New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244961 questions, 1084299 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Help, I just can't orgasm

Tagged as: Sex<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (10 December 2004) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 January 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

I can't orgasm I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and am very comfortable in sex, but I don't really feel anything, i do enjoy myself but ive never really got any pleasure, vibrators do not stimulate me either. Is there something wrong with me? I have tried everything but I don't think i'm ever going to orgasm because I have no feeling in that area L

View related questions: orgasm, vibrator

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2005):

Get to know your body...

Take time to familiarise yourself with what YOU like and what you enjoy. If you get pleasure out of sex, but have difficulty orgasming, it might just be that you haven't found your pleasure spots, if you haven't found them, you can't expect your lover to know where they are.

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, Tish, writes (4 January 2005):

L,

Don't worry, not everybody orgasms the same way. Try using the vibrator on your pelvic one (don't put it inside). Maybe you need a trip to the adult sex store. Grab a movie(watching other people have sex can be a real turn on), maybe some toys. Just try something new, experiment. And if that doesn't work, try seeing your doctor, there may be some kind of internal problem. Good Luck !

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

New answers are blocked to this question

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312742999958573!