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Hey so im 15

i have a little boy, he's nearly 2month old

im single, live in leeds wel newcastle at the minute but im moving back to leeds soon

i try to help people the best i can if we all tryed to help one another mabi the world would be a better place

i try to look at things in the best way possible

if your wundering why i kept the baby at such a young age on my own its because i dont think its the babys folt i have to deal with my mistakes

i have a great dad which helps out with the baby

my mum isnt here today to help out, she passed away 3months ago =[ but im sure shed love to have helped

If you want to talk a little more

Supershiv@hotmail.co.uk :)

My wife is 4 months pregant. Is sex safe during the pregnancy?

Q.   Hi , My wife is pregnant now, she is now 4 months. Is sex is safe during in this period. Or give me a suggestion....

A.   16 September 2007: Sex is absolutly fine hun, just not rough sex, but sex is pretty normal while pregnant x... (read in full...)

Could she be pregnant? I pulled out a few seconds after the condom broke, each time.

Q.   I am 16, My girlfiend is 16... we were having sex and two condoms broke in same day (2hours of sex maybee less). *I never came till way after penatration*... The first time it broke I pulled out with in 3-6 to seconds,then i got a new condom and ...

A.   16 September 2007: Yes, she could be pregnant , even if you didnt actually cum inside her precum is still there, were you using eny lubricants or oils? they can cause a condom to split if used or even mosturiser can effect it on the other hand were the condoms out of ... (read in full...)

Advisory: Getting suspicious messages in my dearcupid mailbox!

Q.   Hi all, I just lately i have been retrieving some messages in my mail box which have been quite lenthy to say the least. In a nut shell the person is talking about vast sums of money being transfered to different accounts, and having to part w...

A.   6 August 2007: i got one from a woman in nigeria! who had lost her mum and was a single mum to 3 kids it wouldnt let me reply to the messgae and it wont let me see who sent it...oh so very fishy! xxx... (read in full...)

How do I help my friend understand..that she needs to dump the awful bf!?

Q.   Ok, this will be long but its important. so my best friend started dating a guy about 4 months ago and everything was fine until about 3 days ago. my friends boyfriend just got back in town and ever since he got back, hes really changed he barely ...

A.   4 August 2007: just be there for her i no you dont want to see her in pain but she obviously loves this guy, dont try confince her shes bad or she may turn on you and fall out with you you just have to support her be the best friend you can be to her let her make... (read in full...)

does this mean im pregnant?

Q.   I am desprete here... i need help so badly.. im 16 years old. Ive had unportected sex several times over the past two months. my boyfriend NEVER came in me though, i also read that in order for sperm to be in pre cum he must have came earlier ...

A.   3 August 2007: take another pregnancy test i different brand thats a little more clear? or go to the doctors and get one there for free its all confidenshal and they wont tell a soul as for your boyfriend he is very aware of the risks of unprotectred sex... (read in full...)

Is it possible to have your period still, even if you are pregnant?

Q.   i'm a little concerned. This might sound really weird, but I was wondering if any girls out there have had proper real periods when pregnant. I was lying in bed last night and I felt like a fluttering in my belly - a very strange sensation, from wha...

A.   1 August 2007: when i first found out i was pregnant i had my period so yes you could be pregnant but 16weeks is VERY early to feel the baby move, if it was that early it would be very slight and faint i first felt my baby move at 6months, thats 24weeks and ... (read in full...)

I'm 14, 8 months pregnant, the father of this baby has left me! So many problems..I need advice badly!

Q.   Hey, so im 14 8 months pregnant and for the first time im doubting if i want this baby, my ex who i was with for a year and 6months well he left me, spread lies about me denied he was the dad then refuses to speak to me, hes making it so hard, ha...

A.   31 July 2007: thanks agen... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is pregnant with my baby, but I'm not in love with her!

Q.   ok i'm 21, my girlfriends 7 months pregnant and i stay with her and her parents. one problem i'm not in love with her, i'm in love with my ex who is also in love with me. my girl is a great person i just don't think she's the one for the rest of my ...

A.   30 July 2007: just because your having a baby doesnt mean you have to be with her just aslong as your there for your baby people go on about how bad men are who walk out on them but thats about walking out on the baby not them, you 2 can still be friends ... (read in full...)

Ex angry that I brought a male friend to a party

Q.   Was it wrong of me to bring a new male friend to my friends birthday party when my ex was there? I didnt know that he was going to be there, none of our mutual friends said anything to me about him coming. I felt kinda bad for my ex, but me and this ...

A.   30 July 2007: ov course your not in the rong! you ex needs to move on your intial to have a life hes no longer with you in that way, if you want to hang about with other guys thats really nothing to do with him anymore hun, if u let him carry on his going to... (read in full...)

Concerned about three-some!

Q.   Ive been dating my g/f for about 6 months now, and shes pressuring me to have a threesome with one of her friends. The third person is a female, and it should be my fantasy to have it, but i extremly dislike the idea. i love her very much and i ...

A.   30 July 2007: Dont do ANYTHING unless your 100% sure you want to do it dont let yourself be pushed into anything you dont want to do hun you need to talk to your girlfriend and tell her how you feel and how you have too much respect for her that you dont want... (read in full...)

I am in love with my best friend's older sister. What should I do?

Q.   I am in love with my best friends older sister who is 21 and I am 18, she has expressed that she is into me but still feels weird about dating her brothers friend. I have never met a person who makes me feel as good as she does so I dont wanna give ...

A.   30 July 2007: if you really like her hun and love her your friend will be happy for you whats better than your best friend and your sister! he might be abit sore at first sweety but im sure he'l come round if you just talk to him about it tell him how you feel... (read in full...)

Never had sex but my period is late, why?

Q.   Hello, Im 15 Iv Never Had Sex Of Any Kind, But My Period Is Late.. Im Always Regular And Come On Ever Month Which Is Why Im Abit Worried.. The Thing Is I Cant Remember When I Was Due On But I Know I Am Late.. What Can This Be?? Im Abit Worrie...

A.   29 July 2007: so many people have irregular periods its perfectly normal, if you dont usually have irregular periods it could be because of stress or high blud pressure , its nothing to worry about you just need to relax a little if your still owrried then go ... (read in full...)

12 and been having sex with a married man. What should I do?

Q.   hi i am 12 years old ands I live in wisconsin. I've been having sex with this guy (i baby sit for) he does not use condums when we doit he says hes alergic to them. I dont know what to do but i think i am pregnant. for the last 3 months he has not ...

A.   29 July 2007: hunny i no u think you love him right now but you dont, im pregnant...8months gone it isnt a walk in the park!! he is really sick sweety you HAVE to tell your parents!! his wife can no longer have a baby so you are having it for her! di you real... (read in full...)

I'm have dark coloured skin and feel it's hard to fit in.

Q.   What's wrong with being dark-skinned? I'm a dark-skinned girl and I want to know because sometimes I feel bad for my skin color and I feel unwanted because when I look at tv I hardly ever see anybody my color. I also get offended because my ...

A.   29 July 2007: Aww sweety people are just scared of whats diffrent than them your skin is part of you and if people cant accept that sod them! go talk to people who accept you for you its not whats on the outside but the inside never feel bad about your self... (read in full...)

12 and been having sex with a married man. What should I do?

Q.   hi i am 12 years old ands I live in wisconsin. I've been having sex with this guy (i baby sit for) he does not use condums when we doit he says hes alergic to them. I dont know what to do but i think i am pregnant. for the last 3 months he has not ...

A.   29 July 2007: Heyy sweety you must be feeling so scared right now but you MUST tell an adult you are a brave young woman and you need to tell someone, whats happening between you and this man is illigal sweety, you wont get into any trouble, he is the one who ... (read in full...)

I'm 14, 8 months pregnant, the father of this baby has left me! So many problems..I need advice badly!

Q.   Hey, so im 14 8 months pregnant and for the first time im doubting if i want this baby, my ex who i was with for a year and 6months well he left me, spread lies about me denied he was the dad then refuses to speak to me, hes making it so hard, ha...

A.   28 July 2007: Hey, thanks everyone for your advvice and time, ive thought alot about what everyones said, i had a good long hard think that lasted several hours ive decided im going to keep the baby i couldnt have an abortion and i cant give my own baby away... (read in full...)

He wants to stop using protection. Does that mean he wants a baby?

Q.   The other night me and my guy for about 2 yrs had unprotected sex and he always use to want to use protection because he said he didnt want to have another kid right now. Now he is saying if it happens it happens we will deal with it. What should I ...

A.   27 July 2007: you should talk to him ask him about it theres no point guessing you could be wrong, you need to ask him what he means by it and if he wants a baby with you now keep us posted goodluck x... (read in full...)

Is there any way that I could still get pregnant?

Q.   Hello all, I went on the pill three days after my period started and was told that this would make it work straight away. I was also told to use condoms for at least 7 days, just in case. I waited 8 days after going on the pill and me and my bo...

A.   27 July 2007: Just relax :) im 8 months pregnant i was on the pill, but it works very well... i just didnt take it properly, try not to have unprotected sex because it can lead to std's aswel as pregnancy, just wait for your period, if you have it but aare still ... (read in full...)

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