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writes: my wife does nothing but lie to me. she lies about her kid. he will do something bad, and she will lie about it to protect him from me. meaning that she would rather lie to me, her husband, than have her kid put in the corner, or out in time out. it is really ridiculious. and she will lie about the stupidest stuff. and the bad part , is that we just had a beautiful little baby girl that i love more than life itself. and i dnt want to leave her. but i hate my wife, and im beginning to dislike her kid, because he knows that momma will lie for him, so he takes advantage of it. i need help on what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): I don't think there is any good reason to lie, we teach it to our children(easter bunny, elves, magical red tight wearing fatmen who can service 6 billion people at midnight. My daughter now expects santa and the toothfairy to write her back, leaving them a list of questions probably a natural defense to bullsh@t. It all becomes clear when your wife lies to you, making it impossible to trust her again. I am a man and when your told that her staying at another mans house 5 times is plutonic (tough to believe)My biggest fear is my daughter will pick up these traits. IT DOES NOT MATTER HOW MUCH GOOD YOU DO OVER YEARS OF HARDWORK, PARENTING ECT... ONE LIE WILL ECLIPSE ALL OF IT!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2007): I met my wife four years ago. We were on and off for for three years due to lies, inconsistencies, mis-truths, forgotten elements, oversights (I think I covered it. Yes I have learned a new way to speak because of this experience). The lies have ranged from inconsequential "I didnt take the last cookie" right up to the big ones. I thought we had that behind us and that she had finally grown up, until a few days ago. She went to a wedding reception and I asked her if she danced at it. She said No, not realizing days later her aunt would forward 'us' a picture of her on the dance floor. Oops busted again. It was no issue that she danced, in fact all but two of the lies have been over absolutely nothing. The hard part is that she blames the apperant discrepancy on short term memory issues from a car wreck. She just forgets details that should be remembered. Now I have to wonder, is the car wreck head injury real or an oversight lmao.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2006): It sounds as if you are willing to mortage your own happiness so you can be with your daughter. That's the question, isn't it? Am I willing to sacrifice my own happiness to be an active live-in father to my daughter? Only you can answer that question, my friend. Personally, if I "hated my wife" as you do, I would divorce and take my chances with joint custody and visitation. There's more than one way to be a good father.
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A reader, enameleraser, writes (4 January 2005): If your wife lies to you about her kid's actions, I can garuantee that she is lying about her own as well. The untrusting feeling would drive me crazy. OK, I won't lie, is driving me crazy in my similar situation with my pregnant girlfriend.
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