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Hi, I'm 13 years old. I love to help people. I make friends really easily and some people don't like me because I'm so "perky" as they put it. I guess you are the people that rated me so poorly. How Rude! LOL! I have always wanted to be on the advice collum at school, but never had the guts to. My worst quality is that I say how I feel. If I think whatever your doing or saying is wrong, I'll tell you what I think. Some people like this quality, some people don't. I guess you'll just have to read what I right to find out if you like my ideas or if you think my ideas are stupid. Just like all the grown-ups around me!

How do you get a guy's attention?

Q.   how do u get a guy's attention? i knew it's a stupid question but i really do want to know. please give me real answers!...

A.   14 May 2007: this is to the ananomous guy! wat if it is not me 2 go up 2 a guy and start a conversation? then wat do i do. Can't be False. LOL! I got u there.lol... (read in full...)

my cousin is hitting on the guy I like, what can I do to make him like me?

Q.   my cousin totally told this guy that i like i liked him after i told her not to and now she's flirting with him and likes him it seems she just does it because she can but I'm not sure if he likes her and I've never talked to him but he always ...

A.   10 May 2007: just go to his house and ask 4 something. time it so that somehow almost everyone in his house is gone so that he answers the door. ask 4 something he would know you would not need. he will know you went over 4 him. if he asks you make it look like ... (read in full...)

If you really really liked a girl (to the point of thinking about her all the time) would you tell her?

Q.   If you really really liked a girl (to the point of thinking about her all the time) would you tell her?...

A.   10 May 2007: C! I told u everything would work out! Now, was that so hard.LOL! so, wat is the age diff.? r u thinkin of her as much! I think u should show her this collum. It's really sweet how u feel bout her. TTYL! Bye!... (read in full...)

My boyfriend will only love me if I loose weight. Should I dump him?

Q.   My boyfriend told me that I need to lose weight. We just got back together after we broke up for a couple of months and he said that I looked like I gain weight. So I told him you don't love me the way I am? He said I'll love you if you lost some ...

A.   10 May 2007: Yes!!! Dump him!!!!! He does not care bout u. all he cares about is u'r body. do u really want a guy like that???????? i think wat's n u'r best interest is that u DUMP HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope that helped u!!! Can't wait 2 hear back. ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 years and smart, does nobody like me?

Q.   I am 13 years old and am one of the smartest girls in my classes. To most guys I'm just a nerd but random people come up to me sometimes to tell me I'm pretty, but this doesn't happen at school. Am I a threat to them, Are the guys that like me ...

A.   9 May 2007: Thank u all sooooooooo much! finally, i got come answers.... (read in full...)

He calls out his 17 year old daughter's name in bed and he likes underage porn! What is going on with this guy?

Q.   My boyfriend has a giant porn collection that i discovered recently. he watches them when i leave the house even if its for a few minutes. some of the dvds are underage porn. i am worried because his 17 yr old daughter is coming to live with us. ...

A.   9 May 2007: tell the police cause i really do think he might rape her. Ewwww.that's sick and wrong!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

If you really really liked a girl (to the point of thinking about her all the time) would you tell her?

Q.   If you really really liked a girl (to the point of thinking about her all the time) would you tell her?...

A.   8 May 2007: OMG! u sound jus like me. I am n the process of telling my guy.LOL! Let's do it tommorow. Tell me how it goes cause it sounds like everyone else wants u 2 do the same thing. !!!!!!TELL HER!!!!!!! Good Luck! Can't wait 2 find out how... (read in full...)

We have forbidden this 23 year old man to see our 17 year old daughter but he won't!

Q.   my husband and i have a 17 yr. old beautiful daughter that claims to be in-love with a 23 yr old male. we have tried to keep this relationship from happening, but the more we fought it the more they were determined to be together. we both told the ...

A.   8 May 2007: that's creepy. how does your daugter feel. If she likes him u better watch her close. if she wants him away, get the police away from her before she turns 18 and is leagaly an adult!!!!!!! ... (read in full...)

She smiled then looked at me again and again. Could she like me or fancy me?

Q.   The other day caught this girl looking at me several times. She smiled then looked at me again and again. Could she like me or fancy me? I'm unsure of what these signs were. ...

A.   8 May 2007: I think someone has a crushy! LOL It's true. I really, really do think she LIKES YOU! ... (read in full...)

I told her that this guy she really liked, doesn't like her! Did I do the right thing?

Q.   Hi Right my friend likes this lad, and me and the lad are good friends and he was talking to me the other day and he went im Sick of her always starin at me so i went Who me ????? and he sed no bhaveena, (shes the girl whos likes him) so i sed, ohhh ...

A.   8 May 2007: I say that it was a good idea. I would want to know if the guy i like didn't like me. she just might be a little sad for now. just give her support and make sure she's ok. if she likes him that much, then atleast now they can start being friends. ... (read in full...)

Does anyone believe in life after death?

Q.   does anyone believe in life after death?...

A.   8 May 2007: I believe that when you die, you go to either heaven or hell and begin your journeys there. I hope that helps you.... (read in full...)

How can I ask her without offending her in case I am wrong?

Q.   I am a virgin and want to lose my virginity. I think a girl I know wants to do the same but i am not sure. How can I ask her without offending her in case I am wrong? ...

A.   8 May 2007: just let it happen. When the time is right, you'll feel it. and so will she. you want your night to be spiecial, and so does she.... (read in full...)

I'm a 20 year old virgin and my friend said I should just sleep with one of my friends! Is this good advice?

Q.   Last week I finally to open up to my buddy about being a 20 year old virgin. He asked me what I was waiting for and I told him at this stage of my life I want it to be with someone who I trust. Well his advice to me was to just ask one of my ...

A.   8 May 2007: NOWAY! sex is supposed to be with the guy you love. not just some random guy.you want your special night to be remeberable, not just cause you have to. make it with the guy you LOVE!!!!!!... (read in full...)

I've tried telling him I love him but I'm afraid of rejection! What can I do?

Q.   okay, this is odd but i need help. i really love this guy "james" a lot. whenever i see him i freeze up. when we are together everyone else dissapears. we went out 3 years ago. but broke up after 8 months. he broke up with me. sometimes i think he ...

A.   8 May 2007: sorry, but i can't help 2 much 1/2 of the same problem, but i guess i'll try. just get a friend 2 tell him a on a day u don't c him. before u c him the next time, ask u'r friend what he said, if it's a yes, ask him yourself, if it's a no, just make ... (read in full...)

I really fancy my cousin's mate. How can I win him over?

Q.   My cousin's mate and I talk a lot on MSN but we have never met. We both admit to fancying each other. If I were to go to the cinema's with them both and I sat by my cousin's mate, how could I eventually kiss him? The thing is; if my cousin and his ...

A.   8 May 2007: if they r marryed then get a new guy. She found him first. that's not really fair. how would u feel if someone took your mate away 4m u?... (read in full...)

I lied about myself in my profile, should I tell him?

Q.   ok i met this guy on this website and we started chatting on MSN every day. However, at first it started off as a joke when i set up my profile so i lied about my name and used a different photo but everything else i said was true, just my name and ...

A.   8 May 2007: just say that it's your friend's profile and your just on it. then, get a real pic and put your real name. or just tell the truth, he would probly be happy you told him if he really likes u. if he really likes u'r pic, then he needs to be dumped. ... (read in full...)

I found pictures of someone on his phone, thing is I'm 4 months pregnant and don't know what to do about this.

Q.   i've been with my boyfriend for a year and im 4 months pregnant. he already has another child who's 5. Lately he has been secretive with his mobile and panics anytime i go near it. when he was sleeping one night i went into his texts and seen that ...

A.   8 May 2007: OMG! get out of there. he does not respect you. what you should do first is comfront him. if he says no, tell him you saw his phone. c what happens when he notices that the cat's out of the bag... (read in full...)

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