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Is he just using me to get what he wants?

Q.   i like this boy, but he sees me as a 'friend'. we are only teenagers, so we practise things on each other. last time we went quite far and he wants me to do it again. im confused whether i should do it again. i want to but im not sure if he is just ...

A.   15 March 2007: i agree with eve, he's totally using ya, but being a guy, he might not realise the full extent of his actions. if i was ya i would talk the whole thing ova with him, or just say you wanna stay friends but NO more 'pratice'.... (read in full...)

I know the saying "opposites attract" but can people with very similar things in common attract too?

Q.   I heard some where once that opposites attract. Well I’ve become really good friends with a girl recently and she’s the only person in the world that I’ve met that is similar to me, we share viewpoints and we conclude things the same. We have d...

A.   15 March 2007: thanks eve that makes me rather quite happy :D... (read in full...)

What am I doing wrong in relationships? Just when I think everything is going great... BAM... I'm dumped!

Q.   Help!!!!!! Hi there I really dont know what I am doing wrong in relationships, it happened again Saturday I was unexpectedly dumped by text. I go out with these guys bend over backwards to make them feel special even if they do not return this, I ...

A.   6 March 2007: just keep your standards high, maybe even raise them a little. where are you meeting these loosers? maybe you should find a new way/place to meet new guys.... (read in full...)

Can too much masterbation cause impotence??

Q.   dear cupid, i am 16-17 i masterbate at least 3-4 times a week or evn more, if you masterbate too many times can it cause impotence?...

A.   6 March 2007: i used to do it too much yea in a way it can cause impotence, but not fully. i think 2-3 tines a week is fine, but when i was at my worse it was a couple of times a day and thats just no good. the thing is it just feels so much better if you wait ... (read in full...)

What is your definition of love?

Q.   My question is short and concise; What is love? I know that there is no text book definition of love, and that there's no right or wrong answer to that. I've always wondering and was just thinking what everybody else here thought. Thanks. ...

A.   6 March 2007: my love definition is; Love is wanting to do everything possible for your partner, to be there slave, but knowing that they would never ask you to do so.... (read in full...)

Whenever my boyfriend gets drunk or high he holds me down and forces me to have sex with him. Last night he choked me until I was unconscious... but I love him, it's not his fault.

Q.   I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and for the first 2 years things were going great but now he hits me whenever he gets drunk or high. Sometimes he even holds me down and forces me to have sex with him. I don't want to leave him ...

A.   6 March 2007: leave him if he dont clean up, I was the kinda the same as him till i've recently given up drinking. i know it'll be hard for the both of ya if ya have to split up but it will be the right thing to do.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend cheated on me but I forgave him. He still keeps in touch and has had lunch with her since. Is it time to finally let go?

Q.   My boyfriend cheated on me with his friend. I decided to stay with with him but i told him that i could never forget what happend. I have forgiven him for the incident. But lately I've found them eating lunch and dinner together. He doesn't like to ...

A.   27 February 2007: I personally would let him go, i know it will be hard since you love him and all but he shouldn't be having any contact with her if he wants a relationship with you, its just not right.... (read in full...)

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