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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I make the first move on my inexperienced virgin girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

17 December 2004 (?) - Hi, i'm a 23 year old male from England. I have recently just started seeing someone who is still a virgin and i am a little more...experienced so to speak. The problem I have is that i really like her and I am willing to wait for her, but should I be waiting for her to ... (82 words)

My boyfriend has problems using a condom! We are still virgins because of this...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

17 December 2004 (?) - My boyfriend and I are both 17 years old, we have been going out nearly a year now but both are still virgins. It's not that we both don't want to have sex, its that when ever we go to he has trouble keeping it up as soon as he puts on a condom. I think he would be happy having ... (166 words)

I'm a 20 year old woman and my sex drive is non-existant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

17 December 2004 (?) - I just recently turned 20. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years but best friends before that for 2 years. Our relationship like most relationships in the beginning had a lot of affection and sex, but slowly they started to demolish on my side. My boyfriend needs consta... (185 words)

My bisexual girlfriend is married and back with her husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

17 December 2004 (?) - I met this girl in a bar, we clicked straight away and spent a lot of time with each other that night, the next day she told me she was married and had two girls but her husband knew she was bisexual and didn't mind her going with women, so we started seeing each other. Every... (459 words)

Should I ask my daughter's teacher out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

17 December 2004 (?) - Hi, I am 28 years old and a single parent looking after my 4 year old daughter. In September this year my daughter started school and I am attracted to her teacher but I am not sure if she is single, although I do know she is not married. I do not know if she likes me bec... (392 words)

I found out my husband had an online affair!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

17 December 2004 (?) - I recently found out that my husband had a 'Virtual' affair. I discovered a email address that I did not know he had. It was about four years ago and we were going through a rough patch I had put on alot of weight and work was very demanding. He says I did not give him the ... (366 words)

I'm 22 and share my 40 year old man with another woman

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

17 December 2004 (?) - Dear Cupid, I'm 22 years old and dating a 40 year old man who lives with another woman. We've been dating for a little over a year and things are very serious. I'm madly in love with him, and I believe he loves me, but not enough to leave home. I don't really pressure him... (152 words)

I'm 37 and questioning my sexuality: Should I go gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

17 December 2004 (?) - I have a problem that I'd like your opinion on in that I am seriously questioning my sexuality. It's a long story, so I apologise if the mail is a bit long. I am currently 37. When I was 20 I was engaged to a girl who fell pregnant, she chose to have an abortion (an agreed d... (638 words)

I'm in my early twenties and don't think I've had an orgasm!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

17 December 2004 (?) - Hi I've never written for sex adivce out of nervousness but I need some advice. I am in my early twenties and don't think I have ever had an orgasm. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and I told him I have had then but infrequently, but now I don't know if I have. More... (111 words)

My boyfriend says he's a longer... What does he mean?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

17 December 2004 (?) - Me and this guy have been sleeping together but we have liked each other for 6 years. He keeps telling me that he's a loner by nature and that he doesn't want to hurt me. His actions say differntly he has been fighting in Iraq and was home for 2 weeks and that is when all this ... (79 words)

My boyfriend is such a flirt with other girls!

This question has 179 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

17 December 2004 (?) - My boyfriend has a very outgoing and flirty personality. So when other girls are flriting with him he first of all doesn't see it, and second of all flirts back because he is just being nice. How do I get over my jealousy when he is flirting with these other girls?... (52 words)

My boyfriend went to see a strip-show in Amsterdam!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

17 December 2004 (?) - Hi, Please can you help me? I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years, 1 year ago he went to Amsterdam and watched a sex show and went to see strippers. When he came back form there i told him that i was really upset that he felt he need to go watch girls ... (279 words)

We become close quickly but then he got distant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6543 days ago

17 December 2004 (?) - Hi, I really fell for this man who charmed me, and wined and dined me during a film shoot we were both working on. We got along great as a work team and later as friends. After the film wrapped we both went home and continued to call each other (we live in separate cities)... (271 words)

My drunken Christmas party kiss...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7053 days ago

17 December 2004 (?) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly three years now and I completely love him to bits. We plan to move in together next year and eventually get married. But two days ago I went to my work Christmas party and got stupidly drunk. I ended up going on to another pub ... (147 words)

My man is staying with an old girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6690 days ago

17 December 2004 (?) - I have been in a relationship with a man for six years. We have a 4 year old daughter and a baby on the way. We started drifting apart a few months ago. Seeing this panicked and now see how some of my actions pushed him farther away. We started arguing and he started ... (318 words)

His requests during sex are making me feel cheap

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

10 December 2004 (?) - I left my partner of 8yrs for another guy a year ago. My major worry with him is that in a bizarre way he likes to get jealous as if it makes him love me more. During sex I have to tell him how much I want to sleep with other men and give senarios. This seems to be the only ... (222 words)

My partner won't let me view his emails

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6835 days ago

10 December 2004 (?) - I am living with my partner. He has 3 different email addresses with passwords. I cannot access this and feel he is being secretive as he spends a lot of time on the net. I have asked him about passwords but he said tha we both needed our own space and his email was like a ... (98 words)

My holiday romance...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7055 days ago

10 December 2004 (?) - Dear Cupid I am from Australia and recently I finished high school. It is the traddition here to go to the coast and celebrate the end of our schooling years for a week. I stayed in an apartment with four of my best girlfriends. One of my friends, Emily has a boyfriend so h... (308 words)

My boyfriend is a total goth

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

10 December 2004 (?) - well my boyfriend is a total goth, which is the total opposite of me. But its his personality i am atrracted to. Underneath all that he is a really goodlooking and nice guy! But I don't know what to say in front of him with out feeling that everything i say is going to be ... (67 words)

I find my ex sexually attractive again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7071 days ago

10 December 2004 (?) - I've recently seperated with my partner of 10 years, he is also the father of my 2 children, now i think i made the right decision in leaving him but since we broke up i have found my self really wanting to sleep with him again and suddenly find him sexually attractive again! ... (53 words)

I'd like to meet someone younger

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7055 days ago

10 December 2004 (?) - Hello my names richard i am 45 and divorced,i do have a ladyfriend age 61 we have a "part time" relationship for about 7 years now,we have enjoyed some good sex together,however she recently had some bladder and waterworks problems which did not help,and i feel i need more sex ... (100 words)

Her ex is back on the scene!

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10 December 2004 (?) - I met my girlfriend while she was dating another guy. She eventually broke up with him and we started dating, it has been six months and her ex boyfriend whom she had worked with recently found out about us (approx 2 months ago). I used to use her cell phone and noticed that he ... (258 words)

Is the age difference too much?

This question has 76 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

10 December 2004 (?) - I met a nice gentleman about a week ago, he works in a bar. When we first met there was flirting but nothing more than a deep gaze, wink and some jokes thrown around. I told him that I would come back to visit him (he's the bartender/owner) with some of my friends. Well, ... (234 words)

Is online chatting, cheating?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

10 December 2004 (?) - Is chatting on line cheating, chatting only with other men, My girlfriend has told me she has not chatted on line with other men for a long time. I found out she has been chatting and with about 15 different guys. Is this cheating ? or Im I just taking this to far.She tells me ... (82 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend while he was on holiday

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6734 days ago

10 December 2004 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have a terrible problem, my partner and me have been together now nearly 2 years, at first our relationship was great, we never argued or anything. We moved in together about a year ago, and again everything was fine, then we started to argue all the time... (600 words)

Is my boyfriend just after sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

10 December 2004 (?) - Dear cupid, Me and my b/f have been going out for a week now and we already have had sex... I am starting to think thats all he wants. He is the nicest guy and he cares about me alot and he is always around me. I mean he opens the car door for me and ever... (235 words)

Help, I just can't orgasm

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7051 days ago

10 December 2004 (?) - I can't orgasm I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and am very comfortable in sex, but I don't really feel anything, i do enjoy myself but ive never really got any pleasure, vibrators do not stimulate me either. Is there something wrong with me? I have tried ... (67 words)

How do I tell her that I love her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

10 December 2004 (?) - About three months ago, I met this wonderful girl. I asked her for dinner and she accepted my invitation gladly. We kept on seeing each other; I was merely trying to get to know her better. Now I have reached the point where I am absolutely in love with her. The problem is I ... (168 words)

Will I ever find true love?

This question has 46 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

10 December 2004 (?) - Hi.I'm a 39-yr-old guy and I have had two girlfriends in my life.Both were brief relationships as I was poor then and also because I'm not handsome.So they left me as soon as they found someone handsome/rich.I haven't had a girlfriend for many years...maybe for about nine ... (198 words)

Did I tell him too soon that I am staying a virgin until I marry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

10 December 2004 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have a huge problem!! I have always been known as "always the friend, never the girlfriend." I feel really comfortable around guys and have a lot of great platonic relationships. The only problem is that I while I harbor crushes on some of these guys... (312 words)

Should I wait and get back together with my girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

10 December 2004 (?) - I split up with my girlfriend of four years (on and off) at Easter this year. We are both at university, her at Birmingham and me in Southampton, and both in our final year of study. We always had an amazing connection together, and were so tuned into eachother that it often ... (556 words)

My wife does nothing but lie to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

10 December 2004 (?) - my wife does nothing but lie to me. she lies about her kid. he will do something bad, and she will lie about it to protect him from me. meaning that she would rather lie to me, her husband, than have her kid put in the corner, or out in time out. it is really ridiculious. and ... (129 words)

I fancied this guy since kindergarden

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6690 days ago

10 December 2004 (?) - Hello, I'm so confused. There's this guy that i've known since Kindergarden. We've have been friends for 8 years and as we got older we've always had hidden feelings for each other. The only problem is... that we've never admitted it to each other because we were alwa... (609 words)

My husband makes me feel unloved so I'm thinking of cheating

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

6 December 2004 (?) - hi. I'm 24, my partner is 26 and we have one child. Since I gave birth 2 1/2 yrs ago my partner has been an emotional void and I have to beg for a cuddle at night or a kiss (so you can imagine about sex). It makes me feel shit because how many males wouldn't jump at the chan... (323 words)

I'm sleeping with my cousin!

This question has 228 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

6 December 2004 (?) - after a family party i found myself really drunk and alone with my older and good looking cousin. i have always had a crush on him and looked up to him. we get along great considerring the age difference. we ended going back to his place and had sex. we both knew it w... (225 words)

My boyfriend is going to move 1000 miles away

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

6 December 2004 (?) - okay i am 15 years of age and so is my boyfriend...resently he had to move about 1,000 miles away! We want to keep this relationship going but we dont know how, or if it will work...we wont be able to see eachother because obviously we can not drive that far by ourselves lol ... (227 words)

My husband is more interested in video-games than sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7054 days ago

6 December 2004 (?) - I am a 34 year old woman and have been married to an otherwise wonderful man for 6 years. I yearn for children and (I thought) my husband did too. I have been off the pill for 5 years now with no luck. The biggest problem is that we haven't had sex in almost 5 months. I ... (184 words)

How do I tell her I love her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

6 December 2004 (?) - I have been seeing this younger lady for several years. We han not had sex or even kissed. We go out together at least twice a month and we hug at the end of the evening. We to to her place and have coffee and talk. I want to make a move but I am afraid. Sound like a ... (191 words)

I've never had a girlfriend!

This question has 108 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

6 December 2004 (?) - hi I am i first time writer but here goes nothing' I am a sophomore In high school and I've never had a girlfriend, it's not that IM not liked its just IM not good with the ladies. It hurts me a lot to see other couples around my school and hearing all these people talk abou... (117 words)

How do I get over an abusive ex-boyfriend?

This question has 193 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

6 December 2004 (?) - Hello...here's the story- I went out with a guy for 4 years who I loved with all my heart and when we were together the first two, things were okay but he always had a really bad temper and things started getting bad in our relationship- he would come to my job and flip out(bc ... (379 words)

I'm 14 and flirting with a married man

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

6 December 2004 (?) - Dear Agony Helper, I am 14 years old and i work for my parents as they own a chinese takeaway. There is also a guy who works for my parents and he does the delivery. He is married and has 4 kids, he's in his 40s. Every Thursdays it's just me a... (270 words)

Is this the beginning of the end with my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

6 December 2004 (?) - I've got a bit of a problem with my girlfriend. I have been with her for well over a year, and things have always been ok. She has had a few boyfriends before me, and was always very easy going with short, non-committed type relationships (or f**k buddies as she referred ... (432 words)

Should I hold on or let go of the man I met 12 years ago?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7054 days ago

6 December 2004 (?) - Twelve years ago I met this man and at the time we were both single. Throughout the years, we kept in touch with each other by phone, email and would get together for weekends. After time, since we lived over 300 miles away from each other we pretty much went on with our own ... (283 words)

I'm pregnant and my partner is more interested in porn than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

6 December 2004 (?) - hi, i dont know if im wirtting to the right people but if so could you please help. Im a 20yr old women and ive been with my partner for almost a year.I just recently found that i was pregnant which was most unexpected but as i was in the late stages before i found out i ha... (497 words)

My girlfriend's friends lead her astray

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

6 December 2004 (?) - Dear Cupid, My name is Chris and i've been going out with my girlfriend for about 5 months or so, i think she is the one, in fact i know she is the one but i am a very jealous over-protective person. Since we've been going out i havent hung out with a single friend and it d... (224 words)

What are my chances with cheating boyfriend?

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6 December 2004 (?) - I am 24 years old and I am living with my boyfriend that is about to trun 43. he has been married two times. First marriage lasted for 5 years. second marriage lasted 11years. he cheated on both women, his second wife he left for a woman he worked with, whom was also married at ... (321 words)

My partner has lost libido after I was pregnant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7054 days ago

6 December 2004 (?) - My partner and I haven't had sex for nearly 6 months now! I had a baby a couple of months ago and my partner says that this is why he has lost his libido. He has said that he doesn't see me in that way anymore which makes me feel really ugly and rejected. I'm really ... (68 words)

I'm pregnant and have just split up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

6 December 2004 (?) - Me and my boyfriend broke up last week, he's still mad at me and now he acts like he doesn't care anymore. He moved out last week, our baby is due any day now and he doesn't even call to check on me. He said to call him when I go into labor. I'm so in love with him i cry ... (139 words)

Gay long-distance lover trouble!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

6 December 2004 (?) - I am a 25 year old gay man who has been in a serious relationship for just overy 2 years, My partner is 45 but is very young looking and at heart. He lives in manchester i live in bristol, we did previously live together in manchester as i moved there in order for us to be ... (443 words)

I'm a confused virgin!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

6 December 2004 (?) - I am a 21 year old virgin and for the past 2/3 years have been confused as to what my sexuality is. I don't really find men attractive but the act of sex between two men seems to turn me on. Through out these two years I have gone from not enjoying the sight of two men ... (872 words)