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Hi,

Ever since I can remember people have always fascinated me. I seemed to be very adept at solving people’s “life” problems and I never tired of the constant flow of friends asking for my help. I have always been a great listener and have a lot of patience and empathy for people and have written for advice columns in the past.

I am a Relationships Councillor and Life Coach and have a special aptitude with people. I have been active on this site for a number of years. I'm very much a positive thinker and hate being around negative people. Life is for living, it's too short to moan all the time. I'm determined, very spiritual, grounded, independent, strong willed and love life. Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.

If you realized just how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought. The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.

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We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...

A. 29 October 2007: I'm so pleased for you. Things seem to be coming on heaps and bounds for you in this new relationship. And you're right, your ex was more familiar to you and 3 years is a long time but now you've moved on and seem to have found yourself a lovely ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 18 September 2007: I'm so pleased for you. It's a true saying, when one door closes another one opens. Enjoy being in each others company and getting to know one another and who knows what might happen. Again, well done! Keep us posted. Eve... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 16 August 2007: I'm sorry it didn't work out the way you wanted it to but at least she was honest with you and you can put closure on it now and move on. Things WILL get better, there are plenty more fish in the sea as the saying goes and with every day that ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 10 August 2007: You see, she's beginning to notice a difference in you. Continue with your Counselling, you'll come on heaps and bounds and most importantly continue to have a positive attitude towards life. Remember, YOU are in charge of your own destiny so get ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 6 August 2007: You will have times like that but hey, you'll kiss a lot of frogs before you find your princess. It may be your ex it may not be and if you're to be together then you will be. Just take one day at a time, think positive, get on with life and if ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 24 July 2007: Hey I'm so pleased for you! I would say you have a definite admirer there. She seems just as keen on you as you do on her so well done there! See? Your positive thinking has payed off for you. The world doesn't end when your ex wants to call it ... (read in full...)

' I love him', but 'i don't fancy him anymore'

Q. I'm 18 and love my boyfriend of over a year but I'm not sure I fancy him anymore. I do love him to pieces but the physical attraction just isn't the same for me. I don't really want to split with him because I don't want to lose the closenes...

A. 22 July 2007: You are very fond of your boyfriend as you have a history together however you DON'T love him, if you did you would never "not fancy" him. You need to decide whether you want to stay in this relationship or not and if you stay, you stay because you ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend kicked me out, what do I do now?

Q. me and my bfriend living together for a year, yesterday he kicked me out. normally i always run to him but this time i dont know what to do please help...

A. 22 July 2007: "Normally I always run to him". How many times has this happened and why did he kick you out? Something is obviously wrong with this relationship and you both need to talk about it in order to get it sorted. If you both can't work on the problem ... (read in full...)

I have OCD and if I don't tell my mum my problems, they play on my mind for ages; only thing is, she doesn't like hearing about them

Q. help me...i have OCD and everthing bad i did in the past i have to tell my mum and it really gets to me, it makes me upset and i dont feel like eating when i have a problem running through my head. when i tell her i feel better. i hate this it ...

A. 22 July 2007: You need to talk to your mum about your OCD and tell her exactly how you feel about all this. Let her know you hate bringing all the bad things up that you did but you feel you need to get it off your chest before you can feel better. The positive ... (read in full...)

Sexual relations at work and i'm married.

Q. I have been married for almost 16 years and it has been a sexless marriage. He is nice and responsible and we have a daughter. I did tell him a couple of months ago that I did not want to be married anymore. I started talking with a person at ...

A. 22 July 2007: Then the first thing you need to do is to think ahead and look for another place to live. You of course need to talk with your husband and tell him it's not working any more. And the sooner you finish this relationship with your work colleague the ... (read in full...)

He wants to swing, does he not love me anymore?

Q. My husband said he wants to start swinging, does that mean he does not love me anymore, or is just not satisfied with our sex life. Am i not making him happy anymore? ...

A. 22 July 2007: Men want to swing for lots of reasons. It could well be that he finds sex a bit boring and just wants to spice things up a bit. I would NOT go down this road though (just my opinion) as it will only lead to heartbreak. Only certain types of ... (read in full...)

Sexual relations at work and i'm married.

A. 22 July 2007: You tell him what happened between you was a mistake and it won't be happening again. Let him know what went on between you won't go any further but you've decided to end it before anyone gets hurt. At least that way you have some self respect and ... (read in full...)

Ladies, looks or personality?

Q. Are looks more important to women than personality? Or vice versa? I've heard looks are 30% and personality is 70% important to a women. What you guys think? As many posts as possible would be great! Thanks...

A. 22 July 2007: I would say chemistry is more important than looks. What is good looking to one woman might not be good looking to another. A woman likes a man to look nice yes, but she goes for personality too, how a guy treats her, if he respects her and has ... (read in full...)

Why are my ears ringing?

Q. I hear something in my ear, its like a ringing noise. It goes on and off. What should I do? Could it be a bug?...

A. 17 July 2007: If you get this regularly then it IS Tinnitus. It's harmless but can be very annoying. Some people experience a mild ringing noise, whereas others are troubled by loud, high pitched noises and this can occur in one ear or two. The doctor will try ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 17 July 2007: You're missing her and thinking negatively now. Just get on with things and keep a little bit of her in your heart then when December comes meet up again like you both agreed. A lot can happen between now and then but it will certainly test you ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 15 July 2007: She will be wanting the break for all of the things that you mention, she'll be wanting to test her feelings for you. I do believe in fate and think that if something's meant to be then it will be, it will find YOU so if you ARE both meant to be ... (read in full...)

What is this spot and is it dangerous?

Q. well hey, my question may seem a bit gross but I need to find out about it. I have this spot, it's down there, and it is soo horrid. It has been there for about a month now and it just gets bigger and bigger. I never gets spots on my face or ...

A. 14 July 2007: Trust me, this spot is fine and is nothing to worry about. It's a small cyst and usually happens if you catch one of your pubes. It gets a little bigger until you are aware of it when you move right? It gets a little bigger again and eventually a ... (read in full...)

My wife cheated repeatedly; I gave her another chance but she still sees the men she was unfaithful with

Q. My wife has had sex with more then a few guys on the side. A few were her coworkers. Our marriage was falling apart rapidly because of her infidelity and deciet. One day I had enough of her abuse and threats of divorce so I told her I was looking ...

A. 14 July 2007: She works with men so she'll get a lot of comments and flattering remarks which she finds hard to resist. Are you showing her enough attention and treating her well? Maybe this has been lacking from you in the past? My advice to you both would be ... (read in full...)

Its funny they always say guys are the ones that abuse feelings, but girls are just as bad.

Q. Right I thought I would give this a try since I am at my wits end. Okay so basicly I met this girl over the internet, I know, classic fling right? well I thought so too. I wasn't looking for anything special, mostly just someone to flirt with. I'm ...

A. 12 July 2007: Hi Jon, I read your story and could feel your pain. She obviously was your first love but you will love again. You fell for her big time and in the end she hurt you with her lies. This will make you very wary of women in the future and you'll f... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 12 July 2007: You sound far more positive and relaxed about things now. I smiled when I read your comments as you seem far more focussed on your way ahead now, I'm so please for you. Like you said, you can both live your lives with freedom of choice. Keep ... (read in full...)

Isn't this fraud?????

Q. I found out off a work colleague of my husband's that he and his friends at work have been raising money for a non-existent employee who has lung cancer in order to fund a trip to Las Vegas to see showgirls and prostitutes. The "colleague" was ...

A. 12 July 2007: This most certainly IS fraud and your husband and all those involved will be charged if they are ever found out about this!!!! I would tell him to pull out NOW! Eve... (read in full...)

I am a bit perturbed by the fact that she chose to share a flat with one her mates and another guy (male). Am I being petty?

Q. Dear cupid, I have been seeing this girl for 2 years now, due to various reasons we cant quite cohabit now, and she needs to move into the city where I live coz she has to finish off her last credits at UNI (where she lived on Uni campus for the p...

A. 12 July 2007: Do you trust your girlfriend? Has she ever cheated on you before? You're just feeling a bit insecure because she's away from you at the moment. I'm sure you have nothing to worry about. If she was sharing with him only then it might be different ... (read in full...)

Sometimes after I eat food I just have to go to the toilet. Is this normal?

Q. Sometimes after I eat food I just have to go to the toilet. When I have to go to the toilet after I eat my meal, does that mean I poop everything out of what I ate? I don't take laxatives....

A. 11 July 2007: When you eat your food it takes between 20 and 30 hours to actually pass through the body from mouth to the toilet. It has a long journey and travels from your mouth, down the oesophagus into the stomach, hangs around there for a few hours (doing ... (read in full...)

Can someone help me sort out my life and show me how to have a positive outlook?

Q. hey guys just wanted your help plz. I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 7 months, we have a good relationship. I don't know whether I'm in love with her, but I do feel close to her. She says she has never felt like this for anyone ...

A. 11 July 2007: Hey, she might have had 2 other boyfriends but she didn't sleep with them, she is still a virgin so she's just as inexperienced as you are. You are too hard on yourself here. You are growing up and are at a stage in your life where you have ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 9 July 2007: It's not fair of her to keep on playing with your emotions, mentioning things in the past (the towel incident for example). She is more or less putting the guilt on YOU here saying she felt pressurised but that to me is an excuse. You get on with ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 9 July 2007: I am so sorry that the decision she made wasn't the one you hoped for. Things happen in our lives for a reason and maybe you two just weren't mean to be although you won't see it this way at the moment. Unfortunately we can't make someone love us ... (read in full...)

Recently she has started taking things further, she asked me last night if I would do her with a fish!!!

Q. Me and my girlfriend have a very close relationship and when we first went out we both had a very high sex drive. I would play with all her sex toys with her. We started experimenting with fruit and other shaft looking objects. it kinda turned me ...

A. 6 July 2007: I agree with Dixiegirl here. Too much risk of infection to be sticking dead objects inside you! You have your own safety to think about here too. If she caught an infection from you thrusting anything dead up inside her then you have sex with her ... (read in full...)

I find it very hard to trust him on the internet.

Q. I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, but I find it very hard to trust him on the internet... We met each other on a dating site 2years ago and I left my partner to be with him. Things were going well, but I have a bad case of p...

A. 6 July 2007: You sit down with him and you draw up boundaries. Seeing his picture on other dating sites is overstepping the boundary so let him know this. If he has any respect for you then he'll take his profile off. Bollocks to the excuse it's his friend's ... (read in full...)

I love them both and don't know what to do about it!

Q. Well I have a dilemma!!! It started say two weeks ago. My ex-boyfriend's best freiend told me that my ex-boyfriend still loved me and wanted to be with me. I didn't believe until I heard it for myself. Well me and my exboyfriend had a phone ...

A. 6 July 2007: Neither of you are being honest with your other halves here. You can't have both of them, you know that don't you? You can choose to continue doing what you're doing and eventually get caught, you'll probably hurt your boyfriend more than you ... (read in full...)

How do I know if I really love him or if it is just a convenient way for me to have a house and live closer to my job.

Q. I have been with my other for 5 years. We now have a kid together. I have left my boyfriend on 3 different occasions in the past years. We are being civil now since the last break in March - how do I know if I really love him or if it is just a ...

A. 6 July 2007: If you really DO love him then you'll want to be with him, the kids will see how happy you are together so there should be no problem. Don't do it just for the kids alone though. If you don't love him and get with him for security for the kids ... (read in full...)

I really like him but have no true sense of whether it is just a casual thing for him or if there is any potential in it developing into something more serious.

Q. I have been dating a guy for 4 months now. He is incredibly busy and travels away a lot so we have only actually had 10ish dates. The dates are always great but we never speak or text between then and I generally initiate the meeting up. I really ...

A. 6 July 2007: If he is working hard then texting him to ask exactly what he wants from this relationship might actually scare him off. He'll only see it as pressure. Instead, why don't you text him just to say hi. He'll be sure to text you back if you take the ... (read in full...)

I belittel my long distance relationship to other people and want to stop

Q. Hi everyone, I'm involved in a relationship with a wonderful man whom I love very, very much. The problem is, it's long distance. A huge distance actually - international. However we're lucky I suppose because we see one another every 2-3 mon...

A. 6 July 2007: The next time someone asks you "Are you in a relationship?" then you answer YES! If they probe some more (and you don't feel comfortable with it) then answer them back with a question. For example - He's overseas just now working hard for our ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 6 July 2007: Okay, I read over all of the posts again just to clarify things in my mind. This woman is crazy on you BUT she doesn't want to give you her all and you leave her again. In your very first post in this thread you say this - "Leaving the home has ... (read in full...)

I am feeling shut out from my daughter because of the boy she is dating

Q. I am a married woman with a 20 year old daughter. In the past few months she has been seeing a boy who we have not met and they have become very close. He is also 20 and is her first boyfriend and I have just found out that their relationship has ...

A. 5 July 2007: I would tell her you're pleased for her that her relationship with this boy is going well. Tell her how proud you are that she has turned into a well balanced, sensible adult and you trust her choice of man. THIS will be like giving her a pat on ... (read in full...)

I suffer extreme jealousy

Q. I have a serious jealousy problem. I cannot control it. There's this guy that my girlfriend is friends with; I don't even know the kid, I've never met him, and I hate his guts. I don't know why but whenever even his name comes up in a conversa...

A. 5 July 2007: Wow! You DO have a jealousy problem don't you? You need to take control of this. Do you think your girlfriend would love you all the more if you harmed this guy? Exactly!! Come on wisen up here. Don't let him get the better of you. Feeli... (read in full...)

Why does he not treat me like a princess any more? Why is this eating me up inside? I tell myself over and over I'm being silly. HELP.

Q. I've been married for seven years now and over the past few months my emotions seem to be getting out of control. My husband started the marriage being very attentive and caring. I was in no doubt that he loved me. He would do anyhing for me but as ...

A. 5 July 2007: As the years pass in your marriage, the honeymoon period disappears and too often partners fall into the rut of taking one another for granted or they start feeling too comfortable and forget that relationships need to be worked at, especially once ... (read in full...)

What is the meaning of my dream???

Q. Hi I am asking for help because last night I had a dream that really scared me. Now this is kind of embarrassing because it is so odd, but it is now making me wonder if I am gay. Previously I have asked for help on this site because I have h...

A. 5 July 2007: If you view yourself as heterosexual and you dream that you are having sex with someone of the same sex, it signifies not necessarily homosexual desire, but an expression of greater self love and acceptance. You need to be more in touch with your ... (read in full...)

I really think he should leave her! What do I do, just sit and see him in agony every day?

Q. Hello, I have a problem can you assist me? I am a 20 year old in a relationship with a 30 year old guy. The problem is that he is 'married'. Now I don't want you to judge me but I am crazy about him and his wife knows about us. However it's driving ...

A. 5 July 2007: Sounds to me as if he still has feelings for his wife. If he loved you and heard about her infidelity then it would be the perfect excuse for him to end the marriage and be with you permanently but he hasn't done that. He's hung in there "hoping" ... (read in full...)

He doesn't want me to tell my parents about us. Is that a bad sign?

Q. I have been with a guy for 2 years it's an on and off relationship, he was my first and I am madly in love with him. My parents on the other hand don't know we are together, because we had a bad confrontation 2 years ago but I love him, he treats ...

A. 5 July 2007: Why is your relationship "on/off" all the time? Is it not serious? The reason he doesn't want you to tell your parents is because of the bad confrontation 2 years ago, only YOU know what that was about. You need to establish the terms of this ... (read in full...)

How do I know if he truly loves me? What are the signs?

Q. What are the signs that the guy you're with loves you? ...

A. 5 July 2007: If you truly love someone then you respect them for who they are, warts and all. You want to look after them and protect them, you look out for them and put them first. You feel happy and content in their company and enjoy being together. Above all ... (read in full...)

Is it in his kiss?

Q. If your boyfriend says he loves you but doesn't show it... is he saying it cause he means it or just cause he thinks you want to hear it?...

A. 4 July 2007: Was he getting reassurance from you that you felt all of this too? If not, then me might just have lost faith and gave up trying. Eve... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 4 July 2007: Here are some sites you can look at, one is to help you "Find Yourself" and the others are to help build up your confidence and self esteem. http://www.wikihow.com/Find-Yourself http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Confidence http://pi... (read in full...)

The man I'm dating is very limited with his affections and time

Q. I have been dating for the past 3 months a 48 yr old very successful male who lives an hour away from me. He has never been married and has no kids, like myself (39yrs). He only wants to get together on his terms; schedule, etc. When we are ...

A. 3 July 2007: It sounds to me he's a really busy guy who is married to his job. He's never been married or had kids so he's not used to the dating game. Why don't you take the initiative and ask him to come to where you live for the WEEKEND or, if that's not ... (read in full...)

I just really want to know why i'm having them dreams and what do they mean?

Q. Hi I wrote up here yesterday and this was my question. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-cant-stop-thinking-about-my-teachernow-im.html. If you wanna know more about what I'm on about. Thanks for the reply I got, I forgot who it was off now but ...

A. 3 July 2007: You admire this teacher. She looks good, from her hair, her nails, the way she dresses, the way she walks etc. You hold her in high regard and WANT to be more like her. Although you don't fancy her, there is something about her physical and mental ... (read in full...)

Husband knows my one-night stand from 10 years ago!

Q. just told husband about one night stand i had 10 years before i met him. he seems upset because he also knows this person. what should i do?...

A. 3 July 2007: He's upset because he hates the thought of someone else (especially someone he knows) being so intimate with you. He'll be quiet for a little while but with a lot of love and reassurance he'll come to terms with it. Reassure him you're with HIM ... (read in full...)

I'm just not happy.....could it be depression again?

Q. I have been very fortunate in life but i feel that there is something missing which is preventing me from being happy. I never feel happy and am only relatively happy when im drunk. I often jst burst into tears and feel incredibly lonely even when ...

A. 3 July 2007: I get the impression you've lost your way in life. Maybe you feel you have no goals or ambitions and just feel stuck and in a rut. You see everyone else getting on and you feel "stuck". Have a look at this link about "finding yourself". It ... (read in full...)

Been married for 20 years, but feel it's over....what can I do?

Q. i need help been married for 20yrs, and i feel like its over what do i do next?...

A. 3 July 2007: Why do you think it's over? Have your husband and you stopped communicating? Are you like passing ships in the night? Give me some more information as to WHY you feel your marriage is in trouble and I'll see if I can help you some more. Eve... (read in full...)

Is it in his kiss?

Q. If your boyfriend says he loves you but doesn't show it... is he saying it cause he means it or just cause he thinks you want to hear it?...

A. 3 July 2007: Everyone shows their feelings differently and in my experience a man finds it harder to say these 3 little words than a woman does. Maybe he doesn't show it in a tactile way but he might show it in other ways ie making sure you get home safely, ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 27 June 2007: Just keep busy and keep thinking POSITIVE and the time will fly in. Under no circumstances must you get in touch with her though. If you do then anything positive that's been achieved will be undone. Let her MISS you! ;o) Eve... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 25 June 2007: Okay, I misread your meaning of the "old days", it was a positive rather than a negative. I think you have both done exactly the right thing. NO CONTACT for 4 weeks. That will help both of you see whether or not you are right for one another. It ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 25 June 2007: Nice to hear from you again! I was reading your posts again. You seem to miss her when she's not there and enjoy keeping in touch with her, wining and dining her and meeting up but when it comes to the actual crunch of being together for too long ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 20 April 2007: Yes, she is missing you, hence the reason she wants to involve you more. Just remember and don't always be too willing, have your own opinions and your own mind and don't be so accommodating all the time and I reckon you've cracked it! I wish you... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 10 April 2007: You have pulled back a bit and now she's chasing, simple as that! Because you've not seen her as often then she's missed you. Talking on the phone for long periods of time, although nice, can mean that you do say things you regret so you should ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 31 March 2007: I'm glad things are going well for you but I would pull back even further. You said you have seen her 6 days out of 7. Reduce that 4 days out of 7. Let her know you have things to do but would love to see her (Wednesday). MAKE HER WANT YOU!!! ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 18 March 2007: She NOTICED you didn't reply right away! That's good! If she calls you tomorrow asking to arrange something, suggest you call her back in an hour to be sure, say you have something else you needed to attend to and don't know if you can leave it or ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 17 March 2007: Nooooo, you came across loud and clear the first time. You went for coffee, went back to her house to collect something then spoiled it lol by asking her did she want company. You poor love, I know how you are feeling, clutching at anything to ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 17 March 2007: It IS the best way, you'll see I'm right. Woman like a bit of a challenge and don't like a guy to always just "be there" when they snap their fingers, they lose their appeal. Keep in touch :o) Eve... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 16 March 2007: She cried because she knows how much you feel for her and you calling to ask if she wanted some company only confirmed that. If I were you I wouldn't call her or text her. Let HER do the running. She really IS trying to get her head around all of ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 15 March 2007: That is why you both need to move back down a couple of gears, take things very slowly, don't see one another as often and try not to sleep together as this only messes with your head and emotions. Put some space between you to see if you actually ... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 14 March 2007: I'm glad things are working out for you and your night was a success. Yes, keep us posted and let us know how things go! Be there for her without being too "in her face" all the time and you'll be fine. I wish you both all the very best. Eve... (read in full...)

We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!

A. 12 March 2007: Here is what to do if you want to win her back. She's getting the best of both worlds just now. She has her freedom to be with her friends and she has you! You said you still see her a couple of times a week and still have a kiss and cuddle ... (read in full...)