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I am a typical taurean.i am honest,friendly,passionate,possessive sometimes,humble.i consider myself as the quintessential jack of all to some extent.sometimes i feel like i am saturated with all the feelings. and when your saturated you feel like sharing your spectrum of knowledge.so i respond pretty well to emotions and that makes me easy to get into other peoples shoes and see their point of view.i make my own quotes sometimes.

I live in India.

i love art,nature and anything thats related to them in any way.in movies i like everything from Bergman to Kurosawa,Kieslowski to Tarkovsky,Gilliam to Scorsese,Spielberg to Goddard. :). i love movies.

i am an ardent fan of the works of the Leonardo Da Vinci, because he was into so many things. he was always hungry to know more.i love poetry.Keats,Wordsworth,Pablo Neruda,Frost are my favorites.i love deviant art and do some photography in the leisure time.

~~I will tell you how life is.its like you are suffering from cold and you have sugar and salt cubes kept in front you,and you cant differentiate between the two because they look similar,and you cant smell and differentiate since you have the cold :).so you have to put it in your mouth to know what is it.knowing is better than wondering. ~~

I'm afraid I wont find love again. I need some advice.

Q.   So my ex broke up with me over 5 months ago. I loved here dearly and was devistated when she broke up with me. I did all the wrong things for 4 months after the break up. I kept in contact with her a lot and I acted extremely needy and desperate. ...

A.   24 August 2009: hey dude something similar happened to me 5 months ago coincidentally. the only diff thing wud be the distance thing in my case.and you know what, i still love her very very much.i dont hate her for whatever she had done to me, because i just cant. ... (read in full...)

Our long distance relationship is taking its toll on us, how do we stop the silly arguments?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 years we met while on holiday and live 200 miles apart we are in love and do want to be together but the distance is takin its tole on us. He moved in 3rd december and he recently moved back ...

A.   10 March 2009: Hey you should be happy that you get to see your bf once in a month. i know people who dont see each other for years and still they love each other.and the argument over silly things is pretty normal in every relation.hate is also a kind of love in ... (read in full...)

This girl means the world to me, and I can't let her be the one who got away...

Q.   Ok, I have been seeing a girl for 4 years. Things were great. After graduating college we moved to different cities and accepted jobs. Anyway things were going well for the first several months. Then all the sudden she started to become distant. ...

A.   10 March 2009: i am in a similar state of mind.even its hard for me not texting and calling her.sometimes i feel like i should just text her apologizing for every thing, but the next moment something holds me back.this is really tough.hope we get whats best for ... (read in full...)

A temporary break?

Q.   I have been in a long distance relationship for the past couple of years. She has been the love of my life since 6th grade. We had a crush on each other for back in 8th grade but we drifted apart. Again, when I was in college, we started meeting, ...

A.   9 March 2009: i think you should give her some space sometimes.though you are far away from her, but in a way u are always seeking her.the distance from the family is another factor too.and you are afraid too if u can fall in love with someone again, which is ... (read in full...)

This girl means the world to me, and I can't let her be the one who got away...

Q.   Ok, I have been seeing a girl for 4 years. Things were great. After graduating college we moved to different cities and accepted jobs. Anyway things were going well for the first several months. Then all the sudden she started to become distant. ...

A.   9 March 2009: dude your story is so much similar to mine.is your girl an Aquarius, coz i can see that she is kind of fickle.i think u should let her go and give her some space for sometime.i know what you are going through right now, but trust me time is best ... (read in full...)

Am I completely hopeless?

Q.   Dear fellow readers, I'm 24 years old and am well aware that at my age I should be confident in my youth to find dates but adult enough to have relationships. Well, I haven't had a serious relationship for over 4 years, and that wasn't such a si...

A.   8 March 2009: first of all consult a doctor as soon as possible and see if your sex problem can be fixed, which i m sure can be done.so if ur sex drive becomes fine,i dont think u vl have any problem with ur relations.u will gain ur confidence back and u can date ... (read in full...)

Mixed signals..how do I figure them out?

Q.   i have a crush on this boy and he sends me mixed signals. he says he doesnt like me like that but he acts like it. i dont no wat to do....

A.   8 March 2009: be friends with him first,and u also start giving him hints.and see whats the reaction.because i think the boy is shy here. try to interact him if u r not doing so.best of luck ~... (read in full...)

Never had a boyfriend

Q.   i am 30 years old and i never had a boyfriend even my first kiss,i find it hard to meet guys.most guys i know talk about other girls in front of me like i wasn,t there,any other guy i have liked always fancied someone else and i get just left there ...

A.   8 March 2009: i think you are being over skeptical.you have to be optimistic and positive sometimes.and right now if u want to get back with him then u should be honest with him and discuss your problems without any hesitations.dont block information's .just be ... (read in full...)

Did I "miss the boat"?

Q.   Hey, I once met a guy and he asked for my digits, I gave them to him and he promised to call. He called and askd to see me, I agreed but I didn't go because I wasn't really interestd in him. He hasn't called me since then and I recently saw him. ...

A.   8 March 2009: no its not late dear, first of all u should apologize for what you did, and dont come up with a fake excuse.its better to be honest if u want to start things afresh.after ur confession see the reaction,depends on whether he is still single or ... (read in full...)

I would love to meet someone else but lack of confidence is holding me back.

Q.   Hi there guys... I could really do with some words of wisdom, as I can't really talk to any of my friends about this... Basically, I am 24 years old, and came out of a 4 year relationship about 18 months ago. I can safely say that I'm completely o...

A.   8 March 2009: hey you should try going out with someone.because unless u try u wud never know. and trust me knowing is better than wondering.try is the word.and since u hv already bn in a relationship, and it must hav taught u something.may be there is someone ... (read in full...)

Please tell if what I did was wrong or right...

Q.   I was in love with a girl for the last 3 years. It was totally from my side. It was unconditional, unadulterated and pure [typical Taurean me]. We were really good and close friends. Actually we met on net. We were classmates for a short period ...

A.   8 March 2009: and yeah really i will be happy to see her happy with someone else.cz i know i dont deserve her as of now.so whatever happened .so its fair enough.we all have different opinions, and it isnt necessary that we have to agree to others.sometimes u just ... (read in full...)

Please tell if what I did was wrong or right...

Q.   I was in love with a girl for the last 3 years. It was totally from my side. It was unconditional, unadulterated and pure [typical Taurean me]. We were really good and close friends. Actually we met on net. We were classmates for a short period ...

A.   8 March 2009: thanks eve.... and about the asking questions and laughing together.we hav been through that(close friends fr 3 years).she is confused abt herself right now..thats why it became mutual.and right now i think may be giving her some space is the way ... (read in full...)

Please tell if what I did was wrong or right...

Q.   I was in love with a girl for the last 3 years. It was totally from my side. It was unconditional, unadulterated and pure [typical Taurean me]. We were really good and close friends. Actually we met on net. We were classmates for a short period ...

A.   8 March 2009: Trust me i know myself better than anyone else.i have analyzed myself again and again.and i conclude that i am too much like the likes of people having Taurus as their zodiac.and that makes a die hard romantic.so the lovey dovey thing is justified.a ... (read in full...)

What does she classify as sex?

Q.   My wife and I have been married for 1 year and we dated for 2 years before we got married. We were both virgins and we were saving ourselves for marriage. We both cherrished our virginitys and think its something special. We gave our virginitys ...

A.   8 March 2009: seriously dude i have no idea why u have posted this question, i mean u r married to her n have a happy life.i mean you should be asking yourself this question. but still since u have posted, i would like to say even if she had sex with her ex bf, ... (read in full...)

Please tell if what I did was wrong or right...

Q.   I was in love with a girl for the last 3 years. It was totally from my side. It was unconditional, unadulterated and pure [typical Taurean me]. We were really good and close friends. Actually we met on net. We were classmates for a short period ...

A.   8 March 2009: i know that she still loves me.and i know that if we continue to be in touch, she will fall for me again, which i dont want.i want it to happen to her without any effort.i mean it should happen for real with her.she also blamed herself that it was ... (read in full...)

We talk fine online, but how can I talk to him face to face?

Q.   Hey, so I really like this guy in the year above me. I'm in year eight he's year nine... He's a lot older then me though. 2 years almost. But that's not the point. I really like him, and I know he likes me back. He goes to my school. I say hi ...

A.   7 March 2009: i think u should just see her after ur school gets over.y r u so afraid if u r so sure that he likes u too.i would suggest stop wondering abt wat is gonna happen.knowing is better than wondering.so just go for it.even its screwed still u can learn ... (read in full...)

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