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Hi...

I have been working in this company for more than 10 years as an admin assistant.

For the past few years, everything was fine, busy but happy working everyday,unfortunately ever since my ex-managers were traveled back to headquater, new manger came, he is a demanding boss, perhaps im not up to his expectation, in the sense, he feels that Im not capable to handle the work, therefore, most of my jobs were being transfered to my colleagues, Im very disappointed, I had put in a lot of effort and done my part, am consider a hardworking & responsible worker.

I already voice up to my new manager that Im not busy in the office and wish to take up more assignments, he said he will consider and finally he gave me some ad hoc works to do.

My question, should I continue working in this company or quit and look for a new job,everything is fine working in this company except workwise,Im too free and feel restless, esp. when I see the rest of my colleagues are busy except me, I feel mad and sad.

Furthermore, if your boss don't trust and unwilling to give you a chance, what is the point of staying.

Im worried that Im unable to cope in the new company, cause I have poor memory, other than that Im fine,

Any problem to change a new job after stayiny in a new company for 10 years?

Please advise, what should I do.

Lost girl,

Thank you

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