Question for the men: Would you consider a fulfilling sex life to be more of a priority over other aspects in a realtionship ?
Q. Question for the lads..Would you consider a fulfilling sex life with your partner as a top priority in your relationship or would other issues be more important to you ie companionship,compatibility etc? Comments appreciated....
A. 9 April 2007: A fulfilling sex life, for me anyway, is nowhere near as important as companionship or compatibility.
To me, establishing the emotional side of the relationship is what should take top priority. Once that's there, the physical side will take car... (read in full...)
I get night-time erections!
Q. as soon as i fall asleep i get an erection until i wake up in the morning! why is this? how can i stop this? i'm 16....
A. 9 April 2007: Totally normal mate, don't worry about it. Just means everything's working! ;)... (read in full...)
He wasn't wearing a condom but didn't cum, could I be pregnant?
Q. hi im on the pill but on saturday night i 4got to take it, i didnt realise this until Sunday night and took it then, these boys came round and we all got totally drunk and i ended up havin sex with one of em in the early hours of monday morning, he ...
A. 2 April 2007: I'm afraid it is possible for you to fall pregnant even if the guy didn't cum, yes. The reason being that a guy's pre-cum can also contain sperm.
I'd suggest taking a pregnancy test or speaking to your doctor as soon as possible.... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend very much but I'm scared to have intercourse with him...
Q. Hello, I'm a 19 year old female and I am a virgin. I have been dating my bf for 6 months now and am very much in love with him. Everything is perfect between us except that he is ready to have intercourse and I'm not. I don't know why because I ...
A. 2 April 2007: My girlfriend is the same as you, in that she is also afraid of intercourse. My advice to you would be the same as what I tell her: wait until you are ready - you can only lose your virginity once.
If your BF really loves you for who you are and ... (read in full...)
I really love him, but hes not good in the sack! How do I tell him!?
Q. hiya. How do you tell someone you really love that he is not very good in bed and that you have never had an orgasm when sleeping with him? please help!!...
A. 31 March 2007: I suspect that just blurting out that he's not very good would not help matters and would just damage his confidence, in turn damaging your relationship with him.
When you're in bed, make sure he knows you love him and that you love sleeping... (read in full...)
My mate's mum fancies me, I'm sure of it, how can I stop this?
Q. Hi. This is really embarrassing so I hope someone can help as I cant ask anyone I know. My mum has this friend who's my mates mum and she always flirts with really young guys. She's 52 and it's a known fact she fancies younger guys. My mum thi...
A. 29 March 2007: I'm writing this after I'd stopped laughing at the post below... :)
If I were in your position, I'd do nothing until she actually came onto you. If and when that happens, let her down easy as you would any girl whom you didn't fancy.
If the ... (read in full...)
Shes happy giving me a hand job, I want to take things further but she pushes me away, when's a good time ?
Q. my girlfriend and i have been dateing for 2 months now and shes started to give me hand jobs and so i figured it would be ok to finger her but when i put my hand close to her she moves it but she lets me suck her boobs. what do i do wait for her to ...
A. 29 March 2007: As has been said already, wait for her indicate that she's ready for you to return the favour. Don't attempt, under ANY circumstances, to pressure her into something she's not ready for. She'll hate you for it and rightly so.
By the sounds of thin... (read in full...)
Ive a feeling shes about to look for someone better, advice on how best to prepare myself would be good!
Q. Feelings of affection for someone can cause so much sadness can't it? Well I guess that wasn't so much a question as it was an observation but I could really do with some advice on what attitude you should go into a relationship with so as not to ...
A. 29 March 2007: A good few years ago now, I was badly hurt in a relationship with someone and, as a result, I went into my next one determined to protect myself from the same thing happening. Needless to say, that particular relationship did not work as, by ... (read in full...)
My gf kissed another guy when she got drunk! Any advice?
Q. My g/f got drunk for the first time in her life and then walked to her room with a guy. He gave her a kiss and she didn't object. Then she told him to leave. We have been together for 4 years and I really love her and she is really sorry...Any ...
A. 29 March 2007: You've been together for 4 years, and you do really love her. On that basis, given that:
it was the first time she'd ever been drunk;
that she told the guy to leave after the kiss;
and that she seems genuinely sorry,
I'd be inclined to gi... (read in full...)
I'm really not sure how far to go and how to deal with my girlfriends fear of sex!?
Q. I've been with my current GF for a few months now. When we first started dating she told me that she found sex scary and that she was a little freaked by the concept, and that she wouldn't be able to be as sexually active as I might have liked. I...
A. 29 March 2007: Thank you both for your advice, it was much appreciated. I've subsequently found out the reason (something in her past) after she brought it up by herself in a conversation and it's one I fully accept and understand.
Thank you again.... (read in full...)
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