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writes: I left my partner of 8yrs for another guy a year ago. My major worry with him is that in a bizarre way he likes to get jealous as if it makes him love me more. During sex I have to tell him how much I want to sleep with other men and give senarios. This seems to be the only real way to turn him on. He says he loves me but I am worried that this is abnormal after a year. Although he would never speak to me again if I did sleep with anyone else, he likes the thought of it. About 3 months ago I found out that another girl he had been seeing had been calling him. Does he just like the thought that women want to sleep with him? I know another girl that he was seeing who was married had told him she was into swinging which also seems to turn him on although I'm now thinking that she was just playing the game with him to keep him interested. He was married for 16yrs and has a 4yr old girl. He is very nice in all other ways but this is starting to make me feel cheap. Can you please offer me some advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): Look this is simple... if you two are comfortable with yourselves, and he asks that you help turn him on by story telling that's a simple and safe request to fulfill. Now, if it's EVERY SINGLE time your having sex, that's going to get old... and you need to negotiate how often you'll grant this wish.Now, as to the other woman calling... yeah, I'd point blank ask his ass what's going on...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2006): You should raise the issue with him and explain to him that although this is how he is turned on he makes you feel cheap. If he wants to stay with you he has to respect your boundaries, because what you are feeling will eventually create a lot of resentment towards him and finish the relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2005): Tell him it makes you feel cheap. He may change. If not, consider a change of boyfriend. xxx
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