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Do younger women really ever go for older guys say 15 to 20 years older?

Q.   Do younger women really ever go for older guys say 15 to 20 years older? I am interested in some real life occurances that worked out. Thanks for inputs....

A.   29 February 2008: Ever since I was old enough to think about boys, I was thinking about men. My first crush was on a teacher that was 15 years older than me. I love the older men on TV. Grey is handsome. Bald is sexy. I'm such a sucker for a man with history and ... (read in full...)

Married to the man I love but...he's boring me to tears! Help!

Q.   I 've been married 16 years now and married very young (when I was 18). Truth be told, I love my husband, but he is boring me to tears. I can't have a decent conversation with him. He doesn't talk. He's the quiet type and is completely opposite ...

A.   18 April 2007: We have talked about it. He doesn't see it that way because he doesn't have the need to be communicative. He's happy being quiet and not having as much conversation.... (read in full...)

Am I fat? I have bigger measurements than my friends and its bothers me!

Q.   Am I fat? I'm 5'7''. 14 years old and.. Bust-33 Waist-27 1/2 Hips- 39 Thigh- 31 My friends, who look worse than me, have much smaller measurements, and it's getting me down. Please let me know, and be honest! x...

A.   17 April 2007: OH my gosh no... you are certainly not fat. Get it out of your head. Please fill your head with positive healthy role models. OK? Not Hollywood garbage... it does nothing for the self esteem! Pollyanna... (read in full...)

I'm obsessed with sex because hes not putting out! How can we get it back ? I'm scared Im gonna stray!!!

Q.   Hi, We have been together 4 years and are still very much in love, we are a young couple in their 30's. I feel as though the relationship is going slowly downhill. We do equally do things for one another, I mean we both share the cooking cleaning...

A.   16 April 2007: I don't want to play devil's advocate here... but how can you be sure he's not having an affair? It sounds strange that he doesn't want sex more often than that. I feel for you girl... I wouldn't want to be in your shoes... I'd be going crazy. ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to be wanted and desired ? Married 14 yrs tomorrow and I want him to be crazy over me!!

Q.   Hi all, I really need your help.Is it wrong to have the need to be wanted by someone ? I like attention, but from only someone who loves me. I feel the need to be wanted and desired all the time. Is there sometehing wrong with me ??? I am marr...

A.   16 April 2007: Everyone has a basic need to be loved and feel loved. I think you are loved... but you are not feeling loved. You understand the difference? If these feelings are so strong and you can't seem to get around them, maybe it might be time to find ... (read in full...)

She says she loves me, she doesn't want to date anyone else but she wants a 'break'! An advice?

Q.   hi all can anyone help me clear my head on what has happened to me in the last week, my girlfriend has txt me saying that we need a break, she is all confussed and her reasons for having the break are these, she wants to have her young life as sh...

A.   16 April 2007: It's good to have a break. But eventually during that break you both are going to meet other people... and that's ok!! It's going to do one of two things for you...either a: give you a new option or b: make you appreciate the other more. Live ... (read in full...)

I had an affair, I really regret it, Im so riddled with guilt and so scared my family will found out!!!!

Q.   i need help! i am a married woman and i had an affair with a married man, i just hate myself, and i dont want my husband to find out, it would ruin him, and our kids also the guy i had an affair with has two kids, i would do anything if i could take ...

A.   16 April 2007: I don't think I would write it in a journal. Noooooo... what if her husband found the journal? Holy cow!!!! Nah... go talk with a therapist... that sounds better!... (read in full...)

I had an affair, I really regret it, Im so riddled with guilt and so scared my family will found out!!!!

Q.   i need help! i am a married woman and i had an affair with a married man, i just hate myself, and i dont want my husband to find out, it would ruin him, and our kids also the guy i had an affair with has two kids, i would do anything if i could take ...

A.   13 April 2007: Please do yourself and your family a favour.... go talk with a professional... get some help... learn to love yourself...and forgive yourself. Don't freaking tell them. Don't ruin their lives, ok. I did it. It hurt a lot of people. It can get ... (read in full...)

Im married with a child and one on the way! I have an attraction to another man what should I do ?

Q.   What should I do, feelings for another man I am a married woman with one child and another one on the way. Last year at a party a ex colleague got drunk and told me of his affection for me. I admitted that I had feelings for him as well. We are ...

A.   13 April 2007: Ask yourself these tough questions: Do you want to be THAT person? That person that does those dishonest things? If not... run screaming in the other direction. One thing leads quickly to the other. Does he remember telling you these things? ... (read in full...)

Any ideas how I can break the ice and ask her on the date ?

Q.   i'm goin to phone the girl i fancy tomorrow over the phone and ask if she'd like to go on a day out with her and my friend? so the four of us. any ideas how i can break the ice and ask? it's my first time calling her! thanks,...

A.   11 April 2007: Just do it! Call her and say you've been thinking it might be fun... blah blah blah... she'll be flattered... don't worry!! Girls love it when guys are gentlemen like that and ask them out on dates. Good luck! Let me know how it goes!... (read in full...)

I want to remain a virgin until my wedding night, my bf just thinks I'm messed psychologically, should I just give in on the sex before marriage thing ?

Q.   I'm to be married within the next 5 months and things are all ok. I always believed in not having sex before marriage and held up all these years.So my fiance has tried many times to have sex with me and since I refused he has actually stopped ...

A.   10 April 2007: If he truly loves you and cares for you, he will wait 5 months... even longer. Explain to him that this virginity thing is your WEDDING GIFT to him from YOU. It is something that you will never be able to give to anyone else ever in your life and ... (read in full...)

She has told me she just wants to remain friends but I think I could really fall in love with her. Do I keep trying or move on?

Q.   I am a 48 year old who is very interested in a 35 year old female. I have been divorced for 9 yrs and have been looking for a long time for a woman with just her qualities. I am very picky. I have asked her out and we went out twice. She now claims ...

A.   9 April 2007: I think she's nuts, personally... you sound like a really good catch! Go for someone who will understand that! Good luck!... (read in full...)

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