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Hiya all!

There's so much I could write about myself (Being the interesting person I am lol) but I won't bore you with it all because, i'm thoughtful in that way =D I wonder if anyone will even read this?

Anyway!!!

I'm 16 years old and live in East Yorkshire. I'm described as a reasonably caring person and I enjoy helping others with their problems - Which is one of the reasons I joined this highly convenient site! I've got a few problems of my own too, Involving a teacher... And i'd just like to say a big 'Thank You' to those who've helped me through it, i'm really greatful!

If any of you are desperate for help, then don't hesitate to personal message me... I always give the best advice I can, and am very willing to help YOU!

xx

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Any ideas as to where my boyfriend and I could go for a holiday?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are booking a holiday for next March but we are undecided about where to book. We would like somewhere where its hot, and good nightlife. Any ideas?...

A.   7 July 2008: BENIDORM!!! Seriously the place is AMAZING! The nightlife is fantastic and the weather is just right, you're guaranteed to come home with a gorgeous summer glow! ... (read in full...)

What should I do about this teacher problem?? Please Help!!!

Q.   well theres this teacher who i had a really close relationship with generally, but now my parents have found out everything that we've talked about, seen the emails, the headteacher has been informed and she didnt come into school today as i dont ...

A.   18 June 2008: Hiya! Ohh Dear, What a predicament? I know this all seems to much to handle atm, but it will get better. You just gotta let things settle down a bit for the time being! It is probably for the best that you stay away from him (for now) to avoid an... (read in full...)

I'm so in love with him, I don't know what to do!

Q.   I'm in love with a man. The problem is, he's my teacher. Now, I know that it is immoral for a student to be in love with her own teacher, but I simply can't help it. Just because he's my teacher, it does not make him any less human. I really ...

A.   14 June 2008: Awww hun! My eyes filled up whilst reading your post. I completely understand your pain, I myself have been in love with my teacher for 18 months but... 4 years?? It must have been so hard to cope with all this time. Anyway, I'm not gonna tell you ... (read in full...)

People are making fun of me because my dad died

Q.   hi my dad has died 5 years ago every one makes fun off me because of this what should i do ????????????????????????????...

A.   13 June 2008: Awww you poor thing! Ignore those people that are making fun out of you, they obviously don't understand the pain in which you've been through! All I can say is that they're very immature! but being at a young age, their lack of support isn't ... (read in full...)

I will be unable to see my teacher again as I am leaving school. I'm scared I will relapse into depression!

Q.   I developed extremely strong feelings for an attractive male teacher about 18 months ago. His personality is simply 'perfect'. He's such an amazing person! In the course of this time, i've gone through depression (He had a baby boy last year an...

A.   12 June 2008: To the poster asking me to expand on the situation, Well... I did make my feelings fairly obvious by staring and smiling at him alot, also I used to hang about wherever he was and on the odd occasion talked to him! Even though I made feelings ... (read in full...)

A student is in love with me, how can I as a teacher discourage this behaviour?

Q.   Ok so I have a problem, I am a male teacher in the UK I am 25. I teach 16 -17 year olds. Having seen all the young ladies on this site who are in love with their teachers it terrifies me! I have a student in my class who has a bit of a crush. N...

A.   7 June 2008: Hi! please keep us informed of your situation! x... (read in full...)

I took his socks, is it really selfish???

Q.   Me and my husband went snowboarding, my feet were very cold, and i stayed in the snow a little longer, than they got to a point that i couldnt feel them any longer so i decided to go put on some more socks on to see if that would help, i notified my ...

A.   3 June 2008: I must admit, I found the question title rather funny! But once I read your post, i could see the seriousness of the issue. Don't worry about it, You haven't done much wrong really - You took his socks... it isn't a crime! I take it that your hus... (read in full...)

A student is in love with me, how can I as a teacher discourage this behaviour?

Q.   Ok so I have a problem, I am a male teacher in the UK I am 25. I teach 16 -17 year olds. Having seen all the young ladies on this site who are in love with their teachers it terrifies me! I have a student in my class who has a bit of a crush. N...

A.   28 May 2008: Hi there! I myself, am a student in love with a teacher. Your situation sounds really awkward, it's interesting to hear a teacher's point of view of a predicament like this. I agree that this girl is acting very inappropriately, she sounds the d... (read in full...)

I am just so quiet, shy and lost... any advice?

Q.   I feel like there is something seriously wrong with me. I have been so shy, ever since I can remember. Even when I was a baby, I was very quiet, I barely cried or anything. And as I became a toddler and a kid, I was shy, never wanting to let go of ...

A.   17 May 2008: Hiya! I'm a little on the shy side myself! It can give people the wrong impression of you when you don't speak much. They tend to think that you're stuck up, thinking you're too good for them! But it's not that case at all is it? People who are loud ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my teacher. Should I follow my heart?

Q.   Hey!!Ok i've got abit of a problem i'm in love with my teacher but there's a 15 year age gap i'm 12 he's 27!!And has a girlfriend some people say follow your heart but other people say don't be so stupid!!I've a feeling that if i follow i could get ...

A.   17 May 2008: Hiya hun, I followed my heart! I hoped I had a chance with him, I wrote a letter explaining my feelings and in advance I expected him to start liking me too! However, things didn't turn out as I'd hoped. I got in a bit of trouble with the school and ... (read in full...)

I wouldn't leave this teacher alone and now I want to apologize! How do I go about this?

Q.   I am leaving school next week and before I go I want to put all my wrongs right and leave on go terms. Sounds good? Yet its going to be soo hard, there is a teacher who I used to get on with yet I had a thing for her n always have had! But she sta...

A.   10 May 2008: Hiya, I'm wanting to apologise to my teacher too! I gave a letter to him expressing my feelings, and things turned out kinda bad between us! I need to apologise for putting him through such an awkward situation that could have cost him his job! ... (read in full...)

I have been stalking a teacher that I am in love with, now all the teachers are watching my steps! What can I do to stop this?

Q.   this is a weird problem to be honest, and im not sure if i can explain it properly but, here it goes ... About six months ago, the teacher [Miss X] i was head-over-heels for found out that i had been .. stalking her, so to speak. Within t...

A.   8 May 2008: Awwww hun that's awful!!! I really feel your pain. The only way to get the teachers' respect is to STOP stalking her, I know it's hard (i've been there) but this is really serious! Also stop talking about the teacher, if you wanna talk about her to ... (read in full...)

I am very pale and want a new foundation, so my boyfriend can notice how nice my make up is... any ideas?

Q.   Im not sure if this is the place for this question.... It starts off a bit weird but then i explain myself. I am very pale and want a new foundation. I can't find one anywhere, that dosnt have an orange tint. i dont want to look gothicy i just w...

A.   8 May 2008: Hiya, Well I'm quite pale also; and i'm so glad summer is arriving so that I can get a lovely tan! But anyway... 2 foundations which are good are; Maybelline dream matte mouuse It comes in pale shades too and doesn't have an orangey tint to it, ... (read in full...)

If I wanted an abortion would the doctor tell my parents?

Q.   Just a quick and really weird question but I still would like the answer. If I'm pregnant (still waiting for results) then I really don't want any one to find out at all. So if I went to the doctor and wanted an abortion what procedure would ...

A.   6 May 2008: Well a doctor SHOULD keep it confidential! However, I don't see the problem with your parents knowing? You need support, abortions are tough things to go through. Are you not close to them? Or are you scared what they'd think of you? Sure, th... (read in full...)

If a woman says she fancies you, what does that really mean?

Q.   if a woman says they fancy you, does that mean they like you? sorry for the vague question!...

A.   6 May 2008: She means you're good looking! What a compliment!!! :D... (read in full...)

I want to be a Model not a Doctor!!

Q.   hey everyone i am 19 years old..and i am doing medicine(mbbs)in the first year of school..recently i have lost all my interest in studies and dont want to pursue what i am doin..cause now all my attention is into modelling..i did a few shows and i ...

A.   5 May 2008: Hiya! I think perhaps you should continue doing medicine for the time being until you get a degree. You shouldn't just give it up because, what if modelling doesn't work out? You'll need a back-up! xx... (read in full...)

I'm turning 19 this week and I've never even been in a relationship!

Q.   I'm not sure why i'm writing this, but here goes. I'm turning 19 this week and i've never even been in a relationship! Back in school i'd fall for the guys i couldn't have and after 3 years of not allowing myself to fall for anyone, i made a mistak...

A.   5 May 2008: Hey don't worry, there's a right time for everyone! Some people have boy/girl friends from the age of 12 or even younger, I think that's more of a worry, than NOT having one at 19! Don't put yourself down, there's probably loads of guys who have ... (read in full...)

Why do so many teenage girls have a thing for their male teachers?

Q.   Why do so many teenage girls on this site have a thing for their male teachers? There are so many posts from teenage girls who say they are in love with their male teachers. Some of these teachers are 20 or more years older than these girls, so it ...

A.   3 May 2008: Well there's just something about male teachers that are attractive to young girls! Looks aren't really important, if the guy is good-looking then that's just a bonus. But what really attracts us is their maturity, intelligence, sense of humour, ... (read in full...)

Can someone please help me...Am I depressed??

Q.   I just really need some advice, i guess sometimes it's more helpful hearing advice from people i do not personally know. I'm not sure, but i think I am depressed. I know a doctor can only disgnose someone with depression, but how can one actually...

A.   2 May 2008: Hiya! I think you probably are depressed, I feel the same because of an older man I cannot be with! I can totally compare myself to you, mail me if you like! Take care x... (read in full...)

My weight is really starting to bother me!

Q.   My weight is really starting to bother me, it never has before I'm 5"3 and I weigh 8stone 6/7 pounds. I normally weigh about 8stone 3/4 but as you can see I've only put on a couple of pounds, mostly over Easter when I wasn't exercising regularly. ...

A.   1 May 2008: Your mother sounds really harsh, mine is the same but for different reasons... I think they must get a buzz out of putting our confidence down or something? Anyway try not to let her get to you too much. If you wanna lose weight then you should ... (read in full...)

He's gone grey and I'm embarrassed. How do I talk to him about it?

Q.   this may seem a bit like a dumb question but my boyfriend is gray/white at 30 and i'm finding it really a turn off and a bit embarrassing- how can i talk to him about it? because i think he needs to do something. I don't think i'm being unreasonab...

A.   1 May 2008: I understand your problem, but his hair doesn't change the person he is, does it? You still love each other and really that is all that matters. However, You could suggest to him having his hair dyed? If he refuses, have a hairdresser come around ... (read in full...)

My wife wants to be painted nude. Is this normal?

Q.   Hi my wife would like to have a nude painting done of her and is quite turned on by that fact that people will see it. is this normal or what...

A.   1 May 2008: I think it's normal! Some women are unique and get turned on by unusal things! Paint her, she'll love you for it and i'm sure you'll get plenty of appreciation! :) xx... (read in full...)

I just can't help it! My teacher is just soo different to others! I'm madly in love with him.....

Q.   Hi i had deep feelings with dis teacher for 2 and a half year now and that feeling keeps coming back to me! i have my SATS next week and i cnt properly study! i think im goin to fail! :( Every time i dont see him i jus feel like cryin :'( in summer ...

A.   30 April 2008: *sigh* I know how it feels! I'm doin my main GCSE's in a couple of weeks, and I got my mind on this teacher constantly... and his fiance also teaches at the school too and I can't stand seeing them together because it breaks my heart! Pleas... (read in full...)

What compliments do women like to hear?

Q.   Hello Everyone Thanks for taking the time for reading this question. I'd like to know, what do women like to hear when you are trying to compliment them (in letter or in person), e.g your beautiful, sexy, your my best friend, I love being in ...

A.   26 April 2008: Say things like; 'Your eyes are the colour of mud' or 'your lips are like tiny sausages'! Okay... i'm pulling your leg lol! Kk, erm how about; 'every moment I spend with you is so precious to me because you are the highlight of my life' or 'If ... (read in full...)

What will he think of my new hairdo?

Q.   I feel great!! Went to the hairdresser and got a new hairdo. I've always cut my hair in the past but just decided I wanted something different after all these years with the same look. Also, it's distracting me in a nice way from obsessing with my a...

A.   26 April 2008: Hey don't worry about it! You're still the same person with the same personality. It isn't gonna put him off you in the slightest, and if it does - he isn't worth it! As long as you're comfortable with your new hairdo and are confident with it then ... (read in full...)

Confused by the way a teacher acts.

Q.   If one of your teachers makes constant eye contact with you during class and outside of class whenever you see him what could it possibly mean. He blushes whenever you are with him or say hi to him and turns really red even though your behaviour is ...

A.   26 April 2008: Ahhhh I have a teacher like this! It's quite an annoying situation for me really because A teacher who i'm head-over-heals for, shows little sign of liking me back yet this other teacher (His best mate) is quite freaky and always stares at me, lets ... (read in full...)

I'm nursing a burning, secret passion for a teacher. Should I write him a little note?

Q.   I am 16 years old and practically on the brink of taking my GCSEs (in fact, I've got my first oral on Monday). Problem is, for eight months I haven't been able to stop thinking about a teacher at school. I would estimate him to be in his late ...

A.   26 April 2008: Hi there! I understand wht you're goin thru. I wrote a letter to my teacher early this year and I was left very hurt because of the consequences. For me it was the wrong timing, however for you it's a different situation - it may be the last tim... (read in full...)

How can I look and feel attractive with out make-up?

Q.   I've worn make-up since i can remember, all day everyday, even on holiday. I don't feel comfortable without it on, the thing is, as you can imagine, my skins already becoming quite knackered out already, i have pinkish skin with dark freckles ...

A.   15 April 2008: Hiya, yeah i'm addicted to make-up myself! The only people I allow to see me without it are my parents. My complexion isn't too bad, i'm just quite pale and have an uneven skin tone! I dn't tend to wear it on holiday though, because i get a lovely ... (read in full...)

Please help me out here, I am totally obsessed with my teacher!!

Q.   I know there's tons of questions under this topic, but here its goes. I'm sixteen, and absolutely crazy about a teacher in my high school. It's become so bad, i's taken over my life. I can never stop thinking about him. It started about a year ...

A.   14 April 2008: 'Eyeswideopen' I know you have summat against me, and you obviously don't know what the many people like myself go through - Of Course you won't understand, as i've gathered from the many remarks you've made on me! Can ya just give it a rest yeah? ... (read in full...)

Please help me out here, I am totally obsessed with my teacher!!

Q.   I know there's tons of questions under this topic, but here its goes. I'm sixteen, and absolutely crazy about a teacher in my high school. It's become so bad, i's taken over my life. I can never stop thinking about him. It started about a year ...

A.   14 April 2008: Hiya! I understand what ur going through! Teacher's can have such a massive impact on your life, and it's a really painful situation to go through when you become obsessed/infatuated/in love with a teacher! If ya wish, then mail me - i'm going ... (read in full...)

Please give me advice on what I should do..like should I tell him I'm in love with him? Oh...and he's my teacher!

Q.   Tommorow me and my friend might tell my teacher we love him, but i'm not sure what to do. It's been on our minds so much and we dont have anyone to talk to. after we tell him, we're never gonna bring it up again, obviously. I just cry and cry and ...

A.   11 April 2008: Hiya hun, I understand how it feels to have forbidden feelings for someone. But (from my own experience) Don't tell him! It'll probably be dealt with professionally (He'll report you) and you may get into trouble and feel very hurt and embarrassed ... (read in full...)

How do I apologise to my teacher for causing problems?

Q.   This is another of those teacher/pupil situations... Please don't lecture me, because the damage is already done! Basically I've been obsessively crushing on a teacher for over a year now, I got very depressed last year - I even considered givin...

A.   9 April 2008: To the previous poster, Okay, I know you think my idea is stupid! I'm gonna say what I have to say under supervision... yeah? I honestly don't see it as a big deal, all i'm doin is apologising because I feel that i need to! Then that's it, ... (read in full...)

I reeeeeally like my english teacher and cant get him out my head! Help!

Q.   im 16 turnin 17 nd i reeally like my english teacher, honestly hez not very goodlooking but for sum weird reason i cannot get him out of my head nd i try rlly hard to impress him :P whic is pretty embarssn but w/ iv rlly nevr felt this way b4 abt ...

A.   8 April 2008: Hiya, if it's any consolation i've got the same problem! However i don't have any classes with my teacher so its harder to get close to him, more so because he's aware of my feelings for him... and literally all the other teachers know (Okay, i'm ... (read in full...)

I want to give him something when I leave just to say thanks for everything he's done but I don't know how he'll react.

Q.   Hi, I leave school in May. I get on really well with a teacher and he calls me a mate. In the past I've given him a leaving present when I left in Year 11 and I gave him a birthday present once. I was going to give him a birthday present in December...

A.   2 April 2008: Okay, well instead of a present how about a letter to let him know you appreciate what he's done! Or even a thank you card, it has more meaning than an expensive present!... (read in full...)

Five guys and I like them all, but which should I pick????

Q.   HELP!!!!!! i really need some help i have a real problem i like 5 guys all at the sane time i dont know which to choose cos i know it will be slutty and unfair to pick them all lol well the 1st guy is going out with my best friendso i know he's...

A.   2 April 2008: Hiya! Guy 1: If he's going out with your best friend, don't even think about it! It'd all end in tears. Guy 2: If you've only spoke to him online and never met him, you won't know what he's really like. He could be a rite arsehole lol! ... (read in full...)

How do I apologise to my teacher for causing problems?

Q.   This is another of those teacher/pupil situations... Please don't lecture me, because the damage is already done! Basically I've been obsessively crushing on a teacher for over a year now, I got very depressed last year - I even considered givin...

A.   2 April 2008: I'd just like to thank EVERYONE for all the advice, I'm still undecided as to what to do but I've got about 3 months until the event. Which gives me time to think it through! I think these are about the only choices: - Apologise to him... (read in full...)

How do I apologise to my teacher for causing problems?

Q.   This is another of those teacher/pupil situations... Please don't lecture me, because the damage is already done! Basically I've been obsessively crushing on a teacher for over a year now, I got very depressed last year - I even considered givin...

A.   1 April 2008: Hi, I'm the original poster. (I'm signed into my account this time) I understand that many of you think it would be more respectful to stay away, but I really want to do this - It isn't just for my benefit, it's for his aswel. I feel genuinely ... (read in full...)

I think my love for a teacher has gotten me into a depression or mental instability, help!

Q.   I'm 15 and in love with my teacher (and NO it is not a crush or infatuation) and have been for almost a year, and even though i've been very unhappy since i realised how i felt for him, recently it seems to have gotten a lot worse - whenever i'm ...

A.   15 March 2008: Hiya hun, I totally understand what you're going through - i've been there and still am really! Been in love with my teacher for about a year now. Last year I became so attached to my teacher, that i felt i couldn't live without him. I thought m... (read in full...)

Should I tell my teacher I like him when I leave school??

Q.   Well I kind of like one of my teachers. He is a good bit older than me but I really like him but he is married. I never want to get him into trouble or anything but I want him to know but I guess he already does because of ny friends blurting it out ...

A.   12 March 2008: Yeah, ano how it feels wanting a teacher to know how you feel about them! And I think you shud tell him, but by letter - otherwise, saying it to his face will make it really awkward for both of you. But make sure you do it just before you leave, and ... (read in full...)

I have a crush a on a boy but I don't know how to tell him.

Q.   I have a crush on a boy but we are not in the same class at school. He used to stare at me before and I thought he fancied me because when someone has a crush on someone else that is what they do. After a few weeks, he started making fun of me and ...

A.   11 March 2008: Awwwwwwh love happens at such a young age doesn't it! Sweet :) I was in your situation about 5 years ago, a lad used to be kinda mean to me and I never knew why but then his little brother came up to me and said 'Declan fancies you' I was kinda ... (read in full...)

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