Do you think there is any possible explanation to justify the pictures?
Q. Hi! So my girlfriend said she went to the museum with 2 friends and posted some photos to social media. However the reflections in the glass in the photos are weird. Firstly there was one of her holding a guys arm when he posed for a photo, so...
A. 17 August 2021: I also received a message in my inbox not happy with the answer given.
Not sure why OP has resulted to messaging people privately on an open forum, but i think the post was never really very clear from the beginning. What OP wrote in my pers... (read in full...)
Boyfriend spending all his time w a couple. Weird?
Q. My boyfriend of fifteen years off and on has been spending an unusual amount of time with a couple that he calls friends.the cute younger girl and him are very flirty and are very close. The girls boyfriend now husband seams oblivious to this. I ...
A. 16 August 2021: Listen to your intuition, your gut feelings because these are normally right.
It does seem odd that he is spending a lot of time there, especially if they are flirting and sending messages as well.
You have asked to take you there to prove h... (read in full...)
Do you think there is any possible explanation to justify the pictures?
Q. Hi! So my girlfriend said she went to the museum with 2 friends and posted some photos to social media. However the reflections in the glass in the photos are weird. Firstly there was one of her holding a guys arm when he posed for a photo, so...
A. 16 August 2021: I think that this is your insecurity to deal with. She can't justify it because there is nothing to justify, its a distorted reflection, but by your own admission you say that you can't quite see. It could very well be a distorted pic of another ... (read in full...)
I feel like I would drop plans with my friends in a heartbeat for him but he wouldn’t do the same for me
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now and its going better then good he’s the most loving and caring man I’ve ever met. We love each other and everyday he goes above and beyond for me to make me feel special and loved. I had a very rough ...
A. 16 August 2021: By your own admission you are both only 27 and still young with your whole lives ahead of you.
I think its normal and natural to want to stay in touch with friends and go out with them for a catch up. I actually think that this is healthy ... (read in full...)
Is a 17 year age gap to much?
Q. Is a 17 year age gap too big? I’ve being dating a man who’s 17 year older than me. He’s got three kids to two different women. He’s never been married and I don’t know what went wrong with the two ex’s. It’s early days so I don’t want to ask too ...
A. 16 August 2021: I agree with the other aunts that have previously answered, i don't think this is about the age gap at all.
In answer to your question anyway, if a couple love each other, both are over the legal age of consent, and more importantly neither ... (read in full...)
I can't forget about the foreplay. Is this normal?
Q. I have a question. Is it normal that I can't forget about the foreplay? Because honestly, he is my first boyfriend at my twenties and the first time someone kissed me on the LIPS!!!!!!! And I really liked it. Also, he is the first one who touched ...
A. 16 August 2021: Yes this is very normal, its your first time so of course you are going to think about it.
Its good you stuck at foreplay and never rushed into full blown sex.
Only progress in to sex when you are ready, if it does not feel right do not go ... (read in full...)
Scared my boyfriend will lose interest
Q. I am scared that my boyfriend (18M) is gonna get bored of me (16F) before telling abt my problem we do a long-distance relationship we call/ft pretty much everyday. my boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months and we start school very soon we ...
A. 16 August 2021: I know its hard, but you should stop living in fear of he may lose interest in you or not. Life is to short for worry's like this, especially at your tender age.
Things may very well change, he may get get busy with studies, as will you also.
... (read in full...)
Things were great, then suddenly she blocked me
Q. Hey all and first off, thanks for taking the time to review my situation. So this started a little under a month ago, me and this woman I met through the internet have been chatting 24/7 every day. Met up a couple times and hit it off. Things ...
A. 15 August 2021: She has blocked you, i would not even bother trying to investigate the reasons why.
She has either just lost interest or met someone that she prefers more than you, and never had the courtesy to be up front and tell you.
Typical inter... (read in full...)
I feel I am being used as a sugar mama
Q. Hello! So my boyfriend and I have been together just over two years. We get together 2 or 3 times per month. Hes usually pretty good to me but also seems entitled and expects the best. For bdays as an example he thinks it's good to give him ...
A. 12 August 2021: OP read your post back to yourself and see what you think. I feel we are going to be telling you what you already know, which is fine.
He is a user, and a loser, and you know in your heart of heart that you can do so much better. You need to ... (read in full...)
Pornography has made husband a one minute man
Q. My husband's porn watching has become abnormal,he's now a minute man in bed.we've been married 4 2years.what should i do...
A. 12 August 2021: I think i just answered your previous question, so the fact that he is using porn is certainly a contributing factor to why your sex life is suffering.
He has become addicted to the porn, which is fine if you are a single person, but within a... (read in full...)
Husband isn't satisfying me in bed
Q. My husband isnot satisfying me in bed,what help and advice do you give.should i quit him....
A. 12 August 2021: Looking at your age bracket your marriage is still only in its infancy. This is very early on to be talking out problems in the bedroom.
I agree with FA, i think communication is the key here.
Also knowing each others likes and dislikes, ea... (read in full...)
I just found out someone I briefly dated was dating his now wife
Q. Hello Not sure how to process this. I just found out someone I briefly dated was dating his now wife. I feel angry and used. I would never ever date someone taken. The fact that I was an unknowing participant hurts me. Actually the last time I s...
A. 12 August 2021: I know its not made you feel good, and you feel used and betrayed, but as YCBS pointed out you need to draw a line under this and move on. Keep holding on to it and dwelling on it is not healthy, you need to think to yourself that you dodged a ... (read in full...)
Could be have been going inside me and still leave some outside?
Q. I have been having sex regularly with my boyfriend over Summer break. Normally, he will pull out and go over my stomach or on the sheets below me. The last few weeks he has started to push deeper before pulling out but still leaving a mess o...
A. 12 August 2021: You are potentially 13 years old and to young to be doing such things.
Surely at you age you have some form of basic education as to what can happen if you do things like this.
He should of worn protection. By not doing so you now run the risk... (read in full...)
Dilemma to tell friend I like her
Q. Hi Everyone! So basically i have feelings for a girl, but she is my good friend. We've known each other for more than a year, have a lot in common, get along very well etc. we did not meet through a dating app and bonded initially through a shared...
A. 12 August 2021: Like previous girls you have know before could not tell if you liked them or were being friendly, maybe that is the case with this girl.
I think if something is going to happen between the pair of you it will happen, and will happen graduall... (read in full...)
He will be nice for awhile then ask for money, when I say no it's like a different person
Q. Hi, and thanks! So my boyfriend and I have been together about 3 years. When it's good it's great, when it's bad, its horrible! He has mood swings. Mostly money related. He will be okay when he has money, but if hes broke he acts like a chil...
A. 12 August 2021: I think your friends are right, he has stuck around because you were generous to him in the beginning. You were probably the only one that would give him the time of day, and how does he repay you, by being mean and disrespectful to you.
You a... (read in full...)
I think this girl likes my boyfriend
Q. Hi everybody. Some advice please. There's this girl that I just noticed. I've been observing her behaviour. I noticed her looking at my boyfriend. At first, I thought it was nothing because maybe she looks at him out of curiosity or something els...
A. 11 August 2021: By your own admission your boyfriend is charming, and is also a drummer so of course he is going to attract a lot of attention from the opposite sex.
I think it all boils down to trust at the end of the day. Trust is the most important factors ... (read in full...)
Does wife want a threesome or just role play?
Q. I have been happily married with my wife for many years. Sex is good. Sometimes it is romantic, other times is primal and erotic. We often flirt with the idea of a threesome, but more just role play as I think she is too conservative to follow ...
A. 10 August 2021: This is a fantasy, and that is exactly how it should stay, a fantasy that goes no further than that.
Have a look over previous posts where couple have brought in a third party and you will observe the fact that a good majority of them never en... (read in full...)
Why do I desire her so much when I know in reality is 100% a never?
Q. Why do I desire her so much when I know in reality is 100% a never?...
A. 10 August 2021: I don't know the reasons why she is a 100% never, but i'm guessing this is a lust feeling, rather than a feeling of love.
Feeling's of lust tend to be short lived and will eventually fade away and diminish.
If she is a forbidden fantas... (read in full...)
Partner in his 40s wants to go clubbing
Q. How do I settle down that my partner in his late 40s still wants to go clubbing? Wee have been together for 2 years and before he met me his life was work and then party every weekend. Which is fair enough he was a single guy, no responsibility o...
A. 10 August 2021: I'm also suprised that he want to do this as this is something that most people did in their late teens early 20's. I know i did during these times as well, but the thought of clubbing now seems rather odd to me.
Maybe if its a special occasion... (read in full...)
Are either of these guys right for me?
Q. Hello. I am confused over two men in my life, and am not sure if either is right for me. I was in a relationship for several months and it ended earlier this year. He was always too busy with work to be there for me, even when I had to go into h...
A. 10 August 2021: I don't think that either of these guys are right for you, and i think in your hearts of hearts you already know this.
The first boyfriend was always to busy to have anytime for you, even when you were in hospital he could not bring himself ... (read in full...)
Do I say how I feel or remain quiet but regret it?
Q. Hey everyone, I’m in need of some help! So a few years back I was chatting to this boy ok Twitter (weird I know) but we lost contact due to me getting in a relationship and me living far away at the time. Fast forward and I’m out of my relationship ...
A. 10 August 2021: I think that to save yourself from any upset and heartache i would refrain from declaring your feelings to him.
I think that you are lusting after him,the feelings of lust can sometimes be confused with feelings of love, and tend to be short li... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable when I question my partner on why I haven't met his parents
Q. Am i being unreasonable when I question my partner on why I haven't met his parents. It has started to really bother me. Wee have a good relationship, been on holiday together, he's good with my kid ect. I think I keep myself reasonably well....
A. 10 August 2021: If you had said you has only been with him a couple of months i would have said its still quite early on in the relationship and he is holding back to see if this relationship turns into something serious, but two years of not meeting his family is ... (read in full...)
I wanted to cuddle after sex but he just rolled over and went to sleep
Q. Hi, has anyone had this happen to them. I’ve being dating a man for about 6 weeks. I’ve only ever slept with him once and that night, after we slept together he just turned over and went to sleep. I’ve never experienced this before, I like a cuddle...
A. 8 August 2021: I think wait to what happens the next time, and if he rolls over and goes to sleep again then broach the subject with him and tell him how your feeling.
It does seem rather uncaring and cold, but give him the benefit of the doubt and see what hap... (read in full...)
Hes being secreative with his phone
Q. I need some advice please. I’ve been with my partner for 8.5 years and we have a young child together. Recently he’s been taking his phone everywhere with him. If he’s going to the toilet, he takes it, if he’s washing the pots, he takes it, h...
A. 5 August 2021: Your trust issues clearly eminate from his past history of messaging other girls and sending personal pictures.
Once someone has lied, betrayed someones trust its very hard to believe that they won't do it again. Even tho he apologised and said... (read in full...)
Do men find women like me who don't gym or have toned bodies undesirable or not sexy enough?
Q. I am a 32 year old female. Of late I have been having issues accepting my body. I am 5'5" and weigh 63 kilos/ ~ 138 lbs. I watch what I eat and maintain my weight through walking regularly. I dont have washboard abs or a muscular body toned by gym. ...
A. 5 August 2021: Every one is different, no one is the same and has different likes and dislikes.
I think that the guy you dated who asked about your regime sounds rather shallow, and self obsessed. It seems he was seeking perfection, but let me tell you there is... (read in full...)
Girlfriend always says she misses me and wants a hug even though I am with her
Q. I have a girlfriend and I love her and she loves me back as well. But my question is, she always asks for a hug and she missed me even though I am with her. Is that normal right? Well, it's not that I'm complaining. I actually love it because from ...
A. 5 August 2021: You have someone who loves you and wants to show you by ways of affection, there is nothing wrong with this at all.
Enjoy the fact that she loves you and wants to show you. Don't compare situations to past relationships as everyone is differen... (read in full...)
My LDR boyfriend has become cold and distant
Q. My bf and me have been in a long distance relationsbip for 8 months we have only managed to meet and see each other the last three months due to the pandemic. So before he was kind and sweet and now he has withdrawn affection and romance somewhat. ...
A. 5 August 2021: To be honest OP, apart from the effort that you have already made i don't think that there is an awful lot more than you can do.
I know its probably not what you want to hear but i don't think he is into you as much as you are into him, which is... (read in full...)
I caught him clearing porn sites from his computer
Q. My partner and I were suppose to do some research together on his laptop when I stepped away I came back in the mist of him clearing his browse history. I was completely shocked, he said he didn't want me see his porn sites and was embarrassed. I ...
A. 3 August 2021: If you were doing research together why would he delete his browsing history, unless he thought you were going to look at his history when he left the room or something.
He could of just been open and honest and said " ok i watch a bit of porn ... (read in full...)
Wife finally agreed to my fantasy of 13 years
Q. I have had a fantasy of wanting to watch my wife have Sex with another guy for over 13 years. My wife knows this and has just recently said Ok to doing so. Why is this such a huge turn on for me if watching her doing something she loves to do... ...
A. 3 August 2021: There are so many posts that come on to DC regarding threesomes, or allowing a partner to indulge in sexual activities while the other watches, and i have yet to find one with a positive outcome.
You made vows to your wife when you got married,... (read in full...)
Why is my platonic friend blocking and ghosting me?
Q. Hi all, thanks in advance. I'm having issues with a platonic friend of mine. She's become my best friend and we've been close for about 2-years. 'L' and I both work together, we live nearby and often hang out and carpool, and we talk on the phon...
A. 2 August 2021: This is very odd behaviour indeed, to go from being like best friends to then go to being ignored and like your non existent is rather strange.
You say she is a direct person who does not play mind games, if she has a gripe she will normally... (read in full...)
Way too much drama involving my cat and my roommate while I'm away on holiday
Q. I left my cat with the woman I was staying with while I went to see my ldr bf. The trip is a month and I'm halfway through now. I never asked her to watch her she said she would and it would be no problem and since I got here it's been nothing but ...
A. 2 August 2021: I don't know why she even said she would look after your cat while you were away. If she said nothing you would have known where you stood and arranged alternative arrangements for someone else to look after your cat.
I know she has left you in a... (read in full...)
Breaking up and not feeling bad for the other person
Q. My s/o and I have been together for 9 years. We have a daughter together that’s undergoing chemotherapy for Leukemia. The past 9 years though they have brought me joy have also brought me a lot of pain. He cheats and is always doing things he’s not ...
A. 2 August 2021: I think that you should tell him its over sooner rather than later, the longer you leave it the harder it will get.
I think the trust, and the love has sadly left this relationship, and with him having been unfaithful the damage is often unrepair... (read in full...)
Did she really forgive me?
Q. Hello. I'm a 19 year old guy and my girlfriend is 22. So, it's a 3 years gap and we are both okay with it. We dated for 3 months now hitting 4. And to be honest, I had a great time spending my time with her and her the same and we felt like we have ...
A. 2 August 2021: You have not been together for very long and you are both having big arguments.
Ok so after the last big argument you apologised, you said it was your fault, and she responded by smiling, saying it was her fault as well and forgiving you. Why are ... (read in full...)
I feel like I helped him mature for someone else to enjoy
Q. I’m feeling very shocked and hurt even though I feel like I got over this past relationship. A man I dated swore he’d never have children. He’d be uncomfortable around them and all. I once got him to pose with my friends baby and his own mother ...
A. 2 August 2021: I have to agree with the other aunts that have answered your post.
I know its not ideal, and it must hurt and is leaving you with unanswered questions.
We don't really know what happened after he broke up with you, maybe the baby was not pla... (read in full...)
Am I still a virgin if I've never had sex, and only masturbated?
Q. Hello I'm an 25 year old guy I was wondering I've never had sex with anyone yet and have only masturbated, does that means im still a virgin or not, and are there a difference between sex and masturbation....
A. 2 August 2021: Yes you are still a virgin, you are a virgin until you have sexual intercourse with another person.
Masturbation is something one tends to do alone, or with a partner. Sex or making love involves the coming together of two people involvin... (read in full...)
How do I explain how my boyfriend and I met?
Q. How do I tell my fiance's parents how we met without revealing our secret? I met my fiance at a concert and had sex with him in the bathroom. I know it was risky and stupid but I was young and wild at the time. I thought it was just going to be...
A. 2 August 2021: I have to agree with the other aunts, all you have to say is you met at a concert, they really don't need to know any more than that.
There are some things in like that are best left unsaid. ... (read in full...)
I met a new guy and don't know if I should end my current relationship
Q. Hello, I need advice on what to do regarding someone I met. I met a guy on Twitter. We’ve been talking for a month. I’m 25 and he’s 32. He lives miles away from me but we get along really well. I’m in a relationship and he’s single. I’ve been fal...
A. 30 July 2021: You need to end things with your current boyfriend, as at the moment you are essentially cheating on him. Not physically, but you are chatting to another guy that you are developing feelings for. If it was reversed you would accuse your boyfriend of ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend, but my soulmate is out there.
Q. Years ago, through work I met the guy of my dreams. We were actors that worked on set together and he was so nice to me, so handsome, just everything I wanted in a guy all my life. The way he looked at me made my heart just race. I felt like he was ...
A. 30 July 2021: Yes i think that you should break up with him, you are on here giving reasons as to why this relationship is not working.
Your heart is no longer in this relationship, you have told him many times that you wish to be single, but he is not acceptin... (read in full...)
I got the married man, but I'm consumed with guilt
Q. I had an affair with a married man. He made the decision to leave his wife of 25 years for me. We have been in a real relationship for almost a year. But the insurmountable guilt I carry everyday for hurting his wife is eating me up alive. I feel...
A. 30 July 2021: This is the outcome of a relationship that is built on lies and deceit, and another person being hurt so you could both be together.
There are now trust issues in this relationship, trust in the most important contributing factors that bind a r... (read in full...)
Ex's Jealous Wife
Q. My ex was married about 14 years ago. Previously we were together about the same but never married. We talk on the phone and catch up on kids, events, etc. His wife has forbid him to talk to me. She checks his phone daily and has confronted him ...
A. 28 July 2021: I fail to see why he entertains this at all to be honest. He is a free person who can talk to whoever he likes.
Block her on all social media accounts and go private, then forget about her. ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend keeps talking about her ex - Will we ever work?
Q. Is it normal for your partner to talk about their ex so much? I’m guessing not. Been with my girlfriend for 2 months and I’ve lost count of the amount of times she’s mentioned him already. They still message each other a lot and she even gushed ...
A. 28 July 2021: You claim she is 100% committed to your relationship, but reading your post this is far from the truth.
I don't believe that you should ever enter into a new relationship if you are still not over the previous one.
She is not over him, he is ... (read in full...)
Am I self sabotaging because I can’t trust men?
Q. I met an older guy a few weeks ago through work. He messaged me and we just got talking none stop. I found him really nice while working with him, even though it was briefly and he was saying all the right things. We went on a date and I met h...
A. 26 July 2021: I think that you have got to give him the benefit of the doubt here as he could very well have needed to take him mother to the hospital, then have his son stay with him for the weekend.
This relationship is still very much in its infancy,... (read in full...)
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