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Hey! Im 20 and living in the sunny (ahem) UK and since leaving home and moving to university I feel like ive grown up alot. Im studying Law so whilst Ive got a "mature" side, I still love to have fun and acting like a big kid! I like to think Im ok at giving advice so fingers crossed I can help some of you!!

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I'm a girl--is it normal that I like lesbian porn?

Q.   I'm a female--is it normal for me to love and get very turned on by lesbian porn?...

A.   27 June 2007: theres nothing wrong with it (as long as its not children) and it doesnt necessarily mean ur bisexual or gay, its just what turns u on. Everyone is different and gets aroused by different things and like flower girl said, theres no such thing as ... (read in full...)

Is there anyway to tell if your girlfriend is faking an orgasm?

Q.   I've recently read quite a lot of questions from women about faking orgasms so I was just wondering if there is anyway to tell if a girl is faking it? Especially physical signs, because I want to make sure I really please my girlfriend....

A.   27 June 2007: Every orgasm is unique but there are 5 main things that physically happen although some of them are more difficult to spot, especially if u get “lost in the moment” :-). 1) The inner two thirds of the vagina swells and becomes darker and the clit... (read in full...)

We're going to have sex for the first time this weekend--how do I make it good for her?

Q.   Hey guys, I'm 25 and am dating a gorgeous girl who's 21. She's perfect for me and we've decided that we're ready to start sleeping together. This weekend we're gonna have sex for the first time but I'm really nervous because it's been a while fo...

A.   26 June 2007: Just relax! Performance anxiety isn't pretty and can take the fun out of sex. Plus too much anxiety might mean u cant perform at all if u get my drift. Take it easy, and lower your expectations. First-time sex with a new partner is more about ... (read in full...)

I faked an orgasm to please him now I don't know if I should do it again

Q.   Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months (I'm 22, he's 25) and we started to have sex a month ago. I enjoy the sex but I haven't had an orgasm. He said last week that he would like it if I showed him when I was having one because he likes to know ...

A.   26 June 2007: Faking it is usually a bad idea because if he just isn't pushing the right buttons, faking it gives him the false impression that he's doing everything right. Pretending you're enjoying it 'trains' him to keep on doing stuff that just isn't turning ... (read in full...)

I'm kind of embarrassed to ask, but how do I give him a hand job?

Q.   Okay, so I've been dating this guy for several months, and he and I definately have very strong feelings fro each other. We were friends long before we were dating, so we know each other pretty well. Lately, we've been getting more...passionate, I ...

A.   26 June 2007: hey hun i dont want to lecture u as thats not what uve come onto this site for so if u honestly think ur ready and am comfortable to do it and ur not being presured into it then u should get him to show u what he likes. for other tips theres this ... (read in full...)

I've never orgasmed with a man, only a vibrator; I've started faking it

Q.   I need sex help. I currently have a sexual relationship with someone I'm really attracted to, but I can never seem to orgasm. I've only been with two men and I couldn't orgasm with either of them. I don't think I'v even come close. I use a ...

A.   25 June 2007: Most women can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation as I think its something like only one in three women can orgasm through penetration alone which may explain why u can orgasm with a vibrator but not with ur boyfriend. Maybe u could try ... (read in full...)

I've never had an orgasm even though I've had 8 lovers

Q.   I need help, Im, 25 and Ive never had an orgasm , Ive only been in 2 serious relationships but ive been with about 8 guys so I dont know what the problem is?...

A.   25 June 2007: Most women find it difficult to orgasm so ur not alone!! But soulsista is completely right - u need to find out for urself what turns u on and then u can go from there. Every womans body responds differently to different types of stimulation and sex ... (read in full...)

I'm on a trip around the world and worried I'm drinking (far) too much!

Q.   I just cant stop drinking... Im on a years trip around the world..trip of a lifetime yes? Im ruining it ...I just cant stop... I dont really want to go home just now but I cant find a programme in English to help me... any ideas? For the first ...

A.   25 June 2007: go to the nearest doctors or medical centre (any local person will be able to tell u where this is) and there will be someone there who speaks english who can help u. u can get leaflets and information on english programmes to help u. also the ... (read in full...)

Should I have sex with him even although I'm only 15 and don't want to yet?

Q.   i have been wiv my boyfriend for about 2 years and we havn't had sex yet because i think am too young (am 15) we're both virgins and i think he wants to have sex do u think i should or not even though i dont want to yet?...

A.   15 June 2007: no hun, the fact that uve said u dont want to yet shows that u shouldnt have sex with him as ur not ready. only do it when ur ready, never let anyone force u or guilt-trip u into doing anything for them. the fact that uve been with eachothe... (read in full...)

Periods have gotten erratic...should I be worried?

Q.   Hi, this is quite a personal woman problem. Well, i usually have my period about the 26th of every month and usually on for 4 days. Last month i was on for 7 days. And i have came on today (13th), i am usually good as clock work. It is getting me...

A.   15 June 2007: it could be down to a number of things really, things like a change of diet, stress, having a lot on ur mind and worrying about things are usually the main reasons why periods start to get erratic. the more u worry about why its happening, the more ... (read in full...)

Do teen girls like 'beefy' boys?

Q.   Do you think there are any teenage girls that find beefy teenagers a turn on ? ...

A.   15 June 2007: it depends what u mean by beefy really but when i was younger i preferred guys with a bit of meat on them to skinny guys (i still do) as they're better to cuddle up to and its just a personal preference - i find them more attractive. but like the ... (read in full...)

How can I lose weight? Everything I try is just not working!

Q.   i am 18, i have been on a diet for about 3 months now! i eat under a 1000 calories a day! run about an hour each day and do light weights, sit up etc..(well not eveyday i do miss a few) but i dont seem to have lost any weight!!..i realy would like ...

A.   15 June 2007: hey hun, the other posters are totally right, less than 1000 calories a day isnt enough!! i think the recommended daily intake for women is 2000 and men 2500 (but im not 100% sure). u need to eat more because if u dont eat enough, ur body isnt get... (read in full...)

Obsessed with taking my wife's 17 year old sister to bed!

Q.   I am happily married,,my wife is 26yrs old and I am 46.The problem is that I have this obsession with my wife's sister,,she is 17yrs old I want to take her to bed and she seems to have feelings for me as well.What do I do?...

A.   15 June 2007: if u value ur marriage or truly love ur wife then u wont do anything and u wont act on these feelings or tell anyone about them as secrets have a nasty habit of getting out, even if u tell someone u trust. if u seriously cant get these feelings... (read in full...)

I'm unattractive--is there anything I can do to get noticed?

Q.   i don't feel attractive! ive never had a gf or anything, i think it is because im not attractive. im 5ft and 14 stone. is there anything i can do 2 get noticed ?...

A.   15 June 2007: the most attractive part of any person is their personality and maybe ur not showing it to its full potential. be confident and let ur personality shine when ur around women and talking to them and they will soon start showing an interest. but ... (read in full...)

Should I tell him I like him too?

Q.   ok im really confused about my feelins. a friend recently told me he fancied me. i was unsure at first if i felt the same but then the more i spoke 2 him the more i realized i did like him and i told him i liked him back. But then the otha ni...

A.   30 April 2007: Dont tell him just yet because if ur still unsure of how u feel, theres every chance u could tell him u like him just to change ur mind again and if he really likes u, it will be really unfair on him. Plus if ur friends, the more u mess with his ... (read in full...)

I can't be pregnant can I???

Q.   Help! I'm 14, and my period is 8 days late. I haven't had sex, but masturbate regularly. I can't be pregnant, can I? What else could there be wrong?...

A.   5 April 2007: its normal for a girls period to be irregular and all over the place at your age so dont worry hun! Its just your hormones messing about and the more you stress about it, the more your period could be delayed so relax!! x... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to fancy somebody else's wife?

Q.   Is it wrong to fancy someone else's wife? ...

A.   7 March 2007: I agree with CD; fancying someone is fine as we cant help who we are attracted to but it becomes wrong when you act on those feelings by either telling them or their partner, and/or openly flirting with them, as it can put the person who is out of ... (read in full...)

Got a party this weekend, but suddenly broke out in spots!! Any ideas for quick reduction!!

Q.   I've got a party coming up this weekend, and have suddenly broken out in spots! Anyone got any tips to get rid of them, or at least reduce the redness, quickly?...

A.   7 March 2007: sounds strange but theres a cream called Sudocrem thats used mainly for eczema. After u take off ur makeup at night, rub in a thin layer of cream and its amazing how different ur face is in the morning. It gets rid of the redness and dries out ur ... (read in full...)

Help!!!! Can someone give me some tips on kissing?

Q.   PLEASE !!! please will someone give me tips on kissing! I am going out with a guy, he is my first boyfriend. We kiss really often, but i think i suck at it. In fact.. i konw I suck at it!!! Maybe theres 2 much tongue?? must u use a lot of tongue? ...

A.   6 March 2007: theres no right or wrong way of kissing, everyone prefers different things and i agree with missblondie; practice makes perfect!! just relax and have (safe!!) fun with your boyfriend and just think to yourself ... if you really did suck at kissing, ... (read in full...)

I am 14 and never had a boyfriend but my friends have one, please give me advice on what to do?

Q.   Hi, im 14 and i've never had a boyfriend. I dont feel as if i'm ready to have one right now as i'm shy, but i feel pressurised to as my two best friends have one. I dont think i will ever get a boyfriend as i am too shy and not really pretty. Please ...

A.   6 March 2007: Hi hun, you've got nothing to worry or presure yourself about. I dont mean to sound patronising but lots of girls your age feel the same. I didnt get my first boyfriend untill I was 16 and although I felt just like you up untill then, im glad i ... (read in full...)

Can anybody help with baby names??

Q.   I need some suggestions on baby names. I`m due at the end of the month and its a boy! I want something different but not CRAZY different! HELP!...

A.   6 March 2007: how about Brooke or Madison for a girl? Toby or Finley for a boy? congratulations!! let us know what you decide on!! xxx... (read in full...)

When my girlfriend orgasms she never releases any gooey stuff! Has she really orgasmed???

Q.   Hi I have a problem regarding the female orgasm. My current girlfriend has NEVER released any cum/liquid etc when she orgasms. She believes that she has orgasmed but she has never released any liquid/goo stuff in any of her relationships. ...

A.   15 February 2007: It varys with each person. Some girls will only get wet whilst others actually have a form of female ejaculation. Its the same with orgasms, some girls only last around 5 seconds whilst others can last up to 30. There is no such thing as right or ... (read in full...)

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