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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Who do I choose? The ex who abandoned me and our son or my current boyfriend who's a wonderful guy?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - My ex and I were together for 6 years. We started dating when we were teens I gave birth to our son when I was 20. A few years after that, we broke up because he was not ready to take the responsibility. He was kinda immature that time. Then I...

I love my GF but I think she is cheating. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Help needed with troubled relationship should I trust her, do I end it and is she cheating. To cut a long story short I have been with my girlfriend for around 2 years and love her very much we've been through alot together. At first it was gre...

Do I confront, support him, or walk away? My married lover confided he has started meeting men for sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I need some support! I have had a relationship with a married man for many many years we are very very good friends and occasionally we have sex too which is like the icing on the cake. His wife is sick with MS so please dont criticise me for see...

I find the thought of my girlfriend with another guy arousing, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Is something wrong with me? I don't know why but I find the thought of my girlfriend with other guys very arousing. I don't know why but I do. When she was going out with other guys it hurt like crazy, like I was having an emotional heart attack b...

My boyfriend is abusive. Help, what do I do? Because I'm falling hard for my boyfriend's brother.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Ok. I am in a situation that I really badly need help with. I have been dating my current boyfriend for 2 years now off and on. The first year was terrible. I always caught him talking to his ex girlfriend. He was telling her he loved her and that...

He's cheated on me over 12 times and gave me a STD. How do I cope with my hurt and the feeling he's going to do it again and soon?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I've been with the same guy for 4 years we have a baby together but in the past 2 years he cheated on me over 12 times. One of the times he gave me an std I found out from his sisters friend because he gave it to her as well. Another time a girl ...

It stresses me out that he's so close to his female friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Ok here is the deal my boyfriend has this friend thAts a girl and he talks to her alot and I swear no matter what I say doesn't ever feel good enough becuz I have a feeling she'd say it better and I think I am break up with him over her because it ...

Met two people in a bar, now the guy wants to meet up again. Should I meet him alone or with his friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I met a guy and his female friend in a bar on Sunday and I have their phone numbers. The guy said he wants to meet up with me again, but I'm not sure whether to meet him on his own, or meet him and his female friend together. He fancies me, so I'm ...

How can I stop comparing myself to other women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - How can I stop comparing myself to other women, especially my friends? I have a friend who is gorgeous. She is older than me but it's as if she doesn't age. She is shorter than me, and plumper, but she is lucky in that she just looks thick, not fat ...

I like him but he has a (cheating) girlfriend! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - There's this guy I like I have known him for a while. Even his parents and three sisters know me(cause I spent some nights with his lil sister cause we r best friends), but I don't know what to do. I'm in 7th grade but he's in 6th and has a ...

What's going on between my B/f and this other girl? Do they have a history? Does he want her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I noticed that my bf has been exchanging messages on fb with a girl he's not friends with on fb. She lives in our area according to her profile. I secretly viewed their messages and it seems that they are not flirting or anything. I'm jealous bc ...

When I do choose one man over the other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4532 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - So I'm dating two men. One for six weeks and one for 3 weeks. I've seen both about 5 times. At what point do I stop dating one or the other? When a conversation arises? I like both and I want a boyfriend that will lead to marriage. Neither has ment...

Feeling used, yet culpable in becoming intimate with a 'taken' man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do, I did something very stupid with this guy a week ago. I am so disappointed in myself, that I don't know what to do in this type of situation?! Basically, this guy I really liked him and I wasn't sure whether he did to, but ...

I don't feel the spark for my boyfriend whom I am in a long distance relationship with, and I have cheated on him three times now!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, I need your help. I have been dating my boyfriend for 1year now. its a long distance relationship. Of late my boyfriend does call me as usual and all but lately I feel like he's kinda changed he is too busy for me, he doesn't give me ...

Boyfriend may be cheating on me. What is the best way to confront him and how do I deal when he's denying it or pretending that I made it all up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I recently discovered that my boyfriend may be caring a relationship with another girl long distance. He is texting a girl in another state and from the looks of the texts, they have some sort of relationship. They call each other baby and tell ...

Does it ever work out when the love interest has an overprotective, platonic friend of the opposite sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I have been in this situation more times than I would have liked. I like a shy guy who is controlled by his overprotective friend who is a girl. She swears that there is no attraction between them and he will always be like her little brother, but ...

I love him. How do I cope with him? Or even move on from my married boy friend, who cheated on me, AGAIN?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - hello aunts, i am still obsessed with my married boy friend who cheated on me 3 months ago. Since then i have been living in tears as i love him so much. I know he is bad, but i cannot make up my mind. He cheated on me even before and i forgave ...

He moves on to new woman so easily! Am I being unfair to feel he led me on only to drop me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - To all those people out in the world, that gift their time to answer our problems.... I thank you! I would be so grateful for opinions on my situation. My partner of 4 years and I split up six months ago, because I found he had been lying and I co...

I love my boyfriend and yet, I find myself longing to be with a woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I am in very happy relationship with a man thats been going on for a year and 4 months and yet I'm longing for a girl! I really need help because i am having feelings against Everything i have previously said about being bisexual! I previously wrote ...

My girlfriend has an obsession and a bad friend, how can I help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - Hello. My girlfriend and I are very much in love. We've been dating for about 2 years. We agree that we'd do almost anything for eachother, or give our lives for eachother and everything. I have one complaint though, her "best friend". There is a ...

How do I convince my ex that his online relationship counts as cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I found out my boyfriend was cheating emotionally with this girl who lives on the opposite side of the country. But they skyped together so to me that distance doesnt mean anything. I sent him a text telling him I knew about his relation...

My wife's flirting with my younger brother enhances our sex life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - my wife flirts with my younger brother. as we are in an open relationship, we talk and I know it all. when she talk this things we come to good mood and end up sex. such way I feel the way she behave helps our sex life shine. is it harmless ...

Weird sex position... is it a fantasy or does it just feel good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has expressed some out there ideas in the bedroom like sharing me with another guy or a threesome with another girl because he was unsure about being in a monogamous relationship. He has changed his ideas now though and we have sorted ...

His new girlfriend is always telling me they are getting married, so why is my ex calling me from prison telling me he misses me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - Okay so my ex and I broke up about 8 months ago since then he got a new girlfriend and they have been dating for 8 months now she 17 and he's 21. Everytime I see her all she does is brag about him infront of me and try's gives me attitude and ...

I like his brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - ok were do i start... so i really like this guy (Joe) who i met through his brother (Kevin)! but i know his brother likes me! iv known Kevin through-out school but only really just became proper friends but we have kissed twice which was a ...

I feel like I'm in love with her just on looks, and I work with her. She has a Boyfriend too. How do I cope with mu crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

22 November 2011 (M) - I really like this girl who I work with. we have never had a conversation, but she's all I think about these last few weeks. Out of work a few months ago we both looked and checked one an other out and a few months after that we both smiled at each...

He isn't happy with her. Should I pursue him? Our co-workers think we are already an item.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - There's this guy I work with and I've really grown to care about this guy. We don't see each other outside of work much, but we are around each other at work all the time. We started out as just friends, but lately I started noticing a diff...

Do I still want him and does he want me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - I've been exclusive with this guy for 6 months now and our relationship has been progressing. I've been recently contacted by a guy I used to see on and off. We would Have a good time then disappear from each others lives. We've been speaking ...

I'm FWB with my younger ex, but he has another girl as an FWB too! How do I get him to like me more than her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, well I really need help in this situation and please reply with honesty. well here we go first of all im a 16 yr old girl and I have an ex bf that my lil brother present to me, my ex is 14 and not turning 15 till 8 months and im ...

She has left me and is now engaged to her ex! What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

21 November 2011 (M) - Hi, I am a male 24 y.o a graduate student study abroad. When I study abroad, I met this angel, she is the most beautiful girl I ever seen, and I love her so bad (we came from the same country, btw). The problem is that she already have a boyfrien...

So lost and hurt after discovering my boyfriend has been sleeping with some of his female friends

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - What do I do? i love him so much but i'm so lost and hurt. I found out recently my bf has been sleeping with one of his friends since we got together and then found out he recently had a threesome with two of his other female friends. That and ...

My friends hang out with my boyfriend behind my back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4538 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - My friend who I've been friends with for 4 years, acts as if she's better then me. At school she ignores me as if she's embarressed to be my friend, but on the weekends acts as if we're best friends. She calls me every weekend to hang out and its ...

Is he genuinely interested in me? Or am I just a rebound?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4539 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - Is he genuinely interested or am I just a rebound? I was friends with this guy in high school but we were mostly just school friends. This past summer (after our first year of college), we really became close friends and would hang out a lot. I a...

This girl who my fiance works with, thinks its her responsibility to wake him up every morning for work! If he doesn't answer she will keep calling like 5-6 times!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - My fiance and I are both 20 and well he has this girl that is his friend who also works with him and she calls my fiance every morning like an hour before he has to go to work and tells him not to be late.If he doesn't answer she will keep calling ...

Is he just marrying her out of comfort? Ignore his feelings? if he felt nothing then why did he try to avoid me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

20 November 2011 (F) - So one of my prior classmates in graduate school and I were in the same class . He is 40 I am 25. Anyways throughout the class we got to know each other and I realized that we had a LOT in common, and in a way we spoke the same "language" I open...

I have LTR with my partner, but another man stole my heart. What am to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4540 days ago

19 November 2011 (M) - Advice needed, I need to resolve my emotional mess and i don't know anymore how to do it.At the moment i find this way better then asking my friends for advise, cause the things went to far. I am not control freak but i like to have things in contr...

He's separated, but still married and I really fancy him. He's also getting over breaking up with his Gf. Am I doing the right thing to go out with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

18 November 2011 (?) - hey a friend of mine asked me out today, i've fancied him since i've known him but there are a few problems. 1 he's married, separated, but still married. 2 he's just had a messy break up with his girlfriend so he's near enough public en...

My marriage isn't working, I'm involved with a married woman and I cant even divorce my wife and be with her, because she says her husband is abusive and will harm us both.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

17 November 2011 (M) - I am 38 and I have been married for 19 years to a woman 2 years older than I am. My marriage has been difficult. We even separated for a year 10 years ago. Our sex life is poor and we have some really deep issues that we cannot compromise on. One ...

Why can't they just get divorced?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

16 November 2011 (F) - OK....so a bit of background, I have been with my partner for just over 2 years now...we got together at the end of falling out of his marriage... Since then they have been relatively amicable as they had dogs together and are both animal love...

I love two men and I am so confused!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

16 November 2011 (F) - I was in a relationship with my partner for 7 yrs. It was a very rocky relationship. I loved him dearly from the start but he was extremely volatile and unpredictable and had lots of bitterness left from his past relationship. On the whole he ...

My wife's son is tearing us apart! What to do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

16 November 2011 (M) - i have caught my wife's son (21 year old) with large quanities of skunk weed 3 times now, the first about a week after we were married 2 years ago,it turns out that he has been reported to the police on 5 occations by 3 different people on our ...

Does she not want me to succeed? Any suggestions to get her back too, if you can?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

16 November 2011 (M) - Hey guys I am 19 years old ,and I had been in a relationship for a little over a year until recently. She broke up with me a couple of days back cold heartedly. Info:she has been my friend since childhood. Her and my parents get along pretty wel...

I'm married and now my lover is also married I'm struggling to accept she is physical with another man....I don't want to share her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

15 November 2011 (M) - I am married and had a relationship with collegaue in office. We got along for couple of years well including physically and now she got married to a guy. She says she wants to continue being physical with me but I am finding it hard to accept now ...

My girlfriend's potential investor is the mother of a guy who seemed into her, is this appropriate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

15 November 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of a decade is an aspiring film producer. Her two year old company has a few documentaries in the works, but hasn't had a big payday or even a movie they can really be proud of so far, although there are some candidates still in produ...

Seeing one girl and slept with another

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

15 November 2011 (M) - Okay I'm beginning to have a serious dilemma.. I've been exclusively with this girl (not officially dating, but basically) for about 8 months now and things have been going great. I started college in the fall and she just happened to be moving ...

I left my boyfriend for another man, but now that other man has left me for his ex girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - So I wrote on here a little while ago about cheating on my bf well I ended up doing the right thing and breaking up with him. I continued to see the other guy but now he is back with his slut ex who treats him like shit. Well I have told him I had ...

I'm willing to have an affair with my doctor, but how do I confirm whether or not he's really interested?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - ok so i just got surgery sept and my doctor has always been hot i've know him for 2 years now and now it seems like he likes me he kept telling me i looked and i just smiled so hard we talk about other things besides my health. i feel a strong c...

How can I leave my husband without hurting my kids?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - I have been married 27 years to my high school sweetheart and we've had our good and bad times in our relationship. I've tried to leave multiple times through the years for different reasons but have no family and always felt alone and that I couldn...

My boyfriend left his children and I for another girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have two children and he has left us. he has a new girlfriend already and its been a wee. she is determined to stay with him and is trying to be super nice to me even though ive known her for 6 years and know that her intentions ...

Was I wrong to exchange texts with a friend who fancies me or is my boyfriend just trying to control me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - My BF and I have been going out 2 years. For the most part we have had a healthy relationship, with only a few bumps in the road. This first was when he went away for 2 weeks and came back and said he needed his space, but really he had been ...