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Been married for 20 years, but feel it's over....what can I do?

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Question - (3 July 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

i need help been married for 20yrs, and i feel like its over what do i do next?

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A female reader, stina United States +, writes (3 July 2007):

stina agony auntHi Anonymous

First thing I suggest is that you talk with your husband and try to figure out what went wrong and how you're going to work together to fix it.

Next thing I recommend would be going to counselling if just trying to talk (and understand!) one another doesn't work.

Last, consult a lawyer because there's no sense in staying in a marriage if things can't be worked out and you're both unhappy.

Sorry my answer is pretty general/bland - could you give more details as the other aunts/uncles have requested?

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (3 July 2007):

AskEve agony auntWhy do you think it's over? Have your husband and you stopped communicating? Are you like passing ships in the night? Give me some more information as to WHY you feel your marriage is in trouble and I'll see if I can help you some more.

Eve

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (3 July 2007):

Danielepew agony auntI think we would need more information to help you, madam.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (3 July 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntNot much info to go on here....have you talked to your husband and told him how you are feeling? Why do you feel your marriage is over?

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