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Archived questions from: February, 2008 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

How do I get over him and just be his friend for our daughters sake??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years recently broke up with me. We were high school sweethearts who always had a complicated relationship. We got pregnant and had a baby in high school. He later proposed to me after the baby turned one and we planned to marry in ...

My bf is jealous of the guy who gives me everything...what should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 1 year and 2 months. It has it's ups and downs. At times i get so mad i beg him to end the relationship but he does not want to let me go. I met this other guy whom is basically everything i have wanted in a man. ...

He's still supporting his ex wife. Am I wasting my time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - This is a long story but will try and condense it down. The man I am with has a problem letting go of his ex wife. We were living together for two years when he couldn't decide what life he wanted anymore, so he went behind my back and made plans wi...

I am enjoying the excitement but there are however too many moral reasons to stop this incoming affair. What would you do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - I have been secretly emailing with a friend's husband and it is getting heavy. There is crazy attraction and they will be moving close by soon. I'm not sure how to handle this. It was just sort of flirty before but now it's too close to home. I ...

The ex fiance who harassed my husband and I now surprisingly became part of our sexual games! Should I allow her to aproach similarly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - Okay, let me start from the beginning. When I first met my husband he had an ex fiance that was just obsessed with him and he was totally through with her, but she wouldn't stop trying to get in touch. Finally after about a year and a half of her ...

I have tried for 6 years, but I don't really love him. Should I leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I am a 27 year old female married for a year now. I ve known my husband for 6 years now, since the last yearof college. Prior to that I was in a relationship with a very wonderful guy in college for 3 years and due to faults and mistakes which I am ...

My ex and I are talking again but my friend's mad because he likes her too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - I have a problem concerning my ex girlfriend and my used to be friend. My ex and I are planning on getting back together. It would be a long distance relationship (100 miles) Well my ex gf still claimes she loves me after over a year now. She w...

Lover/friendship crisis!!!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I've been single for a while and the past boyfriends I had treated me like dirt but now I'm falling for an ex from 4 years ago but the thing is he has a girlfriend and she's a friend of mine too! I really like him but I don't want to ruin their ...

I'm so tempted to call his wife and rat him out because I feel for her and of course I would get some statisfaction.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 95 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I was dating this guy for about a year that I met at work. The question I have is and I probably already know the answer. He was seperating from his wife and also has two children with her. Why does he continue to spend time with her and of course ...

I feel like I am emotionally cheating on my long distance lover...but I can't cut this other man out of my life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - My story has taken me across the world, but yet a part of me could never leave home. Three years ago, while traveling in China I met him. Newly single, and out of the safeness of my own surroundings he seemed to bring security and grounding to my ...

I think this is highly inappropriate behavior from a married woman...should I confront her??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - My wife and I have been married for a about a year and a half. We dated for three years prior to that and we have a one year old son. She found an old crush on myspace and they have been talking regularly. I've logged into her myspace account and ...

She was dating a co-worker that I didn't know about until I had reason to check her texts messages...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - She was dating a co-worker that I didn't know about until I had reason to check her texts messages. If I had not done so I believe she would have kept it going. She told me that she has only been out with him twice once with other co-workers and ...

I want a sexual relationship with my mother in-law! Has anyone experienced this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - I've seen this topic brought up a few times, but I thought I'd ask advice from anyone here that might have experience on this. I know - this is horrible to say or think, but I really hope to make this work so spare me the preaching. I am extremely...

Should I suggest she leaves her lying boyfriend for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - Alright.. So I have been talking to this girl on and off for the past year now. Just like most people, she does not like to make decisions. She has been dating someone else(a real lying pos) for the last few months, but she still talks to me and ...

I found out my girlfriend of 7 years was having relations with another man...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - This is probalbly the dumbest question there is.... I found out my girlfriend of 7 years was having relations with another man. This was last April that I found out. It's almost been a year of recovery and trying my best. Well everything was f...

I slept with my ex who has a new girlfriend and now I'm really confused.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I made a huge huge mistake last nite!! My ex boyfriend and I ended badly because he really hurt me but we both new we loved each other still but he needed some space. He now has a new girlfriend whom he's been with for about a month, and they've ...

My dad's ex is blackmailing me into bringing my mates round for sex...what can I do??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - This is serious whether you want to believe it or not. I'm having sex with my dads exgirlfriend but now she is demanding for me to bring my friends round to fuck her or she'll tell my dad and it would really be bad for me and my dads relation...

My gay lover goes back and forth between me and his girlfriend. He says he is choosing her. Should I try to get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - Hi, I have been in a relationship with a guy who is 9 years younger than I am. As far as I know, I have been gay since my teen days, although I had one serious "relationship" with a friend in the past, who eventually moved on and got married. I met ...

I am stuck in a marriage and want to get out. Please help

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - I got married 5 years ago we lived together 2 years b4 that. Just before I got married, I re-met the love of my life who I have known since the 80's. I was confused and scared, so I got married (I shouldn't have) We started up a relationship aga...

We rowed like we never have before after his ex called...was I so wrong in what I said??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - Please help me. When I first met my boyfriend I'd known of him for 6 years, working together in a mental health hospital. I had originally asked him out over email before I left my job. Then after I'd been seeing him for 3 months, I found out that...

I felt so hurt, used, betrayed by this man, whose son I gave birth to. There is also another man in my life, whom I actually love but I'm very confused!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - Hi, I need some advice, a different insight, well i'm sure you will understand... Well my question is basically who should I choose? You will understand why in a minute... I'm sorry if this long but I have been pondering this decision for som...

He isn't sure what he wants, and it's making ME confused. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I am 17, and me and my boyfriend have just gone though serious trouble. It started when we argued over soeting stupid, i was drunk and overeacted, and threw my phone at him. He got really angry over the next few days although i tried to apologise ...

I can't seem to get over the past, but is it always best to speak up about my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 151 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - Well i'm back again. My mind keeps thinking about the situation before with my fiance and my godsister. I don't quite know how to deal with it because one day i am fine and the next day i'm mad and zapping out. It also ran across my mind to get even ...

Was I being oversensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - me and my lover are both in our late 30's and we get on really well, trouble is, on the internet we both use this chatsite and we both leave messages to other friends on there,both male and female......now my problem is,my fella does get women flirt ...

The irony is my mistress has finally managed to leave her husband, but I have remarried.

This question has 41 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

25 February 2008 (M) - I was married to a clinically depressed woman for 12 years. The depression killed her sex drive to the point of being almost non-existent for the last half of the marriage. Eventually, I turned to the affections of another woman. She was in an ...

I asked my husband for a break because he is always out but now he's found someone else... will he ever come back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I asked my husband for a break as he is always out. I want him home and he says I'm not coming home. I ask is he ever coming home and his reply is I don't know what the future holds. He wants me to move on but I can't until I hear the words I'm ...

I'm torn between my girlfriend and my best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 151 days ago

25 February 2008 (M) - Hey, i gots a problem i'm really torn between my GF and my best friend thats a girl. My GF i really care about and would hate to hurt her, we have been going out for a month and have't gone further than making out she's 17, i'm 15. My other friend, ...

I am falling in love with him, what can I do about this destructive woman, his landlord, claiming they are FWB?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - Do you have any advice on getting rid of a FWB that a guy I am dating can't seem to get rid of....this has been going on for 4 years, and I think we are falling for each other, but she won't let go. I have been in a relationship with a younger m...

My husband is in love with his affair but determined to work on our marriage! How do I convince him thsi woman is not as perfect as appears to him?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - When I found out about my husband's affair 2 months ago we decided to go to relate and try to work out a better marriage for us both. And although it's been hard we have made progress and have learnt a lot about each other. we have been married 21 ...

What can I do about this guy who goes from one extreme to the other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - Right, so, there's this guy. I am totally, hopelessly, head over heels in love with him, and he used to feel the same way about me. I've never met him face to face, we used to go to the same school though, so we have a connection. I talked to him ...

I went abroad for my further studies, now I am having difficulties in trusting my gf, especially her good friend that is pursuing her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

24 February 2008 (M) - I have been in a serious relation for 4 years.During the 3rd year one common friend started coming very close to my gf.She started staying with him more than me on a few occassions, but eventually was with me 90% of the times.Still that made me ...

Torn between my nasty boyfriend and a sweet friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - i need some serious help here guys... so ive been with this guy for almost 2 yrs now but he's controlling and he's not that nice to me... but he treats me good too so i don't know. but then i was talking to this other kid and he makes me happy but ...

My boyfriend replaced me whilst I was away on business!...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

23 February 2008 (M) - How do I win the heart and trust of my boyfriend back? We have been together 5 years, and get along great but our communication seems to lack, being the downfall. Recently I was away for business for 2 weeks. I left my boyfriend and thought our ...

The Married Man / Single Woman Syndrome- Dating a Married Man and Losing Yourself in the Process

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - The Married Man / Single Woman Syndrome- Dating a Married Man and Losing Yourself in the Process copyright by Ask Oldersister, 2008, www.oldersister.sampasite.com So you are young, single, attractive and no doubt have many eligible men pur...

How to find the strength to end a six year affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - Unfortunately I have been very foolish in that I have fallen deeply in love with an older married man. I know it is wrong and that I am wasting my time, but it now feels impossible to end as the feelings get stronger and the bond between us ...

It feels wrong to kiss the guy I'm dating, as I'm in love with somebody else, whose mother dislikes me though. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - Hey there everybody. I got a bit of a problem. I dont know what to do about one guy I like and one guy I love. Okay,I like this one guy he's:a year younger than me,sweet,nice,likes to be a pimp sometimes,can get any girl at the snap of the finge...

He says he wants me close yet goes out with other girls - while I don't seem to have the strength to leave!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - Hi nice to meet you, I was looking for some help, because I have been one year and 2 month with somebody and he told me that he cares about me but he didn't know what he really feels for me so. It hurt me a lot because I have no friends I mean real ...

I find myself attracted to him, I would never act on anything though, I love my partner too much but what the hell is going on???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and am deeply happy. However I used to be really good friends with his friend, I had a really close friendship with this persn as i knew him before I got with my b/f. I knew he liked me more tha...

Why did he stay in touch with his ex when she caused us so many problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - This has been bothering me for quite some time and I need some help with what to do. Back at the end of July I found out my boyfriend was talking to his ex over his cell phone, and basically hiding this from me. He ended talking to her on h...

We were best friends til he met someone. I tried to forget him but I cant. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - I have best friend. we've been so close untill he met his new lover. I tried to forget him, but I can't. My heart always feel hurt when I didn't meet or talk with hi. Last time we met, he looks at me just like a lover. Full of love. When we f...

Did I do the right thing by telling him she isn't into him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - Hey, I need some opinions on my situation. There's this girl I know who has been getting textx from a boy all the time, and you can tell he likes her. Problem is though, she hates him. He annoys her and she complains about him all the time. For ...

I don't know if he's being truthful and find it hard to trust him now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 February 2008 (?) - Last May 2007 I found 3 text messages on my husband's phone flirting with a woman, when I asked him he said it was just banter with a work colleague. He told me she worked in one of his nearest depots and only saw her ever few months and I believed ...

Should I forgive him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - Ok so I have known this guy for about 5 months. We started out as good friends but began dating and dated for about 2 of those months. We had a long distance relationship with the agreement not to date anyone else out of respect, and b/c we didn't ...

I became friends and slept with a man that turned out to be married when I had grown strongly attached to him... what will I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - So, i was pregnant with my boyfriends baby but, he become callous and selfish and i became lonely and depressed. I recently moved from where i was living for 10 years and spent some of my major developing years to a nice quiet, quaint town..knowing ...

How should I handle her and her male friend??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 155 days ago

21 February 2008 (M) - My question is why does my girlfriend feel the need to talk to another male friend? She told me about him in the beginning(somewhat). Over the past 4 years I have seen more and more of their conversations. Even though she has told me there's nothing ...

Should I tell him what she said or not??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

21 February 2008 (F) - I was on myspace and one of my friends sent me a message that my boy friends ex had written saying that Corey (my bf) was telling her how he loved me but loved her more than me. But when I confronted him about it he just said his cousin was the one ...

I asked him if he thought he'd come back to me in the end, to which he said yes. Why then having lunch with this woman? Should I be suspicious?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

21 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago and said he needed space. I always thought he had a thing for a girl he works with as he worked with her all the time, and socialised with her. She is 6 years older than him.The other day i foned to get some ...

How can I get out of this love triangle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 February 2008 (F) - How do i get rid of an unwanted ex who has put me in a love traingle? I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and everything was so good between us, we had such a laugh together, i got on well with all his friends,he wanted to spend loads of t...

He's my best friend's husband and we're close, but where does friendship cross the line?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

21 February 2008 (F) - I am very confused! My friend has been with her husband almost 10 years. He and I didn't really start getting to know each other until about 2 years ago. Once we started to get to know each other we got to be really close. She is O.K. with this and ...

I have invested so much emotionally and financially to this guy... turns out he is happily married with no plans of divorcing! What now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 February 2008 (F) - I had an affair with a married man for 1.5 years when his wife discovered the affair. She made him leave and because I knew how much his son meant to him, I helped him get set up in an apartment near his home and have paid for his rent for the last ...