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Ever since I can remember people have always fascinated me. I seemed to be very adept at solving people’s “life” problems and I never tired of the constant flow of friends asking for my help. I have always been a great listener and have a lot of patience and empathy for people and have written for advice columns in the past.
I am a Relationships Councillor and Life Coach and have a special aptitude with people. I have been active on this site for a number of years. I'm very much a positive thinker and hate being around negative people. Life is for living, it's too short to moan all the time. I'm determined, very spiritual, grounded, independent, strong willed and love life. Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.
If you realized just how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought. The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.
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20 questions to ask someone on a date!
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Why do you think marriages break up more now than in the past?
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16 October 2008: Do you remember years ago when families used to sit in at nights? They had no TV, no computer games, no telephones, no DVD's, no video recorders etc etc. They had one another! They had TIME to get to know one another, to BE with one another to ...
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Am I allowed to love someone while knowing he's not the one?
Q. Am I allowed to love someone while knowing he's not the one? How do I tell him that--I don't want to lead him on and have him plan our futures together, but he's a very all-or-nothing guy, and I don't want this to be the end--I'd still like to be ...
A. 8 June 2007: DON'T tell him while he's in Iraq. It will devastate him. Continue to write to him without the mushiness, he'll know from the "friendliness" of your letters that something has changed. It's very difficult being in a long distance relationship. ... (read in full...)
Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?
Q. Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?...
A. 5 June 2007: Why would anyone who has any respect for you lift their hand to you? If he's done this once and gotten away with it then of course he'll do it again, only this time you might not be so lucky. Men who hit women do it because it makes them feel ... (read in full...)
I've been talking to this guy online since Christmas, now he has told me he likes me I've began to lose intrest and back away.
Q. I've been talking to this guy online since Christmas, I began to like him a couple of months ago. Its taken him quite a while to say how he feels about me however, now he has told me he likes me I've began to lose intrest and back away. I dont know ...
A. 5 June 2007: The novelty has worn off... simple! You enjoyed chatting to him at first when things were "new" but now, 6 months on it's all became a bit stagnant and boring. It happens! Let him down gently, tell him you like him as a friend but you're actually ... (read in full...)
I thought maybe he called someone after dropping me home and spent a couple of hours with her, am I being paranoid?
Q. I saw my boyfriend on sunday---he slept till 12 noon. We went to his mom's house(he has his own place but sometimes stays there)..he drove me around 7. I call him at 11:15--no answer, i call again at 12--no answer..i text message him and then about ...
A. 5 June 2007: Why do you have that suspicion? Do you have cause to doubt him? He could very well be telling the truth, I've done that myself before. Has he gave you cause by his actions to doubt him before? How long have you been together? Has he EVER ... (read in full...)
Me and my ex boyfriend got back together but the trust isn't there
Q. Me and my ex boyfriend got back together but the trust isn't there..he went out with a girl. used her to get to someone else.. mind u the girl he went out with while we were goin out b 4 they kissed.. now he claims thats his sister..and that there ...
A. 5 June 2007: Then ask to meet his sister! Let him prove to you she's really his sister. If he's telling the truth this shouldn't be a problem for him. Take your relationship very slowly and don't be too quick to jump into bed with him. Trust needs to be ... (read in full...)
Do I take my ex back or give it a go with this other guy?
Q. dear cupid, i have been in a relationship with a guy for 22 years which produced two beautiful children. I left him recently because i was abused and embarrassed in front of people at times. I have a new boyfriend, but i just hate to ...
A. 5 June 2007: Thanks for emailing me R. I have answered your email and will continue to talk with you there if you prefer okay?
Eve... (read in full...)
If I cannot enslave her, I cannot trust her for being a faithful spouse.
Q. My concept of getting engaged into an emotional tie with a girl has to do with getting over her ego and insulting her so as to destroy her self-esteem and establish prime supremacy over her emotions and feelings which cannot develop for anyone ...
A. 3 June 2007: Erm.... leaving her alone would be a good option. So come on, what's all this about? Why do you feel this way? Are you wanting a Dom/sub relationship with her? Does she feel the same way?
You say - "It is sort of forcing a life time of slave... (read in full...)
I understand why a woman could find kissing and petting with another woman stimulating. I wish I could get her to to bring her friends home.
Q. My girlfriend admitted to me that she had lesbian sex with a friend when she was younger. The country she comes from there is no complex about doing this. To be honest I have been really turned on by it which has surprised me. Part of me wants her ...
A. 2 June 2007: COMMUNICATION - You need to sit down with your girlfriend and have a long talk about this. Ask her how she felt about her lesbian affair and if she'd ever be tempted to go there again. Ask her HER fantasies then tell her your fantasies. ... (read in full...)
He moved country and I thought I'd never see him again but I hear he's back in town!!!
Q. 3 years ago I fell in love with someone who was 4 years older than me. I never told him. We were good mates. He went to live in another country and I thought I'd never see him again. I was heart broken and only recently I got over him. NOW, he's...
A. 2 June 2007: You have both matured in that 3 years. Next time you see him, hold your head up, look terrific, confident and assertive and say it's great to see him again, then ask him how he is and what he's been doing etc etc. You'll soon know whether or not ... (read in full...)
He announced (via email!) that he was going travelling round the world for a year with his friends. He is now very distant with me...
Q. Please, Please help! I met somebody about 4 to 5 months ago now. It was a long distance relationship but we have managed to see each other and have kept in touch regularly. We had a very strong connection, to the point where i would say that i have ...
A. 2 June 2007: Maybe he wants to see a bit of the world before settling down or it may be that he wants to test his feelings for you. The best thing to do is give him your consent and tell him you think it's a great idea! He may have thought things were moving a ... (read in full...)
What can I do to improve this relationship?
Q. hey guys, my boyfriend and i have been going out a year he works away a lot. recently we decided to go on holiday we argued a lot on holiday as we real we have grown apart a bit and have decided to give it a go still and try harder but i noticed he ...
A. 2 June 2007: Do you want my opinion? He's lost interest in you! The spark has gone and he's only seeing the negative things about you and not the positive. He's been away from you too long and the spark has gone out. Don't mope around though, continue to go ... (read in full...)
He drinks too much and I hate it!
Q. i have been going out with my boyfriend about 6 months now and i stay at his every weekend. every weekend he drinks too much (like lads do) but he always tends to upset me. i don't think he does it intentionally and he says he loves me but i dont ...
A. 2 June 2007: When you go out together he should be concentrating on YOU and what makes YOU happy, not slugging back the beer/spirits and getting smashed! I would stop staying with him at weekends (he's only having his cake and eat it after all) and tell him ... (read in full...)
I found out my boyfriend is going to a strip club. Does this mean he doesn't find me attractive any more?
Q. My boyfriend is saying he is going to a strip club but i wasnt meant to know. is this because he doesnt find me attractive or is bored in anyway? ...
A. 2 June 2007: He's going to a strip club with his mates to have a laugh and let his hair down. Guys need their space too, as long as you can trust him and he only goes for the laugh and the beer then you have nothing to worry about.
Eve... (read in full...)
I think my husband cheated when he was on a business trip to Thailand six months ago!
Q. I think my husband cheated when he was on a business trip to Thailand six months ago...he lost his sex drive years ago when he came back from thailand he wanted sex all the time which is very unusual but it only lasted for two months and now he has ...
A. 2 June 2007: In Thailand there are many beautiful women around and of course many beautiful men who dress up as women. It may be that seeing all these women has made him think about sex again hence the reason he'd be dying to get home to you to make love to ... (read in full...)
His mom doesn't want him to leave the house because she doesn't like to be by herself...
Q. This is going to blow your mind.... What should a girl do when she has a boyfriend of many many years that still lives at home. His mom doesn't want to be by herself ever since her husband died 30 years ago and she is inviting a "friend" over tha...
A. 2 June 2007: This man of yours has absolutely no backbone! He is in his 50's now I take it and has been used to having him mom pamper him all his life. If he really wanted to be with you then he would, he could tell his mom that he would still pop round and ... (read in full...)
I've been with my boyfriend for six months, but our relationship is secret because I'm 17 and he's 30.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for six months, but our relationship is secret because I'm 17 and he's 30. This is my first serious relationship, but he's had lots of girlfriends before, but he's hardly ever been faithful. At the beginning of our ...
A. 2 June 2007: If he's happy with you then he doesn't have any need to text any of his ex's. That's WHY their ex's, because it didn't work out. I would certainly feel insecure in any relationship I had where my partner kept texting his ex so I think you're right ... (read in full...)
I gave him my cell number but he still hasn't text me in 2 weeks!
Q. There's this boy I've been friends with for a couple of years now, and I really like him, and recently I got a cell phone and I gave him my number. But the problem is, he never calls or texts me, and it's been almost two weeks! Why is that?...
A. 2 June 2007: There could be many reasons, maybe he misplaced it, he could have put the number in wrongly or maybe he doesn't fancy you. Best thing to do is drop him a text and asking him how he is, that way he'll have your number again and if he texts back then ... (read in full...)
I'm not attracted to him physically, is that something that could change with time?
Q. I went out with a guy once, and I wasn't really attracted to him. He's called me a few times since then, and we had great conversations on the phone. He has many good qualities--he's intelligent, has a good job, he's friendly, he actually seems to ...
A. 2 June 2007: You don't fancy him physically at the moment but you do enjoy his company and have great conversations with him and you admit he has many good qualities. I'd say that's a good start! Lots of people who have successful relationships tell you they ... (read in full...)
Do I take my ex back or give it a go with this other guy?
Q. dear cupid, i have been in a relationship with a guy for 22 years which produced two beautiful children. I left him recently because i was abused and embarrassed in front of people at times. I have a new boyfriend, but i just hate to ...
A. 2 June 2007: You left him because you were "abused and embarrassed in front of people". Who abused you? Is this physical or verbal abuse you're talking about and how did it embarrass you? Please give me more details to enable me to give you the best advice.
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He keeps giving me mixed signals, should I forget him and move on?
Q. theres a boy who i really like hes 2 years older than me and he keeps on giving me mixed signals and recently i had a dream and it was about a different boy and he was full on and snogged me and it made me realise that i can't keep on waiting around ...
A. 2 June 2007: Continue to be friends with this boy. You're between 10 and 12 years old! Dating will come soon enough, you are both still growing. My advice to you is to enjoy your childhood first before getting in to anything like dating, that will come soon ... (read in full...)
Should I trust her alone with my boyfriend?
Q. i met this girl at a job that i had and we became cool. i also met a guy there who became my boyfriend. One day me and my boyfriend went out and he said that she was going to open up her own business and gave her number to him. She never ...
A. 2 June 2007: How long have you and your boyfriend been seeing one another? Do you trust him? She fancies your boyfriend, that's pretty obvious. Mention to him that you think she fancies him and see what he says. Also mention to him that your relationship ... (read in full...)
What does it mean to commit yourself to someone in a long-term relationship like a marriage?
Q. What does it mean to commit yourself to someone in a long-term relationship like a marriage? ...
A. 2 June 2007: It means you love them enough to want to be with them for the rest of your life. It means you know that person very well and love them with all your heart and want to "give" yourself to them totally (and them to you).
Here is the dictiona... (read in full...)
How do I really know I made the right decision to split up with him?
Q. How will I know it was the right decision? I split with my partner after over 4 years of being together a couple of months ago. We didn't live together or anything so it wasn't a messy split. For me, things hadn't felt right since about Sept...
A. 2 June 2007: You say - "We split up before Christmas last year for a few weeks and then tried to make another go of it - it simply just wasn't working out but it wasn't for the fact of not trying." - You have to believe in your mind that he just wasn't the ... (read in full...)
How long should you see someone for before you have sex? When is too early? And also why do you bleed the first time?
Q. How long should you see someone for before you have sex? When is too early? And also why do you bleed the first time?...
A. 2 June 2007: 13-15 years is DEFINITELY too early AND it's illegal! Your body and mind still have a lot of growing and maturing to do or else you would never need to ask this question. Sex is a very intimate thing between 2 consenting adults and shouldn't be ... (read in full...)
He thinks that if I have lunch with some male classmates (I'm in college), that automatically makes me a whore.
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up 6 months ago and are speaking about trying to work things out and get back together. One of the biggest problems that stand in the way are our completely opposing views on having friends of the opposite sex. I always felt ...
A. 2 June 2007: Before you think of getting back together you need to see if your 6 months apart has matured him in any way. Did he feel so insecure with you before that he couldn't trust you to talk to another guy? Did something happen when you were together ... (read in full...)
I feel embarassed to show him to my friends as he is 'not as fit' as all my old boyfriends.
Q. I am lost with what to do with my (currently ex) boyfriend. I knew him for about a year back when we were both about 14, and liked each other but we were immature/naive and didnt do anything. He moved and i thought i had lost him forever. Suddenly, ...
A. 2 June 2007: He's not for you if you find his size a problem. Move on and spare him getting involved with you again as you'll only end up hurting him. Everyone has faults (even you)it's just a shame that you like him but obviously not enough to let everyone ... (read in full...)
How do I really know I made the right decision to split up with him?
Q. How will I know it was the right decision? I split with my partner after over 4 years of being together a couple of months ago. We didn't live together or anything so it wasn't a messy split. For me, things hadn't felt right since about Sept...
A. 2 June 2007: Reading your post I think you know deep down he wasn't for you and the relationship was one of habit more than anything else.
1. After 4 years you still weren't living together
2. You both wanted different things from life
3. YOUR feelings for... (read in full...)
Do you think I over reacted when he didn't call me for a whole day?
Q. Dear cupid me and my boyfriend of 5 years just broke up because about 2 weeks ago he disappeared and i waited for him to call all day and he never did until the next day and he could not give me a reason so i got mad at him and he hung up on me so...
A. 2 June 2007: After 5 years together the least he owes you is an explanation for his "moving on." Only he knows the reason why though. It could be that he has found someone else and was with her on the day he 'disappeared'. It may be he's been bored and felt ... (read in full...)
Why does she never want to spend time alone with me?
Q. A girl first told my friends that she fancied me about six weeks ago but I decided that I wanted to get to know her properly first. We've kissed a few times when we've been out with a group of mates and I know that she still likes me. We see each ...
A. 1 June 2007: How old is this girl? Is she younger than you? There could be many reasons she feels nervous to be alone with you. Maybe she's never been out with a guy before? Maybe she's had a bad experience when dating? Maybe she's frightened that she clams ... (read in full...)
I am 18 and have never kissed a girl. Why am I such a loser?
Q. hi, i am almost 18 years old and i have NEVER kissed a girl. i know it is very rare and trust me you would not want to be me. i just want to know some possible reasons why i am such a loser....
A. 1 June 2007: Hey, who said you're a loser? So you're fussy, that's no big deal. The right person just hasn't came along yet or the right situation hasn't presented itself yet, nothing wrong with that. You need to be more confident and assertive, learn to love ... (read in full...)
Repeat of a 3-some!
Q. Is it possible for me to get my wife to have sex with another man,she has done this one time before for me and I have a fetish about that.thanks for your advice...
A. 1 June 2007: We women do a lot for the men we are with. A long time ago I did this with a boyfriend I was with. He always wanted to try it and I was curious (if I'm being honest here). If he hadn't pushed it though then it would always have remained a fantasy ... (read in full...)
Am I allowed to love someone while knowing he's not the one?
Q. Am I allowed to love someone while knowing he's not the one? How do I tell him that--I don't want to lead him on and have him plan our futures together, but he's a very all-or-nothing guy, and I don't want this to be the end--I'd still like to be ...
A. 1 June 2007: If you feel all of that then why were you quite adamant that he was not the one? Has he talked about planning your future together? How long have you been together? Explain what you mean when you say "he's a very all or nothing guy"? Is he in ... (read in full...)
He taking a female friend to the cinema and I'm jealous. How do I deal with this 'jealousy bug'?
Q. My boyfriend recently bumped into an old friend and agreed to go to the cinema with her, just the two of them. I felt a bit uncomfortable with this so asked if he could take a friend with him just to put my mind at rest. I know he loves me, and i ...
A. 31 May 2007: Feelings such as jealousy are based on fear and do not come from love at all, we say we feel like this BECAUSE we love the person but this isn't the case at all. Jealousy comes from wanting to possess and wanting to own or have. One cannot own ... (read in full...)
Am I allowed to love someone while knowing he's not the one?
Q. Am I allowed to love someone while knowing he's not the one? How do I tell him that--I don't want to lead him on and have him plan our futures together, but he's a very all-or-nothing guy, and I don't want this to be the end--I'd still like to be ...
A. 31 May 2007: If you truly love him then you respect him for who he is, warts and all. You want to look after them and protect them, you look out for them and put them first. You feel happy and content in their company and enjoy being together. Above all you can ... (read in full...)
I 'm interested in BDSM-how do I introduce it to my bf of 2 years?
Q. Help! This is a very strange question... And I feel strange asking it. I am interested in BDSM (male domination) and am in a really secure relationship with my boyfriend. I just don't know how to introduce a Dom/Sub relationship, since it all seems ...
A. 31 May 2007: You would be surprised just how many couples actually partake in a Dominant/submissive lifestyle. Wait until you are both sitting relaxed and tell him what you like sexually, ask him what he likes first then introduce it that way. There are many ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 May 2007: Tell him to move out, (sooner rather than later or it might be YOU he hits next time,) give him the divorce and let him see his son, he has that right (as long as he sees him sober.)
Eve... (read in full...)
He said it's his work that's stopping him from seeing me so much but now he won't let me come round to his house. What's going on?
Q. Dear Cupid, me and my bf have been going out for two years, one year after we started dating he got promoted to the post of manager. since then he's just changed he doesn't come to see me anymore, and he just keeps making excuses ...
A. 29 May 2007: You're hanging on in here by the skin of your teeth, the fact of the matter is he doesn't make you happy any more. He's using work as his excuse, he may be telling you the truth, he may not. At the end of the day you are NOT top of his priority ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to tell my boyfriend I don't want to be with him anymore?
Q. me and my boyfriend used to date a couple of years back and we have just recently got back together and he has changed too much, it was fine for the first two weeks of us getting together but now its all changed he always wants sex and i dont enjoy ...
A. 29 May 2007: The reasons we have relationships with others is to see if we're compatible with them. As the years pass, people change, he's changed and you're not attracted to him the same as you used to be. Just be honest with him, tell him that you like and ... (read in full...)
We both have problems with the age difference but we can't seem to stay away from each other.
Q. Dear Cupid I am involoved with a 22 year old male, we 'gel' I am 45 He feels that it is morally wrong, while I think that at some point he will decide that I am to old for him.- we both have issues around our age, him in particular as he lives wi...
A. 29 May 2007: It's obvious there's a very strong chemistry between you. Forget what anyone else thinks, life is too short so enjoy one anothers company. My husband was 24 years older than I was and the age was never a problem, it's only what you make it. Go for ... (read in full...)
My wife and I want to try out some new ways which are exciting but extremely pleasureable sex wise, any ideas?
Q. me and my wife have been married for 7yrs this summer and been going out together since we were 16. We have always had a really good sex life and still at the age of 33 we still have sex between 3-5 times a week even though we have 2 kids. One is 17 ...
A. 29 May 2007: Here are a couple of links that show different positions you can try. They are quite graphic so I hope you're not offended.
http://www.loversguide.com/sex_positions.0.html
http://www.loversguide.com/
Eve... (read in full...)
I recently had an affair but now he's dumped me and I don't know how to deal with it.
Q. I recently had an affair. It was very intense and I thought we both loved each other deeply. I was preparing to leave my partner for him and them abruptly he finished it, claiming he couldn't destroy my family. He wanted to remain friends ...
A. 28 May 2007: He may have been genuine saying he was breaking up with you because he didn't want to destroy your family but I think there's more to it. He may be married and hasn't told you or he might be back with his girlfriend... but I think there's more to ... (read in full...)
I feel like it may be "too soon" to love again...
Q. Four years ago I was engaged to be married to a woman who I thought loved me. A month before our wedding, she broke off our relationship, and cleaned me out, she stole money from me, took all my furniture and appliances, pretty much everything that ...
A. 28 May 2007: You were very much in love with your ex weren't you? I can feel your pain and the thought of getting rid of her pictures probably terrifies you as you know that would finally put closure on all you had together. Keep in your heart the good times ... (read in full...)
I recently had an affair but now he's dumped me and I don't know how to deal with it.
Q. I recently had an affair. It was very intense and I thought we both loved each other deeply. I was preparing to leave my partner for him and them abruptly he finished it, claiming he couldn't destroy my family. He wanted to remain friends ...
A. 28 May 2007: Was this guy married or in a relationship too? It seems to me one of three things. (1)Either his conscience has kicked in and he feels bad that he's seeing you when you already have a partner, (2) Because the relationship was so intense he may be ... (read in full...)
Am I allowed to love someone while knowing he's not the one?
Q. Am I allowed to love someone while knowing he's not the one? How do I tell him that--I don't want to lead him on and have him plan our futures together, but he's a very all-or-nothing guy, and I don't want this to be the end--I'd still like to be ...
A. 24 May 2007: First of all, you don't LOVE this man. You may be fond of him and enjoy his company but you certainly aren't in love with him, if you were you would want to be together for eternity.
Think about it this way. You are with a man you adore, y... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 25 March 2007: You KNOW the answer, you said so yourself, you just need to put it into practise. For one, you admitted you have too much time on your hands and are bored. You're using this time to get on his bad side. I would advise you to find something to ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 March 2007: I would meet with him. When he does come to the house then let him know you're glad he wanted to talk because YOU wanted to talk too. Then let him know that you had already decided that him moving back was NOT going to happen. YOU had changed your ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 6 March 2007: I was shocked to hear how you just rolled over and let him back into your home so easily! Things OBVIOUSLY aren't going well with this other woman but do you really want him back in the house the way things stand? Do you realise the life you're ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 21 February 2007: Keep yourself looking your best, go out and meet other people (like your city friend) it will keep your confidence boosted and that's what you need right now. Continue to let your ex husband see that there is more to life than HIM! Try and ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 18 February 2007: Hey if you want this to work you need to listen to my advice! How many times did I tell you to play it cool with him, being friendly without being needy! The minute you get by yourself you call him and ask him over????? Jeeeeeeeeeeze.... wake up ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 February 2007: Oh dear, what a weekend you had. Nothing worse than being with someone you want so much and them to treat you this way. You have to resort to the fact he's made his mind up. "You can take a horse to the water but you can't make it drink." You've ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 February 2007: I think you're doing great! You could have flown at him a number of times yet you've kept it together EVEN with your cold so well done there! DON'T ask him to stay over. When he comes to visit be friendly and pleasant. Remember, the plan is to ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 January 2007: Next time he comes over tell you you're sorry for being such a bitch to him and if you could turn the clock back you would. For the sake of your son though you want to be able to be friends with him and hope he agrees. If you prove by your ACTIONS ... (read in full...)
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