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I'm a 17 year old female living in the UK, in East Yorkshire area.
I've always been the one in my group of friends who is turned to for advice. I have a naturally caring nature and like helping others with their problems. As everyone else, I have experienced many difficulties of my own and because this website helped me so much it has inspired me to give advice to others. I've also made a couple of friends on here and they're amazing, but sadly, there is one girl on here i lost contact with some time ago i am just hoping she will mail me again one day and let me know how things are going.
I visit this website daily, so i'm always sure to receive any personal messages in good time and also reply when i can (unfortunately it can take time for me to reply as i have a busy lifestyle).
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I haven't had my period since xmas...and I can't be pregant...is there something wrong?
Q. I dont really know how to say this.. im not really good at telling people things so here it goes... every girl is ment to get their periods monthly right? well thats wat someone told me... i havnt gotten mine since just after christmas. i thoug...
A. 1 September 2009: My friend was in this situation, she was very concerned so went to a GP and had a blood test. Turns out she has PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome) - type it into google for more info, but thankfully it isn't too serious apart from the risk of ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and might be pregnant! Help!!
Q. Ok. Im 14. And maybe pregnant. So i have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We are really in love and i know he's the one. My mom and dad both know we are having sex so they put me on the pill and got condoms. So almost a month ago now me and ...
A. 1 September 2009: Listen, you need to stop jumping to conclusions. I had nearly every pregnancy symptom that existed but it turned out to be pregnancy anxiety, where i was thinking about it so much that my body was reacting to the idea!! By each day i was more and... (read in full...)
Truth About 'Loving' A Teacher :)
Q. Hey :) I just wanted to share with people, the reality of students falling in love with teachers. I'm 17 and in my experience, which wasnt much of a good one, I thought that I loved my teacher, like, real love, I loved her more than anybody an...
A. 12 August 2009: Just to add to my previous comment; I think teacher's are actually blind as to how much pain a student will go through. Most are far too dedicated to their job to even realise what pain they are unwillingly putting a student through.
Clearly, not ... (read in full...)
Truth About 'Loving' A Teacher :)
Q. Hey :) I just wanted to share with people, the reality of students falling in love with teachers. I'm 17 and in my experience, which wasnt much of a good one, I thought that I loved my teacher, like, real love, I loved her more than anybody an...
A. 11 August 2009: Fantastic article.
It captures the exact feelings of someone who is/has previously been in this situation. I can remember what it was like to have those feelings; the anger, the frustration, the depression, but above all, the increasingly 'wan... (read in full...)
I'm missing something during sex!
Q. My girlfriend is very sensitive about her body. I have managed to raise her confidence and she says during sex she is more open than with exes, but sill i´m missing something during sex. I have a few questions. She doesn´t want me to pleasure her ...
A. 6 August 2009: I suggest you just talk to her about this. Ask her what she likes, tell her what turns you on.
Sex is not only physical, it requires conversation. If you feel you're missing out on something then talk about it to her or you won't get anywhere with... (read in full...)
He says he likes me only as a friend, but he flirts with other girls who are only friends! So why not me?
Q. Hola :D So one of my best guy friends is a REAL BIG flirt. He flirts with every single girl 24/7. Although he doesn't flirt with me, he told me he thought I was cute once and on occasions he pinches my cheeks and tells me I'm funny, but he does it ...
A. 6 August 2009: I agree with what most posters have said; it would be unfair for him to flirt with you because it would mess with your emotions and he would be leading you on.
However, you could consider the possibility that he may not have you liked you back the... (read in full...)
Only a 3 day period-Could be pregnant?
Q. i always get my period at the first of every month, but in june i had a normal period but then on the 26 of june i had a three day period, am i pregnant, i have been experience uncomfortable sex, eating alot more, and the veins in my breast are now ...
A. 19 July 2009: Hmmmm it's not clear whether you're pregnant or not, as 'Starlights' stated it could just be your hormones.
Here is a website which gives a list of 10 top signs and symtpoms of pregnancy, see if you have any of them. http://w... (read in full...)
The first time....
Q. hi, i'm a virgin and i was just wondering how much blood there is when you have sex for the first time and does it come out during or after the event. ...
A. 16 July 2009: As already been stated; everyone is different.
In my experience; i bled (alot) during intercourse, and quite a bit afterwards too. It was the reason of bleeding that we stopped our sexual act on this occasion as it was quite a shock to see so much... (read in full...)
He's been seeing me and his ex at the same time, now we are both pregnant!
Q. I am in a relationship with a well known Scottish Football player. When I started the relationship I knew that he had a girlfriend but he said that he was going to split up with her which he did. I found it in October that he was seeing her again. ...
A. 16 July 2009: Don't feel any pressure to abort, you could be a great single mum. Obviously i advise that you have nothing to do with the father of the child, he has been dishonest and unfaithful to you and you deserve much better, he needs to be well and truly ... (read in full...)
I always fall for older men, is that wrong?
Q. I Fall For Grown Men! Is There Something Wrong With Me? I'm 16 and I ALWAYS (repeat: ALWAYS) go for older guys (Men), they're usually in their mid-late 20's. Why am I like this? When I was fourteen I was crazy about my teacher who was 27 years old...
A. 16 July 2009: i am the same, i don't think there is anything wrong with you. Older people are more mature, smart and teachers especially are great figures of authority... for some reason we tend to want what we can't have, as clearly, it is illegal to have a ... (read in full...)
Vomiting phobia.
Q. i am so terrified of being sick or seeing someone else sick. i have such a phobia of vomiting i cant take it anymore! out of everyone i know, im the one whos always feeling sick. helpppp! what can i do?? i need as many answers as possible. thanks....
A. 13 July 2009: i have this phobia too :/ i wish i could give you advice but i need it myself lol once my friend felt really ill at school so i left her standing on her own because i was scared she was going to be sick! how mean am I? lol but answers would be n... (read in full...)
I think I want to give up my virginity..but not 100% certain
Q. Typical question Me and my bf have been dating for about 3 months and I think Im in love. I really want to take our relationship to the next level (sex) but Idk if it's the right thing. He's not a virgin but I am and i did make a promise to my...
A. 28 June 2009: Wait until you're 100% certain before you do it.
Two words of warning though:
- Make sure you use protection, do not risk getting pregnant.
- Your first time hurts like hell. I can't even describe the pain, so don't expect it to be a pleasu... (read in full...)
Teacher has me confused
Q. hi guys,theres this teacher at school which has me kinda confused.He is always staring at me either down corridors or in the next room door.He smiles at me everytime.Brushes past me when he could of walked on the other side.One time i had revision ...
A. 25 June 2009: Well to save the embarrassment, i would recommend that you DON'T ask him how he feels about you.
Even if he does happen to 'like' you, he will just deny it. If he doesn't deny it, he's putting his job in danger because you then have the power to... (read in full...)
Teacher has me confused
Q. hi guys,theres this teacher at school which has me kinda confused.He is always staring at me either down corridors or in the next room door.He smiles at me everytime.Brushes past me when he could of walked on the other side.One time i had revision ...
A. 22 June 2009: ahh okay :)
so the fact that this started before he found out you liked him and prior to you even feeling any emotions towards him, rules out the first possibility as stated in my last reply.
hmmmm... what exactly do you want to say to him; con... (read in full...)
Teacher has me confused
Q. hi guys,theres this teacher at school which has me kinda confused.He is always staring at me either down corridors or in the next room door.He smiles at me everytime.Brushes past me when he could of walked on the other side.One time i had revision ...
A. 21 June 2009: Hi :)
Well it does seem fairly obvious that there is some attraction between the pair of you. However, he does come across as slightly 'creepy' as some have already stated. The fact that he knows you like him may have boosted his ego, with the... (read in full...)
How important is it that a girl is pretty?
Q. i`m wondering how important it is that a girl is pretty? i`m a 17 year old girl, and i have never been in a relationship. i`m really ugly (people have called me man-face and so on) and fat, and have no selfesteam what so ever. i feel really alone, ...
A. 28 May 2009: Firstly, you need to stop feeling negatively about yourself... I'm sure that you are not ugly in the slighest. In my opinion EVERYONE IS BEAUTIFUL; i'm sure you have gorgeous eyes or great cheek bones - emphasise these with make-up, draw attention ... (read in full...)
Afraid to tell him that I'm into him again
Q. I'm really getting upset about this. I really really dig this guy. Were pretty decent friends. Ice liked him for about 7 months, but only this much for 3 months at the begining and 2 months now. In between we weren't really talking a lot so it ...
A. 27 May 2009: This is similar to my situation; I told my friend i liked him within a month of getting to know him, I was also drunk so it didnt come out as i intended. Things between us are the same really, but he's become very nervous around me. It's amazing ... (read in full...)
Students Falling In Love With Their Teachers.
Q. Students look up to teachers because they're smart. They are mature. They're possibly good looking. They've had interesting lives. All the things all people look for in a character. But students can't do anything about it. So their own passion...
A. 20 April 2009: I completely agree with this, pupils have a very hard time when it comes to being in love with a teacher. From personal experience, I can honestly say that throughout the period I was at the school, seeing this particular teacher everyday until the ... (read in full...)
Tips on being more attractive
Q. i need tips on how to be more outgoing. because i have this freind who use to be a "nerd" untill i met her and i always use to be the pretty one now that i "made" her she is so goregous and her clothes are nice and her hair looks amazing.. i have to ...
A. 11 April 2009: Hi there :)
There is no specific way to look more attractive.
Basically you just need to change your appearance to how you think will look better, but not such a transformation that you are barely recogniseable.
Get your hair cut shorter mayb... (read in full...)
How do I become good friends like before?
Q. too early and she didn't see me that way. I must note that i was kind of being pressured into it which is another thing but i have never told her this. From then to few months = akwardness, couldn't even look at her or talk to her but during chris...
A. 7 April 2009: Hey :) I'm sorry to hear about this situation you're in. I'm in a very similar situation, I told my guy friend last year that i was in love with him whilst i were drunk at a party, and he made it very clear that he did not like me in that way (by ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be in love with your teacher?
Q. Okay, he was my history teacher and I fell in love with him. i know, stupid move, but anyway, he is just such a great person, and he understands me like no-one else does, even though he doesn't always say he does. Yes he's married and has kids, but ...
A. 21 February 2009: I completely understand your situation, i've been there myself. You may well be in love with the guy, alot of pupils develop crushes on teachers and just look at them in admiration and respect. But in some situations, feelings can be become much mor... (read in full...)
Do I text him back again and tell him it was a mistake... again?
Q. I really liked this friend of mine, so I asked him to a girls choice dance. Everything went perfectly! He even kissed me goodnight. I figured after that night I should tell him how I feel, so I did. Apparently that was a big mistake! He was ...
A. 21 November 2008: Oh dear, things didn't turn out too well then? Same with me, I told a guy friend that i loved him (i was drunk) at a party... I then emailed him when i'd got back home and (still being drunk) confirmed that i meant what i'd said, Then he mailed me ... (read in full...)
Is friendship all that's on offer here?
Q. Hey, I've met this girl I really like at my college. I've liked her since we first met and I really really want to be with her, but I can't tell if she likes me the same way or not. One day she practically ignores me but the next she'll ask me if I ...
A. 31 October 2008: I think she does like you, because i actually like this guy at my college (told him i loved him the other day but turns out he's tryin to get back with his ex) anyway, in relevance to your situation - i'm like this girl you mention, i ignore him ... (read in full...)
Pupil/Teacher crush!
Q. Okay I'm sorry to say this but I have the typical female teenage problem. I'm 15 (Nearly 16) and in love with my teacher. Please don't think I'm some silly, naive, clueless little girl because I'm not. I know I have no chance with him whatsoe...
A. 18 October 2008: It's hard to stop obsessing over someone you love, I've been there! But I've left school now and haven't seen him for months - and believe me, the obsession will fade within time. It really makes a difference when you don't have to see them every ... (read in full...)
I deliberately got detentions to be with my French teacher-I just can't stop thinking about her!
Q. hi every1 im 15 and last year i dropped french because i was no good at it but i fancied my french teacher alot and tried to get in detentions just to be with her, it might b a bit 2 l8 now but should i tell her how i feel? because i cant s...
A. 19 August 2008: Elliot, Thank you! You're very sensible for waiting. Can you imagine how awkward you'd both feel for the remainder year left of school, if you told her now?
I've been through that and it's absolute hell! I couldn't even look at him in the eye ... (read in full...)
I deliberately got detentions to be with my French teacher-I just can't stop thinking about her!
Q. hi every1 im 15 and last year i dropped french because i was no good at it but i fancied my french teacher alot and tried to get in detentions just to be with her, it might b a bit 2 l8 now but should i tell her how i feel? because i cant s...
A. 17 August 2008: I can't stop thinking about my teacher either! Erm i wouldn't reccommend telling her how you feel, as the reality is that she'll probably reject you - which would leave you devastated. But if you honestly think that telling her would somehow help ... (read in full...)
Can anyone give me some tips about makeup?
Q. hiya erm this is just basically and ordianry girly question but i when i wear make-up i wear mascara and blusher and thats about it i dont really think i need foundation plus its a faff on. but my main problem is eye-liner, other girls where it...
A. 15 August 2008: I think i might be some help to you! It's good that you don't wear foundation - there's no point in slapping it on your face if you don't need it, I used to be addicted but i've stopped applyin it all together now coz i wanna show off my tan :) ... (read in full...)
People are making fun of me because my dad died
Q. hi my dad has died 5 years ago every one makes fun off me because of this what should i do ????????????????????????????...
A. 13 June 2008: Awww you poor thing! Ignore those people that are making fun out of you, they obviously don't understand the pain in which you've been through! All I can say is that they're very immature! but being at a young age, their lack of support isn't ... (read in full...)
I will be unable to see my teacher again as I am leaving school. I'm scared I will relapse into depression!
Q. I developed extremely strong feelings for an attractive male teacher about 18 months ago. His personality is simply 'perfect'. He's such an amazing person! In the course of this time, i've gone through depression (He had a baby boy last year an...
A. 12 June 2008: To the poster asking me to expand on the situation,
Well... I did make my feelings fairly obvious by staring and smiling at him alot, also I used to hang about wherever he was and on the odd occasion talked to him!
Even though I made feelings ... (read in full...)
A student is in love with me, how can I as a teacher discourage this behaviour?
Q. Ok so I have a problem, I am a male teacher in the UK I am 25. I teach 16 -17 year olds. Having seen all the young ladies on this site who are in love with their teachers it terrifies me! I have a student in my class who has a bit of a crush. N...
A. 7 June 2008: Hi! please keep us informed of your situation! x... (read in full...)
I took his socks, is it really selfish???
Q. Me and my husband went snowboarding, my feet were very cold, and i stayed in the snow a little longer, than they got to a point that i couldnt feel them any longer so i decided to go put on some more socks on to see if that would help, i notified my ...
A. 3 June 2008: I must admit, I found the question title rather funny!
But once I read your post, i could see the seriousness of the issue. Don't worry about it, You haven't done much wrong really - You took his socks... it isn't a crime! I take it that your hus... (read in full...)
A student is in love with me, how can I as a teacher discourage this behaviour?
Q. Ok so I have a problem, I am a male teacher in the UK I am 25. I teach 16 -17 year olds. Having seen all the young ladies on this site who are in love with their teachers it terrifies me! I have a student in my class who has a bit of a crush. N...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi there! I myself, am a student in love with a teacher. Your situation sounds really awkward, it's interesting to hear a teacher's point of view of a predicament like this. I agree that this girl is acting very inappropriately, she sounds the d... (read in full...)
I am just so quiet, shy and lost... any advice?
Q. I feel like there is something seriously wrong with me. I have been so shy, ever since I can remember. Even when I was a baby, I was very quiet, I barely cried or anything. And as I became a toddler and a kid, I was shy, never wanting to let go of ...
A. 17 May 2008: Hiya! I'm a little on the shy side myself! It can give people the wrong impression of you when you don't speak much. They tend to think that you're stuck up, thinking you're too good for them! But it's not that case at all is it? People who are loud ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my teacher. Should I follow my heart?
Q. Hey!!Ok i've got abit of a problem i'm in love with my teacher but there's a 15 year age gap i'm 12 he's 27!!And has a girlfriend some people say follow your heart but other people say don't be so stupid!!I've a feeling that if i follow i could get ...
A. 17 May 2008: Hiya hun, I followed my heart! I hoped I had a chance with him, I wrote a letter explaining my feelings and in advance I expected him to start liking me too! However, things didn't turn out as I'd hoped. I got in a bit of trouble with the school and ... (read in full...)
I wouldn't leave this teacher alone and now I want to apologize! How do I go about this?
Q. I am leaving school next week and before I go I want to put all my wrongs right and leave on go terms. Sounds good? Yet its going to be soo hard, there is a teacher who I used to get on with yet I had a thing for her n always have had! But she sta...
A. 10 May 2008: Hiya, I'm wanting to apologise to my teacher too! I gave a letter to him expressing my feelings, and things turned out kinda bad between us! I need to apologise for putting him through such an awkward situation that could have cost him his job! ... (read in full...)
I have been stalking a teacher that I am in love with, now all the teachers are watching my steps! What can I do to stop this?
Q. this is a weird problem to be honest, and im not sure if i can explain it properly but, here it goes ... About six months ago, the teacher [Miss X] i was head-over-heels for found out that i had been .. stalking her, so to speak. Within t...
A. 8 May 2008: Awwww hun that's awful!!! I really feel your pain. The only way to get the teachers' respect is to STOP stalking her, I know it's hard (i've been there) but this is really serious! Also stop talking about the teacher, if you wanna talk about her to ... (read in full...)
I am very pale and want a new foundation, so my boyfriend can notice how nice my make up is... any ideas?
Q. Im not sure if this is the place for this question.... It starts off a bit weird but then i explain myself. I am very pale and want a new foundation. I can't find one anywhere, that dosnt have an orange tint. i dont want to look gothicy i just w...
A. 8 May 2008: Hiya, Well I'm quite pale also; and i'm so glad summer is arriving so that I can get a lovely tan! But anyway... 2 foundations which are good are; Maybelline dream matte mouuse It comes in pale shades too and doesn't have an orangey tint to it, ... (read in full...)
If I wanted an abortion would the doctor tell my parents?
Q. Just a quick and really weird question but I still would like the answer. If I'm pregnant (still waiting for results) then I really don't want any one to find out at all. So if I went to the doctor and wanted an abortion what procedure would ...
A. 6 May 2008: Well a doctor SHOULD keep it confidential!
However, I don't see the problem with your parents knowing? You need support, abortions are tough things to go through. Are you not close to them? Or are you scared what they'd think of you? Sure, th... (read in full...)
If a woman says she fancies you, what does that really mean?
Q. if a woman says they fancy you, does that mean they like you? sorry for the vague question!...
A. 6 May 2008: She means you're good looking! What a compliment!!! :D... (read in full...)
I want to be a Model not a Doctor!!
Q. hey everyone i am 19 years old..and i am doing medicine(mbbs)in the first year of school..recently i have lost all my interest in studies and dont want to pursue what i am doin..cause now all my attention is into modelling..i did a few shows and i ...
A. 5 May 2008: Hiya! I think perhaps you should continue doing medicine for the time being until you get a degree. You shouldn't just give it up because, what if modelling doesn't work out? You'll need a back-up! xx... (read in full...)
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