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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I think I just maybe losing my mind in this whole situtaion please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - What do you do in a situation when you have a boyfriend at home that is older than you and you started out as best friends, eventually moved into a deeper relationship, have a hansome child together and are still good friends, but due to past issues ...

Two men - Should I go with my head or my heart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I am confused. I need to choose between two men. This is not an easy decision. My husband has been out of the country for 2 1/2 years and I haven't seen him in one year.Over time we have lost communication(more on his part I would talk and t...

This is just a rant but I really need your thoughts and suggestions...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - this is just a rant, but suggestions and thoughts are appreciated. My gf has trouble letting go of her ex, no matter how nasty he is to us and our friends. She dosent see that he's pushing my friend base away from her....they dont want to speak to...

There's a possibility he's not the father... should I let him know that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - i had sex with two different men and im pregnant... thing is i used a condom with the one guy and i didnt with the other... now the man i didnt use a condom with i have been with off and on for 5 years now and the one i did i had dated in the past ...

He wants me to choose between him and his brother...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a long time i love him a lot and his older brother is my best friend. His brother was acting a little wierd around me and then he told me that he loved me and that i have to chose between him and his ...

My best friend's girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - So here's the deal... I'm really falling for my best friend's girlfriend. But it's a bit complicated.. I've known the girl (we'll call her Lisa) since I was in middle school, and ever since then, we've been pretty good friends. We used to live ...

We are having an affair and she feels guilty for cheating on her hubby!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - I am 24 and she is 28 and married. We had a strong relationship and her husband works out of country. She hasn't met him in two years. We started as friends and became very close. It all happened on our road trip to another city while returning. S...

Reunited with a lost love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - A lover from my past has been looking for me. After 10 years plus he finally finds me. We do communicate through email only. He reminisces about the past and went through a lot to get to me. When I moved away we were on good terms. Just lost ...

I'm not sure if he is just playing with me or what... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I am a female of 24 years.. been single for a while now, and just recently started dating again, i met this guy who's 5 years younger than me, we are not of the same race, which i dont see as a problem. I'm really starting to like him after 2 months ...

How can I win my husband back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hi everybody, My husband says he loves me but i am not his love... his love is virtual.. he will not say it to anyone.... but i found some e.mails to his colleague, he admits his love for her. This girl was teasing me for 3 years, long cals, ...

Here are three of us in this relationship! Me, my boyfreind, and my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hi All, Wondered if you could advise me on the following plase. !! I have been in a relationship for two months. For the last month it as been rocky for various reasons, but I have realised that alot of that is to do with my anxiety, and am working ...

Should I even stay with him through all of this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 and a half years, and I found out he cheated on me. I asked him plenty of times if he had cheated, or if he ever would; and he just kept denying. Finally a couple days ago I confronted him with actual proof, ...

Do I tell him that I love him? Or do I hide it seen as he has a girlfriend and is going to a different college?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I recently connected with a guy. We talk everyday and all night. I knew he had a girl friend and i respected that. I even kept my distance. The other day he insisted that we meet up before we both leave for college so i did. It was amazing. We went ...

Who should I be with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I have been going out with this guy and we dont really get to see each other as much. We have never been intimate with eachother. I thought when we first start talking that I was so lucky to be having a chance to go out with him. But now that ...

This random girl claims my boyfriend got her pregnant, and there is lots of evidence to prove she is lying, so why do I still think about it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Recently a girl tried adding my boyfriend on facebook but as he didnt know her he ignored it, she also added my friend and started messaging her saying that my boyfriend got her pregnant and she really needed to talk to him. He thought it was a joke ...

I was worried he was using me to get back at another girl so we broke up, but now he wont give us another chance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - i went out with this guy that i really liked and he liked me and swore he hated this other girl. well one of my friends that i really trust or i did trust,cuz i guess i still liked him and i wanted to go after him, told me my bf was using me to get ...

Will she ever end her relationship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I have been waiting for this girl for 2 and a half years already. She is in a relationship with her bf for 4 years plus. She knows her relationship is unhealthy. There have been couple of break ups in between these 4 years but they patched backed. ...

I love my ex and am thinking about going back to him but my bad boy is so much fun.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4932 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I was dating the sweetest guy in the world for about 3 years... we were in love for most of the time, but we were in a long distance relationship, he was 20 and i was 16....so we had a few differences. He was way too possesive and never trusted me. ...

Would I be sloppy seconds if I chose to go out with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I've had a crush on this guy for about 4 months now, on and off, and he's sending some pretty mixed signals. Just so you know, he's really sweet and would never knowingly hurt anyone. We had a class together in school and I was positive he liked me ...

Is it worth fighting for him, when he fancies someone out of his league!!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend recently told me (after I asked on a whim) that he has a crush on another girl. They work together at the university. He says that it's only a crush and he doesn't "like" her. In fact, he says that she's so above his league that he ...

The sex isn't good, is it me, him or his size?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - Well I guess you can say this is a part II to my previous post "How do I be with him in a serious, committed relationship without forcing him into it?" There was one thing wrong. This thing barthered me. Something that I don't know how to solve. His ...

My boyfriend slept with his brother's wife before he met me?? Please help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - Ok, so before my boyfriend and I started dating, he slept with his brothers wife supposedly just once. We started dating maybe about 5 months after this happened and he told me about 7 months into our relationship out of guilt. At first, I was ...

Can you get over a threesome gone wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - Can you get over a threesome gone wrong? Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years. Our sex life is good and has never become dull. We had in the past (usually after a few drinks) talked about a threesome (with another woman- he wouldn't ...

Jealous boyfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - im in a weird position right now my ex still loves me, and is telling my boyfriend to break up with me cause he is dead jealous... he said if he doesent his gonna hurt my boyfriend.. and me and my boyfriend LOVE eatch other.. i dnt know what to do.. ...

I'm falling for a guy who has a girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I am single and have been for a long time (apart from a couple of very short and unsatisfying relationships). I hadn't fallen in love for three years until I met this guy recently at a party. As soon as we saw each other it was basically like love ...

My boyfriend pays a lot of attention to our roommate!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I live together with two other roommates. Whenever the female roommate is around, he gets excited because she is usually at her boyfriend's house. He always tries going by her room to initiate conversation with her. Also, if it is ...

He's brought up having a threesome with a woman. Only he's already had a threesome with her and his exwife!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - So i just moved in with my boyfriend of over a year, and we have a fantastic sexual chemistry. We have talked about having a threesome. Over the weekend he was approached by a friend of his, she asked about having a threesome with us. So he told me ...

She refused to stop seeing her ex and sending him flirty texts and "I love you"s. I'm heart broken.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - Hey everyone Me and girlfriend broke up after about a year of dating and i am still madly in love with her and I would give the world for and I would fight to my dying breathe to keep her safe and i feel completely heart broken to the point where I ...

I feel like she cheated, but she didn't. I can't get over her past actions. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - I hope someone can help me. I feel like I’ve been played, and I’m not sure how to deal with it. I reunited with an old female friend on facebook, and we started out as friends. She was telling me about her relationship problems with her current bf, ...

Kind of a love triangle!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Ok so I happen to unexpectedly find myself at the point of a love triangle of sorts… For all intensive purposes we will call them William and Alexander. William’s pros: he and I have very similar senses of humor and get along extremely well, ...

I hate my ex-boyfriend's new girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - i hate my ex boyfriends new girlfriend cause she started trouble between us so we dnt talk no more what do i do...

How do I deal with his ex in the picture?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

24 July 2010 (F) - Mod note:Question was too long, was edited shorter. Well, to start things off, I'm 20 years and female, and my boyfriend is turning 21 next month. We started out long distance, but really hit it off well. We visited and back in April I moved ou...

I'm torn between two different guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 July 2010 (F) - Here’s my story! Well I was dating this nice guy from school M who just wanted to go out with me, since we graduated. We went on one date and held hands the moment was perfect and he said he loved me. Whatever, my heart was just starting to get to ...

Will she ever end her unhealthy relationship to be with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

23 July 2010 (M) - Here goes. I'm in love with this 19 year old girl for 2 and the half years already. She is in a relationship for 5 years with her bf and her relationship is unhealthy because she broke up and patched back many times and always fights with her bf and ...

I have a wonderful girl but am falling for a girl from my past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

23 July 2010 (M) - So I have been going out with this girl for 5 months but I have liked her for 3 years, a year before I asked her out I met a girl and she liked me but some how we lost connection and now that I'm with my girlfriend the other girl comes back we start ...

I'm in love with my cousin's wife

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

23 July 2010 (M) - well am 24 from pakistan,live with a cousin o mine in a foreign country , his family lives with him and i share a room in his apartment , well the thing is am in love with his wife ! i know it must sound bad but i cant help it ,on the other hand i ...

My soulmate, or my true love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F) - I recently took this quiz from a lady who studies about true soul mates and write books about them. The quiz was pretty long, and it said that i met my true soul mate. The problem is, i have a boyfriend, whom i've been dating for 4 years. We are c...

How do I prove I deserve her trust? I am in competition with another guy and I want to win her over!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 July 2010 (M) - hello I'm in a bit of a situation here. so I met this girl through friends, she came with my buddies girl friend and I saw her and instantly knew I liked her but at that moment she thought another guy in our group of friends was cute, I said nothing ...

What do you think guys... Is it over???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

21 July 2010 (M) - need some advice! i've been seeing angie, exclusively for 8 months, she is on a rebound from a previous ex, last friday we were having some drinks on her porch. this man from the neighborhood showed up, we are both 40, this guy is 27. well she ...

Am I doing the right thing by leaving him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) - Hey all My boyfriend is a great guy, but he recently had a secret friendship with a girl that, when I found out, broke my heart, as it felt so deceptive and I have always been honest and straight-up with him and expected the same. We've been p...

2 guys like me but I'm not sure about either of them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) - hi I'm 17 and i have two boys that like me, they are around my age. one i have known forever we grew up together but his intentions i don't like to much. he wants his first time to be with me. every time he asks i say no or make an excuse. the other ...

Am I wrong for fooling around with my ex because he is still involved with another girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, I am in a situation wher me and my ex-bf have been back seeing each other for some time now, but when we broke up he meet a new girl so he is still with her! I mean we see each other daily, I go to his house and he comes to mine. We go ...

I don't want him talking to her because she still likes him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) - Okay So my boyfriend We have be going out for a year, he says he loves me and He used to do all kinds of things that I didn't like so I told him to stop and he did, and Now There is this girl she is like his best friend she used to like him and ...

Cheated and now confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - "OP Own Title"I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 years with my best friend who I've known for more than 9 years. It only happened once and alcohol was involved, but I still feel awful about it. Before this incident we had never slept together and while ...

Crazy little thing called love!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - A woman 12 years your husbands junior posts a comment on myspace you find disturbing enough that you ask your husband to take down his page which he does. She wrote "you're alone and so am i.. and no engagement is going to change that.. let's get ...

He wants to leave his girlfriend for me but now he has said he wants to wait a bit, what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - The past 3weeks a guy i really been saying he loves me, iv been saying it back. cause i really like him, he says he likes me more then his gf, and he wants to leave her, tonight he told me he wants to wait a bit n get to know me more before he gets ...

An ex girfriend that I am still in love with, or the new girl who loves ME?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Okay so I am currently seeing two different girls. One girl happens to be my ex which i dated for 1.5 years and the other girl is a girl that i work with. I have a lot of feelings for both of them, but my ex is the one that I am always having ...

It's been a year since they dated.. can I snag him up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - I like my bestfriend's ex boyfriend....but she still has feelings for him eventhough it's been 1 year since they broke up.but we reallyyyy like each other...im so confused :(...

Crazy and disturbed sister-in-law!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

19 July 2010 (M) - my sister in law is totaly crazy to make this short as much as i can i am suffering from a sexless marriage due to my wife's very low to non-existant sex drive her elder sister whom is very close to her used this fact to seduce me(( though she i...

FWB relationship but now I've fallen for his brother!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - I am in a tricky situation. I was seeing this one guy but we weren't romantically involved it was basically a friend with benefit type of situation. We never went out or talked much, only when we wanted to see each other. Well a month ago I started ...