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... Send *th Seeker a private message | | | *th Seeker's profile:I'm a 20 year old New Zealander living in Aussie, seeking the best things in life. My passions are creative writing and music - I play guitar, my favorite style to play is death metal.
I've dealt with depression over the years, and as a result been single for most of my life (I'm still a virgin too, *gasp*), so I can offer advice on how to cope and things to help you out.
You might be thinking "How can you help with relationships when you've never even had sex!?" But I've seen so many around me unfold, and I understand people well.
Moving away from the love front, I've also dealt with a suicide in my family, so if you're dealing with this -or feeling suicidal yourself- you can talk to me about it.
I'm happy to help anybody in any way I can. I reckon if more people listened to each other and helped out, the world would be a far better place. That probably won't happen, but at least I can play a small part.
Even though the internet is vast and anonymous, reading about people on this site just like you really can affirm that you aren't alone.
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How can I stop being so depressed over my lack of experience with girls?
Q. 17 never been kissed all my friends been kissed,lost there v had there first proper experiences etc and there happy everyone I know is but I'm not and I have not had anyone ever? closest thing I've ever had to a girl is online twice and I just got ...
A. 27 November 2009: Hey mate, I know exactly how you feel...I used to be really depressed/p*ssed off about this when I was your age (Im in my 20s now). I'd see people with their partners and it always rubbed it in that I had no one. I'd even resent my best mates wh... (read in full...)
Risk my true feelings?
Q. Hey guys, I've got an issue that’s eating me up inside, and I'd really appreciate some opinions on the situation. This is a long story but I'll try to keep it simple. I started going to university a few weeks ago, and I met the coolest girl....
A. 4 April 2009: Hey, just an update for anyone who read this: the girl guessed what I was feeling down about...she was surprised that I felt that way about her, and she only thought of me as a friend all this time. But she said that if she wasn't with her ex, she ... (read in full...)
Should I go to a "Gentleman's Club" to lose my virginity or am I selling myself short?
Q. Hey guys, I've been pondering this for a while now, but I'd like to get some outside opinions on this. I'm still a virgin at 20, and quite frankly I'm over it. It hasn't happened yet, I can't see it happening anytime soon, and I just feel bored ...
A. 16 March 2008: Thanks to everyone who took the time to answer my question. After all the words of support I've decided to not to use an escort. I was feeling down in the dumps when I posted this question but I feel much better about it now. I've waited this lon... (read in full...)
Should I go to a "Gentleman's Club" to lose my virginity or am I selling myself short?
Q. Hey guys, I've been pondering this for a while now, but I'd like to get some outside opinions on this. I'm still a virgin at 20, and quite frankly I'm over it. It hasn't happened yet, I can't see it happening anytime soon, and I just feel bored ...
A. 14 March 2008: Thanks Danielepew, you're right. You mentioned it was possible that I'd end up going back days later - that's one thing that worried me more than anything. I'd hate to get hooked and waste all my pay every week.
But at the same time, I'm tired of... (read in full...)
Should I go to a "Gentleman's Club" to lose my virginity or am I selling myself short?
Q. Hey guys, I've been pondering this for a while now, but I'd like to get some outside opinions on this. I'm still a virgin at 20, and quite frankly I'm over it. It hasn't happened yet, I can't see it happening anytime soon, and I just feel bored ...
A. 14 March 2008: Thanks Eve. Haha I realized later that a male answered, I posted my response then I saw Flynn's post. I am very much like him, I agree with a lot that he said, especially about his morals preventing him from doing it. I feel wrong about it too.
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Should I go to a "Gentleman's Club" to lose my virginity or am I selling myself short?
Q. Hey guys, I've been pondering this for a while now, but I'd like to get some outside opinions on this. I'm still a virgin at 20, and quite frankly I'm over it. It hasn't happened yet, I can't see it happening anytime soon, and I just feel bored ...
A. 14 March 2008: Thanks for your answers. All the answers have been from women, I appreciate that. So far the consensus seems to be don't do it, so I'll definitely think about it carefully.
The funny thing is, most of you are probably in a happy relation... (read in full...)
How do you become happy and content without a partner and close friends in your life?
Q. I just want to know, how do u become happy and cotnent without a partner in your life and without close friends? some times i feel very lonely and have tried to meet people but they never stay long. for the past few years i have felt like i've lost ...
A. 25 February 2008: You sound a lot like me...I know exactly how you feel.
I struggle to make new friends that last. I have lots of acquaintances but few 'real' friends that I hang out with etc. I've also been single for a long time so I know how lonely it can feel... (read in full...)
I'm still living with him but he's told me he doesn't love me anymore. How do I leave him and move on with my life?
Q. Time with friends, not with me. Now we break-up but we still living together because he cares about me and I can't leave him cuz I love him so much and that's the reason I'm still living in the same house. But it hurt me a lot because all the time ...
A. 22 February 2008: Hey there, hopefully I can help.
I think this guy is messing you around. You say you still love him, and he's told you he doesn't feel the same way. Saying he doesn't love you, but still wants you around, is (in my opinion) quite selfish. Does he ... (read in full...)
Do any of you guys have any tricks that all males do to let girls know they're interested?
Q. This is a question for all the guys. I like a guy right now but it's really hard to tell what's going on in his mind. Sometimes, I catch him looking at me, sometimes he just never looks at me when he has the oppurtunity to, from a close distance. I ...
A. 22 February 2008: Its funny, as a guy I have this same problem with girls. I know it can be a mystery sometimes. If someone looks at you across the room, smile etc, its hard to tell if they're just being friendly or what. Have you talked with this guy much? I... (read in full...)
I'm 20 and still a virgin. I'm struggling to cope! What can I do?
Q. Hey guys, I'd really appreciate some advice about this. Please bear with me; I've never spoken about this to anybody, and I need to get this off my chest. As a 20 year old virgin (a male virgin no less) I find myself feeling blue a lot. I have th...
A. 22 February 2008: Me again, just saying I'm now registered as 7th Seeker.... (read in full...)
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