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Falling for partner's friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3437 days ago

30 October 2014 (F - Hi, I have been in a relationship for 15 yrs. it's not a good relationship and hasn't been for at least 5 yrs or so, we are really only together out of easiness and we have an 8 yr old daughter. Other than that we sort of lead separate lives. The ...

My Gf is seeing her ex, but has not told me. What is the best way of dealing with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

27 October 2014 (F - Hi, My girlfriend is still best friends with her ex boyfriend, which I aren't really okay by, but I know that if I confront her about it then she will just say don't make me choose, so therefore that means that she will chose him over me. I woul...

My fiancè cheated on me with his ex! I am so angry at this woman, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3092 days ago

27 October 2014 (F - Dear Cupid, I need to know what to do in my situation that I know im not the only one that is dealing. Ive been with a man for just over 2 years now. We are engaged. The problem is this: He has twin boys with his ex. Now I understand that ...

Can a married man fall in long with his mistress? Or is the lover just used for sex on the side?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

27 October 2014 (F - Do married men only use their lover on the side just for sex only? Can they actually fall in love with their mistress, despite being torn because of the children? ...

I told him if he wants to be with me he has to break up with his partner first

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

26 October 2014 (M - So being a 29 year old and single for a year I seem to have gotten myself into a rather difficult situation ... Whilst recently on holiday I met a guy who i noticed, and few days over the holiday the usual eye contact etc. We exchanged numbers and ...

I have strong feelings for her. She says we're not compatible. How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

25 October 2014 (M - Dear Cupid I am a 46 year old man, after being out of the dating scene for a very long time I met this gorgeous 48 year old lady at work. We got talking initially I asked her out and she declined stating that she was in a complicated relation...

Am I right to be suspicious of my boyfriend and his gay colleague?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3444 days ago

24 October 2014 (F - Hey guys, So my current boyfriend has been I don't know complicated. He tells me he loves me and is straight and I'm the only one for him but there's a guy at work. He's in a more senior position and gay. I have always gotten along with him howe...

What is the best way to handle a Bf who keeps on looking up Ex Gfs ? He makes me feel as if I am not good enough for him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

22 October 2014 (F - Hello, I am seeking for some help and advice on a situation that has totally damaged me.. I have a boyfriend that I have been dating for 2 years but we have dated before this two year relationship as well. This 2 year relationship has came ac...

I'm in love with him but there's another woman in his life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3445 days ago

21 October 2014 (F - dear cupid am dating a man I met and dated two years back we broke up that time and I got married to another man, now my marriage did not workout so am single now and this man I knew before has asked that we be together again, I have fallen inlove ...

I like guy 1 but I have this niggling fear that he would be a cheat!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3446 days ago

20 October 2014 (F - I met 2 gypuys round about the same time 2 months ago and having been seeing them both for the past 2 months. I haven't told either of them that I'm seeing someone else and i don't know if either of them are seeing anyone else. I can't quite deci...

Why does my significant other prefer to hang out with her girlfriends instead of me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3448 days ago

18 October 2014 (M - I have been seeing this woman for several years now, and I wonder if anyone can shed some light on this matter. What would make a woman hint at making plans with you on a Friday night only to tell you that day that she's going to hang out with her...

My crush is asking for a threesome! Do I do it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

15 October 2014 (F - My crush asked me to do a threesome, he has this fantasy. he said I could choose any friend /girl/ of mine to do it and make me feel more comfortable. I am interested in having something more with Him, I'm confused. I wouldn't want to do that if it ...

I just lost my baby and her father is cheating on me, how do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3452 days ago

14 October 2014 (F - I just lost my daughter at 7 months pregnant. I had an emergency c section. I'm staying with family because the father cannot support or take care of me. I can locate his phone and he's been with another woman. He's introduced her to his coworkers. ...

Do I Tell my boyfriend he might not be the dad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3453 days ago

13 October 2014 (F - Ok so ive been with my boyfriend for about 18 months now. I love him so much, he treats me like im the only girl in the world and doesnt care that i have a baby from a past relationship, he loves my little boy just as much as me. But 8 months b...

My husband says he's cool with me having relations with other women. How have others handled a similar situation as this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3453 days ago

13 October 2014 (F - My husband and I have been married for 5 years. We have had many ups and downs but despite these we are still together and communicate with one another very openly and honestly. Lately things have been a bit rubbish and he hasn't been very attracte...

Family secrets: The only two who were not told about the cheating? Myself and my son. How do I deal with their toxic actions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

13 October 2014 (F - My husband had an affair with his sister in law. His older brother was 20 years older than her, they married because she was pregnant. He had another younger girl pregnant, but chose to marry ''C''. He never had contact with that child from the...

What can I do? She is my very loyal LDR Gf. If I tell her how often I cheated she may breakup with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

13 October 2014 (M - Hi, in 2009 i was visiting my friend in another town so i met and she is a neigbour of my friend ,she gave me her numbers when i went home the same day i called her we talked suddenly the following day her phone was not working,so i thought like she ...

He's in a relationship. I think he and I may have a connection. How can I say it without sounding pushy or desperate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

12 October 2014 (F - I have known this guy for about a year now. We met through working with a service organization and have been friends ever since. I like him and think there might be a connection . I have been wanting to tell him and see where it leads. However,...

It's taken me four years, a nearly broken engagement, and me making out with another guy to realize that I want to give my fiance his ultimate fantasy: two girls giving him a blow job at the same time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

11 October 2014 (F - First, a little background that could help with any advice givings. I ask that no one judges my actions as I already know that I screwed up and believe me, I am working hard to better everything again. My fiance has only ever been with one woman ...

Seven years?? Am I wasting my time waiting for my married lover to leave his wife and children?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

11 October 2014 (F - I have left my husband but I have been involved with a married man for 7 years.I said I wanted a proper relationship but he said he can't leave his kids who are 15 and 17. We haven't really talked about our future it's like he lives for today yet ...

My friends say he is a jerk I could do without .... but I miss him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3457 days ago

10 October 2014 (F - My best friend and I were in love. Well, we never really went out but we were in love. We admitted to it all months later where we mutually confessed to all our emotions. He was everything to me, my best friend of sixteen years, my first love an...

My boyfriend spends more time with his ex than he does with me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

7 October 2014 (F - My boyfriend has been spending a lot of time with his ex girlfriend. This has been going on since they split up a year ago. I tried to be tolerant of the situation as I didn't want to control his life. I did however bring it up with him once an...

Do I have a problem, and should I confront my husband about it? Am suspicions that he's cheating, but have no proof.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

6 October 2014 (F - A few months ago I posted about my husband coming home from a branch office visit for day (the branch was closing down) and I saw long scratch marks down his arms and small bruises around his wrists. They scabbed over and the marks were there for ...

What do I do? Which girl do I choose? How do I let my ex down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

6 October 2014 (M - Hi, Basically I am in a big dilemma in my life. I am 24 and had a ex gf for 3 years (she is 22 btw) and we split up 4 months ago. Due to the fact that we kept arguing, she lived too far, her parents didnt like me, she didnt want to leave home and...

He's a childhood friend. Yet due to his Gf's request he is now snubbing me. How do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

5 October 2014 (F - I know this might seem trivial, but this has been bugging me. A childhood friend of mine has just randomly started ignoring me. We were such good friends in high school, and although we fancied each other for years nothing actually happened beca...

Have I ruined things for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

5 October 2014 (F - What do I make of this? I've been with my partner for 5 years we had a son together. He had to move for work and things got rocky with the distance and he eventually told me he had met someone and had been seeing her for a few months without tell...

My Husband sent a text to another girl in the middle of the night ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

5 October 2014 (F - I have a very simple question. Should I be worried? I got off work today to find a fb message from a girl my husband used to be friends with. It had a picture of a iPhone convo and her message to me read "this is not the first time your husban...

She told me she has a boyfriend but now she's calling me every day

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

4 October 2014 (M - Hi,i met a girl on some online dating,so we text for like 3months ,she told me she has a bf, but he does not take her seriously so when she tell me this i thought she gave me ammo,so we agreed to meet one day cause she stays almost 1hr away from my ...

I can't be with both girls! I have a lovely girl here but what about the one who I met in Florida?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3452 days ago

2 October 2014 (M - Thank you for reading - it's quite funny as I'm normally the one my friends ask for advice, yet here I am asking you all... It's been hard and I haven't been able to sleep much so I really need an outside perspective- thank you. I met a girl about...

Do I end a 3 year relationship and take a gamble on someone I think I have stronger feelings for or do I stick with what I have?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

2 October 2014 (M - I have a bit problem, and subsequent decision to make... two girls fighting for me and my affections. On one side i have my patner who i've been with for 3 years, i'm happy / content with her but id say not madly in love. the other side ...

I can't get his cousin out of my head

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3465 days ago

2 October 2014 (F - Dear Cupid, I am a 19 year old girl and I am sooo confused! I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years now, I love him to bits and would do anything for him.. However, lately we went on holiday abroad with his family, and his cousin w...

Is my friend insinuating that her husband likes me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

1 October 2014 (F - I posted a general question here before regarding a sticky situation which has now become even stickier. I need advice! I feel like my close friend is indirectly setting me up with her husband, or at the very least seems fine with him potentially ...

I know I'll never have a proper relationship if I don't cut contact with my old flame ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

1 October 2014 (F - Please bare with me as this will be long! I'm in such a predicament and I'm getting too old for it to be a problem any longer. I was 23 I met someone who no one else has ever come close to. He was everything I looked for in a partner and I kn...

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