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| | LouLee's profile:Well i'm LouLee, i've had quite a few ups and downs in my life and can usually very easily emphasise with people.
I currently live in England and am hoping to be acheive all my ambitions and dreams before im 35 at least!
The slightest thing can make me tick, i'm just a typical teen who suffers from extreme mood swings.
At first i came on here to get advice but also like to give advice as it makes me happy to feel as if i may helped someone in desperate need. |
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I've been trying to get my girl back. Should I try to make her jealous?
Q. So I've been a little too persistent and needy probably in trying to get this girl back (we only dated for a couple months afterall). There's this other girl that I used to be interested in and now we've kind of resumed talking a little bit. I ...
A. 13 July 2008: It probably wouldn't matter if she knew what you were doing.
As long as you gave her lots of eye contact and smiled i'm sure she'd like what you're trying to do.
Much love.
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I was so mad I slapped her across the face!
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...
A. 13 July 2008: I don't blame you for slapping her, i probably would have reacted in the same way.
It was very cruel and selfish to say this, it sounds like she doesn't want you talking about him.
Do you talk about him alot??
Please, ditch this one and f... (read in full...)
I've been trying to get my girl back. Should I try to make her jealous?
Q. So I've been a little too persistent and needy probably in trying to get this girl back (we only dated for a couple months afterall). There's this other girl that I used to be interested in and now we've kind of resumed talking a little bit. I ...
A. 13 July 2008:
This could be good or bad, if she doesn't like you still, she'll be happy for you.
I suggest that if you are gonna go on this date, you have to be careful cos the lady you're with isn't gonna want to get hurt..
Much love.... (read in full...)
What should I do about a guy that likes me AND someone else?
Q. I'm really close to this guy, I told him i like him and he said he likes me back! Brilliant i know.. but then he said he liked someone else too, but fancies me alot. I'm not sure what to do, I think about him all the time. Any advice on what to do, ...
A. 13 July 2008: Two choices, the easy- accept he likes you both, try to flirt with him alot more so he eventually likes you and you only.
the hard- tell him he can't like you both or you'll forget him completely, if you ended up going out, you would probably alwa... (read in full...)
I don't feel comfortable with my boyfriend's family. Should I go to the party?
Q. i don't get along with my boyfriends family or his ex wife. they are having a party for their son together, and i don't feel comfortable going. should i go?...
A. 12 July 2008: Do you trust your boyfriend with his ex wife?
If you do, and your relationship with his son isn't exactly close it may be best not to go.
Just have a night out with the girls or something..
Much love.... (read in full...)
Suddenly people are asking me if I have a boyfriend YET, I find that annoying!
Q. I don't know how to say this...um well basically i think there is something oing on that i don' know about. Suddenly people are asking me if i have a boy friend YET and they always say YET, its really bugging me, like the other day i was talkin...
A. 12 July 2008: Have you had a boyfriend before?
Maybe they're trying to hint you should get a boyfriend..
Thats how i'd interpret it anyway.
Much love.
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12 years old and I'm scared to even hold my boyfriends hand.
Q. im only 12 but eveyone at school seems to be getting boyfriends. i have one but i dont know how to snog and im scared to hold his hand any everything. what should i do?...
A. 12 July 2008: Aww don't worry! I think i was at that age, with my boyfriend and he finally held my hand and my cheeks went red and my hands were shaking. Trust me it's all part of growing up. When i was 13 i had my first kiss, first snog in face so don't wo... (read in full...)
Me and my cousin are flirting a lot. I want to have sex with her...
Q. okay i am 15 and my cousin is 14 and every time we're together i can't stop thinking about her and we always flirt every time we're together like at our family cottage me her and my sister slept in the top floor of our bunkhouse and me and her were ...
A. 6 July 2008: I agree with some of the things Emily has said.
This may destroy your family. What'll happen if you get caught. If you want to make out with her and have sex do it, (only if she wants to too of course) but if you're parents find out, you've gott... (read in full...)
He just stares at me constantly, does he like me or does he just like to look?
Q. is normal for a guy to be happy when a girl stands near him? Or stare at her like crazy. This guy just stares at me and when another hottie passes by he doesnt noticed his eyes are pratically glued to me. Whenever he sees me or me with my friends ...
A. 6 July 2008: sounds like he fancies you.
or finds you really hot or something lol... (read in full...)
How do I spend more time with her, I like her a lot, but don't want to flirt around friends, help?
Q. hi. i like this one girl a lot, and i feel like i have to spend more time with her to get her to like me, but whenever im with her and other friends, i dont really like to flirt with her or anything because everyone knows i like her and they always ...
A. 6 July 2008: if you really liked her, you wouldn't care what they thought or said.... (read in full...)
We pet heavily, but he stops, before going all the way, why, we are both 18?
Q. Me and my bf are both 18 and we were fooling around on his bed the other night and he took off my bra and started fingering me. So i reached into his boxers and felt that he was hard. I tried to give him a hand job but before i could, he took my ...
A. 6 July 2008: he might possibly have an s.t.i? and doesn't want to give it to you?
sorry for mentioning this, just came to my head.... (read in full...)
Fooling around with my older cousin...is it bad??
Q. Well, first started 2yrs ago i think. i was trying to sleep at my cousin's house, Kristen, but then he came along and went in bed with me and started to sqyeeze my breast. It's hard to explain because it was long ago. One month ago we went to ...
A. 5 July 2008: By what you've said, it sounds like you're not completely ready and he sounds like a bit of a pr**k for not respecting you.
Do what you want to do, not what he wants you to do.
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He acted like he liked me and now he's ignoring me, help!!
Q. I need a girl and a boy's view on this and sorry its kinda long... Well im 14 and i've known this boy whos 15 and is in the year above at school for about 9 years and for about 2 of those years i've fancied him (still do) Well we used to ...
A. 14 June 2008: That is really odd, is there anything you could've done to upset him?
By what you've said, it sounds like he's lost interest either because you haven't made a move and he thinks you dont like him or he knows you like him and doesn't like you that... (read in full...)
How do I get over someone I truly love/
Q. Hey Erm, i dont know what to do regarding this girl...who is my best friend and i have had a crush on for about 2 years now. It started as a crush and then escalated into true love. She is the one i want to spend my life with. However she does...
A. 14 June 2008: Oh my gosh, i thought my situation was bad.
I really feel sorry for you. Well if it was me, i'd confess my love to her, tell her everything you're feeling at the moment and try to move as far away from her as possible, that way you know you've done... (read in full...)
HELP me, I can't tell if he likes me or not.
Q. I'm 14 and i have a crush on this 15 yr old guy. he always looks at me when we walk pass or when i'm around but i pretended not to notice him. then as weeks past, he looked at me lesser and lesser till it's like he doesn't even care about me ...
A. 11 May 2008: Basically you are both flirting with your eyes, you should try talking to him, if you think he's trying NOT to look at you, just say hey and he won't feel so uncomfortable or shy. =)... (read in full...)
Does his reply to my text mean he likes me or not?
Q. hey, I like this guy, and I dont think he knows. I text him asking him a question ( general chit chat) and he just answered with the answer- I dont know if Im reading into this too much but is this a sign that he doesnt like me? He did put a ...
A. 11 May 2008: Yeah, a text with a 'x' could literally just be a friendly way of ending a text, many of my boy mates do it.
But some don't because they might not want me to get the wrong idea.
This isn't really much help, sorry.. =(... (read in full...)
Is this flirting? We have been friends for a very long time...
Q. i am 15 years old. theres this guy that i have known since i was seven and we are good friends... Is he flirting with me or is he just being friendly. *he tickles me and pokes me *he always teases me and have special little nicknames fo...
A. 10 May 2008: your either the very very best of friends that flirt ALOT or he simply LOVES YOU
By what you've said, it sounds like the second one.. =)... (read in full...)
I need kissing advice...
Q. well you see im 14 and i have a crush on this guy firstly i dont no how to get him to notice me he is always (in a jkie wai) takin the mick out of me and secondly i think im frigid because i dont no how to french kiss a boy and im scared i will be ...
A. 10 May 2008: Don't worry hun, my first kiss was wen i was 13
Basically he was experienced so i was lucky, well you can imagine a kiss without tongues, you both go in for the kiss and on this occasion he slipped his tongue into my mouth if you get me? But if h... (read in full...)
I'm 24 and hugely in debt, any advice?
Q. Im 24 and hugely in debt, around 13,500 pounds to various loan companies. I live at home with my mum but I cant stay for much longer. i work full time but dont earn alot to pay them all off so every month they dont all get paid, and then they start ...
A. 10 May 2008: Well, i would suggest that when you have to pay your loans off monthly, that you ring them up, tell them your circumstances and notify them that you'll give them the cash you can afford to pay back each month regularly..
Always make sure you give... (read in full...)
Are teenage girls so worried about pubic hair?
Q. Hello I was talking to my girlfriend about "stuff" yesterday and turns out that herself and most of her friends are all a little worried about how their pubes look, like how they shave them or how they don't shave them. Can any other women ...
A. 10 May 2008: I was very worried about pubic hair in my younger years, because i was very flirtatious with the guys and started to wonder what they liked, shaved or hairy ?
Anyhow, i decided shaving was alot cleaner so yeah, i made my own decision.. =)
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My boyfriend has a fetish for black haired girls!
Q. Hi this is going to seem like an odd problem, but its been bothering me awhile. I've always known that my boyfriend of 3 years has had a fetish for black haired women. It's not a problem, until i begin to think about it, or find something, then it ...
A. 10 May 2008: Hmm, i wouldn't get too jelous about it.
I mean, every guy has their preferences of women.
And he just likes black hair, maybe just a little too much, but some things will never change.
Thats life i'm afraid. ... (read in full...)
What does love mean to you?
Q. This has more than likely been asked many times before but I don't feel like going through thousands of questions. Anyway I wanted to know what each of you thought love means to you....
A. 10 May 2008: Well.. you can have many types of love.
Family love, forbidden love, narcissistic love..
But i dont think anyone really knows what love is.
Love to me, is a very strong feeling of liking someone and them liking you back..feeling you can tr... (read in full...)
Confussed about how I should live my life
Q. Im so confused. my old life and friends are back and before with them i enjoyed life but when they left i was so depressed. i used to cut my self. ok with them i smoke and drank but i do not blame them for that i could of said no. But today i was ...
A. 10 May 2008: Well, how do you want to live it??
Take things step at a time..
Do you want to lose weight for yourself or for other people?
It really is up to you. =)... (read in full...)
Boyfriend or girlfriend...who should I choose to please?
Q. I currently live with a boyfriend who I love dearly and a girlfriend I also love dearly. We all share 1 bedroom for everything. My problem is My girlfriend wants me to dress more sexy like her. Our boyfriend gets kinda jelious from the attentio...
A. 10 May 2008: Don't 'please' either of them, be who you want to be, do what you want to do and you can't go wrong.... (read in full...)
Why did he go to the toilet and why did he stop if he's getting excited?
Q. Hi, I'm 17 an me an my boyfriend of a year haven't slept together yet cos we both don't want me to get pregnant so we are going to wait. I don't know much about boys and erections and stuff so please can you explain: we were kissing on the bed the ...
A. 9 March 2008: He probably just wanted to masturbate. If he could have sex with you, he most likely wouldn't have stopped. ... (read in full...)
Will she give herself to me on her birthday which is in 20 days?
Q. Well i have a question...i knew this girl since freshmen year and we got close and i loved her as a sister and she loved me as a brother... im 16 and my girlfriend is 15, and were both shopmores...we started going out on oct. 07 and we started ...
A. 9 March 2008: dont be a jerk, wait until she's ready, seeing as she pushed you off last time u wanted it, when she wants it, she'll show it. ... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and PREGANANT!!!
Q. it all happened 1 week ago i was round my bfs freinds house and there were no adults so everyone started having sex and so me and my bf did to but he forgot to use a condom and now im pregnant should i get an abortion or not???...
A. 9 March 2008: Wow, shocking. Okay, despite the fact a few might disagree to this, i seriously suggest you have an abortion, you're 12 and theres no way you could look after a child on your own..and you need 2 have a life, good education before all this. P... (read in full...)
Would you take an ex back a second time, after they left you for the same person twice?
Q. Would you take an ex back? If he left you after 6 years together and went off with someone else. A year later his relationship ended, he went back to you for a couple of weeks, then went back with the girl he went off with in the first place. A...
A. 2 March 2008: dont take him back, it seems he wants more but will settle for you.... (read in full...)
Has anybody else's children heard them during intercourse??
Q. During intercourse the other night our son (6) heard me having an orgasm because he asked me next day what the noise was. I said it was a dream. Anybody else had a similar experience?...
A. 20 February 2008: when i was younger i heard my dad and his girlfriend having sex and i was revolted by it.. it's not a very nice situation for your child, believe me, i know.... (read in full...)
Poll question: how far have you gone (14 year olds)
Q. hey everyone Me and my bestie are both 14. She is really worried that she hasn't done anything (sexualy) before. I'm not talking about fully having sex but even a hook up. So i want to start a poll for all the 14 year olds out there. How f...
A. 20 February 2008: Well, when i was 14, the furthest i went was... i kissed and later snogged a guy the year above me..he was my first kiss when i was 13. x ... (read in full...)
Why do I keep randomly thinking about my ex girlfriend?
Q. I've been apart from my ex girlfriend for a long time now. Nearly a year. But it still doesn't take much for my mind to wander back to her. I was driving today, and while I'm sat in the car with nobody to talk to, and only the radio to listen to my ...
A. 20 February 2008: Aww, sounds like you're in the same situation as me, i always think of my boyfriend when it comes to our favourite tv programme etc. It's annoying huh?! Maybe you just crave to have a girlfriend again..but not necessarily her. x... (read in full...)
I hacked into his emails...
Q. This is so wrong but you'd have to understand my state of mind before you judge me. My boyfriend dumped me because he needed space and I had a feeling he might have been seeing someone else. He promised me a thousand times he wasn't but I had a li...
A. 20 February 2008: You're right, it was wrong. If you still like him then i'm sorry but he's not the one for you as you shouldn't have felt the need to distrust him. I suggest that you don't tell him now, as he's probably just gonna get really angry then shrug it ov... (read in full...)
I'm scared of my ex...
Q. I split up with my boyfriend in December, we had been together 13 months and he is being a absolute idiot, he has taken pictures of my house and put them on bebo, he is almost 14, I'm almost 13. What should I do? I don't want to get back with him ...
A. 20 February 2008: Okay it sounds like this boy is a complete Pr**k. Have you told Bebo that he's taken pictures of your house as if you do tell Bebo i know for a fact they can take the pictures off. Apart from telling a teacher, i don't really know what else you... (read in full...)
I'm almost 13 he is almost 16, is that legal?
Q. I'm almost 13 he is almost 16, is that legal? He isn't forcing me into having sex but he is tryng to make me do things that I'm scared about and when I say no to something he says I can never try something new, should I tell him I'm scared because ...
A. 20 February 2008: Don't be scared that he's going to tell you're mum because chances are he isn't as your dad will knock 10 bells of crap out of him. You say 'what happened that Saturday night'? What did actually happen? Sex? Played around? Depending on what it... (read in full...)
I feel like I have to compete for my bf with his friend...how should I handle this??
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for a few months now and what bothers me is that he has a long time friend (female) that lives with him because of her family issues. Whenever i go over to his house i feel like i'm the 3rd wheel and me and him can'...
A. 20 February 2008: i think you should start to try and have more alone time with him. (not at home) maybe you could go out for the day to a park or anywhere thats just you 2. when you're with him AND her... i know you'll probably find it hard but try to be nice to ... (read in full...)
I've been sleeping with my daughter's boyfriend, thing is... he doesn't know I'm her mother!
Q. I'm having a morale dilemma. I'm single mum of one (38) with a 20 year old daughter. I work with a really cute guy whose 25 and made a pass at me on a works night out. I felt flattered but turned him down as I am his boss. A few weeks on,...
A. 20 February 2008: In my opinion i think you should let your daughter know exactly what has happened then try to forget about him, which i know is easier said than done. he is a sleeze for cheating and im sure you and you're daughter can do better. ... (read in full...)
Should I secretly text her and give her hints about her "Secret admirer". I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm 14 years old and at my school there's a new English teacher who's going to leave at the end of February. Over the past couple of months I have grown sexually attracted to her because I perform well in class she kind of... shields me! Once of my ...
A. 19 February 2008: hmm.. how did you get her number in the first place? in my opinion lots of boys have crushes on their teachers but i strongly recommend you do nothing about it. Especially as she has a boyfriend and quite frankly you can do nothing about it. x... (read in full...)
Should I date other guys before I decide to marry my 1st boyfriend?
Q. I just need some advice. Is it crazy to marry youre first boyfriend? I am so in love with my boyfriend of one year. I never wanted to get married or have kids, and now that I see how powerful love is, i can't wait to have kids. I honestly think he ...
A. 6 February 2008: Well, i would've said you should experiment, different partners etc before you decide to marry your first boyfriend but life never really works out how you expect it so if you honestly believe he is the one.. go for it.. i'm not sure if you've seen ... (read in full...)
Do I say something to her about her fling or simply let it go?
Q. hey people just wanted to know what to do...i've been with my gf for about a year now we do hava good relationship..but there's a few things that bother me and im worried it may effect our relationship..we gave our vrginity to each other.. I ke...
A. 6 February 2008: I understand how you feel but you shouldn't pressure her about it, she probably regrets it and past IS past. If she's trying to avoid it, then just let it be. ... (read in full...)
I pulled away from a threesome. Should I go back and go with the flow?
Q. Hello, this is kind of a last resort because I know my friends would not understand. I am 15 and I am not eager to lose my virginity. Last night, I was with two friends (girls 14 and 16) in a bed and they both tried to touch me in a sexual way, I ...
A. 28 January 2008: Like you said, you're not too eager to lose your virginity; if you want to save it, save it. F**k the 'respect' that these guys will give you.. seriously is that all you care about? You can always fib? You're only a virgin once, remember that. Once ... (read in full...)
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