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avin a tough life with the lads-gainin em then losin em or chukin em either way they're not wiv me no more! lol
i live in stoke-on-trent!! not tha bad a place relli.
i love listenin to music!! it chills me owt nd its gr8 to help ya get redy!! try it of u dont alredy!!!!
Anyway am ere if u need to talk bwt anythin!!!!!
add me plzzzzzzzzzzz xjodex
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How does one flirt?
Q. I need help on flirting! My friends seem to be able to flirt with anyone but i just dont know how! Lads get so turned on by my friends,is there anything i can do to make them get turned on by me?...
A. 5 November 2007: hiya bbe!!!!!!! ask ur frineds first that wud be a big help, if they can flirt tehn there's no harm in them helping u out to, afterall they are ur friends!!!!!!! get the lads attention for a start!!!!maybe laugh at there jokes even if there not fun... (read in full...)
Surely it's ok to talk to other guys, if I'm not being flirty.
Q. Is it ok to chat with other guys over the internet (like nexopia or myspace) when you have a boyfriend? If you aren't being flirty or anything and they are people you know from school or something? Do you have to tell your boyfriend what you are ...
A. 5 November 2007: hiya bbe!!!!!!! yep, if i was u i would tell him, just to let him know like so he doesnt think ur hidin anythin or if he ever did find out whilst u didnt tell him then he might wonder why u kept it a secret!!!!!! just say u have known them for a... (read in full...)
My friends don't like him and I have now lost some of them as they think I have changed.
Q. I really like this lad, and he knows I'm a virgin and he said he thinks its good not just basing out relationship on sex and he really respects me, he said he wants to do it propa! the thing is i haven't told my mates because non of them like him...
A. 5 November 2007: hi bbe!!! if ur frineds really cared then they would be happy if u were happy!!!!! just let them know he makes u feel how he duz! tell them u want to be there friends still cuz they mean alot to you!!!!! hope u get ur friends back xx jode xx... (read in full...)
How to get my ex back?
Q. My ex and I had something really special and we really cared for each other but we have now been done for 2 months. I still really love him and I know he still likes me. Ive reserched some on how to get an ex back sadly did some of the bad signs. N...
A. 5 November 2007: hi bbe!!!!!! if things didnt work out then that doesnt show good signs for a start but anyway, tell ur friends to let him know u av changed and luv him so much! make sure he knows u av feelings for him and want mostly things that he might want in... (read in full...)
Can we have sex without contraception?
Q. can if i didnt 'cum' inside my gf would it be ok not to use contraception?...
A. 1 November 2007: hi hi bbe! Even though you don't think you're 'cumming' doesn't mean that you aren't! Make sure you're using protection if your girlfriend doesn't want to get pregnant already! Like drpsych says, there are transmitted diseases to think about!!!... (read in full...)
I don't think she is interested, any advice
Q. hi every1. im 15 and i need some pro advice. theres this girl at school who i think about like no other girl i think about, know what a mean. but the thing i can tell she's not interessted in me. she may have in the past when we first me in second ...
A. 1 November 2007: hi bbe!!!! my advice is try to interest her! ask some of your friends to find out how she feels about you and what she likes and doesn't! Make sure you hint that you like her because you never know she might be interested but just doesn't want to ... (read in full...)
Are some of us meant to be alone.
Q. Are some of us just meant to be alone for the whole of our lives? I'm 20 now and whenever I start to feel attracted to a girl, they are either not interested or want to stay as friends. The saying goes that the right women will come along one day....
A. 1 November 2007: awww hunni!!!! dont worry the sayin is true cuz even the ugliest girls I know have got boyfriends!! Your day will come soon and if the girls aren't interested keep trying, it's their loss!! Change your appearance a bit if you think that maybe the ... (read in full...)
I don't want to dump her because I love her
Q. I have been dating my gf for about 2 years and i really love her and never even thought about looking at another girl. However this year at school, there is a girl who has come up, she is about a year younger than me. And i really think she is prett...
A. 1 November 2007: right bbe!!!!!! if i was you i would consider on makin sure the girl you like would give you everything you want or everything your girlfriend already does give you!!!!!!!! make sure you are 100% sure you want this other gal!!!!!!!! if you're ... (read in full...)
What is the right age to start having sex?
Q. What age do you think people should start having sex? People i know still havent had sex yet but im not sure if that is better or should you start young? ...
A. 27 October 2007: hey bbe! wen u feel the times right!!! yes there is a law but its weneva ur ready relli!!!!!!
make sure ur 100% sure u want sex be4 u do actually do it! but anway have fun! x me x... (read in full...)
Is it natural to think that your girlfriend is the sexiest person in the world?
Q. Is it natural to think that your girlfriend is the sexiest person in the world? I ask because it feels like I've lost the most gorgeous woman I'll ever meet. She split with me some months back after 3 years together, and now I don't think I'm ...
A. 27 October 2007: ur bound to have thought she was gorge bbe! u went out with her, u luved her, she was ur 1st love!
yes u are bound to feel like this as she was ur first love! as they say theres plenty more fish in the sea u will swn find better!!! trust me! gd luck... (read in full...)
How can I find out her size?
Q. Please help me with women's clothing sizes. My girlfriend wears a Medium in blouses and tops, but I want to buy her a nice dress without her knowing. I went shopping at the mall and they were listed by numbers like 4-5 and 5-6. What do these ...
A. 27 October 2007: just chek i her clothes nd ask her frineds! her best frined cud find out for you! gd luck x luv me bbez... (read in full...)
Is nsa sex ok with my friend??
Q. I just split up with my boyfriend and i have been in touch with a lad from school who i always had a soft spot for but we were good friends. We have just been talking and he was someone who didnt no my ex so it was nice to talk. im not ready fo...
A. 27 October 2007: if ur both agreein on it then y not! ur both havin fun, both happy, both gettin wat u want! there might be a point wen u both decide u want eachother and want a real relationship with eachother but until then hope u have fun and have a good time! gd ... (read in full...)
How long before these buises disappear?
Q. hi...this is kind of embarrassing but ill say it anyways. My BF and i were in the back seat the other day and he started fingering me. He can usually get three fingers in but he wanted to try four so he did. The problem is it really hurt and felt ...
A. 27 October 2007: just say to him the truth. theres no point iin bein in a relationship if u get embarassed by telling him wat he has di=one like! obviously it wasnt his fault as he didnt know! just make sure you let him know that 4 fingers are too much and you cant ... (read in full...)
How do I make him want me like he used to?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and 4 months now, which is the longest for both of us. Lately, it's as though he ignores me almost all the time. There's this other girl that he's been talking to, but she has a boyfriend and says ...
A. 27 October 2007: just tell him!!!!!!! tell him u want more attention! ask him if he wants you still, ask him if there's anythin goin on wiith tha ova gal!... (read in full...)
13, worried because I've never had a boyfriend! Is there something wrong with me?
Q. I'm 13 and I've never had a boyfriend. Everyone else seems to have had one. There are girls in my form that have been out with sooo many boys. They have like 10 different ones every year and have been going out with people since they were like 8. ...
A. 27 October 2007: instead of waitin maybe u ud make the 1st move, u neva know there cud be sum guys oo like u but are to scared to ask u out!
i am 14 and have only had boyfriends but they were long terms most of them! wen i was ur age i wasnt that lucky with the ... (read in full...)
Advice for kissing and dating, please... But, we're in a long distance relationship.
Q. i'm planning a date for my boyfriend and i. i've only kissed him once and that was my first kiss. can i get tips on kissing and on the date since we are in a long distance relationship?...
A. 27 October 2007: make sure ur relaxed and chilled out! the last thing he'll want is a jumpy date!!!!!!!!
kiss calmy and softly nd everythin shud be gr8... (read in full...)
I feel so alone right now, because my mom told the entire family that I masturbated.
Q. I feel so alone right now, because my mom told the entire family that I masturbated. She was so mad at me, and I am in tears about this. I don't understand why she thinks that it's so wrong!...
A. 27 October 2007: how did ur mum find out and how old are you?????
dont be upset you'll find most people do it nowadays!... (read in full...)
Is he trying to attract me by making me jealous?
Q. We are on the verge of getting back together. Why is he trying to make me jealous. He is kind of controlling and he knows I'm jealous of his other female friends. Recently I've not been acting jealous towards them and he doesn't know if I really ...
A. 27 October 2007: i
f he says he was with such nd such doing waeva infront of ur face and eerytime he mentions them he looks at you then i wud say he IS tryin to make you jelouse honey!!!!!... (read in full...)
Why is it that only the ugly guys ask me out?
Q. hiya xxxxxx im 14 and have like a ginger brown hair and i was wonderin if it puts guys off????? i've only had 2 proper boyfriends should i be gettin worried and start to change my appearence!!!!!! the trouble is boys who i no say i'm pretty and ever...
A. 25 October 2007: thanx for the hel[p will take the advice all the time and think of it tarxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
I just want to be pretty like other girls.
Q. Well for the past months and weeks ive began to grow and develop and ive noticed myself as someone ugly in general. I think im ugly, and just the other day a boy called me it right in front of my face. im short. lacking alittle in the "upper" d...
A. 25 October 2007: aw bbe' i'm 13 and i have got redish brown hair but many boys have said i'm pretty!!!!!! i think everygirl goes through a phase of thinkin they're ugly and if u dont feel gorge then u wont look it trust me it works!!!!!! if ur not happy with ur ... (read in full...)
I'm 20 she's 17, will we have enough in common or am I too old for her?
Q. I am 20 and mid way through my junior year of college. I'm trying to decide if I want to start a relationship with a 17 year old high school senior girl that lives back home. I'm worried about a few things, (1) is age a problem, (2) where we are at ...
A. 25 October 2007: omg shuga dont worry iits only 3 years i no people who are n a relationship with people like 5-10yrs older than them! if u relli love her and think it willl work and she thinks the same and has feelings for you then whats there to say aprt from go ... (read in full...)
He knows how to make a girl feel wanted when he wants, last time we met though he called me very nasty names. Should I get back with him?
Q. hiya xxxx i'm 14 and i just wanna know if there's chance of me nd my ex gettin bk togetha!!!!! i was seein him for about 3 months or sumthin which is quiet a long time but nayway we split up about 3 days ago and i was the one who ened it and have...
A. 25 October 2007: thanx for the advice so far, but its hard to stay waya and not stare at him wen i see him as we both live in the same area and his mates are my mates nd all but they want to hang rownd with both of us!!!!!!! he used to be so nice tho then every1 ... (read in full...)
We used to be all over each other, now he won't even kiss me when he goes somewhere! What's wrong w/ him?
Q. hiya guys!!!!!!!! xxxxxxxxx I have been with my boyfriend for about 3-5 weeks and we used to be so close and everthing. We went to the cinemas together and hanley and everwhere together and we used to be all over each other all the time!!!!...
A. 24 October 2007: by the way i'm not 12 or 10 or 11 or wateva sorry 4 not mentionin it but it went bodged when i signed up ages ago nd i relli dnt know how to change it!! plzz answer my question again if u can... (read in full...)
Is my friend to blame for my relationship ending?
Q. hiya!!! my question isnt relli tht big its just sum advice i need!!!! i av bin goin owt wiv this boy for like 5 weeks nd he always makes a joke of finishin me then afta a couple of mins or secs he cums up 2 me gives me a love nd says he was only...
A. 24 October 2007: thankyou to those whohellped, but those who gave me a bit of a lecture can forget advice of me... (read in full...)
He kisses me but calls me on my twin sister's name. Confused.
Q. I am seeing this guy who i really really like!! The problm is i have a twin sister, he keeps on holding my hand, keeps on kissing me, but calls me my sisters name!! i fell out with him, but then soon made up. He did it again last night, ...
A. 24 October 2007: just say to him do u like my sista or sumthin and if he says no then say well stop callin me my sistas name if u and your sister look so alike thenu cant blame im for gettin mixed up... (read in full...)
Why am I so obsessed with my appearance?
Q. why i am i so obsessed with how i look when i am out in town or school if i see a mirror or a window i will look at myself snd it is getting me down when i dont look my best i am always getting told i am pretty but somtimes the bitchy people will be ...
A. 22 October 2007: i'm 13 and the same happens to me everytime i see my reflection i look and do my hair up again and say to whoeva i'm with omg have u seen wa i look like, nd they'll always say u look gorge dont worry. i sumetimes wonder if they just say it 2 be ... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be in love?
Q. im 16 years in age, i know this is gonna sound stupid but i really need an answer to my question i think im in love with my girlfriend, but i feel im to young to be in love. i treasure the little things she dose, im really comfortable with her and ...
A. 22 October 2007: ofcourse u cn be in luv at 16.
if u think bwt ur gal almost every minute and close ur eyes and picture her face or her wateva thn u luv her. but tht doesnt mean there aint any chance of u endin. watch out it cud end soon.
hope i've helped gd luck ... (read in full...)
Anyone have an free English dating website recommendations?
Q. What are the best dating websites that are free that are england ...
A. 22 October 2007: erm i dont think its much gd but u cid try mybestmatch!
it might help... (read in full...)
What are your opinions about boob jobs?
Q. Hi Dearcupid, I'm just wondering your opinions on boob jobs! I'm 15 and roughly 5"10...i know, very tall! And i feel that my tall build does not match my breast size of a 34A - To be honest, some 34A's are a bit big on me even...I've been...
A. 21 October 2007: wait untill your older, they might start growing soon... (read in full...)
Should I tell my best friend about me and him?
Q. I recently have started to really like my best friends ex. When they went out i really got on well with him and i was happy for them both. When they broke up I was there for both of them. But over the last few weeks I started developing feelings...
A. 9 October 2007: just tell ask ur friends firstly-
duz she like him still
2mdly- wud she be ok if anythin happened with him and you
then if she says she dont care bwt him no more and she wudnt be bovered then just say i av got fellings for him and hope ucan un... (read in full...)
I talked to a pretty girl and my knees went weak. What can I say to her next time I see her?
Q. hi im 11 and i have a big kind of embarrassing question. Theres this friendly pretty smart girl that i realllly like and we're already friends and my uncles doing a haunted house i said(quote)hey are you doing anything for halloween she said yea...
A. 9 October 2007: just say
'sooo do u wanna cum with me to this halleween thing, u dont have to if u dont want but i wud like it if u joined me' make sure u tell er u want her to go so she dont get the impression ur just askin her for the sake of it!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
Why should I give him a BJ? I don't get anything out of it!
Q. ok it seems my man wants a bj all the time but he wants me to finish it without my getting any pleasure what should i do about this ...
A. 9 October 2007: just say it to his face!!!
why shud i giv u a blowy bbe wa is the point i dnt get no pleasure out of
and hopefully he will make sure u get pleasue be4 or afta... (read in full...)
What does it mean when someone calls me 'sweetheart'?
Q. hi everyone, when somebody calls you sweetheart what does it mean,i was called it today by some boy at school for the first time, i dont even no what the word means, help ...
A. 9 October 2007: its just like been called duck or hunney or darling ect ........... duz the boy like u tho???????... (read in full...)
Is my friend to blame for my relationship ending?
Q. hiya!!! my question isnt relli tht big its just sum advice i need!!!! i av bin goin owt wiv this boy for like 5 weeks nd he always makes a joke of finishin me then afta a couple of mins or secs he cums up 2 me gives me a love nd says he was only...
A. 5 September 2007: even though i may be too young i still need some advice!!!! help... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and wondering what i'm doing with my life! Any advice please?
Q. Right..at the minute im at school..i dont really no what to put..i have just started year 11. im 15. my problem is, i dont think i have many good friends..i walk around school at break and dinner on my own, that makes me seem like the loner loserish ...
A. 5 September 2007: listen up hun!!! life is to short to be sittin cryin ova dreams nd stuff like school nd hoping!!! DO SOMETHIN BWT IT LIKE WAIT FOR THE NXT POP-IDOL OR X-FACTOR OR START GETTIN INTO THE SCHOOL PLAYS ND SING SOLOS THEN THE WORD SHUD SPREAD RWND... (read in full...)
We split and I want to do cold turkey and not speak to him but will this seem childish?
Q. Right so, If a guy breaks up with you (very amicably) because the relationship can't happen because of external factors (and he won't admit his feelings you) and you feel very hurt, what do you do if the guy contacts you on a friendly basis a few ...
A. 3 September 2007: just simply say 'if this relationship wont work with me and you together then i dont really want to be ur friend either, i would rather us be together or not together at all'
just say something along the lines of that adn it should work out how you ... (read in full...)
My husband is lazy and he wants to be a female !!
Q. dear cupid i have been with this guy for 4 or 5 years. Since the last year i have loved him dearly but his work ethic is really bugging me. We just got married. we have 2 kids togeather under 2 and he refuses to get a job that offers more than 10 ...
A. 1 September 2007: well if you dont love him no more then leave him by all means! but if you do love him then tell him how your feeling and make him understand tht u need his help to get things done around the house and help with the children!!! that's my advi... (read in full...)
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