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I enjoy helping people. I want to be a psychologist some day... I live in South Africa in Kwa-Zulu Natal. Near the Coast...

I really like him and hope that I'll get to date him but he's known as a player... how to handle the situation?

Q.   I really like this guy and he says he likes me as well but it doesn't seem that way. When I say I miss him he says he misses me as well and loves having me around him. When my friends ask him if we're ever gonna date he says yes but he needs time...

A.   19 April 2008: Last night just before my mom picked me up from work I walked passed the place where he works and he came to me and we started talking. Only a little though 'cause he had to go and work again. I was one of my chatsites and I was talking to one of my ... (read in full...)

Should I be pregnant at this age?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend has had sex without a condom loads off times in the past month to hav a baby because last year we found out i was pregnant but got an abortion because we was not ready but now i dont no if i am pregnant now because i hav just ...

A.   8 January 2008: You are still young! You shouldn't be thinking about children yet!! You still have your whole life ahead of you! Having a baby at this age is pure madness!! ... (read in full...)

What's the best way to dump him?

Q.   need advice on how to dump my current boyfriend. I want to just be single for a while. hes cheated on me once with his ex, hes got a child, ive read messages in june-september to his ex ... i jsut never really had the balls and she confirme...

A.   8 January 2008: If he cheated on you then you should've left him then already. Confront him. Tell him that you saw the messages. And that you felt that what he did was wrong and tat you cannot trust him. It is clear that he still loves his ex and he should've been ... (read in full...)

I'm very picky on who I will date, and have turned down many requests! What should I do?

Q.   Hello. I'm in jr heigh, and am the only boy in my class who hasn't had a girlfreind. I'm very picky on who I will date, and have turned down many requests. I'd be fine with it, except I'm starting to be made fun of. I don't want to date anyone who ...

A.   8 January 2008: You do not need to date someone you do not want to date. It is your choice you aren't picky. You are still young. Concentrate on school have fun and enjoy your life! Trust me relationships are trouble. They take your mind off of school work and when ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my best friend who is homosexual that I'm falling for him? I'm afraid of my confession ruining the friendship.

Q.   i have a gay best friend, and i think im starting to fall for him. i know he had previous girlfriends but its men that really interest him. should i tell him that i'm falling for him? but im afraid of being rejected and i dont want to lose our ...

A.   8 January 2008: The next time u are together and u are alone sit down and tell him u urgently need to talk to him about something that is bothering you. Tell him that what u want to say to him is difficult but u need to tell him. Youhaven't told him yet because ... (read in full...)

The Salty Coffee....a love story I read about.

Q.   This is not my own work.This is from a guy's profile in one of the dating sites that I am a member of. I did ask him for permission if I can put this story on my blog as I find the story trully sweet and romantic. and wishes people to read it.and ...

A.   26 December 2007: That was really something sweet. it was heart-warming and touching.. ... (read in full...)

His ex text him saying she missed him on Christmas Dayt, they've been split up for a year, what does it mean?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together a year and he broke up with his ex a year and 3 months ago. She never really accepted that he moved on, and even up until 2 months ago she was causing upset in our relationship. I've just seen a text on h...

A.   26 December 2007: Talk to your bf about this. Tell him how you feel about it. Let him know that you don't like that she is sending him these messages. My bf also recieved messages from a girl that he never dated but she wanted him and tried to break us up. I ... (read in full...)

My mom got me a new bra, but the girls in my class frown upon it! I don't want to hurt my mom's feelings, what shall I do?

Q.   Is it OK to wear blck bras? My mum got me one the other day while I was at shcool, but girls in my class really frown upon it. I don't want to hurt my mum's feelings, that's all....

A.   16 December 2007: Wear what you want to wear! Be proud of who you are. If you like the bra then wear it! Don't let other girls bring you down! If the problem continues then talk to your mom about it and tell her what is happening! Don't let people bring you down. In ... (read in full...)

15, pregnant, and my parents are angry with me. What should I do?

Q.   I am 15 and pregnant. I am soooo scared but feel that with support i can do this. My boyfriend has just turned 18, he is my brothers friend. He says he will support me whatever happens, he has a good job and says he will do everything to support his ...

A.   10 December 2007: I can understand why your parents are angry at you. You're 15! You cannot blame them. I don't see why they won't let your boyfriend support his child. Try to sit down with your parents and boyfriend and sort this out... If anymore advice is needed ... (read in full...)

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