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Archived questions from: January, 2016 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

My husband is demanding a MMF and I want no part of it. Where is this coming from?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2999 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - My husband of 37 years is now demanding an mmf. He also recently started working his finger in my anus during intercourse and insists on oral from me right after sex without wiping my juices off of his penis. I don't know where this is coming from. ...

What can you advise in this situation? It feels like I am option two.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks and it's been amazing. The connection is unlike anything I've experienced in such a long time. I started to fall in love with him the second I first saw him. Magic. We love each others company, the sex is t...

I am feeling sorry for myself, and sorry for the wife of my married lover since we broke up. How do I get over this break-up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - I broke up with a married man two weeks ago. While I am dealing with that and trying to let go, I am also crying over the fact that I will no longer be friends with his wife either. Please don't judge and tell me she is better off without frie...

Seems he's been messaging her non-stop. Is my boyfriend cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3005 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - Okay so I know some people may judge me for this but about two months back I snooped on my boyfriends phone. I saw he had been exchanging lots of messages with this girl he goes to university with who he is actually going to be living with next aca...

I feel everyone will hate me if I see more of this guy. What do I need to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - I have been going out with my current boyfriend for 3 years now. We have had our ups and downs but for the last few months we have had a smooth patch. As we starting going out quite young (ish) the relationship has sometimes made me a little i...

My husband won't stop badgering me about having a threesome

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

28 January 2016 (F) - My husband of 18 years has been pressuring me to have a threesome with another man. I am not comfortable with this but he keeps insisting that he wants to share me with either a friend of his or one of my choice. I am 60 and not real comfortable ...

How can I overcome my emotions over this bad break-up? Feel sick with jealousy, anger, hurt and sadness

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

27 January 2016 (M) - Hi everyone. So I broke up with my ex girlfriend and ended up exploring my bisexual side. Since September 2015 I have been seeing This guy our meets were intense and we ended up having sex. I freaked out for a couple of weeks and ignored him. He ...

Having an affair with my friend's husband

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

26 January 2016 (F) - I m 22 years old n i love a guy he is 23 and married to my friend.we have known each other since 1 year ago before evwrything was ok but since 4-5months we are regularly talking with each other and meeting secretly.we both have feelings for each ...

What action is needed by us, to resolve this family issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

23 January 2016 (F) - I have been with my partner for four years living together for three years. Last year his mother died and his father had major heart surgery. We offered to have his father living with us temporary until he got better although he didn't tell his ...

He can't stay hard, says I'm too wet and yet he wants a threesome???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm dating a guy for about a month, we did hit off well and he was nice and everything. Fast forward we had tried to have sex a week back, he told me I'm too wet and when he was able to do it, he couldn't hold his erection, tried ...

Tired of being the other woman but...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

18 January 2016 (F) - Hi everyone, Am struggling following the break-up of a sexual relationship with a married man. We started as friends, which evolved into a FWB. We would hang out if I made plans for movies etc. Even though he always said how much he would like to ...

Threesome that I initiated leads to my wife having a 2 year affair

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

16 January 2016 (M) - My wife and I are in our late 20's, married 5 years..One night about two years ago after too many drinks at my single friends apartment, don't ask me why, i said lets try a threesome..probably the alchohol talking..it was totally my idea, and my ...

I admitted to my ex that I would be involved in a 3some but my past experience wasn't too great with them

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

15 January 2016 (F) - I met up with an old boyfriend recently. He's single and a real rock and roller. He is highly sexed and its as if that's all he thinks about. We have great chemistry. He has admitted about all the girls he has slept with while on tour etc. Th...

Long term affair has me shocked

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

14 January 2016 (M) - I recently found out that the affair my wife had about 30 years ago had been going on for almost 3 years... I was shocked. Back then after her affair was discovered, and came to an end, I never thought that it had lasted THAT long. My question is ...

Why would a married man keep in touch with his mistress while on vacation with his wife?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

12 January 2016 (F) - Why does a married man who is on vacation with his wife keep in constant touch with his mistress while he is away? And tells her he misses her and can't wait to be with her again?...

Why couldn't he have come back in my life before I got married

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

10 January 2016 (F) - I feel my life is a movie right now and I need help please. Years ago when I was 22 (I'm now 34) I met and fell in love with this guy, my age and we were together almost 2 years. I was convinced he was "the one." He then got an opportunity to s...

But why the sudden blanking...what does it mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

10 January 2016 (F) - I split up with my ex a year and a half ago. It was pretty messy he ended up going to prison for being an idiot, all alcohol related. He has a problem with alcohol. It was over because I couldn't deal with the stress of it anymore. We didn...

If my ex tries to talk to me, should I listen, or stay with the new partner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

10 January 2016 (M) - Met someone new, three dates, going great, showing me more then my ex did, but am still in love with my ex. In my past, this has happened, more then once, when things were really starting to be great with the new one, my ex would pop back in the p...

I'm fed up and tired of my girlfriend and her drama. There's a new woman on the scene. How do I approach her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

10 January 2016 (M) - Hello, I have been in a relationship with my gf for almost three years. However throughout those years it's been good and it has been REAL bad. She has a short temper and gets mad real easy. She also loves to argue. When I ignore her she comes back ...

I am not sure if I am being insecure or disrespected, I expected more from a relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

8 January 2016 (F) - I have dated my boyfriend for about 8 months and am 28. Things on the most part are amazing. I have been cheated on before and I can be insecure. I never accused my boyfriend of cheating or stop him from doing anything. I have questioned him a...

Help? Who do I chose? My ex or my child's father?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

7 January 2016 (F) - I met up with an ex boyfriend last year July having not seen him for over 15 years. It was magical and he made he feel so good. WE dated a few times and he even came to my works xmas party. That's the last time I saw him. We had a good ni...

My husband is angry and said I was careless!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

7 January 2016 (F) - Hy.im muslim.my hubby got 2nd marriage.its a long story bt the short question is my husband shared something with me about hr..one day my husband nephew borrowed my phone when he was going with hr friends.me gave n he changed the sim.bt didnt ...

Threesome with my boyfriend and another woman has left me confused

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

4 January 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and i had a threesome with my best friend while drunk, this was his and mine first and hopefully last threesome together, it was my idea and I've apologized to him because of past relationships where the man cheated on me and i don't ...

My boyfriend told me he loved me and the next day he moved in with another woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

2 January 2016 (F) - Need help dealing with what happened. I was dating a man for four years with the relationship never progressing or no talk of a future. Finally after 3 1/2 years he proposed but still wouldn't talk about marriage. We dated another six months s...

My fiance and I broke up. How can I get through this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

2 January 2016 (F) - I was in a relationship for 4 years and we were engaged to get married in the summer of 2016. I really loved him I was so looking forward to marrying my best friend. We talked about children often, and he was just my whole world. Every time ...

Is my guy having an emotional affair with this girl he calls his "friend"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

1 January 2016 (F) - I'm really needing some honest opinions as I don't know who to turn to. The last month has been hell for me because of the problems in my relationship with my boyfriend of 4 years. I truly believe my boyfriend has been having an emotional aff...