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Archived questions from: March, 2008 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Am I really in love with someone else, or am I just looking for someone to fill the void within my present realtionship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 282 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I am in love with two great men. I am amazed to see the amount of people who are in a similar situation. I feel a little silly posting my issue like some personal ad but I really have no where else to turn. I have been in a relationship with my ...

I hate his ex and myself.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Here it goes. My SO and I have been together for just over a year now. We get along great except for a few details. He never tells me that I'm beautiful, but he has told me about how beautiful his ex-wife is and about how much of a freak she was and ...

He texts her and says it's to make me mad. Do you think this is cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend for over 4 years have been texting a female from our kid's daycare. I know her she was one of my kid's teachers. A while ago I read his text message to her saying I want to be your man and I wish that baby inside was mines because ...

I'm torn between two guys and I don't know what to do, it's getting so messy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hi my problem is that I'm torn between two guys and I don't know what to do, it's getting so messy. One is my ex (we broke up a year ago) and another is a guy from the same place as us. We are all living in the same small town and they know each ...

Is there more going on with his work colleague than meets the eye?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Recently, I have snooped through my husband's cellphone (since I have been suspicious of his odd behaviour which leads us to fighting) and noticed a few text messages that he kept in his trash box but forgot to delete from his female co-worker. One ...

I feel trapped by holding on to what could have been / might be in my troubled marriage, should I let go of it or give my hubby a fresh start?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I am 35 and have been married nearly 15 years. I realise now that I married too young as my relationship was immature and I had not had time to develop my own interests and friends. Our marriage didn't start well (sexually) and was often awkward. ...

In love with 2 girls, one is committed and the other has a child, who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - i'm in a situation!i'm inlove with two girls and i don't know what to do.the one girl is in a relationship with someone but she tells me she loves me and i must be patient.the other girl is single!she has a child but that doesn't bother me.she also ...

My wife's sexual past....it's not the 'normal' jealous story!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Have been married 7 years....happily. Wife mentioned in conversation 3 months ago about a threesome she had once. ( 20 years ago). I explained I don't want to know thing like that as it would do my head in. She mentioned it again. I went in...

I had to kick my boyfriend out, he's still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - How do you get over a bad breakup? Tonight I had to kick my boyfriend out after I found out he is still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me, see http://www.dearc...

Is she using me as a rebound - in case her relationship with her current boyfriend doesn't work out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Hello, I am an 18 year old male who was asked to a prom by a girl who does not go to my school. There was a period where we were quite interested in each other and talked often. However she stopped speaking with me and ignored my phone calls when...

He has a son to someone else and I don't know if I can handle it...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years and at the beginning we didn't really take the relationship seriously, I cheated on him and so did he on me. Now we want to be committed and really do love one another.. but there is only one problem, he ...

I think he likes my friend more than me but I'm in love with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 283 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I made a friend in 6th grade. He's a guy. I'm a girl. We were friends, but didn't hang out much. Then, in the summer I went to the beach. He was there. We hung out that day. I realized I liked him a lot. I told no one. My friend f...

Do you think there is a chance for me with this person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Recently I got a new job, at my old job there was a guy who I really liked. The problem is that I am married (with major issues at home) and he used to date another girl at work who I am friends with. So I felt that it was just a fun little crush ...

My ex just proposed to me but I've started seeing someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I was with a guy for almost 3 years and we were really happy. However 6 months ago things started going downhill and I found that the little things he does annoys me, such as his snoring and the fact that he burns toast.(silly I know) 3 months ago ...

I am torn between two guys, who should I choose to be with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

30 March 2008 (?) - Is it true that opposites attract? My bf and I have been going out for a little over 2 years now, we are like any other teenage couple which has been going out for quite a while, and still like eachother very much even though we have both changed ...

Complicated situation with me, a friend I have feelings for and her ex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - I really could do with some advice on how to handle a very complicated situation. Its a long story so please bare with me. About 18 months ago I met a girl who works in my local pub. Out of the blue she told me she liked me, I liked her too an...

I need to know if this is cheating. I have been sex camming with this guy, and he has a spouse. She does not know about us...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I need to know if this is cheating. I have been sex camming with this guy, and he has a spouse. She does not know about us. Now he wants to meet in person and he wants me to perform oral sex on him. To me this is cheating on his partner. He tel...

Even when my girlfriend kisses me I picture this other girl. I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I'm a girl and I have a girlfriend. We're going out 10 months in a couple of days, we're close as ever and see other every single day. We were at a party on friday and decided it was ok to kiss other people. So i was kissing a girl i know for ...

He's my best friend, but his girlfriend is extremely jealous of our friendship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - My best friend *who is a guy and i'm a girl* of 17 years has had a girlfriend for the past 5 years. Everytime my best friend hangs out with me or calls me, she throws a hissy fit. It's gotten so bad to the point where she is accusing him and puts...

I don't reject the idea of a threesome, my only fear is losing my partner subsequently. What can you suggest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - My partner and I are thinking of doing a threesome i dont mind at all connsidering i have never done one at all, the only worry i have is losing him through it ...

I received an irate message awakening my previous suspicions about my husband's friendship with his (also married) colleague.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - I have been married for a year and a half, and my huband goes to college about 30 mins from where we live. About 2 months ago, I noticed he seemed to be making and receiving quite a few phone calls and text messages from a female classmate, ...

He now wants to have a relationship with another girl as well as me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - i have been best friends with a guy for a year and for the past three months we have been in a relationship with each other as boyfriend and girlfriend.initially he told me that he loves me and i felt the same towards him.for the first 2 months we ...

I don't hate him, I dislike the behaviour and lies about other women though. I'd like to see him again to clarify these, good idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - i recently told the man i've been sleeping with that my son passed away and after a week of not hearing from him i blasted him for being so cold hearted to a person that had been nothing but good to him. not to mention at the same time there was ...

Love my BF but I'm attracted to his friend, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Before I got together with my boyfriend, I was with one of his close friends, just casually but it never "ended" if that makes sense. I love my boyfriend, but I'm still attracted to his friend. What should I do?...

Shall I go back or get on with my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Hi I left my husband 2 years ago and moved into rented accomodation were i still live. He spent a lot of his spare time in the pub. My weekend became very predictable. I have three children who all live with me. He still lives in the matrimonal ho...

I broke up with my boyfriend six months ago, I am not comfortable with our mutual friend updating him on what I'm doing now. Should I dump her too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Hoping people can help here. I broke up with a guy about six months ago. I liked him but felt that the feeling was not mutual so I was wasting my time. He and I have a mutual friend and he moniters my comings and goings through her which I find odd. ...

He didn't tell me he had a girlfriend, should I flirt with another guy to make him jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 284 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Hi I used to like this guy ........... to cut a long story short i liked him + i thought i liked him + i thought that he liked me, (he might have been joking). Now he has a girlfriend and didnt tell me, + now he is even going out with her. I fee...

Should I let him go or am I being too hasty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 283 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - I'm in a tough situation right now and not sure what to do. To start, i'm dating this guy who broke up with his girlfriend early december of last year. They dated for 7 months, and although things weren't bad between them, she didn't excite him (how...

He dated me just to get at my younger mate and cheated, what can I do to move on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 17 and i know this 19 year old boy for over a year and i really liked him. We went out for 3 weeks but my 14 year old mate went out with him before me. It lasted 3 days so me and this boy spent a lot of time together and then he asked me...

Lesbian in Love triangle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Hey I could really do with some advice or any thoughts on the following: (sorry in advance about the length!) Ok I'm 21 and a lesbian I have been in a relationship with my gf since the end of september and for the first few months everythin...

Secretly bi because my boyfriend is a little homphobic-Do I tell him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now - and its fantastic. Generally. We barely argue ever, but everypne has their ups and downs. ANYWAY. I'm bi. My first 'relationships' (continuous hookups for several months?) were with my two...

What do I do about her wanting an older, married man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 286 days ago

27 March 2008 (M) - So I have this girl who is my best friend by any means. We have always been on and off again. Well she has seen this physical therapist since she was 14. Now she is 18. He is 34. So She has a huge crush on him and recently asked him if she should ...

The love of my life is getting married, how am I supposed to get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - How do I get over someone I am in love with getting married within the next year? Please help my entire body hurts. I was taken when he wanted me then he found her. I know it's not meant to be but just tell me how to get over it. Don't say time bec...

After two years of dating will he ever cut all ties with his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Am I asking for too much? I have been dating a guy for a little over two years now. When we started dating he was still married but seperated, which I did not find out until I started asking questions about the divorce. By this time, though, I ...

I really like my best friend's boyfriend, we've had threesomes, but he's feeling trapped because she's pregnant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - I really like my best friends boyfriend. I have liked him for about 2 years now and never told anyone about it. We all had a few 3somes together at some point, and me and the boyfriend work together which makes me like him even more. My mate has ...

We once had threesomes with my mate does he now like her more than he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Hi I have been with me boyfriend for 3 years now, that is never a good relationship. He never cuddles me, we would never sit together on the sofa at home and we hardly ever had sex, he spent most of his time in the put as well. About 2years a...

I recently found out she had a threesome last week with her best friend and a local DJ.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

26 March 2008 (M) - Hello Cupid, There's this girl I really like. We have a strong internet friendship and have never met. The last few months we've started flirting a lot more, things have become a lot more serious and we talked about being together. She te...

Help! I'm feeling emotionally bruised, angry at the past, and guilty for what's happening in my marriage...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - I have been married for over 13 years and have a 8 year old daughter. For the last 3 years I found myself being attracted to a coworker and I am still desperately in love with him. He on the other hand has indicated he likes me many times but at the ...

My best friend is like my brother, but we both have feelings for the same girl...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

26 March 2008 (M) - my best friend is lik my brother. we do everything together. One of the reasons we are so close is our philosiphy of what falling inlove is. we have both witnessed it and wen we shared our thoughts with each other we came to the same conclusi...

Three years with my boyfriend but I fancy his friend too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 288 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - Hay everyone iam 18 I always ask my friends what to do but they don't give me anwers can someone help? I been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years but I really like his friend I mean like they grow up together I call his friend almost e...

I'm seeing a man separated from his wife but I just found out they are planning a holiday together! Should I believe him about the divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - I am in a relationship with this man for a year. In the beginning of our relationship he told me that he is separated and he said to me that he is divorcing her...She is living abroad and they have a child together. I did not believe him and ...

She's cheating with me but now she is ignorning me...what can I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - I have a girlfriend who's cheating on her boyfriend with me, first I thought it would work out but now problems are coming up, she's ignoring me and not calling. What do I do?...

My pregnant girlfriend has cheated on me, and I am in love with her mate. Who do I choose...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 289 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 3years now but have fallen in love with her best mate. My girlfriend has always had a bad reputation but i gave her a chance. I have been seeing her mate behind her back for about 9 months now and really like her. ...

We both cheated but he impregnated another woman and must take fatherly responsibility, where does this leave us, should I marry him??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 289 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for the past four years now. We used to live together in Colorado but had some relationship issues and I moved home to be with my family in Maryland. We have actually managed a decent relationship and fly to see ...

How do I say "no more!" to rough sex with my married boss?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 289 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - Me and my boss playd around alot yesterday for the first time. i went down to his house for a coffee which was totally normal because we have always been close and i always come and talk to him about alot of things. we started 2 talk and the topics ...

Could I date ex's mate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - hi i need some advice, me and my ex girlfriend broke up last year, my ex gf best mate and my best mate was going out but my mate dumped her for my ex gf, i have fallen for my ex gf s best mate she is so kind and careing and pretty i helped ...

Should I say yes to a threesome with boyfriend and his mate?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - I have beening dating my current boyfriend for the past 4 years. I love him with all my heart and he loves me too. We are both college students and we attend different universities. We are seperated by amost 13 states. A few months ago he told me ...

Why are my friends trying to break up up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 46 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - well heres the story i have been going out with this guy for a few months now and hes really sweet and all. the problem is my friends at first it was all fine but then my best friend, lets call her sarah, started to cause trouble. she co...

Is my bf hitting on my cousin??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 290 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - Ok....forever now my own boyfriend has been telling my cousin everything and dont tell me anything anymore! Me and him used to really close and we'd tell each other and show each other everything but for a couple months now he has been showing ...

Does my bf want sex with my sister after our threesome??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - I gave my bf a threesome and a bj with my sister and both times he touched her first (guess he thought I didn't notice,but says he didn't) now its like when she comes over he looks in her direction frequently and when he talks to me he will turn to ...