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I haven't seen her for years, what's the right way to tell her I'd die for her?

Q.   so this girl I'm in love with I'm gonna see her tomorrow. how do i keep cool and not say any thing stupid? i also want her to know i love her with all my heart and would take a bullet for her how and when do i say these things although i haven...

A.   10 May 2007: Be sincere and mean what you say. Eye contact is important too. Don't be afraid to sound silly or stupid, as long as you're being yourself. Confessing to someone about your feelings is NOT an easy thing to do if you really really like her. So just... (read in full...)

Told my best friend I liked this guy... and two days later she starts dating him!

Q.   i told my best friend the guy i liked then two days later she went out with him; the guy also happens to be my best guy friend. now im really mad at my friend whose going out with him. do i have a right to be mad at her? and should i tell my friend ...

A.   6 May 2007: Hi there Maybe instead of feeling mad at your friend, you should feel happy that both of your good friends are together. Maybe you didn't know that your best friend likes him first, without you knowing. You're still young and i bet there is a g... (read in full...)

I know how she feels but I don't know how to tell her or when or how to do it

Q.   Hi i wrote a question on here on may 1st. Thanks for the reply i got i was wondering if any of you out there could give me afew more replies to suggest what i should do. Hope you can,thanks. Here is my original question. Hi me and this girl have bee...

A.   4 May 2007: Hey there. The thing that's happening to you now has happened to me. I grew up with this guy since i was 5 years old. As we grow older, i started to develop feelings for him when i was 15. Like u, i do feel scared in telling him about my fee... (read in full...)

How come I keep going for the girls that don't like me?

Q.   How come I keep going for the girls that don't like me? I cant seem to get this girl I really like. She won't go out with me. I have been asked her out 6 times since I told her how I felt, so I don't think it's a matter that I am repulsive or ...

A.   1 May 2007: Hey It's pretty common actually. At the age of 16-17, you don't have to hurry in finding the one you really like. Just be patient! I was like you too, falling for guys who don't like me. What 'Maverick' said is true. But i would like to tell you... (read in full...)

He chose to get drunk with his friends instead of spending time with me and it really hurt and angered me.

Q.   I recently had an argument with my boyfriend for not showing up when he was supposed to - he chose to get drunk with his friends instead of spending time with me. He apologised the next day, but only spent a couple of hours with me and went out with ...

A.   1 May 2007: Being with him for 3 years already, so the amount trust between both of you should be huge. From what you wrote, i would say that you are controlling him. He is just going out for drinks with his friends, and he will definately get drunk. Well,... (read in full...)

We argued and he didn't come after me! Should I forgive him, or just let it go?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, and I've always been there by his side through the good and bad. We had an argument at one of his friends houses, something we could have worked out like we always do, but he walked away from me and ...

A.   29 April 2007: Girl, he has already said he care about you. Let me tell you something, in an arguement, it is NOT about giving in to the other party but saving a beutiful relationship. Maybe he was hurt by things that was said during the arguement, that's why he d... (read in full...)

Because of all these past experiences with those othr lads shes terrifyed of getting hurt and gets scared about that sorta stuff and i don't want her to think i'm joking and trying to make a fool out of her.

Q.   ok ive never wrote up to these sites before so i hope i'm writing this right and that you can help me. One of my best friends is a girl and we have been really close all of our lives. She has found it ahrd to fit in at school and has been bullied ...

A.   28 April 2007: Hi there I too had the same problem as her. I was really terrified of relationships and being hurt again. That terror was over when my best friend of 14 years helped me out. He gave me emotional support and made me laugh all the time. Basically make... (read in full...)

I've got a bad habit of not realizing and standing up for my mistakes, or when I do it's already too late, so she's always the one coming back.

Q.   I made the mistake of thinking my girlfriend was doing a few things as a cruel mindgame on me, only to find out later that it was a few series of consecutive mistakes. Problem is, I had already yelled at her thinking I was in the right, which ...

A.   28 April 2007: Hi there. From what you wrote, i can tell she really love and care for you. See how she ran to your house when you fainted. She really care for you dude. And i can tell she's a really understanding lady. Human makes mistakes. Whether you're w... (read in full...)

I think I might be losing my boy friend!

Q.   Hi! Well I have BIG problem. I think I might be losing my boy friend! well the other day my girl best friend told me that every1 is saying that me nd my boy best m8 BADLY fancy each other.Of course my boyfriend found out about this. Though I ...

A.   28 April 2007: Of course you should not dump him. Okay, you love your boyfriend and so not into your best mate right? And if you dump your boyfriend, you'll lose the person you love and possibly, lose your best mate too. I have a best boy mate and have been ... (read in full...)

I think i'm fallin for my best mate.

Q.   I think i'm fallin for my best mate. He is soooo cute and treats girls like gold but i am terrrified he'd freak and cut all contact with me, we've been in the same friendship group since early high school and i kinda dated 2 of his close friends, 1 ...

A.   28 April 2007: We're in the same boat. I met my best friend when i was 5 years old and now i'm 19 and he's 21. I started to fall for him when i was at your age too. Like you, i'm totally scared that he will not talk to me anymore if i tell him about my feel... (read in full...)

Basically i feel that she deeply wants me to please her, or care for her, but that is not possible as she is quite nasty and forceful.

Q.   hello, I am a 24 yrs old single guy, currently staying with my uncle and aunt. My aunt seems to be a dominating woman and she is trying to teach me things i don't really agree with. Basically i feel that she deeply wants me to please her, or c...

A.   28 April 2007: She might be going through menopause. That's what i think. My aunt used to be a pretty nice lady until she reaches her late 40s. She gets mad easily and starts yelling at those innocent too. It's part of the cycle. And even if she isn't going thro... (read in full...)

I have a very close female friend. it's her birthday in 3 days. We're 16. I dont have much money. Any idea what i could get her?

Q.   I have a very close female friend. it's her birthday in 3 days. We're 16. I dont have much money. Any idea what i could get her? I got her lots of things at christmas and i'm worrying she might expect the same! plz help!!!...

A.   28 April 2007: If both are you a real close, you should have plenty of pictures taken together. Just gather them and create a beautiful memories scrapbook. I love it when my best friend made it. And on my best friend's birthday, i bought him a stainless steel ring... (read in full...)

Do you think i should tell this boy that i love him or just keep it to myself?

Q.   Do you think i should tell this boy that i love him or just keep it to myself? my close friends know, and my parents have guessed. he's involved with someone who is also very close to me. although i don't intend to try and break up them (and i doub...

A.   28 April 2007: Well, there's always a saying that it's not wrong to love someone. But if you wanna confess your feelings, you would have to see the situation. It happened to me once when a good friend of mine confessed his feelings to me. We've been friends for ... (read in full...)

Why am I having this recurring dream, for 2 years? What's the reason?

Q.   Firstly, this question is gonna be really weird. I have been having this dream for almost 2 years already. In the dream, there's me and a guy, hugging on a flight of stairs. We were hugging in the light rain and he kept whispering to me, "Every...

A.   24 April 2007: A big thank you to those who have answered to my question. ;) Thanks!... (read in full...)

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