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Archived questions from: January, 2006 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Happy with my engagement and my relationship, I still find myself attracted to another woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 977 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - I'm engaged and I am happy in my relationship, but I recently felt a strong connection with another woman. I think about her and email her a lot but I am not sure how to deal with it. I haven’t told the other woman that I am engaged, and I don’t ...

Hubby's been texting other women, while I'm home alone. When confronted, he didn't even apologise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 979 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Hi - am 7 months pregnant and my husband has shown little interest in this ever since we found out, have been pregnant before but unforutnatley lost the baby - he seemed quite excited when we first found out that time. We were both happy to try ...

Had a hunch about the guy who asked me out. Turns out he's engaged! How could he do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 981 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - I met a guy who I was interested in two years ago. We met for business reasons and soon as we looked at each other there was an immediate connection. For several months he emailed me, and had asked to go out. I suspected he was hiding somethin...

Am I cheating? Can I stop this without anyone getting hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 977 days ago

29 January 2006 (M) - This is a twister... My girlfriend and I broke up sort of, and we never spoke for approx three weeks. In those three weeks a friend of my cousin's stayed at my house. This friend is my age. In this time we got to know each other etc and she was ...

Both guys said they love me and when I'm with one, I think of the other! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 982 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - I have a huge problem. I am in love, or think I am, with these two guys. One is the sweetest guy I've ever met and I feel safe with him. The other well he's a bad boy. I've been on dates with both guys and they both said they loved me. When I am ...

Already have a girlfriend, but now I realise that another girl likes me too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

25 January 2006 (M) - Hi, I have a gf but this nice girl likes me. I like them both. What do I do?...

She's unhappy in the current relationship, but I don't want to be responsible for a break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 986 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - This girl I like is in an unhappy relationship and says she'd rather be with me. I don't want to be responsible for the break up of her current relationship, but I really want to be with her. What the hell do I do?...

I get depressed and upset when my gf still socializes with some of her ex-lovers. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 987 days ago

24 January 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months and about six months ago she revealed her sexual past. It was tough at first but through counseling and talking to her I have been able to get through it. Most of her past sexual partners she doesn't ...

He's with someone else but we were so good together...is there any chance for us in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 986 days ago

24 January 2006 (F) - Hi Sorry about such a long question. But I really need advice on my exs feelings! The guy I still believe is the love of my life, the one etc.. has just got a new girlfriend. I'm devasted! We were going out for 3 years, thought we loved eachot...

Met a new guy and he's amazing! So should I dump the old bf and go after this new guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 976 days ago

24 January 2006 (F) - Ok I have a problem. I have been in a serious relationship for about a year and a half and I am very close with his family and lately we have been talking about getting engaged. I really felt that we were going to be together forever until I went on ...

It kinda feels wrong that he's cheating on her to be with me! Is it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 988 days ago

22 January 2006 (F) - ok so I really like this guy alot and he likes me alot too..problem is he wont get rid of his girlfriend...he tells me that he tried to end it with her..but she wont let him go...so really he is cheating on her with me...i dont no what to do it ...

Did he not tell me about someone else because of what happened to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 990 days ago

21 January 2006 (F) - I'm really in need of help my head is so messed up. i posted a few days ago about my bf using my age as an excuse to break up with me, even though i was convinced there was more to it than that. i haven't spoken to him since the night we broke up, ...

He's still sleeping with me *and* the girl he left me for. He says he's just confused...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 989 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - I am 25 and my ex, who just recently broke up with me, is 20. We were together for 2 years and we have a 16 month old baby together. He is now living with the other girl him and I have never stopped sleeping together and till this day still are he ...

He wanted me then her and both of us, now just her...how do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 990 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - The guy I was dating told me that he was dating another girl and that he needed time to decide what he wanted to do. Then, he told me that he couldn't be without me but he would still date her. However, he just started avoiding me and finally told ...

I should be happy that she broke up with her boyfriend and can be with me, but I'm so sorry it hurts her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 991 days ago

20 January 2006 (M) - I'm 19 and I met this girl about a year ago and we became really good friends, I liked her straight away but just decided that because she had a boyfriend that nothing would happen. I told her my feelings after about 6 months (couldnt help it), but ...

I've fallen in love with my married co-worker. I don't think she'll leave her husband, and I don't want to ruin our friendship. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

19 January 2006 (M) - I have fallen in love with the woman i work with. We chat a lot and we can tell each other anything. She knows things about me that i've never told anyone else. Problem is she's married. Things are not that rosy between her and her husband, but i ...

My man and I have been together for just over 2 years. For over a year and a half, he had another girl on the side and didn't bother to tell me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 991 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - I have been with a man for just over 2 years. 1 year into the relationship he moved in with me and my children. He has asked me to marry him. I know find out he has had another girl for over a year and a half of our relationship. I found out, he ...

Did I do the right thing, breaking off with my lover to fix my marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 992 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - I am married and have a son, about three years ago, I was very close to my co-worker, we were very good friends until we feel for each other. At first we agreed to only have a little fling, but as time passed we both started to fall hard for each ...

We got close when she broke up with her boyfriend, but slept with him for "closure". Do I have a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 993 days ago

18 January 2006 (M) - I have very strong feelings for one of my friends and we have recently got very close, and she told me that she had feelings for me. The only problem is that she recently split up with her boyfriend because it wasn't working, although she sai...

Since he cheated and lied to me, I question my relationship with my boyfriend. Should I go back to my ex instead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 993 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship with a guy for the last 9 months and we got engaged a few months ago. A few weeks after that he wanted to hang out with some friends and a girl who I knew was trouble. When I asked him not to go he got mad ...

Is my wife seeing someone else, and just using me as a "fix it man" when she needs something done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 993 days ago

18 January 2006 (M) - My wife and I separated 3 months ago and I think she is seeing someone else but am not sure. When I asked her about it she said they were mostly friends. I know she has known him for a long time because they work together. I still love her and ...

No matter how hard I try, I can't forget about him. The problem is, he's dating another one of my friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 994 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - my friend is dating my other friend but i really like him (love). we see eachoda and stuff but i cant stop thinking about him i no that friends are more important but he is my friend to and i really like him. i have tried so hard but i cant forget ...

My ex can't decide what he wants. I'm afraid to date another bloke that I care for, in the event that my ex does decide he wants to be with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 993 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - I'm a 24 year old and very confused girl. going back 7 years ago i was courting this bloke that i still love very much, we lost contact due to us splitting up and going our own ways, recently we have got back in touch and are supposed to be just fri...

I'm in love with my girlfriend's best friend. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

18 January 2006 (M) - ive got a huge problem please if you can help then do so. ive not long been dating my girlfriend but before, herself and a friend were just mates of mine and ive been trying to get with her friend for quite some time now and i think i have fallen in ...

I think that my friend has feelings for me, but that she doesn't want anyone to find out because she has a boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 992 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - yeah i know that friends come and go but we were realy close like she is realy lovey and stuff when we are alone then when we in front of people sees dffrent and she realy crys when we are alone could she have feeling for me and dont want me to ...

Is she a threat to our relationship??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 994 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - Here's my situation: There was this girl that my boyfriend talks to a lot lately and they both call each other. He always call me almost everyday and make me come over every Saturday night to sleep over. However, two Saturdays ago, he didn't. ...

I could be pregnant by my married lover...do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 987 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have fallen for somebody I cannot have, he is married (by 2 years) but we let temptation get the better of us and I'm now worried im pregnant. I know in myself that I wouldnt be able to keep the child for financial and emotional re...

Why would my ex-wife lie about seeing another guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 994 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - My wife and I got legally seperated almost three months ago she has a daughter that I have known since she was 10 months old and is now 5 yrs old. I found out the other day from her daughter that my ex-wife is hanging out with another guy. when I ...

My friend kissed my boyfriend and slapped him on the face! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 995 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - what would you do if one of your friends kissed your boyfriend and slaped him on the face? can you help?...

Would my boyfriend rather be with my friend, than with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 993 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - Dear All, I really need some help, because I really feel like giving up. I've been with my boyfriend, 'James' for 8 months now. He truly is the most wonderful guy I've ever met. I met him soon after coming out of a long-term relationship. Ja...

My boyfriend was upset after his uncle died, so he kissed another girl (with tongues)! Does this count as cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 995 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years kissed another girl (with tongues)the other day, he found out in the morning that his uncle had died and he says he was upset, so he went with this girl we both know to a coffee shop where they chatted for a bit before ...

He was in a serious relationship while he was "hooking up" with me for casual sex. I feel like he has no respect for me... How should I react?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 995 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - I had dated my ex-boyfriend for about a year and a half. The last four months of our relationship we were both miserable and decided we needed to take a break. We broke off the relationship but still were "hooking up" once a week or so. He ...

One minute we're friends, and the next we're having an affair! I'm so confused... Does he like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 995 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm extremly confused I meet a guy and he has a girlfriend, we have started seeing each other as friends although we have slept together a few times but are not anymore, just hanging out... Don't understand what is going through his head one...

The thought of my boyfriend with someone else makes me ill, but the thought of being with one of my guy friends makes me happy! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 971 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - So I have been with my B/f for 7 months, but i started Just Talking to one of my guy friends and have become attracted to him, my B/F went out of town for the weekend, and the new guy that im attracted to and i stayed on the phone all night, i am ...

I know it's wrong, but I have feelings for the guy I used to sleep with, even though we're both in a relationship with someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 996 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - Hi, whilst I had broken up with my boyfriend I meet a guy with a girlfriend although he didn't tell me this i confronted him and he admitted it they have been together for 6yrs and have a child together. Stupid me continued the relation...

My boyfriend was texting my friend to tell her that he really liked her, just two weeks after I gave birth to our daughter!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend, was texting my friend telling her he really liked her and they had been calling each other regularly, as far as I know nothing happened but its not been the same since. I couldn't believe it, I had only given birth to my daughter 2 ...

How do I walk away from my married lover and find happiness with the single guy who is pursuing me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 982 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - Hi I have been in a relationship with a married man for the past 7 months since june of 2005. I met him online when I was living in Cheyenne Wy. He did not disclose to me up front that he was married and he did not tell me until after 3 days I h...

My happiness turned to sadness when I realised the girl I like might like another boy better than me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 997 days ago

14 January 2006 (M) - Please help me because I'm getting confused with myself. I fancy this girl and I was at a friend's party with her and I had such a good time with her because we were basically in each others' arms all night. And that was 3 weeks ago and whenever I ...

He never told me that he was married, so I never suspected a thing! He just says he didn't want to hurt me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

14 January 2006 (F) - About a few months ago, I found out that my boyfriend is married. He doesn't live with this woman, so I never suspected anything. I was under the impression that they just had a child together. He tries to justify lying to me by saying that he ...

My husband and I are separated. I'm seeing my ex-boyfriend, who is engaged. I love my ex...what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

14 January 2006 (F) - hello. i need help. my husband and i separated in march (10 months ago), because he was talking to other females and lying to me about it. we argued all the time, finally i left. in april i started seeing an ex boyfriend, but the problem is he is ...

We flirted, danced and drank together, but then he started with someone else! Should I make him jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 996 days ago

13 January 2006 (F) - I really like this guy from my college course. We get on so well, always laughing and joking together! We went out as a college group and I got pretty close to him on a night out. After a few drinks and we were dancing pretty close and I think he...

He always cheats so I left him. Am I right to leave or are his relationships acceptable? Am I insecure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 998 days ago

13 January 2006 (F) - 2½yrs ago I found e mails between my husband and a female friend declaring their love etc. Also lots of calls in the middle of the night to his cell phone. He denied any sexual relationship and said it was a silly fantasy world he was in at the ...

Should I be trying harder with the (married) girl I met and fell in love with (online)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 998 days ago

13 January 2006 (M) - I met a girl online last January year that I quickly became good friends with. I thought she was very attractive, we shared the same sense of humor, but unfortunately, she has been married for 10 years and has 3 children. So I kept it strictly as ...

Not sure what to do next. Can a guy fall in love with you over the Internet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 970 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years but we have been drifting apart, always arguing, and the relationship is boring. No sex hardly etc. Anyway I have been in contact with a guy on the internet and he has blown my mind. We seemed to hit it off s...

What's going on in my wife's mind? Her boyfriend left her, and I just want to understand what she needs!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

11 January 2006 (M) - Me and my wife have had many problems over the last ten years and have been separated twice now and the last is only 3 months ago. During this last time I have been going to counselling for my verbal anger problem and up until 4 weeks ago we were ...

I love Ned but keep thinking about Harry! Should I give it a go with Harry? Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1000 days ago

11 January 2006 (F) - I met a fantastic guy "Harry" 4 years ago. He's gentle, fun, very interesting and a warm person. I was very happy and fell in love pretty quickly. I was absolutely sure this was perfect and he wasn't. After 3 years we split up. It was a first ...

I think she's interested in me, but she is dating someone. Need to know the signs...help me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1000 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - She's interested in me, but recently started dating someone. I sense that she is uncomfortable with an in-between feeling so-to-speak when she sees me around while she's hangin with him. Can y'all give me examples of how she will put on ...

How do I choose between the two of them...help!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - How do you decide between two men? i've been with my current boyfriend he's 35 and i'm 22 for about three years he lovely,safe and trustworthy, recently i met a different guy he's my own age and possesses all the same qualities, i split up with my ...

Don't want to hurt my boyfriend, who I've been friends with for 10 years, but this other man makes me feel... Alive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1001 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - Dear cupid, i ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years now . We have been friends for 10 years . But im secretly falling for some one eles and hes been wanting me for as long as me and my boyfriend have been dating. we're having a little trouble ...

I think the love we have for each other would be enough to get him over the guilt of leaving his marriage for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1002 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - We are both married and very much in love with one another. He's been married for 31 years and I, for 29. I am ready to leave my marriage for him. It hurts to be without him. He has been a people pleaser all his life and is a reformed alcoholic, and ...