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| | elliebellie's profile:hi im ellie. im 13 years old and i live in the uk. although i dont have that much experience as an agony aunt, i hope to give my views and opinions in my answers. i also use the site for my problems, which helps a lot. i have been through some patchy times in my life but im slowly getting over them and im nearly free of them. if u leave an answer on one of my questions, you will always get a little note back saying thanks... :) smile and the world will smile with you
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He wants to have webcam sex. How can I tell him that I'm uncomfortable with showing my body?...
Q. I've been dating my online boyfriend for 5 months now, and he wants to have webcam sex. I'm willing, and I'm up for it but I feel insecure about my body. I'm slightly over-weight and since he hasn't seen me in real life yet he's unaware of that. ...
A. 14 July 2008: hi there
first of all sending pictures over the internet to guys will always be risky whatever they may say. im happy with my body but i would be unhappy to have it on webcam. one important thing you could do which may make you feel more comf... (read in full...)
I was raped by my father's boss, what do I do?
Q. Please someone has to help me. I can't live with this anymore. when i was 10 I was raped by my Fathers Boss. His boss is also one of his good friends. My Dad and his co-workers had a party to celebrate their works aniversary. All my Dads fr...
A. 26 June 2008: i am truly sorry for what happened and i dont feel that i have the knowledge and experience to answer this question or give advice to you, but i know one person who specialises in rape cases and you can email her and shell reply within 24 hours. ... (read in full...)
Is he embarassed to hold my hand? He says he will but never does!
Q. hi, well I know it sais I'm like 16-18 or something but I am not I am 13-15 ...anyway here goes I have a boyfriend and we have been seeing each other for about a month now, I have very strong feelings for him and he's told me he feels the same, th...
A. 12 May 2008: hey hun!
i think a lot of girls forget that a lot of the time they leave a lot of the touchy stuff up to the guys. I think for them it can sometimes be nervwracking and embarassing. and it takes up a lot of their courage. so try to understand why ... (read in full...)
I think I have to dump her...what's the best way to do it?
Q. Hello. Ive been seeing my girlfriend for nearly two years and I think I have to dump her. Things that shes done in the past that I just cant get out of my head and I have seriously tried to so i think the only way out is to break up. She r...
A. 28 March 2008: hi
this guy did this to me and i thought it was quite a good way. never use the words : dumped, over, finished and never offend her. just say calmy i think we need to talk. i dont want to make you feel bad, but i just dont fancy you anymore. if y... (read in full...)
He dated me just to get at my younger mate and cheated, what can I do to move on??
Q. Hi, I'm 17 and i know this 19 year old boy for over a year and i really liked him. We went out for 3 weeks but my 14 year old mate went out with him before me. It lasted 3 days so me and this boy spent a lot of time together and then he asked me...
A. 28 March 2008: hii hun
this has just happened to me, so i know how youre feeling. this guy just thought i would be okay if he just dropped it on me. in front of him i acted okay but i was so scared becasue i felt so upset and depressed. time is a healer. im s... (read in full...)
Please can you offer your support and prayers to help me and my mother through her illness...
Q. I am not asking for advice but more for your prayers. My mother is very ill, and we don't know exactly what is causing her illness. She is going into hospital tomorrow, I am an only child, we've been through think and thin I cannot begin to think ...
A. 28 March 2008: hi
just to let you know your mum and everyone around her will be in my prayers until she has made full recovery. i have recently dicsovered G_d and im so glad i can help in a way whcih feels so small for me but will make a great difference for you.... (read in full...)
Why am I feeling so low?
Q. at the moment i have been feeling so low. i have friends but i dont want to be near them and i feel really distant from everybody in general. i dont want to get close to anyone and the littlest things upset me. i am 14 years old and this has been...
A. 24 February 2008: hi everyone thanks for all your great answers x... (read in full...)
I'm tired of always helping things my husband can't do.
Q. I'm danielle,I live here in south korea and I have a husband who has disability so the problems is I'm tired of always helping things my husband can't do....
A. 14 February 2008: hi hun
first of all i think you are a real inspiration to all 'carers' looking after someone disabled. yes it will become hard and you will come to a point where you want to give up. i would try and talk to a counsellor who can sit down and talk... (read in full...)
Why do I feel really sad???
Q. Can somebody help me? I really don't know what's up with me. I feel so low and empty. I find myself wishing I could make everybody around me happy, to see them content - I know this is an impossible wish. Over the last 3 years my strong and bubb...
A. 13 February 2008: hi ive finally found someone who is just like me. i feel everyday is like a struggle for me. nothing makes me happy but i love making other people happy. i feel my friends really arent my friends. the only place i feel happy and content is in ... (read in full...)
How can I bring pads without her knowing?
Q. I got my first period 2 months ago and still didn't tell my mom because she goes and tell everyone which I hate but I am going on vaction with my family next week and I am due for my period while we are gone. How do I bring pads witout her knowing?...
A. 10 February 2008: hi first of all whatever people say it is kind of your choice what you tell your mum and what you dont. I'm just warning you that in the end you'll have to tell your mum or she'll find out before. What you need to do is organise a shopping trip ... (read in full...)
Does he think our relationship is more friendly
Q. hi i dont want to sound paranoid. but my bf has myspace and recently my friend left comments on his page with loads of kisses and he replied back saying something but with laods of kisses. i found that he normally gives me more than one kiss whe...
A. 10 February 2008: hey thanks to the person above he puts one kiss of eveeryone elses...i dunno she just told me like yesterday (my friend) that they call each other everyday...i dunno xxx... (read in full...)
Help me please and quickly!
Q. Please help me and fast!!! I'm going to the movies with this girl I really like but I'm going to be the only guy there and she's coming with a bunch of her friends. What do I do?!!!!...
A. 10 February 2008: Hi, from my experience and my friends, when i first told them i was going out they wanted to meet my bf so badly: that's probably what this girls friends want. The main thing is to be extra nice to the girl u like in front of her friends. I don't... (read in full...)
Deep throat... why do they make a fuss over it?
Q. Is deep throat really so difficult? Am I getting it wrong here, when I think it's just taking a man's penis a little further into your mouth? I don't understand why people make such a huge deal of it, is there something I'm missing?...
A. 9 February 2008: hi this sounds very brutal but some women find it uncomfortable to have a man's penis rammed down their throat and for some it can make them gag. so i think your answers there xxx... (read in full...)
Finally met him in person, and he came out as very shy and reserved. How can I make him open up more?
Q. Well i meet up with this guy a few days ago, we have talked over the computer for a while and got on well though i know when you meet someone in person they can be very different.Well he was very shy and nervous and would hardly look me in the face ...
A. 9 February 2008: hi this guy sounds really shy. the only way you can open him up is to talk. talk about sports he likes. laugh a lot but not too much. if you too serious then that might make him more nervous. with time he will become more open with you. ... (read in full...)
Can I get my new piercings wet?
Q. hey i got my ears pierced (one on each ear) a couple of hours ago. i know that i have to clean it with this special lotion, but can i now have a soak in the bath/ a shower and get my ears/ new piercings wet? what are the rules on this? pl...
A. 31 January 2008: hey hun!
well first of all clean your ears with the lotion once in the morning and once before you go to bed. sure you can get them wet but just dont take them out until 6/8 weeks has passed by.
if youre doing sport get special tape to put over... (read in full...)
An on line test said I have severe depression. What can I do?
Q. hi i took one of those tests online to say whether i had depression or not. i have been feeling really bad for about 2 years or so. it suddenly got really bad. the test online, which came from a very reliable online doctors site, said i had majo...
A. 30 January 2008: hi guys. i dont know if i said this in my last mail, but im 13 and i dont think i have enough courage to go and see my doctor or even talk to my parents. i self harmed for about 3 months and when my mum found out she told me to stop and shouted... (read in full...)
Could it be depression? The past two years seem to have mounted up, I don't know where I'm standing.
Q. hi guys. i always rely on this site to help me with minor problems but recently so much as been mounting up and it has turned into one big problem. here it is.....: first of all: i dont know whether i have depression or not but i go through ...
A. 16 January 2008: hiya rcn! sorry im a bit slow at replying.
i can relate to your daughter though definetly. even the littlest stupidest things can get me down. im not that sensitive though and its only sometimes it happens. yeah the bully was having a crap time... (read in full...)
Could it be depression? The past two years seem to have mounted up, I don't know where I'm standing.
Q. hi guys. i always rely on this site to help me with minor problems but recently so much as been mounting up and it has turned into one big problem. here it is.....: first of all: i dont know whether i have depression or not but i go through ...
A. 16 January 2008: hi everyone!
thanks for reading my question.
xapathyxrebornx: thanks for sharing your experience. i know its difficult to suggest stuff for me but thanks anyway for trying.
rcn: thanks for your advice. my relationship with my parents is o... (read in full...)
I'm depressed and I don't like myself! What should I do?
Q. I don't really like myself, even at the age of 20 and when I'm at university. Last night I left my friends at a bar as I was depressed because I hate myself. I even had a conversation with my dad earlier on today about how I should like myself and ...
A. 15 January 2008: hi hun!
ive been going through this. youre lucky that your parents understand. its only my dad that has a slight inclination that somethings up. did something happen a while back? or did you go through an unhappy time in your life? i find cert... (read in full...)
Confused Teen...am I bisexual?
Q. hi, ive been really unhappy latley ive got very close to a friend of mine but i feel i might have feelings for her. i have never had feelings for a girl befor and i am very confused. i think i might be bisexual. if any1 can give me any advice it ...
A. 15 January 2008: hi hun!
you must be feeling pretty bad. you know with all your emotions mixed up. sometimes it can be a phase that people go through and they come out of it wondering why they ever thought like that. have you known this girl long? if not then... (read in full...)
My sister's bf's daughter (same age as me)...and I'm in love with her. Is this wrong?
Q. Hi I need some advice My half-sister is about 19 years older than me and has got a new boyfreind. He has a daughter around the same age as me. My sister thought it be good if we swapped msn addresses. So we got talking and we met up before christ...
A. 15 January 2008: hey hun!
you cant just force yourself to think one thing to make yourself do another. eg. you said you think youre falling out of love with your girlfriend and falling in love with this girl. i would leave it and carry on with your girl... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my bestfriend but I always end up getting her back with my mate.
Q. I have always liked my bestfriend. She's been my closest friend for almost 5 years now. 2 years ago she asked for one of my mates number and since then they have been together. They always fight and break-up and i always help to get them back on ...
A. 15 January 2008: hi hun!
this is one of those things where you should just keep quiet. blurting out your feelings when theyre still together could be awkward. its great that youre there for a friend and you need to let them know youre there for them. that way if s... (read in full...)
What happened years ago kills me inside and I just cant seem to get over it.
Q. Where to start... I'm 26 y/o. I have been with my husband for 9 years and married for 3 years. We started dating when we were 17. When we were 21, my husband (boyfriend at the time) starting acting strange and distant. I learned that he was becoming...
A. 15 January 2008: hey hun!
*hug*
well first of all, if you keep 'stirring' up everything that happened in the past you will get nowhere. i can understand your curiosity, but you need to let it go. you have children/a child so if you bring it up you could be putti... (read in full...)
I have met someone else...but I really couldnt cope with somebody breaking my heart right now.
Q. I have met a new girl recently who I am beginning to like. My last girlfriend hurt me so badly it really messed me up for a long time. With this girl - I think she likes me (she flirts alot and makes suggestions so at least I think she is attracted ...
A. 15 January 2008: hey
first of all when entering any new relationship you have to take some sort of chance. she might display signs in her nature that makes you think shes like the girl you knew before, but what ive learnt with a lot of people is that when you get ... (read in full...)
She admits she doesn't call people..so does this mean I will do all the work of calling? Advice?
Q. I'm a lesbian and I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks, things have gotten fairly intense, we get along, laugh, but we havent had sex yet. She said to me she is a person who "doesnt think" that her head is "not thinking" most of the time, ...
A. 15 January 2008: hiya!
first of all: in any new relationship each person will do things differently and they will adjust small things in their life to suit the other person. i would just give her a call and see where things are. she might change for you, you neve... (read in full...)
Is it okay to be 'just' friends with a guy who wants to date me?
Q. hi i have a boyf of 3 years who i love very much. but i have a male friend who i get along really well with, i dont have any romantic feelings for him but i know he does for me, but he knows i am with someone. we txt alot and see eachother on nights ...
A. 15 January 2008: hi. basschick is completely right. whatever you tell your boyfriend and however much he trusts you, you are leading this guy on. it doesnt matter if the two of you dont go out alone. texting when you know this guy has feelings for you is not ... (read in full...)
What do I get my boyfriend for Valentines Day?
Q. little bit early,but i have no idea what to get my boyfriend for valentines day! we have been dating for over 6 months now,will be 7 months by valentines day,do you think i should get him something romantic, or something else like ..dvds or cds? eee ...
A. 15 January 2008: hi hun!
well my bf is like my best friend and weve been going out for about 4 months. he told me that giving chocolates as a gift is a gift you give someone you dont know that well. im not saying you shouldnt give him chocolates, but im sayi... (read in full...)
MArriage troublesI I need love 'preserver' to stay afloat, Please help
Q. I've been with my wife from the time I graduated high school and I am turning 25 in April. We used to be the couple that everyone spoke about, we were both in great shape, we were very intimate and wild. Over the 7 years we have been together my ...
A. 15 January 2008: it sounds like your wife has depression. the more she leaves herself in this state, the worse shell get. pardon this image, but imagine your wife is a pan of hot water with a lid on. the more the pan is heated (the more your wife goes through ... (read in full...)
I'm going mad! I love this other woman and I love my wife...help me!
Q. Help Im going crazy Im a 47 year old married man with 4 kids. About 6 months ago I meet a lady shes 35 years old 3 kids I meet her at work her husband had just walked out on her and I was concerned about her there was nothing sexual about it I was ...
A. 15 January 2008: first of all. if i was your wife and found you had been calling this other woman you met at work, at night for one or two hours, i would be seriously suspicious. i would wonder what else would be going on.
walk away. if she says she loves you ... (read in full...)
She hates me and puts the whole family through hell! What is happening to my sister?
Q. I am completely confused about this, I was wondering if someone can give me some ideas about why this is happening. Four years ago my sister had an abusive relationship and shortly afterwards she developed an eating disorder. She almost died from...
A. 15 January 2008: depression and an eating disorders are a lethal combination. the person suffereing can go through unrecognisable and uncontrollable mood swings. their moods swings are like yoyos. they go up really quickly and come down just as fast. your sister ... (read in full...)
Do boyfriends discuss their relationships in their friends' circle, as girls do? What about?
Q. hi this is for guys about 13-20 with girlfriends. do you discuss your girlfriends with your mates? i know girls talk about their boyfriends, how much they like them and stuff. but do boys do the same? and do boys comment on their mates girl...
A. 14 January 2008: hiya people! thanks for all your lovely tips and advice!! love you all thanks again lol ellie xxx... (read in full...)
I feel so alone, and like nobody pays attention to me. I can't stop crying. What can I do?
Q. Recently, I've started feeling depressed quite a lot. Just a few nights ago, I couldn't stop crying, and I didn't see the point in my life. I'm in a relationship with a really great guy, but when we argue, or something comes between us, then I j...
A. 10 January 2008: hi hun!
*virtual hug*
i know exactly what youre going through. ive been through it for two years. now im finally free.
please talk to me
ask me for my msn
lol
ellie
xxx... (read in full...)
How do you know if you are in love?
Q. hiya! i was just wondering: how do you know if you are really in love? cus the guy im with well i dunno if i love him. ive been with him for about 6 months. i dont really feel i have opened up but i want to know if theres a point in a rela...
A. 8 January 2008: hi guys!
thanks so much
so even a little gesture can make you aware? never knew that
thanks guys
luv u all
lol
ellie
xxx... (read in full...)
I thought we were both virgins, but she isnt , can we still have a future?
Q. I am just about to get married, and I am still a virgin. I just found out my future wife has had sex with a couple guys before me. I was hurt when i found this out...and still am...because I was expecting her to be a virgin too... I love her very ...
A. 7 January 2008: hi
first of all you need to remember that you love her.
i think you will have to let go of the fact that she isnt a virgin. i understand that you would feel hurt because she lied to you.
everyone is entitled to someone they love. some people ... (read in full...)
I have no friends, I'm so unhappy
Q. I'm only 13 years old(girl) and I wanna run away because I can't take my life anymore. I'm really young and I feel like I have no friends. I'm sometimes alone at school. What do I do?...
A. 7 January 2008: hun
please mail me
or mail me and ask for my msn
ive been through what your going through
i no how u feel
xxxx... (read in full...)
Am I being to foward? Is there any other way to be with him?
Q. Alright, Tuesday, I'm to see my crush I'm fairly sure he likes me. I've talked to him before, but I need a way to really get to know him. He always looks me in the eyes for what seems like forever any time we even see each other. I've talked to his ...
A. 7 January 2008: hi hun!
this sounds just like me!
well i think its less nerve racking if you go with your friends.
my bf was suddenly really himself when his mate and my mate came to the cinema with us.
we sat together at the cinema and found it easier to cuddle... (read in full...)
How can I show my love for him wothout actually saying it?
Q. I've been going out with a guy for about 5 months now, and it's got to the stage where I'm fairly sure it's love. However, I'm not sure I'm ready to actually say the words yet, but I was wondering, what everyone thinks are the best ways to SHOW ...
A. 7 January 2008: hi hun!
im having the exact same problem.
ive been with this guy for about 6 months. i dont think i can say the words yet and i dont wnat anything sexual cus im still young. ive found that holding hands is meant to do something for you two. a ... (read in full...)
He sold me his phone and we kind of 'clicked'. Why haven't I heard from him in two days?
Q. Dear Agony Aunt, I have been single for a year now. The other day I called my friend to see a phone that she had for sale. She told me that a friend of a freind had the phone, but that he would call me and meet me with the phone. He did call me a...
A. 7 January 2008: hi hun!
dw when i first went out with my bf i never heard from him. he was too shy to text me he sed later. which now i know is true.
2 days is fine for him not contacing you. maybe you should ask to meet up.
hope this helps
please feel f... (read in full...)
I got overly-anxious over a rape scene I saw in a movie! Why did I feel that way?
Q. I currently watched the movie Rob Zombies Halloween. I'm not very good with horror movies, but this one did not bother me as much, although the only thing that did make me feel like screaming gave me anxiety, was the rape scene. I am ver...
A. 7 January 2008: hi hun!
i think some things mentally touch people. if that makes sense.
when i watched pan's labryinth this guy took a hammer and broke this guys fingers. i felt really upset for quite a long time. you have to remember that it is only a movie. ... (read in full...)
How can I get to be more confident?
Q. hi, ive been going out with this really nice, really good looking girl for around a month now, and ive tried to step the relationship up, but i find myself to nervous to kiss her and so all we ever do is hold hands etc... is there any advice...
A. 6 January 2008: hi hun!
im 13 too and have just started going out so i no how ur feeling.
hav u tried kissing her on the cheek? i find thats quite nice. at the end of the date hug each other, say bye and while you're hugging give her a kiss on the cheek. ... (read in full...)
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