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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:well where to begin...this guy..he gave me the world..and he was my everything..but..he did drugs..there was alot of problems outside our relationship..but somhow we never paid attention..then oneday..we finished...but what he does not know is that he has my heart...i cant stand it..every minute..everyday hes the 1st thought on my mind to wake me and i get at least a tear everynight knowing that im not w/ him.hes in my dreams and there isnt an hour on the clock that he doesnt pass through my mind. i knoo this is is insane..evry song reminds me of him..he promised not to hurt me..but he did...it feels like im drowning and screaming..for air...i dont kno what to do..evyone says to move on..but how can i do that when i dont rule my heart?he does?
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (27 June 2007):
 You have a mind, your feelings come from your mind therefore you can control your feelings. In other words, YOU are in charge and nobody else. YOU determine the future. And you become what you THINK!!!
Don't let ANY man or ANYONE rule you! Think positive! Get up, get out, keep busy, meet new friends, start a new hobby, go for a jog, go to the gym, start a new project! This guy was NOT for you! You're young, there are countless opportunities awaiting you! ...And the right guy! ;o)
Don't sit there and stagnate! LIVE!!! :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2007): hunny,I think you may have had a taste of first love, but life is like a rollercoster, it has its ups n downs. Its something nobody can control. As i see it everything happens for a reason. it really does! I had the same situation at the same age. And it does really hurt. But if this lad you like is really for YOU, he loves you right? And if he loves you he will be back. But make sure you don't give more than a second chance because this will tare you to pieces! beleave me chick! but if he isn't for you he will move on, and its something you have to repect. When i had this prob i respected his feelings thinking i would never love again, but now aged 19 going on 20, i have been with my partner for 4 years and we are perfect for each other. i wouldn't have him if it wsn't for that guy breaking up with me. just remember things happen for a reason, plus your young you have loads of time to find mister right. Just let your heart have a break, spend time with friends and before you know it. You will feel great! I wish you the best of luck. Take care x
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