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Q.   Hi I'm looking to get some input from everyone on what you'd like to see on the site. How can I make it easier to use? What new features would you like to see? Any annoyances or bugs you'd like to fix? Can I make the moderati...

A.   1 October 2007: this site will be popular if u just put some design that make a reader encourage to ask question or be one of us. this site looks ordinary but helpful. i just wish that the ranking will not shown on to reader coz its just insulting for us that some ... (read in full...)

Really?

Q.   i know at some point in the beginning of a new relationship the kiss kiss can always be the hardest to come around! because either one of you is nervous or doesnt know how the other one likes it! or your not sure he wants to kiss you! i always...

A.   1 October 2007: all i can say if u kiss someone special then u shouldn't be embarrassed and don't be so observant if the one u kiss is not good kisser. just enjoy and be passionate. that's all cheers........ (read in full...)

After 30 years he says he no longer loves me!

Q.   What do you do when after 30 years of being married he says he no longer loves me but I still love him? ...

A.   1 October 2007: its just simple answer if he can't learn to love u again don't push yourself to love him anymore. but u really do love him and u dont want to be away from him do some unique way and he will be turn on to u. hope u it make sense and help u to answer ... (read in full...)

Ideas to look older? (make up, clothes, hairstyles)

Q.   i am 14 years old i look a bit younger i want to look 14 or older but i still have a bit of a baby face i am about 5'2 so i am a bit small but i am still growing and i am thin too.my hair is longish but i want it longer.please can someone give me ...

A.   30 September 2007: wow it's pretty nice that u have big eyes. its so beautiful u have to be proud of it. can we change our eyes?hehe... big eyes is so attracted to a guy. ur so lucky...but girl stay baby face and everyone will amazed to ur face.... (read in full...)

I helped her with tones of things and we were close. But she came back from vacation as a whole different person!

Q.   I think this is my lowest point... hello everyone, i have this friend, and she used to be very nice until she went away on vacation, she came back as a whole different person... we talk over IM and phone for hours, because we went to the same ...

A.   29 September 2007: dont expect too much to a girl coz thats why u r there for help her not to get any thing back to u. respect what she wants. i know she is really thankful that u give ur shoulder for her to cry on.... (read in full...)

Ideas to look older? (make up, clothes, hairstyles)

Q.   i am 14 years old i look a bit younger i want to look 14 or older but i still have a bit of a baby face i am about 5'2 so i am a bit small but i am still growing and i am thin too.my hair is longish but i want it longer.please can someone give me ...

A.   29 September 2007: well dont hurry urself to get older, just wait for ur right time that u will be matured enough and u can whatever u want in ur life. when u use make up and ur face is still baby face, ur face will get damaged and ur pimples get start to grow up so ... (read in full...)

I'm fed up with people presuming I'm happy when I'm so down. They wouldn't understand me if I told them how I felt. Help.

Q.   Im fed up with people presuming im happy when im so down. I know this is my fault because i put on a smiley face and pretend im fine but deep down i feel depressed. I have a great supportive family but if i say anything they would laugh it off and ...

A.   29 September 2007: i feel that same way sometimes but all i can do is just being strong and go on with my life. i keep my self busy talking the people sorround me, watching funny or horror film to forget whats inside my feeling. before i always cry at night and also ... (read in full...)

I don't have any friends to go out with or to take my mind off my Internet lover, after the break up, so what do I do?

Q.   i just broke up with my boyfriend who i met online but never actually met in person. we were together for one year and he ended it saying its not going anywhere and im wasting his time. he is completely ignoring me now. i love him. believe me ...

A.   29 September 2007: kelly dont be afraid that u don't have friend we are here for u to cheer u up and forget ur bf. well can u give me his name and if the desting if for u and for him. but get urself busy go in the bar and there is a lot of friends waiting for u. u can ... (read in full...)

I've met a beautiful new girl... But conversation seems a little arkward! What do you think?

Q.   Confused about a girl. Ok we'll theres this girl I saw today in my gym class and as soon as I saw her I was like OMG, she was like the prettiest girl I have ever seen. I am very into vampires, and lets just say she looked like a slightly darker ...

A.   29 September 2007: its a part of love life that u will hurt at the 1st time but don't look for the future and the past the important is u know how to love forget the past, go to the flow of the present and at the future it will end up in a happily ever after.... ... (read in full...)

How can I help and show her that no matter how much work needs to be done I'm still with her and that I don't mind that shes having to do that?

Q.   My wife is a teacher and she loves it. Just oen problem this time of the year is always the most stressful for her. I think shes been over working herself and getting herself upset for no reason, shes not at the stage where she starts crying but i ...

A.   29 September 2007: the best thing u can do is just make a schedule or make time management so that both of u have time for each other. advice her that dont feel really stress. always put a smile in her face. put her job in a simple and easy way. dont put her stress ... (read in full...)

He misunderstood what I said, and became rather distant. What should I do so that he will meet me when I travel to B next month?

Q.   I have known a guy since November 2004 during my trip to Michigan through a friend. He texted me everyday. As he stayed in Michigan and I was in New York, we could not see each other but only communicate through sms or he will call me once a week. ...

A.   29 September 2007: dont try to get him back coz its ur fault. u always refuse his invitation. dont force urself to him. go on with ur life and stop contacting with him i just read his mind that he can't no longer stay for being patient to u. the best thing is give him ... (read in full...)

I can talk with any guy, unless he is my crush; then I become shy. Advice, anyone?

Q.   I like this guy... but.. I barely talk to him. I feel sooo shy when I am in his presence. I'm like, "WTF is wrong with me?" I basically can talk to any guy, unless he is my crush. I think he likes me back, because he is also shy around me. Once...

A.   29 September 2007: don't be so shy speak up tell what is ur feelings to him and im sure he will understand ur feelings and in the end he will tell to u that he likes u too. and u have same feelings that u have. but girl don't expect too much coz the opposite of this ... (read in full...)

We nearly kiss, then he texts me to tell me the rumours of having been intimate with a third person aren't true. Does he like me?

Q.   I Really Like This Guy Who Is 2 Years Older Than Me I Went To His Party The Other Day And Got Really Close, We Nearly Kissed Then I got a text sayin that he had fingered this girl, but this girl is a lyer and she lies to make herself sound good....

A.   29 September 2007: obviously he loves you coz why should he get jealous if he dont love u so girl u r so beautiful. cheers...... (read in full...)

He doesn't want to go out with me, but he hardly knows me! How can I get something to happen between us?

Q.   I like this boy so much and he knows that I like him. He said that he didn't want to go out with me and that he just wants to be friend. But he doesn't really know me because we don't talk that much and he hasn't known that for that long. I real...

A.   29 September 2007: maybe he dont like you coz he has his gf and he don't want to look for other girls. he like to be faithful. if u really like to know him ask him 1st if there is someone special in her heart and if he don't have someone then its ur time to tell him ... (read in full...)

Distance of 300 miles is starting to eat us up. How can we find the common ground??

Q.   Hi. me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years and 9 months. we're very close and very open with eachother.. the down side is that we're long distance. about 300 miles between us..(i'm in the s.f. bay area and she's about an hour from los ...

A.   29 September 2007: the women are not all same, maybe u can't just appreciate what she was doing to you. try to appreciate her even she just doing a small things but sincere every one like respect and love. can u ask yourself 1st if u respect her? i know she don't want ... (read in full...)

I've met a beautiful new girl... But conversation seems a little arkward! What do you think?

Q.   Confused about a girl. Ok we'll theres this girl I saw today in my gym class and as soon as I saw her I was like OMG, she was like the prettiest girl I have ever seen. I am very into vampires, and lets just say she looked like a slightly darker ...

A.   29 September 2007: well as long as u you like her and you are not commited to your gf then just go on don't be shy be a man. a shy type girl is just a few in your country. if she get a chance to know u she will change a lot coz u can help her to build her self ... (read in full...)

I think he is falling out of love with me.

Q.   i have been with my boyfriend for a year now and we do love eachother but i think he is starting to fall out of love with me how can i get things back to normal?...

A.   29 September 2007: well always think positive coz if u think positive the more that u will get energy the more he will love u back. just be yourself and everything gets fine and he will magnet by you. so keep smiling and don't make any moves that make him change to be ... (read in full...)

He might just want casual sex, and if I tell him I might lose him as a friend, so what shall I do?

Q.   my best friend is a guy, and he has previously been out with 2 of my friends. in between both of these relationships, we became very close and ended up sleeping together. i felt really guilty, we talked and agreed not to tell anyone. years on, still ...

A.   28 September 2007: well don't be hesitate to ask him if he has feelings for u. it's ur right to ask him coz the value of girls are very important and women need a respect. as u tell to ur story that his been with ur 2friend. i guess the girl that u introduce to him is ... (read in full...)

I really like him... but am I wasting my time?

Q.   Ok so Ive like this guy for about two and a half months now who I have slept with prolly six or seven times now. When we first started hanging out he was really sweet and wanted to hang out all the time but then after about a month he told me he ...

A.   28 September 2007: well that guy is a liar and dont waste ur time with him. if he just feel jealous about u dancing with other guy coz he dont want to get ur attention by other and he just use u to be a sex material. can't u see he is not serious about u why should u ... (read in full...)

My ex and I are friends - and it was really weird hearing him talk about his new girl!

Q.   Hi There! I have a dilema, my ex and I broke up 15months ago as he had a gambling habit and we were losing intimacy. We never sought counselling. We have however remained good friends and speak at least every few weeks, just general chit cha...

A.   28 September 2007: im glad that u find ur answer and i hope that both of u will be happy together....... (read in full...)

I was pushed into dating her and want to break up! How can I do that - I'm shy!

Q.   Well I have been dating this girl who i think is cool for a few days now but i like her friends but i like her to but not like that i was kind of pushed into answering and i dont really know how to break up with her as im shy....

A.   28 September 2007: if u want to break up with her make sure that u don't have any feelings with her coz maybe after u break with her then u will regret. heres the other option if u really really want to break her then talk to her. tell her that u love her but as a ... (read in full...)

Is a relationship with a priest wrong (if you're in love)?

Q.   i had a relationship with a priest. is it wrong to have a relationship with a priest even if we love each other?...

A.   27 September 2007: well it's not wrong to love somebody but for me if the priest love u and he find himself that he didn't deserved to be a priest and he was fate to u then he will willing to give up being priest and go with u. Goodluck!!!... (read in full...)

I miss him so much and I'm afraid he will meet someone else please help.

Q.   I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago and when I asked him back he said no he had enough of the fighting and he loves me, I'm his soulmate and hopefully things will be different someday. I didn't trust him and it wasn't his fault, I had some ...

A.   26 September 2007: there is no way to solve for that. the key to solve ur problem u must smoothly talk again and show him that u change the bad things attitude that make him up set tell him that give u a chance to prove that u realized how much u need him and love ... (read in full...)

How will I know when I'm ready to have Sex with him?

Q.   hiya all i have been with my bf for a month now and we have dun pretty much everything apart from have sex.We are both still virgins, and he seys hes ready to have sex and hes being really good about it and is not pressuring me at all, but how will ...

A.   26 September 2007: u can have sex with him if u really truly love him and dont hurry ur time coz if he loves u then he must wait for the right time that he deserved ur virginity. limit urself coz at the end u will find urself being regret that your both young to had ... (read in full...)

Do I marry my fiance or go off with my lover?

Q.   I'm a 46-year-old Mother of 8 (3 by my first husband, 5 by my current partner) and I've had many affairs. Most of which my partner has known about. But now I've started a relationship with a man who myself and my Fiance both work with. All of the ...

A.   26 September 2007: well just talk to ur kids and explain that you want to marry ur fiance coz i know they will understand u and it will make u happy. but i hope ur fiance will truly love u and u will not both regret after u marry. best wishes!!!... (read in full...)

Can aids be passed on through my mouth?

Q.   Stupid question, Can you get aids from kissing and getting blow jobs, and from someone swallowing your cum?...

A.   26 September 2007: u can't get aids easily through ur mouth coz u drink 1 or more gallon of their saliva it will possibly affect u it just 1%. but when u get sex with an aids person it was sure u can get an aids. to make sure that ur safe from aids use condom and ... (read in full...)

I am in love with an 18 yr old girl from a different religion than mine

Q.   People I need your help, I am 25 yrs of age in love with this 18-yr old girl, we met on a chatline, transferred on to MSN, and then met eventually, she had numerous numerous guys clammering for her, on phone, chatline and wherever, but she says she ...

A.   26 September 2007: well she loves you. u just understand her situation and i assure u that all the things u do to her will be back more. if u really love her then u have to sacrifice to get over her and be gentle to her coz she is innocent. just wait for her maturity ... (read in full...)

Why do people think the unattached person in a love triangle is a victim?

Q.   Why is it that people get involved in love triangles and feel rejected when they don't work out? Why do so many agony aunts treat the third member of the triangle as a victim? I'm tired of hearing people reccommend.... "distance yourself from hi...

A.   26 September 2007: well it is right to get a distance a mistress coz thats why there is a marriage and its sacred that will put a man and woman to commit that they will love each other for better for worst.if u r not ready to commit to be a lifetime partner of ur love ... (read in full...)

A short guy

Q.   Here is how i met my wife for the first time,it was on a rainy day when i was going to work.For some reason i slipped over and there she was to pick me up.Now i am 5'0 tall or not so tall.She leant over to pick me up i didnt notice straight away how ...

A.   26 September 2007: wow its pretty amazing that you met in just a day and well u have nice story so sweet. im proud of ur wife coz she don't care if ur small or tall. She was there for u coz she admire ur beauty inside thats why she fell inlove with u. God Bless!!! ... (read in full...)

My life

Q.   hello ladies and gentlemen i met this wonderful guy named Will Baety from Utah over a month and a half ago on Inklink we are going to meet this Christmas since he coming down to visit me and have a New Year with me we are in love. But he says he is ...

A.   26 September 2007: well don't hurry for ur marriage ur both young and you should get know each other getting married is not easy. there is a lot of problem to face. so if you r both inlove u have to wait for the time that u r destiny to be as one. u have to know each ... (read in full...)

Friend or enemy

Q.   Well I have a friend who is the same age as me (20) and we fell out because she couldn't stay round mine. She called me a bad mum and that she was embarresed to hang around with me because im slightly bigger than her.. Recently we made up and ever ...

A.   26 September 2007: well.. obviously she is not ur friend. why should she need to get ur bf no.? she is a snake. if i were u i will confront her and tell leave ur bf and u alone. she just want to broke up ur happy relationship. she is insecure that u r pretty than her ... (read in full...)

Do I go back to the 'bad' ex

Q.   i need help. I amd in love with my ex but don't know how to tell him. And plus i broke up with him which was really stupid. Even though he does drugs, i can't help but always thinking what it would be lyke if we got back together. Please give som ...

A.   26 September 2007: well if u think u want to go back with him. make sure that he loves u and he is willing to stop doing his bad things. give him a choice love his drugs or he will have u for the rest of his life. i heard some story about that and i was amazed to my ... (read in full...)

Ahhhhhhh

Q.   Well hello! Im Amy (hey!!!!) Im sweet 16 and Im in love =] Love is the best feelin in this world =] well somtimes... as people who you may love may be out of bounds for various reasons! which this hot guy totally is for me! ewwwww it really bug...

A.   26 September 2007: i would advice that please stop dreaming of him coz ur so young. i know age doesn't matter but stop ur illusion just wait for ur time to be a real women. it's not wrong to love and admire someone but pls. be careful for that feeling coz u just ... (read in full...)

The (flirting) signs a boy fancies you?

Q.   please help, im new to the dating game and i dont know the signs if boys fancy me,im a bit of a tom boy,my mates say there are many flirting signs around but which are the popular with males and females? ...

A.   26 September 2007: well just go to google.com and search for free chatroom then u will see something like chat avenue. it's pretty cool there coz u dont need to register just write ur nick name and then u can chat with dating game. goodluck!!!!... (read in full...)

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