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Archived questions from: 23 January, 2006 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My husband had an "email affair" (maybe more?) and not sure I'll ever get over it...

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - This happened a few years ago but there are times it comes back to haunt me. My husband had an 'emotional' affair. This all started happening when our kids were 6 and 2. He always talked about "Kim" at work...she's so nice, blah, blah. I always thought it was pretty harmless. ... (507 words)

I lost my friend in a car accident, but my bf doesn't understand why I am grieving so much. How do I make him understand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 844 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - Hi there, heres my story... For years, I used to spend the majority of my time with my best friend. I'd travel around 20 miles at least 3 times a week to see him for a few hours and either sleep over, or travel back home. We were so close, and he was a great guy! Such a laugh!... (390 words)

My gf's Mother died and I'm worried she is falling into a depression. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 844 days ago

23 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriends mom died about a month ago. It has really affected her and is now starting to affect our relationship. She says that everything is ok with us but she doesn't show me any sign that she loves or cares about me. I know she has a lot on her mind so I've tried to ... (210 words)

Why did I ask the taxi-driver to get down and dirty with me? Feel appalled!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 839 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - I went out the other night and got drunk. On the way home, I asked the taxi driver if he wanted to go somewhere and made it clear I wanted sex. I don't know why I did this, I wasn't attracted to the man and after I asked him and he then said yes, I was horrified but told myself ... (252 words)

He's frustrated because he can't fall in love with me and he doesn't know why. I'm confused-advice, please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 842 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - I have been having a relationship with a man for 6 months who has been separated from his wife for 13 months. They have children and have a very good relationship. There is 30 miles between us and we see each other whenever I don't have my children. Everything has... (317 words)

How best to stalk this guy down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 844 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - i like this guy who works behind a bar. i went in there once to use the loo and spotted him.ive asked my friends to go in some nite 4 a drink but they hate the place! i would be to embarassed to go in on my own so what should i do?....i cant 4get him cuz i havent liked someone ... (83 words)

Been checking her call logs, and I know she's lying to me. But I can't point it out without admitting I've been snooping...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 844 days ago

23 January 2006 (M) - Hello. I've been in relationship with my girlfriend for 5 months now. I realize I have insecurity issues, and they are the underlying reason why I do things like what I'm about to relate. In the past, I've discovered evidence that my girlfriend has lied to me by seeing her... (299 words)

I'd really rather not discuss my sexual past with my wife, but she insists on details and it's hurting both of us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 843 days ago

23 January 2006 (M) - I am married 8 mounths to a great woman. She is truly a great wife. We are in our second marriages, mine a 20 year and hers was 15. She has 3 children, I have 3 and we have one on the way between us both. Great life, right? But when it comes to discussing our past she wants to... (589 words)

I want to help her with the sexual problems she may have...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 844 days ago

23 January 2006 (M) - Been seeing a girl for 7 months. She told me from the outset she has a low sex drive. But I'm finding that it has become very rare now. She makes a big deal out of needing her sleep and uses this as an excuse not to see me at times. She also seems worried that she may become ... (164 words)

Should I confront him about his unfaithfulness now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 844 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - Dear Agony aunt, I'm 22 and I have just broken up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. We were together a year and a half and also lived together. he still contacts me but says he can't be with me. I have just found out he has been sleeping with many girls behind my back f... (201 words)

Am I fighting a losing battle with my commitment phobic girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 844 days ago

23 January 2006 (M) - hi there, i don't know what is going on with my girlfriend and i. i have been in a relationship with a wonderful girl for just over 8 months now, at first everything was so good and we laughed and had the best time but over the last few months she's really tried to distance... (463 words)

I get so sore...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 844 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - hi im 19 and have only had sex about 4 times with the same partner, aftwards i get really sore for about a hour, is this normal or is there anyway to stop it? please help... (36 words)

I love my husband but I can't stop thinking about this girl...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 844 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - I am a 31 year old female married with a 5 year old daughter. I am only married because I wanted a child and because of family pressure. I love my husband very much but more as a friend and not a lover. I have known for a very long time that I am bi-sexual, however I fancy ... (277 words)

What is premature ejaculation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 844 days ago

23 January 2006 (F)

- I have a question I am a bit unsure about. What is premature ejaculation? I thought it was guys not being able to control themselves and cumming before they wanted to or just too soon. Then I asked my boyfriend the other day and he thought it was when a guy cums before he even ... (63 words)

He's had so many lovers...what if a long lost child of his sudenly turns up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 843 days ago

23 January 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend has slept with over 100 women in the last 10 years (which I think is really bad, but that's another issue!) Anyway, the other day I was asking him questions about his past and he told me that probably about 90 of these were uprotected. He has got a disease from a... (154 words)

Should I wait for him to make up his mind or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 829 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I seem to be finding myself wanting my ex back and im getting the impression that he doesnt want the same as me. Basically we split only 3 weeks ago after a 4 year relationship, nothing terrible had happened we just found ourselves drifting apart a bit and this was maki... (438 words)

He blows hot and cold...what does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 844 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a 36 year old Divorcee for almost a year. We both agreed to take things slowly from the beginning and that's definitely how it worked best for the first few months. He has 3 kids ages 8, 10 and 12 who I haven't met yet as we wanted to be sure ... (237 words)

I had sex without protection on the first day of my period. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - Could I get pregnant if i had sex with my bf while menstruating? without protection. I was having my first day and had sex with my partner and now im worried i could be pregnant. any advice. thanks... (38 words)

How can I stop being jealous when my girlfriend is with her friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 844 days ago

23 January 2006 (M) - im 22 and my girlfriend is 20. weve been together for 10 months and have been happy throughout until recently when problems with my trust and jealously have become incontrollable. we love each other to pieces and weve even talked about the future i.e. marriage etc and just ... (162 words)

I don't know how to get over him...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 785 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - Im 16 and my boyfreind was 18 we were together for a year and 2 monthes but it was quickly ended in one fight. we've argued before and this wasnt even the worst. that night another girl instantly falls in love out of nowhere and wants to spend the rest of her life with him, ... (184 words)

How do I find out if she'd be interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 844 days ago

23 January 2006 (M) - I met a girl I really clicked with and we went out casually a few times. But at the same time I got seriously involved with someone else. So I stopped seeing the first girl. I'm now out of my relationship and thinking about that girl I clicked with. I'm wondering how I should ... (67 words)

An eye for an eye... ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 843 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - I'm having heavy petting sessions with a married associate of my ex-husband's. They are okay associates. My ex and I are working on reconciliation in regards to our relationship. What troubles me is that I enjoy the other guy's company both intimately and mentally. I feel ... (111 words)

Really clicked with the girl, and her family have met and like me. Should I tell them I'm 9 years older than her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 831 days ago

23 January 2006 (M) - I could really do with some people's opinions. Before Christmas I met a 17 year old girl and we clicked straightaway. We have loads in common, and have hardly been apart since. I have met most of her friends and seem to get on really well with all of them and some of them hav... (146 words)

I've lost my sex drive, and it's affecting my relationship. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 844 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - i have seem to have lost my sex drive and it has now effected my relationship with my boyfriend why would this be?... (23 words)

Should I give my cellphone chat buddy another chance? He said he'd been hospitalized...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 844 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - Ok here's the deal, I met "Greg" in chat room on my cell phone in September 2005. We really enjoyed chatting and soon began to talk on the phone and things just kept getting better. "Greg" lives in New Jersey and I live in Ontario Canada witch is a good 7-8 hour drive, he is a ... (214 words)

I thought that he was the one, but he cheated on me twice! How do I avoid similar situations in the future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 844 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - I'm just after finding out from my ex thats hes going out with the girl he cheated on me with just 6weeks ago. we were going out for 3 years and I really did think that he was the one!!! I'm heartbroken, we hadnt been getting on for sometime but we were both sooo busy at dif... (198 words)

Any dangers of sex in a jacuzzi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 669 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - I want to try having sex with my hubby in our jacuzzi but I'm afraid of rumors that females can catch an infection from the water. Is this true? Please only individuals who have done it before answer. Thank you.... (43 words)

I'm insecure, and it makes me push guys' buttons! How do I trust my man more so that I don't lose him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 844 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - I am a 23 year old women who just recently got a divorce from my ex that i was with for 4 years. Now i am seeing a man who brings his son to the daycare center that i work at. I admit that i have been treating him like crap for a few months and he said he is ready to leave me ... (138 words)