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Hi,

Ever since I can remember people have always fascinated me. I seemed to be very adept at solving people’s “life” problems and I never tired of the constant flow of friends asking for my help. I have always been a great listener and have a lot of patience and empathy for people and have written for advice columns in the past.

I am a Relationships Councillor and Life Coach and have a special aptitude with people. I have been active on this site for a number of years. I'm very much a positive thinker and hate being around negative people. Life is for living, it's too short to moan all the time. I'm determined, very spiritual, grounded, independent, strong willed and love life. Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.

If you realized just how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought. The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.

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We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...

A. 29 October 2007: I'm so pleased for you. Things seem to be coming on heaps and bounds for you in this new relationship. And you're right, your ex was more familiar to you and 3 years is a long time but now you've moved on and seem to have found yourself a lovely ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 18 September 2007: I'm so pleased for you. It's a true saying, when one door closes another one opens. Enjoy being in each others company and getting to know one another and who knows what might happen. Again, well done! Keep us posted. Eve... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 16 August 2007: I'm sorry it didn't work out the way you wanted it to but at least she was honest with you and you can put closure on it now and move on. Things WILL get better, there are plenty more fish in the sea as the saying goes and with every day that ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 10 August 2007: You see, she's beginning to notice a difference in you. Continue with your Counselling, you'll come on heaps and bounds and most importantly continue to have a positive attitude towards life. Remember, YOU are in charge of your own destiny so get ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 6 August 2007: You will have times like that but hey, you'll kiss a lot of frogs before you find your princess. It may be your ex it may not be and if you're to be together then you will be. Just take one day at a time, think positive, get on with life and if ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 24 July 2007: Hey I'm so pleased for you! I would say you have a definite admirer there. She seems just as keen on you as you do on her so well done there! See? Your positive thinking has payed off for you. The world doesn't end when your ex wants to call it ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 17 July 2007: You're missing her and thinking negatively now. Just get on with things and keep a little bit of her in your heart then when December comes meet up again like you both agreed. A lot can happen between now and then but it will certainly test you ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 15 July 2007: She will be wanting the break for all of the things that you mention, she'll be wanting to test her feelings for you. I do believe in fate and think that if something's meant to be then it will be, it will find YOU so if you ARE both meant to be ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 12 July 2007: You sound far more positive and relaxed about things now. I smiled when I read your comments as you seem far more focussed on your way ahead now, I'm so please for you. Like you said, you can both live your lives with freedom of choice. Keep ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 9 July 2007: It's not fair of her to keep on playing with your emotions, mentioning things in the past (the towel incident for example). She is more or less putting the guilt on YOU here saying she felt pressurised but that to me is an excuse. You get on with ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 9 July 2007: I am so sorry that the decision she made wasn't the one you hoped for. Things happen in our lives for a reason and maybe you two just weren't mean to be although you won't see it this way at the moment. Unfortunately we can't make someone love us ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 6 July 2007: Okay, I read over all of the posts again just to clarify things in my mind. This woman is crazy on you BUT she doesn't want to give you her all and you leave her again. In your very first post in this thread you say this - "Leaving the home has ... (read in full...)

Is it in his kiss?

Q. If your boyfriend says he loves you but doesn't show it... is he saying it cause he means it or just cause he thinks you want to hear it?...

A. 4 July 2007: Was he getting reassurance from you that you felt all of this too? If not, then me might just have lost faith and gave up trying. Eve... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 4 July 2007: Here are some sites you can look at, one is to help you "Find Yourself" and the others are to help build up your confidence and self esteem. http://www.wikihow.com/Find-Yourself http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Confidence http://pi... (read in full...)

Been married for 20 years, but feel it's over....what can I do?

Q. i need help been married for 20yrs, and i feel like its over what do i do next?...

A. 3 July 2007: Why do you think it's over? Have your husband and you stopped communicating? Are you like passing ships in the night? Give me some more information as to WHY you feel your marriage is in trouble and I'll see if I can help you some more. Eve... (read in full...)

My text-on-the-side has stopped texting--what gives?

Q. Let me start by saying - I'm married - but I love attention from attractive men. Recently, I have been text messaging with a man - he sent naughty pictures of himself and he wanted me to send pictures of myself (which I wouldn't). We'd been tex...

A. 3 July 2007: You have both done as much as you can together without getting physical. He asked you to send pictures of him and you wouldn't so my guess is he's gone off the boil and found some other girl who he can either be physical with or who will send him ... (read in full...)

I can't get past her past--help!

Q. Hi everyone, I've been seeing my girlfriend now for about 18 months - we're very much in love, and are now living together. So, all good on that front! But...my problem is that, at the start of our relationship she used to talk about her "past...

A. 3 July 2007: The past is just that... THE PAST! Forget it and move FORWARD! No one can change their past but they can learn from it and move on and that's what YOU need to do here. Your girlfriend has obviously felt comfortable enough to be able to talk with ... (read in full...)

What does a comfortable man look like?

Q. What are signs that a man is comfortable in his relationship and how soon into the relationship should this happen?...

A. 3 July 2007: lol I can see where DV1 is coming from but there are other ways you can tell when a man is comfortable in a relationship with a woman. He can talk to her about absolutely anything, he doesn't mind if she goes out with friends because he trusts her, ... (read in full...)

Is it in his kiss?

Q. If your boyfriend says he loves you but doesn't show it... is he saying it cause he means it or just cause he thinks you want to hear it?...

A. 3 July 2007: Everyone shows their feelings differently and in my experience a man finds it harder to say these 3 little words than a woman does. Maybe he doesn't show it in a tactile way but he might show it in other ways ie making sure you get home safely, ... (read in full...)

I don't know how to work the relationship thing--help!

Q. I have told my boyfriend that I feel like things have changed ...but he tells me nothing has. Why do I still feel like something is wrong? It still feels like he is not telling me something...or am I just looking for something? I am new at the ...

A. 3 July 2007: How long have you and your boyfriend been together? WHAT do you feel has changed? What is your gut feeling telling you? You need to give more details before I can advise you more. Eve... (read in full...)

I want my new husband to stop thinking about his ex wife

Q. Hi! I have been married for the past 6 months to a divorcee with one kid. I knew my husband while he was going thru his divorce. I have this feeling that he thinks of his ex while he is in bed with me, and he still harbours feelings for his...

A. 3 July 2007: Why sit there and watch the fire ignite when you know exactly how you can put it out??? Eve... (read in full...)

My Mom wants me to intervene in her fight with Dad, but I am afraid I will make it worse

Q. Im sorry this is a kinda long qiestion, my parents have been together for over 30 yrs, but a few weeks ago my father created an argument and walked out on us, my mother wants me to speak to him as she has tried but to no avail. Im not a child, I...

A. 3 July 2007: There's no reason why you can't go round to your dad's place and have a talk with him, daughter to father. You don't have to take sides, but just listen to what he has to say. Let him know that all the family miss him (including mum) and would ... (read in full...)

Does he need to be dominated?

Q. Do british men like sex and bondage? i have dated a spanker but other than that he is a limp bisquit in bed. Could it be he wants to be dominated? What suggestions do you have? ...

A. 3 July 2007: No, not all British men like sex and bondage, everyone is different. It's the same as asking do all British women like to dominate men in the bedroom! Again, it's entirely a matter of preference. He's maybe a "limp biscuit" in bed because you ... (read in full...)

I want my new husband to stop thinking about his ex wife

A. 2 July 2007: Did you eventually tell him it wasn't his ex but in fact his WIFE? If so what did he say about it? You need to sit down and have a serious chat with your husband. You need to tell him how he really hurt you jumping to the conclusion it was his ex ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my ''straight'' friend, who seems to like me too

Q. Dear Cupid, I am in love with my best friend whose straight. Well at least plays it off like she is. (She made out with our Lesbian friend who she knew was a lesbian when she kissed her and she definatley kissed back) There have been many times ...

A. 1 July 2007: I think you need to tell her you're gay. Have you had lesbian relationships before or has being with her made you decide? She certainly seems to have lesbian tendancies but you need to talk to her and confirm how you feel. You could say "what ... (read in full...)

I want to bring some spark to our long-distance relationship but she doesn't even want to talk about it

Q. Hi, I've been dating a girl for a couple of years now, and it's a long distance relationship. I would like to have phone sex, but she is not at all into that. It's very hard to keep the spice in the relationship when she doesn't want to ever talk ...

A. 1 July 2007: If she's not up for phone sex then there's absolutely nothing you can do about it therefore the only way to put spice back in your relationship would be to meet up with her. Have you actually met her and if so have you both been intimate yet? Are ... (read in full...)

My fiance is suddenly acting like a dictator, six weeks before the wedding

Q. I am getting married in six weeks to my boyfriend of 6+ years (also the father of our 18 month old son). As our wedding date approaches, he is becoming more and more controlling- what I do, who we socialize with, how I spend money, etc. We both have ...

A. 1 July 2007: Has he always been this way? It may just be pre wedding jitters but you need to talk to him about it. Tell him you've noticed he's been a lot more controlling and ask him why? Relationships are all about compromise and if he can't respect you and ... (read in full...)

I like a boy who has a girlfriend and I already have a boyfriend

Q. So I like this boy that really cares about me alot but he has a g/f. and i have a boyfriend that turns out to have had sex 3 times. and every time i here a country song i think of the other boy and i dont know which one to go with.i mean my b/f is ...

A. 1 July 2007: You need to sort out in your head who you want! You don't seem to have very strong feelings for your boyfriend so it might be better that you break things off with him. If you were crazy on him you wouldn't think twice about this other boy. ... (read in full...)

My husband still says 'I love you' to his ex!

Q. My husband still tells his ex-girlfriend that he loves her. Am I wrong to fell up-set about this? I don't mind them still being friends, I find it very disrespectul that he contiues to tell her he loves her after I have told him how I feel about the ...

A. 1 July 2007: Why does he still keep in touch with his ex? Do they have children together? It may be he loves her as a person but is not "in love" with her but even so she is his EX for a reason! Ask him why he says this to her and let him know it upsets you, ... (read in full...)

I've fallen for a guy who has a girlfriend

Q. I'm falling for a guy who's already seeing someone. He's been with her for nearly two years but they were beginning to have problems. I've had this massive crush on him since I met him and it doesn't help matters that we have so much in common and ...

A. 1 July 2007: The ball's in his court here. You need to wait until the problems become so bad that they break up. Only then can you start a relationship with him. If he likes you and wants to be with you then their problems will get worse and he'll finish it. ... (read in full...)

I like this lad but he's my best friends brother...

Q. I was stayin at my best friends house recently when she decided that we should stay in her brother's room because he has a double bed. he came home and was fine with it he said he will just share the bed with us, I was fine because I have grown up ...

A. 29 June 2007: Was your friend in the bed too? If you like him in a romantic way then that shouldn't be such a big deal with your friend. At least she'd know who her brother was dating. If anything YOU will be the one who finds it hardest. You might ca... (read in full...)

She always passes my desk with a smug smile on her face, what is with her?

Q. My boyfriend and I broke up after 9 months because he was fooling around with a married woman he works with. I also work for the same place. It's been a few weeks now and I have made no contact but it's hard seeing both of them at work when there ...

A. 29 June 2007: She's only trying to make you jealous, her smug smile is saying "I've got him and you haven't". My advice to you is to let her have him. If she can cheat on her husband like that and your ex can cheat on with with "someone else's woman" then they ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend doesn't want to get back together--is there any hope?

Q. I broke up with my ex girlfriend 6 months ago--we had been together for four years (we are both 28). Another girl came on to me and I did not tell my ex for two months. I have tried so hard to get back with her but she does not want me back. Do...

A. 29 June 2007: Noooooo it wouldn't look stupid to other people, in fact I think they would respect you for it. As long as the card isn't too mushy and you make a point of telling her in it that the girl in question came on to YOU and all you did was push her ... (read in full...)

I just feel like nothing is going right for us. everything we seem to plan we end up cancelling and I can't help but see a bleak future for us both.

Q. I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend, we have been together for just over a year. It is a long distance relationship and I am due to move in with him in the next couple of weeks. I have recently started to feel like this is not what...

A. 29 June 2007: You are NOT ready to move in with this guy. You are walking on egg shells with him, you shouldn't have to feel tense about what and what not to say to him. You should feel totally comfortable in his company, he should be upbuilding you, reassuring ... (read in full...)

I want my new husband to stop thinking about his ex wife

A. 29 June 2007: First of all, this is something that should have been sorted out BEFORE you both got married. What makes you think he thinks of his ex while he's in bed with you? Has he called out her name??? You say you know fora FACT he still harbours... (read in full...)

I don't know how to deal with our break up; I keep thinking about him

Q. I don't know why but I keep thinking of my ex so much. Whether it be good....or bad. I think about him. The worst part is that we don't even speak to eachother. I was so happy when we would hang out as friends... and now I don't know how all of a ...

A. 28 June 2007: You need to get over him now and move on. I know it's hard but it's not impossible. He obviously wasn't right for you, (one of the reasons we have relationships). Here is a link that will help you get over him. It's called "How to get over a ... (read in full...)

I can't get over him. He's got my heart!

Q. well where to begin...this guy..he gave me the world..and he was my everything..but..he did drugs..there was alot of problems outside our relationship..but somhow we never paid attention..then oneday..we finished...but what he does not know is that ...

A. 27 June 2007: You have a mind, your feelings come from your mind therefore you can control your feelings. In other words, YOU are in charge and nobody else. YOU determine the future. And you become what you THINK!!! Don't let ANY man or ANYONE rule you! Th... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 27 June 2007: Just keep busy and keep thinking POSITIVE and the time will fly in. Under no circumstances must you get in touch with her though. If you do then anything positive that's been achieved will be undone. Let her MISS you! ;o) Eve... (read in full...)

My fiance treats his sister the same as he treats me! I doubt anyone would be able to tell who he is actually in a relationship with!!

Q. My fiancee has a very close relationship with his sister if we are all together no one would be able to tell who is the sister and who is the girlfriend. I get very jealous as eveything he does with me he does with her and 9 out of 10 times when we ...

A. 27 June 2007: He's obviously very close to his sister but you certainly don't have anything to worry about there. It would be far worse if it was another female friend he was as close to. If you down his sister at all to him then he'll only stick up for her so ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend doesn't want to get back together--is there any hope?

A. 27 June 2007: You could send her a card with "I'm sorry" on the front of it. Inside, explain to her that all you did was push the girl away and you have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. You still care for her but if she doesn't want to be with you anymore ... (read in full...)

My husband won't take any responsibility for my unhappiness--please help!

Q. I am very unhappy with my husband at this time and I have tried to express how I feel but he keeps saying that 'he is not responsible for my emotions' and that 'he is not responsible for my happiness'. I know it is important in life to find your ...

A. 26 June 2007: Your husband just doesn't understand how women "tick." He needs to know that no matter how successful a relationship is, there will be times when you "peak and fall" in your happiness. It's what women do. He's right though, he ISN'T responsible ... (read in full...)

How can I know for sure if my girlfriend is cheating?

Q. I think my girlfriend is cheating on me. She's very private when it comes to her emails, text messages and phone calls. She was never so secretive before with any of that. Recently I "went down" on her and smelled and tasted latex faintly. Since it...

A. 26 June 2007: You have to do what YOU think is right and go with your gut feeling on this one. You could make one last attempt at asking her and if she's nothing to hide then ask her to let you read her text messages. Give her YOUR phone and tell her she can ... (read in full...)

How can I know for sure if my girlfriend is cheating?

A. 25 June 2007: Ask her casually then watch her eyes. Explain to her that she's never usually as secretive with her phone calls, texts and emails. Other things to ask yourself are - Is she still as keen on you as she was when you first met? Are you still ... (read in full...)

I can't stop cheating--why?

Q. I'm a young woman who has committed the cardinal sin of cheating. When my boyfriend and I broke up over a year ago, I had a fling with a man from work. Once we got back together, moved back in together, I slept with this man again. I was guilt ...

A. 25 June 2007: Can I say firstly, you are NOT ready to settle down with your current partner or with anyone yet. You may be taking your partner for granted, you know you have him and although you get along there is something missing. This other man is just ... (read in full...)

He said we had a connection--but now nothing. What does it mean?

Q. I was in a relationship with this guy for 3 years. We broke up really badly--I left him for someone else. Yikes. Then we pretty much ignored each other for months.. until a party came around. He got really drunk and told me we have a "connection" ...

A. 25 June 2007: The answer is simple love... HE WAS DRUNK! Forget him and move on. Eve... (read in full...)

Do all men play games?

Q. Do all men play games? I realize I've been out of the dating scene for most of my adult life due to a long term relationship that ended. I am seeing a new guy, and we've been together for about a year but I still get the feeling at times, that he ...

A. 25 June 2007: Not all men play games. Next time he asks to meet you for lunch agree but casually throw in if he stands you up or doesn't let you know he can't make it then you won't meet him again for lunch while you're at work. Don't make a big song and dance ... (read in full...)

He said he was a nice guy, but then he asked for a sexy pic--is he just trying it on?

Q. 9 times out of 10 when I'm walking home I always see this lad and he always smiles at me. I never really noticed til the other week then I realised he has always smiled at me. The other day I was on a friend's profile and I found his, so i added ...

A. 25 June 2007: Tell him plain and simply you don't DO sexy pics but you will send him one of you (smiling) if he still wants one. Don't drop your standards for anyone, least of all someone you've just recently met. You don't know him well enough yet, for all you ... (read in full...)

He isn't affectionate and said he doesn't care about sex--is this a permanent thing?

Q. Back in December a guy I had met through friends asked me if I wanted to start a band, as he plays guitar and I sing and am learning guitar. It was just an acoustic thing to play locally. We started practicing a lot and became great friends,...

A. 25 June 2007: You say you are both really good friends. If that IS the case then I suggest you have a talk with him. There could be many reasons why he isn't highly sexed. It could be he has erectile problems, he might be really shy or he might just be ... (read in full...)

I got her to kiss me, but now I don't kow what to do!

Q. Dear cupid, First time I have written; I really like my friend a lot, even though she has just gotten with someone recently. The thing is I told her and she wanted me to kiss her so I did. She felt guilty afterwards because of our friendshi...

A. 25 June 2007: This is a very good question. Be very careful here though, I think she's just teasing you. She knows you like her now and is trying to see just how far she can get with you. Don't fall for it, even although you like her you've got to remember ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend doesn't want to get back together--is there any hope?

A. 25 June 2007: When this girl came on to you did you respond and come on to her too? Not telling her has made her lose trust in you and let's face it, IF nothing happened then you had nothing to hide. This has obviously hurt her, hence the break up. I wouldn't ... (read in full...)

I like a girl who is with someone else--what do I do?

Q. I am 12. There is this girl and she has a boy friend and they have been together quite a while. I really want this girl to like me too, but if I get between her and her boyfriend it might spoil our relationship so WHAT DO I DO? ...

A. 25 June 2007: You remain her friend that's what you do! Just be pleasant to her, say hi and try and win her friendship and trust back. If she does break up with her boyfriend then I'm sure she'll tell you all about it but only then do you ask her out. Eve ... (read in full...)

I don't know how to get over my ex--please help!

Q. OK, here is my situation..if there is any advice I would appreciate it. Me and my ex dated for 5 months or so and it was great, we'd fight some then have sex to vent frustrations. I lived 30 minutes from her and couldn't drive, so when we did see ...

A. 25 June 2007: It seems to me that your ex has made her decision. Don't sound so desperate when you chat with her, let her think things are fine with you, even if they're not. The more keen you are on her the more she'll push you away. Women like a challenge you ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 25 June 2007: Okay, I misread your meaning of the "old days", it was a positive rather than a negative. I think you have both done exactly the right thing. NO CONTACT for 4 weeks. That will help both of you see whether or not you are right for one another. It ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 25 June 2007: Nice to hear from you again! I was reading your posts again. You seem to miss her when she's not there and enjoy keeping in touch with her, wining and dining her and meeting up but when it comes to the actual crunch of being together for too long ... (read in full...)

How can I be a proper ladies' man?

Q. Gud day readers! Im 23 but I had only experienced having a girlfriend twice in the past and it started when i was 20. I won the hearts of both of these women way too easily. I never worked hard to win them nor did anything to impress them. I'...

A. 23 June 2007: So you want to woo the right woman do you? You need a lot of charm and charisma and you always put your date first. Be respectful of her and show good manners. Pull out her chair for her, buy her drinks, take her to dinner, pay for everything of ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 20 April 2007: Yes, she is missing you, hence the reason she wants to involve you more. Just remember and don't always be too willing, have your own opinions and your own mind and don't be so accommodating all the time and I reckon you've cracked it! I wish you... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 10 April 2007: You have pulled back a bit and now she's chasing, simple as that! Because you've not seen her as often then she's missed you. Talking on the phone for long periods of time, although nice, can mean that you do say things you regret so you should ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 31 March 2007: I'm glad things are going well for you but I would pull back even further. You said you have seen her 6 days out of 7. Reduce that 4 days out of 7. Let her know you have things to do but would love to see her (Wednesday). MAKE HER WANT YOU!!! ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 18 March 2007: She NOTICED you didn't reply right away! That's good! If she calls you tomorrow asking to arrange something, suggest you call her back in an hour to be sure, say you have something else you needed to attend to and don't know if you can leave it or ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 17 March 2007: Nooooo, you came across loud and clear the first time. You went for coffee, went back to her house to collect something then spoiled it lol by asking her did she want company. You poor love, I know how you are feeling, clutching at anything to ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 17 March 2007: It IS the best way, you'll see I'm right. Woman like a bit of a challenge and don't like a guy to always just "be there" when they snap their fingers, they lose their appeal. Keep in touch :o) Eve... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 16 March 2007: She cried because she knows how much you feel for her and you calling to ask if she wanted some company only confirmed that. If I were you I wouldn't call her or text her. Let HER do the running. She really IS trying to get her head around all of ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 15 March 2007: That is why you both need to move back down a couple of gears, take things very slowly, don't see one another as often and try not to sleep together as this only messes with your head and emotions. Put some space between you to see if you actually ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 14 March 2007: I'm glad things are working out for you and your night was a success. Yes, keep us posted and let us know how things go! Be there for her without being too "in her face" all the time and you'll be fine. I wish you both all the very best. Eve... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 12 March 2007: Here is what to do if you want to win her back. She's getting the best of both worlds just now. She has her freedom to be with her friends and she has you! You said you still see her a couple of times a week and still have a kiss and cuddle ... (read in full...)