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Archived questions from: November, 2014 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Is this an emotional affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

29 November 2014 (F - Am I having an emotional text affair? I recently got into contact with an old friend and what started out as brief text exchanges had become a daily texting affair for almost 2 months. I enjoy texting him and look forward to his texts. He tells me ...

Just as I'd started to move on my ex pops back up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

28 November 2014 (F - I dated my ex for a couple of years. I thought she was the absolute love of my life. But the relationship had many problems, and she wound up breaking my heart. I was devastated by the breakup and never thought I'd get through it. I felt completely ...

I know that my boyfriend didn't do anything wrong but just running into his ex ruined our night and his behavior didn't make things any better

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

28 November 2014 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years. 2 girls before me, he dated a girl for around 3 or 4 years. They've been broken up for over 5 years now. They had an awful relationship where they fought, physically and verbally. She pretty ...

I was too shy to start -- does he still want me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

26 November 2014 (F - There is a guy who was paying me a lot of attention on line. He was after a bit of fun nothing more - but I told him I wasn't wanting to go too far..Anyway, since then, a friend of mine decided she wants him instead and now I'm regretting turning ...

Why did my ex contact me all of a sudden when he's still with his girlfriend? He knows I hate him and we are in two different countries

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

25 November 2014 (F - My ex and I were together for 4 years, including 1 year long distance. He dumped me 1.5 years ago. I've contacted him a few times and told him how terrible I felt. He's got a new girlfriend 3 months after we broke up. I was desperate. I've said bad ...

How can I improve my social life and my chances of dating? What are your thoughts on the man I have been texting? Just found out he's married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

24 November 2014 (F - Dear Cupid, I am a successful career lady but my social life sucks. I have never had a boyfriend or sex mainly because I always meet rejections (maybe because I am physically disabled thus, less attractive). I do not believe in FWBs but a decent r...

Even my friends and parents think his friendship with this girl is dodgy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

23 November 2014 (F - My bf and I have been seeing each other for 1.5 years. But lately things haven't been going well for us because of his friendship with a particular girl. They have known each other for a few years and she is residing overseas. Yet he is dodgy about ...

I've had enough of my crazy mother in law

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3420 days ago

16 November 2014 (F - My husband and I are in our first year of marriage and we had the opportunity to move hundreds of miles away from his family and his meddling mother. Yet she visits us almost every week-end! Now she's talking about moving to our city and I am at ...

I need to end this affair

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3419 days ago

16 November 2014 (F - I need the big push to end my 9yr affair with a single man. I'm wed. A bad scene to be sure. If I cared that much I would have left my marriage and If my lover cared that much he would have asked me to! no sex with husband great sex with lover! Help ...

He texts another female everyday, and she sends him selfies .... I told him it makes me uncomfortable but he doesn't seem to care.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3420 days ago

16 November 2014 (F - Is it normal to be texting the opposite sex everyday if you are attached? My bf has been texting a female friend everyday for the past month and she sends him her selfies a few times a week. Although the photos are not sexual, I do feel ...

My fiance and father of our child has revealed that he has fantasies about having sex with other women. How am I supposed to cope with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3419 days ago

15 November 2014 (F - What would you do/think if your fiance who you just had a baby with says he fantasises/wants to have sex with other women! One of the woman he sees around work and talks to. Hes never cheated as far as i know and says he only would sleep with oth...

How do I continue with this relationship with my married boyfriend when I have periods of doubt creeping in around his ability to be faithful to me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3421 days ago

15 November 2014 (F - Hello DC Friends. I could use your advice. Not judgement or answers which predict future behaviour and outcome. None of us knows what will happen with certainty. And let us remember that not every man is the same nor is what they do nor is every ...

Do I believe him or not? My older married lover says he'll leave his wife when I finish college.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3403 days ago

15 November 2014 (F - My older, married lover tells me he will eventually leave his wife once I finish college. He has brought up the idea of having a baby together recently. Does this mean he is serious about our relationship and would having his baby be a good choice? ...

How do I handle the insecurity I feel when my boyfriend flirts with our female friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

12 November 2014 (F - I think I'm stuck in between being mature in a relationship and still that little girl who is a bit insecure. I need advice on how to handle a relationship in a mature adult way and be comfortable with it. I've been with my boyfriend for about 10...

He said he was single, then she said he wasn't !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

11 November 2014 (F - Hello, There is a new guy in town we met and immediately got into dating. I gues we really like(d) eachother. When we met he told me that he was single. We have been seeing eachother for the past two weeks in public holding hands and stuff....

My boyfriend says I am obsessed with another guy and that he is second best!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3425 days ago

11 November 2014 (F - I'm 33 and my live-in bf is 38. We've been dating for almost 18 months – completely in love…plans to marry, buy a house, have a serious future together. About five months ago, he was using my Facebook account and discovered that I had been looking ...

I've got a boyfriend, and kids, but this woman gives me butterflies in the stomach!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3400 days ago

11 November 2014 (F - Ok so I have been with my boyfriend almost 10 years an we have two kids together. Well I think I'm gay...this girl at my work really makes me feel some type of way! I also wonder if she is like me an is gay an feels te way about me like I do her! I ...

I do love my boyfriend but I'm tempted by the other guy

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

11 November 2014 (F - Hi - any help would be appreciated. I am on a total mess. My best girl friend and I went away last year and met a couple of guys. Both of us are in long term relationships but nothing happened with them. We spent a couple of nights out getti...

I can't help feeling that I owe my ex another try, but the new guy is amazing

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3426 days ago

10 November 2014 (F - Hi aunts and uncles. This is going to be a long post so please bare with me. I split up with my ex boyfriend in May. We were together for almost five years. Our relationship ended mutually as we both agreed things weren't working. We argu...

My friend's girlfriend has cost me the friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

9 November 2014 (M - I have a friend for many years. He's never had a girlfriend, just a few flings with women. He's a nice guy by all accounts and recently found a really nice girlfriend. After hearing about her for a few weeks we finally met at his fathers birthday...

I can't leave him until December. How do I stay strong until then?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3422 days ago

9 November 2014 (F - I am coming here because I need advice on how to stay strong. I feel like writing this all out may help as well as receiving advice from others. I have been with a guy for seven years and he is leaving me for the same woman he has left me for ...

My ex is now saying what I wanted to hear when we were together, but I've met somone new

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

8 November 2014 (M - I was with my ex for over two years. It was very unhealthy. She struggled with emotional issues, depression and anxiety. I tried everything to be her rock and stand by her side. I fought so hard just to love her and be with her. And I had never ...

I have fallen in love with my mistress but I still care for my wife. What do I do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3421 days ago

7 November 2014 (M - I have fallen in love with my mistress but I still care for my wife. I did not set out for this to happen. When I first met my mistress, I knew instantly I was head over heels for her. It started out as mostly physical as she is beautiful and mu...

Sexless, affectionless, respectless marriage.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

6 November 2014 (? - I never thought I would be on one of these sites asking people's opinions on personal matters.. but here it comes guys. I have been married for 7 years now. I am 35 year and he is 47. I was married before, to a complete and utter control freak, v...

I am married, but want to confess my feelings of love to another woman.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

6 November 2014 (M - Hello, I am a 40 yr old married man from India. I had an arranged marriage which is a norm in India. Few years ago I was abroad for 3 years where I met this single Indian woman who was working in the same organization as me. We became good frie...

Am I breaking up someone's relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

5 November 2014 (F - I have been good friends with this guy for just over a year, we met through mutual friends. we started messaging each other a couple of months ago just friendly conversation. However he started to tell me that he liked me and wanted to be with me ...

My boyfriend doesn't like that I hang out with guys, yet he hangs out with his ex girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

3 November 2014 (F - So here it is short and sweet. My bf doesn't like me hanging out with guys and flipped out the other night when I did. Only to find out last night that, the same night he was texting me freaking out, he was spending the night at his ex girlfriends ...

We both like her -- do we negotiate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

1 November 2014 (M - I'm in a love triangle. I like a girl and so does another guy. Should I speak to him about it? Do I ask if he likes her? Or does that show me as insecure. If he knows I like her then maybe he will back off or fight for her? is it worth fighting over ...

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