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My boyfriend was texting my friend to tell her that he really liked her, just two weeks after I gave birth to our daughter!

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Question - (15 January 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

My boyfriend, was texting my friend telling her he really liked her and they had been calling each other regularly, as far as I know nothing happened but its not been the same since. I couldn't believe it, I had only given birth to my daughter 2 weeks before hand! What should I do? I just feel un important, un loved and used now...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2006):

Firstly do you really consider this person who accepted his text messages and calls a friend? Surely she would have only needed to send one text message back, and that would have been to say "flattered, but no thanks" or "get lost"! Find yourself a decent friend that can be trusted.

As for him he needs to be told how this has made you feel, and that there is obviously a trust issue now.

He needs to prove you can trust him again, you don't want to end up without friends for fear your partner may fancy them more and run off with them.

You should also ask your friend what she was thinking too, letting him call and text her in the first place!

Don't stay in the reltionship for the sake of the child, a relationship without trust can be extremely hard work!

Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2006):

Hi, I know how you feel, i am in a dilema over txt messages too. My fiance txt'd his ex-colleague and asked HER to go to the works doo!!!!! Not me! I see this in his fone and his txt saying "Ill be thinking about you, can't wait to see you, you looked gorgeous the other afternoon - blah blah blah" I could redrum him really i could. If you find an answer met me know also please.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2006):

What a pig...sorry but you deserve better....tell him so and kick him to the curb. he doesnt deserve you

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