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Is my music teacher flirting with me?

Q.   I've been thinking about this for quite some time now, and would really like to get someone else's opinion on the matter: I've developed a sort of friendship with my music teacher over the years. It felt like we were on the same page about many ...

A.   29 January 2010: sounds like he likes you altohugh it does sound weird i dont think you will ever know for sure if you dont meet him( not saying you should). and you are not over analyzing the situation at all i would be the same if it was happening to me. g... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my best friend but he doesn't seem to care!

Q.   Ok there my best friend who's really sweet and cute i know him for like 4 years.. and i have a big crush on him but he doesn't seem to care a lot. I don't know if he is lying to me but he always tells me that he loves me but never acts like it. i do...

A.   25 January 2010: oh i feel for you. you seem like a nice person and sometimes if you dont ask you dont get i have learned that from expirience becuase i didnt want to be embarresed incase they ddint like me. but you two must be close but some people find it hard... (read in full...)

Where to find cute bras for big chested girls?

Q.   I'm a 32DD and when your boobs are that big, bras stop being cute or pretty and turn into "over the shoulder boulder holders" lol i was just curious if some other busty girls knew of someplace to find cute bras for big chested girls??...

A.   19 July 2009: well there are many shops i would say marks and spencers do good range of bras. or tkmax as they have items at affordable prices. go shopping adn have a look in the department stores i would try debenhams or bhs. good luckxxxxx ... (read in full...)

How do you cope if they don't return your love?

Q.   i am deeply in love with someone who doesn't feel the same way. All i want is him. He will make my life complete. He is the only person i have ever loved. i dont know what to do: im feeling sad depressed lonely and desperate. I don't k...

A.   8 May 2009: i have been through it its awful by not seeing the person helps a bit and sad romantic songs dont help either.listenting to people who have gone through it helps loads ... (read in full...)

My best friend is about to start dating the love of my life!

Q.   hey everyone, i need some help! i really, really like this girl, i have for about a year and never been able to tell her but ive dropped hints for ages, we are really close, and she just broke up with her boyfriend. I was at a party which she rea...

A.   22 April 2009: i feel for you, i know what its like but come clean to your freind on the phone or in person you must tell them its better to be safe then sorry. she might of " cosyed" up to your freind cause she felt upset about her break up.... (read in full...)

Is he confused or could he really like me?

Q.   Hey ok you know when people think a lad likes you because of how he acts and stuff and from past things that have happened and they say they think he likes you but hasn;t admitted it to himself yet what do tehy mean by hasn't admitted it to himself ...

A.   30 September 2008: when he hasnt admitted it to himself it means he doesnt know "yet" he likes you or he just wants to keep it a secret because he may feel you dont like him in "that" way. mail me if you want a more detailed ansewerew... (read in full...)

I'm worried boys will be put off by my ginger hair...

Q.   hey im a ginger girl, 16. whenever i go out to town and places and meet boys im always worried that boys will be put off by my ginger hair. I don't know if its just me being wierd or weather boys don't actually like ginger hair. What do you think...

A.   8 May 2008: well my freinds ginger and she has a very pretty face she does get teased but i dont think it puts boys off becasue she has a few boyfreinds it depends of the guy is a t**t or not.... (read in full...)

I want to dump him because I think his too old for me

Q.   i went out with a boy that is 20 years old and i am 14 years old, he loves me to bits but i dont really know the meaning of love. and i also think that he is playing me because his mates say his a player but he say they are lieing, i told my girl ...

A.   29 April 2008: he is a pedophille saty away from him... (read in full...)

When you first start 'showing' during pregnancy.....?

Q.   When you first start 'showing' during pregnancy, does it look and feel pretty much like a fat stomach? Or does it feel different from fat - is it more firm, or hurt if you hit it? Thanks :]...

A.   3 April 2008:  if the women is thin its likley she wil look bloated by the 3/4 months. ... (read in full...)

Ate rapidly, now I have stomachaches. Is there something wrong with me?

Q.   i recently went to the doctors because i had symptons of a urine infection. i had some stomach pains and back pains i told the doctor and she felt my stomach and she told me to give a urine sample to be analysed and gave me a course of antibotics. ...

A.   27 February 2008: i have been feeling a lot better i got my results back from the doctors and my kidneys are clear... (read in full...)

I've fallen for him, but I am 12 and he is turning 18! Help!!

Q.   i have fallen head over heels for this boy and 89% of the time i think about him. the only thing is i am 12 and he turns 18 this month. i need help!!...

A.   24 February 2008: when i was 14 i fancied a 21 year old footballer i soon got over him it was just a faze for 1/2 months i would not try anything with him he is too old for you and you are a child xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

Why am I feeling so low?

Q.   at the moment i have been feeling so low. i have friends but i dont want to be near them and i feel really distant from everybody in general. i dont want to get close to anyone and the littlest things upset me. i am 14 years old and this has been...

A.   24 February 2008: i think its just part of growing up somtimes i feel down for the slightest things but now i no there are more important things to worry about. cheer yourself up watch a comedy ... (read in full...)

Can you lose your virginity through masturbation?

Q.   what are difference between virgin pussy and un virgin pussy? and can a girl lose her virginity while masturbating (fingering only)?...

A.   24 February 2008: the boys at school call it "pop your cherry" he too fingerd a girl no your not losing you virginty it may be less painfull when you do lose it though. xxxxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

If he likes me then why wouldn't he go out with me?

Q.   I like a guy and i think he likes me. He always says how pretty i am and he's very flirty on msn. We don't talk at school but at my army cadets we do. He stands up for me and is quite sweet though sometimes a bit insensitive. Only thing is when i ...

A.   24 February 2008: a boy once todl me i was pretty on msn and i really liked him but he was telling my freinds diffrent things he said he liked me too. he was flirty with me as well maybe he was shocked because you asked him out on the spot. i would ask the boy ... (read in full...)

Should I ask my childhood friends to my wedding?

Q.   I am due to be married in a few weeks. I have almost everthing prepared but 1 problem still keeps me awake at night, here's the background to my story so I can then ask the question: From age of about 12 I had these 'friends'.. There was about 8 of ...

A.   20 February 2008: I think you should, what is the harm?... (read in full...)

What are these spots down there?

Q.   I'm a 13yr old girl. I have spots down there. Like alot of them. They are swollen/red and sometimes they even bleed. I dont shave down there. What is it? ...

A.   13 February 2008: hmmmmm where abouts in your vagina i think you should go and see your gp i am sure you have not got too much to worry about i would to ask my mom to take me to the doctor if i had a problem down there.but its the best thing to do love ... (read in full...)

I have a crush but he has a girlfriend.

Q.   i have a huge crush on a guy i work with. problem is he has a girlfriend. we are pretty flirty with each other when we work together which is 5 days a week. other people we work with have even commented on our chemistry together. he has only be...

A.   16 January 2008: you are goning through almost the same as me you clearly like each other i think you should wait untill they break up but if you have waited long enough i think that you may need to talk to him.... (read in full...)

Is it normal that I get very wet when my bf just kisses me?

Q.   I get really wet and ejaculate when my boyfriend even just kisses me, is this normal? ...

A.   8 January 2008: you must like your bf a lot you go girl!!!... (read in full...)

I really liked his picture, how can I get talking to him?

Q.   Hey, so ive seen a pic of my mums best mates grandson and hes sooo fine. I really want to meet him and it sort of helps that i know his grandma. Any suggestions on how i can get talking to him??...

A.   6 January 2008: the same happend to me i liked a boy by his msn pic and what happen i had my heart broken. ask his grandmother about him and then make up your mind... (read in full...)

Don't date players!!

Q.   Ok, a lot of people say that they like players and that they wanna get with the player but if you get with a player he/she will just break your heart stupid!!!! I dated a player and he just broke my heart. So girls/guys,dont date players,...

A.   6 January 2008: you are wright i have been played by a player and been upset and heart broken stay away from them!!... (read in full...)

Am I making a big deal out of nothing?

Q.   ok on sunday i was talking to this boy on msn that most of my freinds know we were talking he said i was beutiful and fit he also asked if i wanted to meet up with him somewhere i said not this week because i am busy and when we go back to school. ...

A.   4 January 2008: well the thing i have already fallen for him so it makes it very hard to forget about him.... (read in full...)

Could my boyfriend be a paedophile (or an ephebophile)?

Q.   I'm afraid I might be dating a peadophile. My boyfriend (nealry 20) is attracted Hannah Monatna who is 15, and I am so grossed out I can't even kiss him let alone make love to him. He makes jokes about him being an ebophile to his friends online (he ...

A.   4 January 2008: i agree hannah montana does look a lot older she could pas for a 18 year old so i dont think its that bad.... (read in full...)

Could my boyfriend be a paedophile (or an ephebophile)?

Q.   I'm afraid I might be dating a peadophile. My boyfriend (nealry 20) is attracted Hannah Monatna who is 15, and I am so grossed out I can't even kiss him let alone make love to him. He makes jokes about him being an ebophile to his friends online (he ...

A.   4 January 2008: he is atracted to hannah montana i would be suspisous about that although she is not a real person it is kinda weird for a 20year old, i would see how things progress.... (read in full...)

Do I have commitment issues?

Q.   I've just started seeing this girl. She is a great girl, all my friends and family say she's a good catch. Yet for some reason I'm questioning the relationship. It's only been a few weeks but I'm having doubts about being in a relationship. I don't ...

A.   4 January 2008: see how it goes, she sounds like a nice girl, at least try and i dont thnik you have commitment issues, i think you are just questioning the relationship which many people do.... (read in full...)

My Mom snoops when I'm on the internet, I find her lack of trust very irritating, how do I get her to stop?

Q.   hi i am 14 and in year 10 and my mom keeps on being nosy about what i do on the internet.i am not doing anything bad or wrong all i do is go on msn and myspace maybe play on games. she clearly thinks i am up to somthing which is wrong she always a...

A.   1 January 2008: ok i have too admit i always close the page everytime my parents walk by.only because i am in a private convo with bad language being used.my mom is very striked on swaering and my sister of 20 is not allowed to swear and i also go no forums too so ... (read in full...)

How can I get over my Christmas grief??

Q.   Hiya, I'll understand when you read this is you just tell me to grow up and get over it but i really need some help. Around November my dog that i'd had since i was 6 got quite ill and we didn't know what was wrong with her and in December she wen...

A.   23 December 2007: the same thing happend to me with my cat in july i cryed for a few days then got better it was so sad i had him since i was in year two and he died to wekks before the summer holidays.i am in year 10 now and i have a kitten i do love him but no ... (read in full...)

My ex-boyfriend tried to rape me! What should I do?

Q.   hi there i was wondering if there is anyone out there who can help me out with this back in august i was almost raped by my ex boyfriend i dumped him excatly for this reason and im now with someone who respects me and loves me well my ex bo...

A.   17 December 2007: i no you probaly not want to but i agree with all the other agony aunts you should really report him but if you dont want to do that try and ignor him if that doesnt work blank him out your life completly he sounds like a idiot.... (read in full...)

My mom read my diary and now I feel all traumatized! What to do about her??

Q.   My Mom read my diary this morning, I'm traumatised. She knows my sex life in huge, digusting detail, she knows that I'm a good child brought up very well and I never wanted that to change. I'm a 14 year old female who initiated sex with my ...

A.   16 December 2007: you poor girl my mom is like that i am 14 too but i am still a virgin. my mom goes through my things thinking i am up to something so i dont keep things like dairIEs.if i want to hide somthing from my mom (like in your case a dairy ) i take it to ... (read in full...)

Can a penis be too big to fit in?

Q.   is there a possibility that the penis doesnt fit in a girl's vagina because its too big??...

A.   11 December 2007: it depends on the girls too how many sexual partners has she had. how many times she has had sex. if she is a virgin oviously it coould cause her pain i dont know if you can be too big though... (read in full...)

Am I EVER going to orgasm?

Q.   Hey this may be a bit of a stupid question but here goes: I dont think Ive ever had an orgasm. ever! Im with a great bf who's VERY large down there! and great in bed! im not joking, he is the best guy ive been with. But ive been with a few guys...

A.   11 December 2007: it will be like a first period you will be waiting and waiting for it and it will come when you least expect it.... (read in full...)

How can I make my teeth whiter?

Q.   Hey i was wondering if anyone has any tips for getting whiter teeth ? thanks x...

A.   10 December 2007: speical tooth paste extra whitning there are so many things look them up on the net or trat yourself to a tooth whitning kit for christmas.... (read in full...)

Is "giving head" and a "blow job" the same thing?

Q.   I know this is stupid, but is there a difference between giving head and a blow job? And how can I do it so it feels really good for my guy?...

A.   10 December 2007: yes it is the same but giving head can mean men licking weomen out too.... (read in full...)

I'm confused. Am I pregnant?

Q.   I had unprotected sex with my bf 6 days after my period went off and my period came right on time and was regular 5 days...and i have taken 7 preganacy test since then and its been weeks since i had unprotected sex....my period is coming on time ...

A.   1 December 2007: Sounds like you are not pregnant so don't worry and if that dont help make a doctors appointment.... (read in full...)

Is she right for me?

Q.   there's this girl i've liked alot for over a year. Its come to a point where i'm crazy over but her am not asking her out because i'm scared of losing the great friendship we have. One of her friends, also mine who knows i like the girl told me...

A.   1 December 2007: i liked a boy for about a year i didnt make a move, what happend is he got a girlfreind !which upset me and which made it worst. his girlfreind was mean and we dont exactly get along. after they broke up he liked me for about a month since we were ... (read in full...)

Didn't use protection 3 days before my period was due. 5 days late now. How late is late enough to worry?

Q.   Hey...I'm now 5 days late. I did have unprotected sex with my bf 3 days before my period was due....which was sunday...but it still hasn't come on now :S could I pregnant? How late is late enough to worry? Thanks for reading, any advice would be ...

A.   1 December 2007: i think if your period hasnt come 10 days after your due then get a test. xxx... (read in full...)

3 yrs goin down the drain for HIS FRIEND!???

Q.   Okay this is gonna be a pretty long post but i rly need advice... My bf and i have been together for almost 3 years. thats sooo long for me. things were going great and still are. There are just always those "times" when it seems like everything ...

A.   23 November 2007: ok i think you need to do some soul searching. way up the pros and cons of each of thease boys and clearly chose form them you wouldnt want to waste your relationship.love is strong this may be just a crush.you dont love him you love your bf. mail... (read in full...)

How long to know if I'm pregnant

Q.   i had sex with my boyfriend around like 7pm yesterday. and when he was done he said the condom broke and now i'm gna be pregnant cuz he busted. how long until i know if i really am or not??...

A.   23 November 2007: the morning after pill please take asap.... (read in full...)

I'm rather shy, whereas he's outgoing. Do I have a chance?

Q.   How can you tell if a guy is going to ask you out? Will I ever have a bf? I'm almost 16 and never had a bf because I'm quiet and shy. I like a senior, who I think likes me, but he's outgoing. Do I even have a chance? ...

A.   21 November 2007: of course you have a chance eh would be lucky to go out with a nice girl like you oppisites attract ... (read in full...)

She insults me for no reason

Q.   ok.I have this "friend" of mine..I know she is not an evil person, but has probably many things unsolved and is coming 3 times in public place(ex club) to shout on me inslutnig me without reason. I found myself no more capable to bear that, and i ...

A.   18 November 2007: she may be jelouse of you do you have somthing she wants? i also learned that after she has shouted at you and insulted you simply say "is that it" she will be tottaly shocked and may feel bad about later. hope all goes wellxxx... (read in full...)

Why don't I feel pregnant??

Q.   hI i'M 19 and 11 weeks pregnant with my fiance of 2 years and we've decided to keep it but my question is why don't I feel pregnant? I mean I'm not showing much and I havent had my first scan yet because we only decided to keep it recently and my d...

A.   12 November 2007: well done i think this is just a one off you should be glad you dont have morning sickness best wishesxxx... (read in full...)

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