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Ever since I can remember people have always fascinated me. I seemed to be very adept at solving people’s “life” problems and I never tired of the constant flow of friends asking for my help. I have always been a great listener and have a lot of patience and empathy for people and have written for advice columns in the past.
I am a Relationships Councillor and Life Coach and have a special aptitude with people. I have been active on this site for a number of years. I'm very much a positive thinker and hate being around negative people. Life is for living, it's too short to moan all the time. I'm determined, very spiritual, grounded, independent, strong willed and love life. Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.
If you realized just how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought. The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.
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12 July 2010: I have written this blog a few times but I thought I'd write it in an "article", that way people can always view it. To love a person, first and foremost you must KNOW them personally. Lots of teenagers say they "love" a celebrity or are "in love"...
Some tips for a happy marriage!
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16 October 2008: MARRIAGE - WHAT IS EXPECTED IN A MARRIAGE? Once you marry, don’t expect everything just to fall into place. Marriage is a serious commitment but it needs to be continually worked at. Too many people today go into marriage for the wrong reasons, t...
20 questions to ask someone on a date!
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16 October 2008: So many of the younger ones on this site tend to be a bit tongue tied about what to ask their date so here are 20 things to ask someone on that first date. 1. What do you like to do when you're not working? 2. Where in the world would you most...
Why do you think marriages break up more now than in the past?
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16 October 2008: Do you remember years ago when families used to sit in at nights? They had no TV, no computer games, no telephones, no DVD's, no video recorders etc etc. They had one another! They had TIME to get to know one another, to BE with one another to ...
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How to cope after a very close death???
Q. Hi Everyone, AskEve here. I just wanted to let everyone know I lost my wonderful partner 2 days ago so won't be on for a bit. He was over in Switzerland on business when he passed away. (I wasn't even with him...) I loved him terribly and now...
A. 16 June 2007: Thanks for your kind words Karen. He WAS a very clever man and made a big difference to this world. He appeared on TV and radio many times and wrote a book too. Feel free to have a look at it.
http://www.fictionsoffreedom.com/
I am soooo pr... (read in full...)
How to cope after a very close death???
Q. Hi Everyone, AskEve here. I just wanted to let everyone know I lost my wonderful partner 2 days ago so won't be on for a bit. He was over in Switzerland on business when he passed away. (I wasn't even with him...) I loved him terribly and now...
A. 9 June 2007: Thanks for the kind words LJD. What happens after death is so uncertain though. Do they move on to another plane or dimension? Is there such a thing as heaven where they can look down on us? Does their spirit or lifeforce "go out" and their ... (read in full...)
How to cope after a very close death???
Q. Hi Everyone, AskEve here. I just wanted to let everyone know I lost my wonderful partner 2 days ago so won't be on for a bit. He was over in Switzerland on business when he passed away. (I wasn't even with him...) I loved him terribly and now...
A. 8 June 2007: Thanks for that eyes. Yes, I would agree, time IS a great healer, the pain never goes away, I've never experienced that type of emptiness before but life DOES go on and I am a strong person. I feel so much better than I did a month ago. It's just ... (read in full...)
Am I allowed to love someone while knowing he's not the one?
Q. Am I allowed to love someone while knowing he's not the one? How do I tell him that--I don't want to lead him on and have him plan our futures together, but he's a very all-or-nothing guy, and I don't want this to be the end--I'd still like to be ...
A. 8 June 2007: DON'T tell him while he's in Iraq. It will devastate him. Continue to write to him without the mushiness, he'll know from the "friendliness" of your letters that something has changed. It's very difficult being in a long distance relationship. ... (read in full...)
Am I allowed to love someone while knowing he's not the one?
Q. Am I allowed to love someone while knowing he's not the one? How do I tell him that--I don't want to lead him on and have him plan our futures together, but he's a very all-or-nothing guy, and I don't want this to be the end--I'd still like to be ...
A. 1 June 2007: If you feel all of that then why were you quite adamant that he was not the one? Has he talked about planning your future together? How long have you been together? Explain what you mean when you say "he's a very all or nothing guy"? Is he in ... (read in full...)
Am I allowed to love someone while knowing he's not the one?
Q. Am I allowed to love someone while knowing he's not the one? How do I tell him that--I don't want to lead him on and have him plan our futures together, but he's a very all-or-nothing guy, and I don't want this to be the end--I'd still like to be ...
A. 31 May 2007: If you truly love him then you respect him for who he is, warts and all. You want to look after them and protect them, you look out for them and put them first. You feel happy and content in their company and enjoy being together. Above all you can ... (read in full...)
I recently had an affair but now he's dumped me and I don't know how to deal with it.
Q. I recently had an affair. It was very intense and I thought we both loved each other deeply. I was preparing to leave my partner for him and them abruptly he finished it, claiming he couldn't destroy my family. He wanted to remain friends ...
A. 28 May 2007: He may have been genuine saying he was breaking up with you because he didn't want to destroy your family but I think there's more to it. He may be married and hasn't told you or he might be back with his girlfriend... but I think there's more to ... (read in full...)
I feel like it may be "too soon" to love again...
Q. Four years ago I was engaged to be married to a woman who I thought loved me. A month before our wedding, she broke off our relationship, and cleaned me out, she stole money from me, took all my furniture and appliances, pretty much everything that ...
A. 28 May 2007: You were very much in love with your ex weren't you? I can feel your pain and the thought of getting rid of her pictures probably terrifies you as you know that would finally put closure on all you had together. Keep in your heart the good times ... (read in full...)
Why am I always so nervous when it comes to pleasing my guy sexually?
Q. dear cupid, I am going out with this guy and things have become serious and i think he wants to have sex. he knows i want to wait and he respects that but he does want me to pleasure him in other ways. i want to but i get so nervous when it ...
A. 28 May 2007: The reason you can't bring yourself to do it is because you're not READY to do it. You don't feel comfortable enough with him yet. Sex between two people should be spontaneous and natural. It's a very intimate act and is the ultimate way of ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with an unhappy married man!
Q. I'm in love with an unhappy married man and he wants to leave his wife but she is controlling his every mood. what should i do to help him get out of that and be with me were he want to be?...
A. 28 May 2007: Have you ever heard of the saying "men tell you what you want to hear?" If he was a REAL man he would end his marriage by moving out. It's true, not all married men/women are happy but jumping around with someone else isn't going to resolve ... (read in full...)
What are the signs of falling out of love with someone?
Q. HI i am in a bit of a dilema. My husband and i have been married for 2 yrs and 3mths, but we've known each other for 4yrs. I am not happy any more. My husband and I want different things in life! I am 23 and he is 32 he wants kids, and i dont (not ...
A. 28 May 2007: Your husband is far more mature than you are and is happy to settle down to family life. You, on the other hand are more immature than he is and still want the single life. How long did you know one another before you were married?
When you're i... (read in full...)
I recently had an affair but now he's dumped me and I don't know how to deal with it.
Q. I recently had an affair. It was very intense and I thought we both loved each other deeply. I was preparing to leave my partner for him and them abruptly he finished it, claiming he couldn't destroy my family. He wanted to remain friends ...
A. 28 May 2007: Was this guy married or in a relationship too? It seems to me one of three things. (1)Either his conscience has kicked in and he feels bad that he's seeing you when you already have a partner, (2) Because the relationship was so intense he may be ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him but I would NEVER do that! I'm at the end of my tether with this, what can I do to prove I'm not?
Q. I am a 24 year old girl who is having trouble with my on off boyfriend i love him loads but he keeps breaking up with me because he thinks i am cheating on him i have never cheated and never would but he just doesnt believe a word i say, how can i ...
A. 28 May 2007: Your boyfriend has been very insecure in his relationship with you. Have you ever given him cause not to trust you before, he obviously has trust issues here. Knowing how he feels and if you really love him then having another guys phone number is ... (read in full...)
Do we have a chance at getting back together? I really thought he was the love of my life and I don't want to let go.
Q. I can send you the whole story if it will help to give better advice. This past week my bf of 2 1/2 years broke up w/ me. He said he was bored although I had no indication anything was wrong. I was never given any info about how he was feeling and ...
A. 28 May 2007: He was bored with the relationship and you didn't pick up on the signs. You weren't as "in tune" with your boyfriend as you should have been and although you never had any arguments you maybe haven't had many really deep conversations either. I ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel attracted to other guys when I have a wonderful boyfriend?
Q. I am currently at Uni. I have a wonderful boyfriend who i love but sometimes i get attracted to other guys and wonder what it would be like with them. It makes me feel awful and my boyfriend has picked up on it. Any advice is welcome. ...
A. 28 May 2007: It's only natural for you to feel attracted to other guys, especially now that you're in University where there are so many of them around. You're still very young and you have a lot of living to do before you finally settle down. Your boyfriend ... (read in full...)
How to cope after a very close death???
Q. Hi Everyone, AskEve here. I just wanted to let everyone know I lost my wonderful partner 2 days ago so won't be on for a bit. He was over in Switzerland on business when he passed away. (I wasn't even with him...) I loved him terribly and now...
A. 28 May 2007: Thank you to everyone who answered. I have never experienced anything like this (death of a loved one) in my life. The upside (if there is such a thing) is that I can draw on this experience to help others who have also lost someone close to them ... (read in full...)
He's gay but is giving me all the signs that he fancies me.
Q. I work closely with a man who is gay but recently he has been flirting with me so much that i dont know whether im coming or going. He stares into my eyes for longer than normal, looks at my mouth when i speak and just says and does things body ...
A. 28 May 2007: Say to him in jest one day that if you didn't know better you'd think he fancied you! See his reply.
Eve... (read in full...)
I would really appreciate some advice on how to move on
Q. hello all, I would really appreciate some advice on how to move on! dont get me wrong i've had break-ups before but this time i'm finding it difficult. i'll try to keep this brief... i'm almost 50 i've been married twice, the first lasted 15 year...
A. 28 May 2007: I suggest you give her a deadline to move. You still seem to have feelings for her and her priorities seem to have changed now, possibly due to the age difference. If she can go out and have fun and take drugs occasionally then she can save to ... (read in full...)
He doesn't last more than 45 seconds when we have sex!
Q. My fiancee and I have been together for a while..I know that sex isn't everything..However, it is good if done right...I have a situation like this we engage in intercourse half the time there is no foreplay and he doesn't last for more than 45 ...
A. 24 May 2007: No, you should talk to him and tell him you want more foreplay. Let him please YOU first before he enters you, that way both of you will be satisfied.
Eve... (read in full...)
I am going on 2 years with my guy and we have been engaged for 7 months. I love him very much, but I am beginning to doubt if I want to be with him.
Q. I am going on 2 years with my guy and we have been engaged for 7 months. I love him very much, but I am beginning to doubt if I want to be with him. He can be a really sweet guy, but he can also be a jerk. He has money problems, but he is really ...
A. 24 May 2007: I think fear about your financial future is only part of your problem, you're just using THAT as your excuse. Is there any other reasons you don't want to be with him? If he's really sorting all his debt out then WHY can he still be a jerk?
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I've been cheating on my boyfriend... what do I do for the best?
Q. i am not in love with my boy friend anymore and have been seeing someone else behind his back what should i do ...
A. 24 May 2007: You break it off with your boyfriend as soon as possible, THAT'S what you do... Simple!
Eve ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if you REALLY love someone?
Q. How can you tell when you love someone? Please, I mean I love someone but I want to know how you can really tell???...
A. 24 May 2007: You're a bit young to be falling in love but here is my explanation of real love anyway. You may not understand it fully but you will see what I mean as you get older.
To love a person, first and foremost you must KNOW them personally. Lots of ... (read in full...)
Been seeing her for 4 months but I can't trust her! Will we make it?
Q. I have been seeing this girl for about 4 months now and we both have said we love each other. Problem i have is im not sure i trust her. i know this is MY problem but i know she has slept with a few of my mates in the past.however,she was dating ...
A. 24 May 2007: What you need to find out is, when she slept with your mates, was she seeing someone else at the same time? If she was loyal to them then she'll more than likely be loyal to you too.
The best thing to do is to slow things down a bit, pull bac... (read in full...)
Am I allowed to love someone while knowing he's not the one?
Q. Am I allowed to love someone while knowing he's not the one? How do I tell him that--I don't want to lead him on and have him plan our futures together, but he's a very all-or-nothing guy, and I don't want this to be the end--I'd still like to be ...
A. 24 May 2007: First of all, you don't LOVE this man. You may be fond of him and enjoy his company but you certainly aren't in love with him, if you were you would want to be together for eternity.
Think about it this way. You are with a man you adore, y... (read in full...)
Do I stay in touch with my ex or not?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been broken up for a month now. We were still emailing each other and I told him that he could call me anytime that he wanted to. He didn't think it would be wise and so I finally ended it all together, saying I don't think ...
A. 24 May 2007: Why did you break up in the first place? How long had you been together? Although you had both broken up, you were still emailing one another so the emotional connection was still there (hence the reason so said he could call you anytime.) Now ... (read in full...)
Does he just wants me as his sex buddy or is there more here?
Q. ok so heres the thing last summer i was with this guy we had fun you know as mates and that then we became friends with benifits . anyway i fell for him as you do and he said he didnt want a relationship and cant see us as ever having a ...
A. 22 May 2007: He probably did enjoy your company but he's single again which means.... HE'S MISSING SEX! He knew you were a sure thing the last time so he's putting the feelers out again in the hope you'll be his f*** buddy again. With this in mind, the next ... (read in full...)
We've been married 19 years but my wife goes to clubs to meet single men!
Q. My wife and I have been married for about 19 years. She's 39 and I'm 44. For the past 6 months she's been hanging out with her recently divorced cousin (female - 44) and they have been going to nightclubs for the past 6 months about 2-3 times/we...
A. 22 May 2007: I think you and your wife still love one another deep down, you've both just got into a rut. She's bored in this relationship and doesn't feel special any more. She looks at you as boring and predictable and is spreading her wings to capture a bit ... (read in full...)
Lately my equipment doesn't perform as it should. Can someone tell me what is happening?
Q. This is quite tough for me to come out and admit this, but here goes: I have been together with my soon to be wife for over 3 years(we are engaged for about 8 months now). We have been living together for the entirety of our engagement, as I...
A. 22 May 2007: I think your work is part of your problem, like you said, you're working long and hard hours and will be tired when you come home at night. The fact you both work together won't help either and it's all just getting you down. "Is this it?" "Is ... (read in full...)
Why is he avoiding me??? That is tearing me up completely????
Q. Hi, In dec i met the most amazing man, the moment we saw each other there was something there. We get along so well and we're so close without even trying we understand each other and trust and confide in each other. We live 5 hours away from ...
A. 17 May 2007: I can understand how he loves his work and he will have a very gruelling schedule but there's more to this. I think he does really love you very much but he is scared of getting too involved again for some reason. He may have been hurt in the past ... (read in full...)
Why won't he let himself be with me???
Q. Hi, I'll try and condense the last year and a half into this... basically i split up with my boyfriend of 3 years, with the intention of it being more of a break. We had gone from living together to being long distance, and weren't coping with it ...
A. 16 May 2007: Like you said, this man was devastated when you broke up, it really cut him up and only he knows the pain he went through when you split. Now he feels he's getting close again and isn't sure whether or not to risk being that hurt again.
You n... (read in full...)
My partner wants me to move out to give us "space"
Q. Hi I have just looked back at all my questions on this site and they are painting a bit of a picture. It is all what he wants ie My partner wants me to move out to give us "space" but I don't want to go as he says he can't stand being around...
A. 16 May 2007: If the house belongs to both of you then you are entitled to half of it. Tell him you have nowhere to go and want to put the house up for sale. If he refuses then tell him you want him to buy you out. If he still refuses then go to a lawyer where ... (read in full...)
I dont know how to end it... what have I done?
Q. What can i do?I had an affair last year with a close friend..He swore that it was only a bit of harmless fun on the side and that no-one would get hurt but i began to fall for him. i knew that it could nt go on so i finished it but recently he ...
A. 16 May 2007: Oh dear, you've gotten yourself into a bit of a dilemma haven't you? If you do truly love your husband then you mustn't see him again. Let him know that you feel flattered that he thinks he's in love with you but the relationship isn't going ... (read in full...)
What are the true signs that your partner is cheating?
Q. i believe that we could tell if our partner is cheating on us by certain signs but the thing is i don't know these signs!!! could you help me out thanks ...
A. 15 May 2007: Partners who are cheating are often guilty of their actions. They will apologise over small mistakes and go out of their way to make you happy or feel pampered. He will also start showing less interest in you and will want to spend more time alone, ... (read in full...)
My gf is so spoiled by her Mom--will she ever change?
Q. My girlfriend is very spoilt, i've only just come to realise. She gets 'everything' done for her by her mother, such as breakfast in bed every morning and college work on occasion. She also gets a ton of gifts and stuff from her mum and her room ...
A. 15 May 2007: You've been together almost a year and a half so you should be able to talk to her about this but do it as a game, that way it won't come across as being blunt. Ask her to tell you 3 things she likes about you, then of course you tell her 3 things ... (read in full...)
What is the best way to ask her out?
Q. i really like this girl. i want to ask her to the cinema just as mates. she's always around her mates. i'm afraid she'll say no. we are friends but dont talk to much in school although online we talk more often. any suggestions how i can go about as...
A. 14 May 2007: Why would her friends be suspicious if you spoke to her alone? The best way to ask her would BE online however if you want to ask her face to face then the best way to do that IS alone! Forget what her friends say, as long as she says yes then ... (read in full...)
I travelled a good distance to surprise her but she wouldn't see me as she was going for coffee with a male colleague...
Q. What should i do? im soo confused. ive known this girl for 3 and a half months and things have developed quickly. i really really like her maybe even love her. In the space of time we've known each other we've been together once and within a week w...
A. 13 May 2007: It's entirely your call Baffledd. If you think she deserves another chance and that you can handle the possibility of her doing similar to you then by all means, go for it. YOU are in control of your own mind here. But let her know she really ... (read in full...)
Is there any hope for my boyfriend and I?
Q. me and my boyfriend broke up last night.we had been going out two years.he said he didnt want to be in a relationship with anyone but he loves me.i really love him .is there any hope?...
A. 12 May 2007: There is ALWAYS hope! Why did you break up? Have you noticed any changes in him in the past while? Has he been more distant towards you? Less affectionate? Always busy etc etc? If you have, then he's been thinking about this for a while. ... (read in full...)
How should I handle this? Am I being too insecure here?
Q. am I being too insecure? Like at restaurants and stuff--my b/f is easily able to talk to people he doesn't know. This doesn't happen all the time but for example the other night we went to eat with his friend and the place was somewhat busy--we were ...
A. 12 May 2007: He's only being charming, I would forget about it. He's only being pleasant and courteous to the waitress and your insecurities are telling you he's flirting with her. Next time you're out, YOU try and say something to the waiter/waitress, maybe ... (read in full...)
Why won't he let me go out with friends? I feel like a prisoner!
Q. Hi I would like a little bit of advice about a slight problem that i am facing with my husband. I am 23 and my husband does not want me to go out with my friends or my sister (I go out once every 2-3 months not often at all) he always tells me to be ...
A. 12 May 2007: He's obviously feeling very insecure in case he loses you to someone else so you need to reassure him that you love him very much and would never ever jeopardise your relationship for anything! Let him know (in a nice way) that relationships are ... (read in full...)
He kissed another girl but said he pulled away immediately. Why can I not forget about it?
Q. I know there are a ton of questions about this, but.. my boyfriend and I had a long distance relationship for 8.5 months at the time, the longest we went without seeing each other was about 3 weeks though. After my birthday, which he came to see me ...
A. 12 May 2007: He IS very loyal to you! He didn't have to tell you what happened but he did. He even tried to make it up to you and you sent him home. ALL men will be presented with opportunities, he is no different, but he didn't go there, he could have but he ... (read in full...)
Why are my female teachers so 'touchy-feely' with me all the time?
Q. what are these the sign of when i encounter these occasionally? i'm 17 and a female. WHAT ARE THE SIGNS THAT A TEACHER (FEMALE TEACHERS TO FEMALE STUDENTS, LIKE MYSELF) IS FLIRTING WITH YOU AND TENDS TO LIKE YOU? these teachers are both females...
A. 12 May 2007: I don't think there's anything in this. A lot of females can be a bit hands on sometimes. I would ignore it though, they're probably just being friendly with you so don't read too much into it. You could raise your eyebrows next time it happens ... (read in full...)
He said he can't make love to me if his heart isn't in it. Where do I go from here???
Q. ive been living with my partner for 30 years over the past 5 years our sex life has gone downhill. we have tried talking about it but we go round in circles. my libido is higher than his and more sex would be nice but for some time he has not wanted ...
A. 12 May 2007: If HE feels he doesn't need sex as often then tell him you would still like him to please YOU! It doesn't always have to be penetrative sex if he doesn't want that but if he loves you then he should want to please you. Ask him to give you plenty ... (read in full...)
Why do I have dreams such as these?
Q. Why do I have dreams such as these? sometimes i do think about my female teachers. both are pretty and good looking as well as young: 27-30 years old, i'm 17 and a female. yet i have dreams about them sometimes. i have no intentions of ha...
A. 12 May 2007: You admire these teachers from afar and deep down you'd like to be like them. In your eyes these teachers are successful, intelligent and pretty... all things you would like for yourself. Your sub conscious is thinking about that when you sleep, ... (read in full...)
He said he can't make love to me if his heart isn't in it. Where do I go from here???
Q. ive been living with my partner for 30 years over the past 5 years our sex life has gone downhill. we have tried talking about it but we go round in circles. my libido is higher than his and more sex would be nice but for some time he has not wanted ...
A. 12 May 2007: Why is his heart not in it? Have you asked him that? I think you need to sit down with him and have a good talk with him. Ask him if he still has feelings for you or does he find you repulsive to look at? It sounds to me as if he's just being ... (read in full...)
What is REAL love???
Q. how do i know if he loves me?...
A. 12 May 2007: If you truly love someone then you respect them for who they are, warts and all. You want to look after them and protect them, you look out for them and put them first. You feel happy and content in their company and enjoy being together. Above all ... (read in full...)
What can I do if I am too shy to speak to a certain girl?
Q. What can I do if I am too shy to speak to a certain girl?...
A. 12 May 2007: You tell yourself that the worst thing she can do is ignore you. Don't look at her as different to you, look at her as your equal! Just go up and say Hi to her, talk about school (if you're in school) what's she going into next? What does she ... (read in full...)
How, exactly do you know you love someone? I mean the real, solid, deep love?
Q. This'll probably sound stupid and I'm sure it's been asked before, but how is it exactly that you know you love someone? I mean real, solid, deep love. I believe deep down that I love my boyfriend, and I want to tell him - but I also don't want ...
A. 12 May 2007: To love a person, first and foremost you must KNOW them personally. Lots of teenagers say they "love" a celebrity or are "in love" with them but of course this can't be, they love the idea of who they are but if they've never met them then it's just ... (read in full...)
I've been thinking of moving in to my own flat and leaving my boyfriend.
Q. I am very fond of my boyfriend and care for him a lot. We have been living together 3 yrs and my feelings for him have always been the same. I have been on my own for most of my adult life and am ok being single. I am a loner and enjoy my own ...
A. 12 May 2007: Sometimes when we're with someone things become "comfortable" and I think this is what's happening with you. You like your boyfriend and you're fond of him but you're maybe not in love with him. You may feel things have become a bit stagnant and ... (read in full...)
My gf is so spoiled by her Mom--will she ever change?
Q. My girlfriend is very spoilt, i've only just come to realise. She gets 'everything' done for her by her mother, such as breakfast in bed every morning and college work on occasion. She also gets a ton of gifts and stuff from her mum and her room ...
A. 11 May 2007: How old is your girlfriend? Is she an only child? How long have you both been together?
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I travelled a good distance to surprise her but she wouldn't see me as she was going for coffee with a male colleague...
Q. What should i do? im soo confused. ive known this girl for 3 and a half months and things have developed quickly. i really really like her maybe even love her. In the space of time we've known each other we've been together once and within a week w...
A. 10 May 2007: YOU NEED TO MOVE ON... You CAN move on but maybe you don't really want to, hoping that all this will come right again and she'll get in touch declaring her undying love for you (or similar). Remember always, YOU have a mind, your feelings come from ... (read in full...)
I travelled a good distance to surprise her but she wouldn't see me as she was going for coffee with a male colleague...
Q. What should i do? im soo confused. ive known this girl for 3 and a half months and things have developed quickly. i really really like her maybe even love her. In the space of time we've known each other we've been together once and within a week w...
A. 10 May 2007: She doesn't want to be with you I'm afraid, she just didn't know how to let you down gently. Her texting you later and apologising was just to free her of her guilt! If she had any feelings for you whatsoever she would have MADE time to be with ... (read in full...)
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