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... Send superbunny a private message | | | superbunny's profile:I am a strong believer in "treat people as you wish to be treated" - because at the end of the day everyone just wants their beliefs, thoughts and lives to be respected and treated with a bit of dignity. Plus, I'm sick of people trying to force their beliefs on other people - sexuality, religious... I wonder where this desire to interfere in other people's lives came from?!?
I also am a great believer in karma. My greatest belief in this comes from the amount of people who cheat in relationships who then find it hard to trust people - shot yourself in the foot there, sunshine!
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I'm so guilty that I cheated on my husband. Should I tell him?
Q. A few days ago, I slept with a male friend while my husband was out of town visiting relatives. It only happened, once, i swear, and I did not intend for it to happen. I didn't set out looking to cheat, it's something that just happened. We'd had a ...
A. 8 September 2009: A point I would like to raise, is if your husband did forgive you - you'd be more likely to do it again because you would not have received the necessary punishment for betraying the trust in your marriage.
I think I'd tell him and take the cons... (read in full...)
Broke up with the guy who was my best friend. I can't sleep!
Q. Hi! My best friend also happens to be my exbf. I have deeper feelings for him than I could ever imagine, especially being in high school. We broke up 4 months ago and I'm still a mess over it. I've dated a few guys since, but I couldn't get very emo...
A. 8 September 2009: Without sound like an old bumbling fool (Not that I'm THAT much older than you) you are far too young to be worrying about those kinds of things - you say you went out with him and dated a few guys in the months that have followed? Give yourself a ... (read in full...)
What did I do to make this guy back away? Everything seemed so perfect!
Q. I was in a bad car wreck in April i had just broke up with my ex boyfriend about three weeks later. The relationship i was in before was horrible very abusive. I almost died thats how bad the wreck was. Once i was able to see my friends, i met ...
A. 8 September 2009: Okay, don't get me wrong I am exceptionally fond of the opposite sex both on a relationship and friendship level - but it is a given that most guys know exactly what to say to have girls eating out of the palm of their hands, especially when the ... (read in full...)
I don't think my girlfriend is ready to commit to this relationship!
Q. Hello everyone, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 10 months and its been the best 10 months of my life. I am 18 years old and she is 17. The problem is, for the past 5 weeks she has been burying underlying problematic thoughts in her ...
A. 8 September 2009: I have been in a similar situation to your girlfriend and sadly, and I don't mean to depress you AT ALL, I just had to break free - I was with the same guy from the age of 16 to 18 and at the start it was lovely but by the end I just felt trapped; ... (read in full...)
I don't want to mess with him if he has a g/f but I really like him
Q. So, I'm going to start from the beginning. Last year, when I was in tenth grade, I changed schools (didn't move far away or anything, just changed schools) and I met this boy. He's good friends with one of my best friends (who I've known since ...
A. 6 September 2009: You're going to have to swallow your nerves and just talk to him again: perhaps suggest doing something together if you have a lot in common. There's nothing else you can do I'm afraid. But if his friendship means a lot to you, it'll be worth it. : ... (read in full...)
Do other people keep secrets from their parents?
Q. just out of curiousity, do lots of other ppl keep keep many secrets from their parents? i have been in a relationship with a guy for almost a year and a half now and we were very close friends before. i can't tell my parents anything about it ...
A. 6 September 2009: I have never kept boyfriends from my parents because they've always been fine with me having them and I think they'd rather be open if there was a problem so I could go to them rather than feel I had to hide things and so they could help with my ... (read in full...)
I can't tell if he just looks at all girls or me or what?
Q. I got a crush on this guy at work and there is some kind of chemistry between us.. which is pretty much visible i guess since one of my coworker asked me discreetly if we had something going on. We are always joking, teasing each other and ...
A. 6 September 2009: As a male, and this is by no means derogatory to the male gender, they notice attractive girls. One of my male friends tried to explain this to me - he was saying he notices attractive girls even though he is in an extremely loving, trusting ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend tells me I am loose "down there" what am I supposed to do?
Q. Before my bf i had little sex. When we started to have sex he would always say how it made him feel good that i was so tight it made him happy i didn't sleep around. Now, 2 years later i am not so tight anymore. We have sex quite a bit. He is ...
A. 25 July 2009: There is no way you can be as "loose" as he is saying you are. Sure you will not be the same way as you were when you were a virgin, but he's making you sound like a sixty year old women!
I'd ditch him if I were you, he sounds like a complete... (read in full...)
How do I stop lying and just end this?
Q. I have been with my bf for 5 years. Over the past year or so my feelings for him have really changed. I can't pin point exactly when it happened or what caused it, but I don't want to be with him anymore. Everytime I hug him, kiss him or we have ...
A. 24 July 2009: You're not being fair on your boyfriend if you stay with him just because you're too chicken to be single or end it. If he can sense it, he's probably not too happy either with how you are acting towards him.
People can't develop things properly... (read in full...)
Why has my boyfriend started calling me names and being horrible?
Q. hey guys (: ive been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months now, weve generally been really happy together although he is rather prone to mood swings (a couple of times we almost ended the relationship over them). recently we spent a week together...
A. 22 July 2009: Doesn't sound like you're happy, and therefore you shouldn't really be in this relationship - but as I am not a robot, I can understand it's not that easy!
He shouldn't be mean to you and you must not tolerate this bullying behaviour - nip it i... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he's almost 18, and I'm nervous about his 'needs'
Q. I am 14 years old and I fell in love with a 17 year old boy. We met at school and we even kissed once. We are considering being together. I know my friend's views but I'd like to hear from people who aren't biased. He is about to turn 18, which ...
A. 22 July 2009: The first thing I always say in relationship problems is don't take into acocunt what other people think or feel, it's your decision.
If you're worrying about what he wants sexually already then I wouldn't go any further with it. If he's not as n... (read in full...)
When we met up she was all over me, but now she isnt replying to my texts! What should I do now?
Q. I have known I have been gay for about a year or so, and I have had gay flings wtc but ive never been in a sexual relationship with a girl. I started talking to a girl (friend of a friend) about two months ago, and we were talking and texting loads. ...
A. 22 July 2009: When you say all over you do you mean just exceptionally friendly? Because most girls feel more comfortable and open around gay guys (if she doesn't know you are she may be able to sense it - us girls are clever, you know!!) than straight guys - ... (read in full...)
Do you think my sexual history is bad?
Q. Just looking for opinions if you think my sexual history is bad. im 19 nearly 20. before my bf i have had sex with 4 guys, all of whom i was in a relationship with or had strong feelings for. In about 4 years i have hooked up (made out) with about ...
A. 22 July 2009: It's not for your boyfriend to judge you, he should love you for where you are NOW - not what (or who!) you have done!
I can tell you my sexual history is probably considered "worse" than yours but as long as you were both cosenting parties,... (read in full...)
My boyfriend accuses me of flirting when I was at an industry networking event! Will this type of man ever change?
Q. I am an event management student, and our teacher organises frequent visits to exhibitions and conferences. this is a great way for us to network with industry professionals. today was the australian event business expo and was a great opportunity ...
A. 22 July 2009: He's just jealous - sweetie!!
When he gets used to the idea he'll probably come round a bit, jealousy can often be a sign of insecurity. Just make sure you make him feel secure that HE'S the want that you want - even talk down a bit about the peop... (read in full...)
Does it sound like something happend between my boyfriend and his ex?
Q. Can I ask for your advice? Can you give me your opinion on this: Boyfriend said he wanted to do his OWN thing at home on Saturday night. I tried to call him that night, no answer. Tried again, a while later, no answer. I'd text and ask what he'...
A. 22 July 2009: Hello sweetie,
First of all, he should've told you what he was up to if you asked and you have every right to be angry about this. Although, it is a matter of trust if you choose to believe if something has happened between them or not.
However... (read in full...)
How many sleeping partner have you had
Q. Hi im doing a survey about how many sleeping partners (vaginal or anal) you or anyone you know, GF/BF etc, has had? Plz also state how sure you are of yours and your partners number! Plz be honest as there's no need to lie because you can just put...
A. 8 February 2009: I'm from the UK, female, 19 & have slept with 9 men.... (read in full...)
How do I invite her to my house?
Q. a friend of mine keeps askin me to "not forget to invite her to my place". Its 3rd time now, few other hints i got too. I want to invite her round but i don't know how to ask. Every reason just sounds weird. Any suggestions?...
A. 8 February 2009: Could you not just say something like "do you wanna hang out sometime?" or suggest watching a movie or before a night out you could get together and have some drinks or something? (:
Just pluck up the courage! (:
Hope this helps.
xx... (read in full...)
How can I cheer up my man-hating friend on V-Day?
Q. i want to cheer up my friend who thinks all guys are evil. I've been there for her, and she just gets hurt by her bf's. She is now single, Valentines day coming up and i just want to make it special for her. What could i get her? I also need to ...
A. 8 February 2009: Just do something really normal. Like just hang out for the day or go to the cinema; try to get more mates along for it so it doesn't feel like a date.
I'm single and the thing I'm doing for Valentine's Day? Completely forgetting the day as it's ... (read in full...)
DearCupid had over one million people visit the site in January!
Q. I have just peeped at our visitor figures for January 2009, the month just gone, and I'm excited to see that DearCupid passed 1,000,000 (yes, one MILLION!) unique visitors/month for the first time. According to Google Analytics we had 1,040,812 ...
A. 3 February 2009: This site definately needs to win an award. I'm not ass kissing, but it simply is such a good site with some lovely people on it with some great advice!!! xx... (read in full...)
How do you know if you love your girlfriend?
Q. Hey I've been seeing my girlfriend for almost a month now, I realy like her and I think it could be long relationship as we have so much in common! But I keep thinking to myself, do I love her? Is it worth my while when I'm so young? Must I wait ...
A. 2 February 2009: Hey sweetie,
Well, it's great to hear that your relationship is going so well and that you're happy.
There's no real set description of what love is or how it should feel. Sitting it out? Are you too young? Just go what ever feels right and ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mum my 15 year old sister had sex?
Q. Hey, I recently wrote the article below but am now wondering if I should tell my mum that my sister had sex? I feel as though I should because I can't lie to my mum about my sister having had sex. I know my mum would get rather angry but she mi...
A. 2 February 2009: To be honest, if all your mother is going to do is get angry at your sister - I don't really see the point in her knowing. If your sister was pregnant, I would understand, but no harm has come from her having sex at the end of the day.
It would be... (read in full...)
Men making noise during sex
Q. To all the ladies out there, what do you think about men making noice during sex? Turn on or a turn off?...
A. 2 February 2009: I like panting - panting is good. ;)
I like noise when they come but too much is frightening.. Haha! xx... (read in full...)
Does period pain get less as you get older???
Q. Me and my sister get really bad period pain and we just sit around forlike 1 or 2 days and we always know when the other persons got her period, but I never know if moms got hers. I mean she doesn't like lay around all day or anything. I just wan...
A. 2 February 2009: I don't know if the pain gets any less worse, but perhaps you learn to tolerate it more?
Also, if your mom is on the pill that can sometimes stop period pains.
I started mine when I was 13, felt nothing and now they're worse than they were t... (read in full...)
I kiss a lad and now he doesn't talk to me
Q. me n me bf been going out for 5 months now. he hardly tlks to me and when he does tlk to me its usually about sex or me leaving him. I dnt wnt us to split up because I love this guy. He always ust to tell me he loves me but now he dunt he dunt ...
A. 2 February 2009: I'm only 3-5 years older than your goodself, sweetie, but one thing you have to learn quickly is that you can't let guys mess you around.
I know lovely, gorgeous girls who chase around guys who are not even half their standard.
He should tre... (read in full...)
Broken hearted and can't seem to mend
Q. the story is....i was with my ex for 7months, i was and still am head over heels for him, we are still good friends and i get on with the family really well. i was fine with the fact that we arnt togeather anymore, but a new girl has come on the ...
A. 2 February 2009: Sweetie, you're just gonna have to grit your teeth and see this through - he's moved on and so should you. Admittedly, he shouldn't run to you when everything goes wrong, it's wrong of him to do this but only you can tell him no.
Anyway, do you r... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I know that she's having an affair?
Q. i know my wife is havingan affair with a man where she works, should i tell her that i know?...
A. 23 November 2008: It depends if you intend to stay with her and get on with things. If you can cope with this by yourself and just wait for the affair to die down AND you want to stay with her, it would probably be wise not to say anything that could cause a conflict ... (read in full...)
How do you think my friend feels? He often mentions we slept together in the past.
Q. So i have a good friend who i slept with twise. A realationship at the time was off the cards, as we are two different people. We talked every day - via email,net or txt. We stoped talking to each other for about 6 months, my excuse for this w...
A. 23 November 2008: To be honest with you, sounds like you two are getting on famously!
I can tell he likes you, but perhaps a relationship would be better rather than just sex if he lives with you because that could make it really awkward the next day!
Hope it... (read in full...)
I just can't get over his past, am I being paranoid?
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and things were great, but we have recently started arguing all the time because of his past. I know it was before he met me but I cant get over it. His ex had an abortion which I'm extremely against, he ...
A. 22 November 2008: To be honest, I think you've just got to "test the water" so to speak. If you believe he's changed you've got to go on your instincts. It's unfair to bring up in an argument something that someone did before you even knew them or were associated ... (read in full...)
I can't go out with him as I can't do that to my parents.
Q. I am a muslim girl and 15 years old. This might sound stupid, but please read the whole story. 2 years ago I met this boy. I never liked anypne before, and wasn't very intrested in having a boyfriend but he was different. I started liking h...
A. 22 November 2008: Maybe you could talk to your parents about the issue? That's the only way to resolve it.
It's never a good idea to go behind your parents' backs when you still live at home with them - they will find out somehow & mums can read us like books!! ... (read in full...)
I have a terrible moral dilemma...
Q. I have a terrible moral dilemma. I will try to explain my situation, but I know, it's not easy. I live in a totally collapsed marriage, my children are all gown ups. Not independent, and causing lot's of headaches. I feel totally drained and exha...
A. 22 November 2008: First of all, suicide is never the best option over anything. As much as you dislike them right now, it will break your relatives hearts and no human being wants to do that. It seems like you just need space from everything. Do you feel claustr... (read in full...)
Losing extreme faith & trust in someone I thought I loved...what to do?
Q. Recently I've been having trouble with someone I met online who I was meant to meet up with soon to get closer/get to know better. Mind you this little relationship spark is long distance, and anyone who has negative responses towards "online ...
A. 22 November 2008: Your online relationship will be an exceptionally good reflection of how your real one will be. I met my boyfriend online and he was lovely on the internet and even better in real life!! xx... (read in full...)
Since we broke up, porn is doing nothing for me!
Q. OK, this is a bit of a strange question. Whenever I'm not in a relationship, I masturbate/watch porn with a normal frequency (say something slightly less than daily). When I'm in a relationship that drops significantly (maybe weekly or even more ...
A. 22 November 2008: Maybe you're a little upset about the break up and it's effecting your mood therefore it's not as easy to masturbate?
Personally, I masturbate so much more when I'm in a relationship because there's someone you know you can actually have sex with... (read in full...)
How can I help my pee shy girlfriend?
Q. What can I do to help my girlfriend who is very pee shy? This makes it very difficult to plan a day out going to the beach or to a concert or even to a long movie. When she gets home to her apartment, I have to wait outside so she can pee. Sometimes ...
A. 22 November 2008: I've heard about this, you can get some kind of help for it to solve the problem. It's quite common I believe. :)
Get her to chat to her doctor and just explain what's wrong. :)
xx... (read in full...)
Rushed into bed on the first date and now I think I've blown it...
Q. im a 18 year old guy and ive been on a first date with a 22 year old we got along fine but i rushed it too fast we ended up sharing a bed but we didnt have sex, alothe we dont mess around (foreplay). as you can imagine this killed the conversa...
A. 22 November 2008: A good way to find out would be just text him saying "Let me know when you're free for a drink" or whatever.. If you don't hear within like a week, then he's probably not because every decent person would text with a date or an apology for not being ... (read in full...)
Losing extreme faith & trust in someone I thought I loved...what to do?
Q. Recently I've been having trouble with someone I met online who I was meant to meet up with soon to get closer/get to know better. Mind you this little relationship spark is long distance, and anyone who has negative responses towards "online ...
A. 22 November 2008: Sweetie, I'd just let him go. If you allow him to mess you about in the early days, how can you expect it to change in the later ones?
If it's long distance you will need to trust him so so much, honey, and I think that's already been destroye... (read in full...)
Do you fess up to cheating and get dumped? or try and pretend it never happened?
Q. so i cheated on my boyfriend ,i had sex with my exboyfriend. it was just all in the moment, i know it was wrong and i shouldnt have done it. i love my boyfriend now, and i dont want to lose him. its only been 2months but i dont want to tell him, bc ...
A. 22 November 2008: Personally, in my experience, it'd be better to dump your current boyfriend now and not tell him. If you tell him you are just going to hurt and humiliate him and you shouldn't stay with him because the guilt will eat you up inside, my sweet, and ... (read in full...)
How do I tell if it meant anything?
Q. I was at a party yesterday and met this guy. I known who he was but not know him to talk to but my friends use to be really good mates with him. We got talking and then I sat on his knee and then we went outside and started kissing. We went into ...
A. 22 November 2008: I think you should meet up with him without any alcohol involved for starters! :p
Well, if you think that you're replacing the guy you like with him, then maybe you are? It sounds here like you're trying to convince yourself that you liked th... (read in full...)
Is it okay to take two packs of the pill back to pack so it covers a particular week?
Q. Hiya! Just a quick question, I've heard than if on the contraceptive pill, you can take two packs (I'm on microgynon 30) back to back.. I was just wondering after this time, do you leave it a week or two weeks before starting the next pack? ...
A. 15 September 2008: Thanks very much for your help! :) xx... (read in full...)
Are there any suggestions that could help me get rid off my scars?
Q. I have a problem...not so much about a relationship but will be affected some day.... i used to self harm when i was a teenager and although i have completely recovered from them problems now i have a perminant reminder....i self harmed on my sto...
A. 5 September 2008: For the scars, you could try using Bio-Oil to make them heal faster. But no one now is going to hold what you did as a teenager against you. For the hair you could wax them off - admittedly a little painful but it should work. Or hair removal cre... (read in full...)
We had unprotected sex and he came in me but some of the fluid came out. Am I safe?
Q. ok i had my period two weeks ago and i had unprotected sex yesterday and he came inside of me and some of it came out. does it all come out or doess some stay in and does that cause me to get pregnant?...
A. 5 September 2008: How can you possibly be having sex when you don't even know the answer to this question?!? If he came inside you, regardless if some came or anything, you could be pregnant. Get yourself down the drugstore, get a morning after pill and a pregn... (read in full...)
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