are just so small. i feel so concious about them.i dont want a boob job though. is there ... (65 words)

Does he genuinely like and want me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 848 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - Hey there. i met this guy about 2 years ago and we dated for a while, but then it didnt work out cos we were just too young i think. anyway he lives really close to me so iv seen him round quite a bit. Occassionaly out of the blue he'l text me sayin somethin like"i cant stop ... (175 words)

Tell me about yoga...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 848 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - Dear cupid, I want to get back into shape,live ahealthy life and find myself and I've heard some people having beautifil experiences with yoga, and meditation, how exaxctly do you do this? What is yoga, and how do you practice yoga successfully on your own? Appreciated.... (51 words)

Is it unusual for a man to go to a health spa??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 848 days ago

19 January 2006 (M) - I want both male and female opinions on this question. Do you find it "STRANGE" if a man goes to a health spa, for a full body, head massage, foot massage, manicure and pedicure that are included in the whole experience? I'm a modern 21century male, who wants to look after hi... (99 words)

He is with someone else so there is no future but how do I let go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 848 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - Hello, I'm in a bit of a pickle. I've been seeing a man who is involved with another women for the past 2 years. The worst part being he is the Managing Director of the company I work for. When we first starting dating he worked in another office but due to his promotion he is ... (174 words)

Any good book recommendations to make me a better person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 847 days ago

19 January 2006 (M) - Hi Everyone. I'm not one to read books, and reviews, infact the last book that I read from start to finish was +- 4years ago, as I do have a pretty busy life style. I want to improve my reading skills and general knowledge about many things and would like to know from you gu... (116 words)

Any way I can make my nips more prominent? Makes me look tough, y'know

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 849 days ago

19 January 2006 (M) - Hello, have a stupid question, I've go the average toned body, and I'd like to know if there is any way that i could make my nipples, "yes my nipples" sick out a little more, as when I wear a tighter top my pecks look great, but when my nipples stick out slightly it gives my ... (113 words)

Worried that my messy habits will have gotten my girlfriend pregnant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 847 days ago

19 January 2006 (M) - Hey, this is going to sound really dumb and you'll probably thinking that I'm worrying about nothing (I hope) but the other day me and my girlfriend were messing around on my couch. I went to adjust myself and got some precum on my finger, I wiped my finger on my couch a lot ... (92 words)

Does my gym instructor have the hots? Or just doing his job... ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 843 days ago

19 January 2006 (F)

- Hi, i have recently started going to the gym and i have sorta got this impresssion that my gym intructor likes me but i am unsure because i know as a part of their job role they have to be nice and encoraging but he has said things to me that seem very flirtaous to me, for ... (128 words)

When my girlfriend wants to be alone, she doesn't want to be near ANYONE, not even me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 849 days ago

19 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend is my everything but sometimes she acts very unnaturally. Sometimes she is very loving and all over me but when she is in some kind of weird mood, she will want to sit across the room from me. I always think that I've done something wrong. I asked her why she ... (99 words)

My exotic dancer, drug taking girlfriend just keeps on lying... Does she care?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 847 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - Ok so im kinda lost in my relationship. We have been together for 3 years and i have tried to give her what she wants but it seems like we are not in a relationship anymore. She is always depressed and is only happy when she is under the influence. She says it is because ... (259 words)

The man my parents chose to be my husband won't show any respect to them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 846 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid I had an arranged marriage. I got married about 4 years ago. We have been living together for 2.5 years since he was in school when we got married. My problem is hurting me. My husband does not like my parents. My parents gave us a home to live in, fully... (355 words)