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Condoms are too big for my penis and it's creating problems for me...what should I do?

Q.   Condoms, they're all too big for me. My penis is 4 inches big, but condoms are 6 inches if you buy them from shops or machines. This problem became worse when i was having sex and it came off in the girl I was shagging, things got worse wen i shot...

A.   13 February 2007: Are you sure your penis is erect when you are attempting to have sex, I think you can buy condoms in different sizes, small, medium, large and supersize! I doubt that the condom would have been 'stuck' inside your girlfriend, you could have easily ... (read in full...)

He wants some guy time but I don't want him to leave me. Am I being unreasonable?

Q.   My boyfriend has many friends out of state and he wants to go travel and see them. He only wants to bring me on some of the trips. He says because it would be an imposition on some of his friends since their places are small and that he just wants ...

A.   11 February 2007: My ex kept saying he wanted to go off with the lads for weekends away and space to do his own thing, but wanted to come back for his home comforts. Turned out he was a lying and cheating with another woman 200 miles away, he was lying to her too! ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has just "disappeared" after being with him for 6 months. Should I send him a birthday card?

Q.   hello, my long distance boyfriend just disappeared after a 6 month relationship without giving me any explanations, and i knew he called his ex girlfriend.. his birthday is coming soon in few days, and im confused if i should send him a birthday ...

A.   10 February 2007: Definately not! I was pissed off when my ex boyfriend disappeared for a weekend. Don't stoop to his level, if he hasn't the guts to tell you the reason for his disappearance then don't even waste time thinking about him! ... (read in full...)

How can my husband be so cruel to me?

Q.   Help!, Me and my husband been seperated for over 20 years and are still married!. I am young lady! he owns an estate and i am homeless.(HE SAID TO ME HAS IS GONE ON WITH LIFE)!telling to me leave him alone! I need a lot of HELP and answers! how can ...

A.   9 February 2007: Get yourself a solicitor and make sure you get HALF of everything and make a better life for yourself. Good Luck.... (read in full...)

Wanted: Your feedback and ideas for DearCupid... !

Q.   Hi I'm looking for your feedback and ideas for DearCupid. Either reply to this thread or send me a private mail :-) Got an idea for a new feature? Want to tell me what works well? What's not up to scratch? If you're in the UK hope you're n...

A.   9 February 2007: Would like to see categories for under 18's then 18-30 and 30-50 and 50-100! Some times start reading the questions then realise the poster is still at school and I'm having a mid life crisis LOL...just a thought...otherwise excelle... (read in full...)

My husband took everything we had - trust, love, and ruined it by sleeping with a Thai bar girl...

Q.   I had a very happy marriage until about three months ago. My husband went on a business trip to Thailand and visited a go-go bar where he had protected sex with a bar girl. He got back and confessed the very same night but said he only had oral sex ...

A.   8 February 2007: I agree with soulsista, once the trust is destroyed nothing will ever be the same again. This is an example of where men's brains are - in their trousers! If he had given thought to what he risked losing then maybe he would not have done it. To ... (read in full...)

My partner of 5 years had "something" going on with a sales assistant he chatted up!

Q.   I have lived with my partner 5 years. About 8 weeks ago, he chatted up a sales assistant - thus starting ...something. I know he sent her flowers and I know they have talked on his mobile and sent sexy, lovey messages (but there were also some fro...

A.   26 January 2007: I am convinced your partner is still in contact with another woman, my ex did exactly the same! He even hid his phone at the top of the curtain pole! He was so worried that I was going to find all his sordid little secrets and I eventually did, ... (read in full...)

I don't know if I slept with anyone but I think I might be pregnant. Help!

Q.   i've dug myself a hole too deep... this year i started dating a hockey player, he's a really sweet and caring guy and i loved him to death. About a week ago him and a few of his buddies were threw a party and naturally he invited me. We cranked ...

A.   25 January 2007: Make sure you don't drink too much next time! Stay in control of your actions, and make sure your drinks don't get 'spiked'. In the UK a new law is being considered whereby a man could be charged with rape if he has sex with a drunk woman, ... (read in full...)

I have love and companionship and a cosy home.. but no sex. Is it worth risking everything for a sexual relationship?

Q.   I've been married 8 years, no kids. I'm in my late 40s, my wife just over 50. We knew each other for a few years before we got together romantically. It was sexy and exiting at first and I remember thinking at last here was the girl who had ...

A.   25 January 2007: Don't take this the wrong way, but life is short, don't waste your life wishing things were different, you have to bite the bullet and make things happen! Don't make the mistake of wasting your time with a woman who is unable to make you feel ... (read in full...)

How do I get revenge on him?

Q.   How do i get revenge: Was seeing my ex for 2 years, fell pregnant 5 months ago, he did want it didnt want it etc this went on til i was 5 mnths gone. He then was dead against having it and cos i was so in love i went with his decision. Had abortion ...

A.   22 January 2007: Sorry ignore last message it should read www.getrevengeonyourex.com... (read in full...)

How do I get revenge on him?

Q.   How do i get revenge: Was seeing my ex for 2 years, fell pregnant 5 months ago, he did want it didnt want it etc this went on til i was 5 mnths gone. He then was dead against having it and cos i was so in love i went with his decision. Had abortion ...

A.   22 January 2007: Visit www.revengeonyourex.com GOOD LUCK!... (read in full...)

He cheated on me with another woman...I took him back. Do you think he's learned his lesson?

Q.   I was married for 7 years and then seperated and met a new guy, I have been with him for 4.5 years and have just found out he has been cheating. He met this girl out drinking and they were just texting so he told me. I got her number and then ...

A.   21 January 2007: I've also had this happen to me, I was living with my ex and also rang the woman he had been texting, found out he had been cheating, he begged me for another change, claiming he would cut all ties with her, even changed his mobile number, but guess ... (read in full...)

My husband keeps meeting up with his ex, I try not to let it bother me but truth is it does.Why does he want to keep meeting with her?

Q.   My husband texts his ex girlfriend and meets her every week. He doesn't think I should be jealous about this. I try not to let it bother me as he is genuinely in love with me. However, I can't get over the fact that he would even want to meet ...

A.   17 January 2007: I'd suggest getting hold of his ex girlfriends phone number and ask her yourself, you will only find out the truth from her. I would suspect he is having an affair, if not then what does he get from meeting with her that he doesn't from being with ... (read in full...)

We used to contact each other daily, now she only replies every 3 days. Is she forgetting about me?

Q.   Hi, I have been with my current girlfriend since around November/December and we contacted each other daily, spending all our credit on each other. Recently though she seems to be ignoring my texts and only replying every 3 or 4 days when ...

A.   16 January 2007: Couple of suggestions, arrange to meet her instead and have some quality time together, or try emailing as it's even cheaper! I wouldn't let it bother you too much, if you leave more time between texts then you may have more to discuss. If she ... (read in full...)

My ex wants to reunite...should I give it another try?

Q.   My ex left me two years ago and after a messy split I thought I was moving on with my life (although I stil loved him). We ran in to each other and arranged to meet, we did and he wants me back. Now I'm not sure if I want him. I'm worried about ...

A.   16 January 2007: I suggest you try dating without telling your friends and family to start off with and see how you get on now the dust has settled. If things work out well then you can break the news gently and tell them you are happy being reunited with your ex. ... (read in full...)

We had sex twice and it wasn't great-now he doesn't want to do it...what should I do?

Q.   Hello I'm having a bit of a problem. I'm 24 and at christmas i lost my virginity to my boyfriend. We have only had sex twice and it wasn't that great. It was without condoms (long story, and yes i know about safe sex etc) The problem is, sinc...

A.   16 January 2007: I think you should forget about birth control for the time being because you could already be pregnant. Get a pregnancy test kit and double check you are not already pregnant. Then when you know either way see a family planning clinic and discuss ... (read in full...)

He cheated and now..he texts me all the time that he loves me! Does he really love me?

Q.   My problem is extremely complex! Me and my fiance split a year and a half ago after I found out he had been cheating on me. I had some tell tale signs to warn me but simply chose to ignore them. Since our split we've had a very tempramental ...

A.   16 January 2007: I have just been through a similar experience to you. He is a girls worst nightmare, you will never have peace of mind with a guy like this. While you love him and have strong feelings for him he will cause you no end of heartache by seeing other ... (read in full...)

How do I let her know I want her back... even though she's moved on?

Q.   my girlfriend of seven years left me in november and is now seeing someone else i was just wondering how i let her know i still love her and that i want her back....

A.   16 January 2007: You don't explain why it ended, however I would say phone or text her in a friendly way and ask how she's doing, find out if she's happy. It may be that she's moved on is with another guy, but give it time, let her know you're still around, that ... (read in full...)

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