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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

He wants his ex-wife back, but wants to have sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - This is a really weird question but please help me. I have been chatting with a 40 year old guy on the internet for about a year. I am 18. We started talking about all kinds of things when we first met, but now it's pretty much about sex. I'm not ...

I regret it all, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and we have had many many highs and equal lows. I've always been a very friendly girl to other guys (but have never flirted or cheated) but he has never liked it. I love him incredibly. In the past ye...

Is she blowing me off to start something with this other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I think my ex is seeing someone else but she won't tell me that she is and its really annoying me because our break wasn't supposed to be permanent just until she found a way to deal with her problems IE severe depression and alcoholism. She said we ...

My boyfriend is expecting twins with another woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Me and My boyfriend have been together for 6 years we had a falling out last year due to his craving for woman and his dishonesty so we broke up for three months and than got back together needless to say we are about to have a baby girl. Just ...

My insecurities about his ex wife are causing problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4950 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend who has 2 sons ages 19 and 25. I have moved in to their home with my son age 25. As far as our living situation everything is working out just fine. I am having trouble accepting the fact that the ex-wife (Mother of the ...

In a relationship with a wonderful gorgeous man but might have screwed up our future

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship with a wonderful gorgeous man but I might have screwed up any future for us. I was gone on a trip for my internship for a couple of months. I ran into my boyfriend's ex who told me that my boyfriend was done with me because he ...

My husband wants to watch me with another man and I'm thinking about it. Need advice pls.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 6 years and he has always had this fantasy of watching me with another man. Before I've always said no and he never pressured me, just dropped hints every now and then. But this year I've started to indulge him ...

She's married and unaware I love her! What can do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I am in love with a woman who is married I have known her for about 7 years she was single when I met her but had no feelings for her she has been married for only 4 months and about 5 days ago I had a dream about her (I won't say what happend in ...

2 Guys lead to 2 different futures. Which do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I'm in a little bit of trouble here. Y'see, I am dating a guy that I LOVE so much, and he loves me back. There are a few complications with him though, he's amazing and all, but I'm 2 years older than him, and he's got alot of issues that he NEEDS ...

My girlfriend says she wants an open relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - My Girlfriend want's an open relationship and i don't. We have been together for 3 years and are gonna get engaged and married. Still she is barely able to see me because of my job and college. I don't know what i should do....

Is there a cure for my indecisiveness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Ok I have known two wonderful guy "A" business man and "B"a doctor which i just knew...this two relationship is a long distance relationship. "A" i have knew him like around for a month and we so madly in loved with each other but he is always so ...

How to achieve orgasm with a long thin penis?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Well, I have two men. One of them turns me on because he knows how to make sex and plus his penis is the right size and it's thick, but with him all is about sex. My other man is very romantic and he takes all the time kissing and touching me, but ...

Seeing a married man but love my partner too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Hi there, I wanted people's advice. I have been involved with a married man for about 4 years on and off, though we haven't had sex for 2. We get on so well, and have recently got back in contact again after a break. We get on so well, and we...

I'm horrified I have let it get this far when we are both in relationships, but part of me loves feeling cared for again. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I'm... In a bit of a pickle. I have recently moved in with my boyfriend of about 8 months, and thought everything was cool. I even went out and joined a local community group. There, I met this guy. He's kind, caring, likes giving hugs, compliments ...

After our 3some and 4some I am wondering if I should continue the relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and recently had a foursome (MMFF) and a few weeks after that had threesome with the girl we had a foursome with. My boyfriend wanted to do it because he has never had a threesome or foursome ...

I want to leave for all the wrong reasons

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - Hi there. I am a 47 year old gay man in a gay relationship for the past 17 years. Ever since I was young I knew I was gay and built my life around being gay. However in recent years I found myself being attracted to the opposite sex and to follow ...

Pathetic cheater (posters own title)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - Hello Ladies, I guess I am looking for your advise. Would you want to know? I caught my sister inlaws husband cheating. I have to work with him in a family business. He is a senior member of his church and the person he is cheating with was once the...

I don't understand why he would cheat on his new girlfriend with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Hi I was in a relationship for 6 years with the father of my 2 year old girl. We split up last July through his choice. He believed he didn't love me because he kept looking for something else in other women, he kissed two girls during the last ...

Flirting with a co-worker who is involved

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - A coworker and I have been flirting for 3 months and I really like him. I'm not sure how he feels about me but he's mentioned to a few of our mutual friends that he's into me. Now here's the twist, he has a girlfriend he's been with for 2 years, he ...

Should I go out with him as my boyfriend is away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - Hello Well my boyfriend has gone away and since he has gone this guy keeps flirting with me and he just asked me out and im kind of falling for him, hes so sweet and funny and good looking but i love my boyfriend and i am so confused Please help me!...

Have I done something wrong.. I am not able to decide for myself...Please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - Hi, I had a good relationship with my ex-gf(that's what I always thought) but when I started my new job, I was unable to spend the same amount of time with her as I previously did. Meanwhile, she got close to my best friend(Mr. A). She used to ...

A threesome without my boyfriend feeling awkward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

25 September 2010 (F) - I would like to have a threesome with my boyfriend and another girl. We have mentioned it before but he sounded nervous about it. How would I go about finding a girl that wouldnt want my boyfriend and not making him feel akward?...

My wife wants to work things out but I don't think I can

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

25 September 2010 (M) - i have been with my partner for 8 years we have a most delightful little girl who is five. back in may we got married. in june things started going wrong. we did nothing but argue. this continued for the next couple of months and now i have bee...

He slept with his abusive ex wife while we were seperated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4946 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - my love of my life and i recently got back together ater 3 months of being apart as we realised we are still deeply inlove and want to be together,he was married and got divorced years before i knew him.now after having zero contact with the ex for ...

Do straight women get turned on by making out with other women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

24 September 2010 (M) - At my urging, my wife will sometimes make out with her female friend (nothing happens below the neck) in my presence as a way of revving up my engine. My wife needs a little coaxing but then seems to get into it. The visual effect for me is very ...

I have a boyfriend and I think another guy likes me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - hiii :) This is not the hardest question to answer and may sound a bit silly, but your answers make a difference :) I have a boyfriend and i think another guy's actions towards me indicate that he likes me( and my friends think there's a chance h...

I am attracted to my wife's younger, sexier sister

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - I'm married for over three years now with my wife. I met her 5 years before that. My wife was really good-looking when I met her, but a couple of months before the wedding she began to gain weight, at least 20 lbs. from what I can tell, and most...

What is the likelihood that their relationship will last?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I left my husband around a year ago because he was verbally and physically abusive to me. We are still married but don't live together, even though we weren't living together we were still spending time together as a family having a sexual ...

How to make a decision to date the new guy or the ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I was just hoping someone who may have been in a similar situation could give me some advice. Im dating a guy for 2 months now and I am crazy about him. We always have a good time. Im not sure where we stand right now- havent had any discussions ...

Is he dreaming of having sex with the other woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Hello again.... I have a second or shall I say third delima. Now since my husband and I are tring to work on our marriage......we dont have sex anymore like we use to. Since I found out about this affair and the possible baby we have had sexmaybe ...

Should I give it time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I just ended a bad relationship of 8 years in which i did not love this man but came out with a 4yr old daughter. I saw one of my ex bf at a wedding and he was there with his girl friend. so long story short we end up going out on a date and we had ...

Super complicated relationship, should I trust her again and give her another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - hi well its started we met online on msn, she used to love and tell me that she loves me so much but i was with another girl so i kept blocking her and telling her that i love another girl till a day me and the other girl argued together so i went t...

How do I break away from him and this whole situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - Me and a guy had a fwb/buddy thing going on last year, this ended when he got a gf. He asked if we could stay friends to which i agreed at the time. A few months later he asks if we could meet up for a drink as friends so we did but we end up having ...

My boyfriend and this other girl!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been having problems lately because he's going to be moving back to his hometown which is like 5 states away. and I don't know what to do. but to top it all off, I saw his messages and he was messaging this one girl who...

His love for his mistress ruined our marriage!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - Hi guys I am 37 years and have been married with my husband for 14 years. About 3 years ago he cheated on me with another woman and the relationship lasted a long time because of his drinking and drug abuse. He left me in 2009 to move in with her ...

I'm caught between two guys! How do I stay with the right one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid.... I'm dating this guy who I realy like...we have been dating for 4 months...we broke up after the first 3 months...and dated again... then we broke up, because he kissed another girl in a club...but he said that it wasn't his fault...

Does he love me and want me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - hi i need to know whether i am mad! i have taken my boyfriend back twice but the second he came back to me, he was in love with this girl and yet he came crying to me and said he wanted to be with me, yet now he says he loves both of us but he wants ...

How do I prove it to my boyfriend that I'm not having an affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - im 15 years and my boyfrend is 20 years. i broke up with him some months before and we again joined. during that time i had another Bf . i didnt know how end the relationship with him .. When i wanted to break up with him my first Boyfrien...

I know he is cheating on me with another girl but I cant let go of him, especially after we lost our baby....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - Hi im a 24 year old girl i met this guy in varsity, we were friends for a year and on our second year we started to have sex until i bcame pregnant. he told me he wanted nothing to do with the pregnancy but the child did not survive. he came back we ...

How do you decide you must seperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - [Mod Note: OP's Original Title] I'm a confused woman married for 15 years with 3 teenagers. I don't know which I feel for the most about my husband hate or love. He's an alcoholic (not a violent type) and I'm tired of being second to his alcohol....

Stressed in South Carolina

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

21 September 2010 (?) - I'm married, but not happily. A few months ago I met a woman at a large gathering of mutual friends and we ended up spending the night together. She had been in a long relationship that had ended recently. She wasn't dumped, per se, but she ...

I wish I could take the two men and combine them into one! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - I have my partner and a lover,but I would like to break up with my lover because he is married and my partner loves me very much and to his eyes I'm the perfect woman and I want that to stay like it is so far,but I'm very in love with my lover ...

My girlfriend doesn't say I love you anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - I think my gilfriend is scared. She's acting cold on the phone and not saying I love you anymore, she used to say it 10 times a day for months :). She just moved to my country to be with me for the winter but shes studying in a town thats not too ...

Caught in the middle of a love triangle: My partner is in love with me and the mother of his children!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Dear readers, I'm presently caught in the mids of a love triangle. the guy that I'm in love with is in love with two women. This was not suppose to happen because she is his long time family friend from childhood. They both got married to other...

Help! Is he still in love with his ex wife?

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21 September 2010 (F) - I was dating a single man who has 3 children 21 yrs, 19 yrs and 16 yrs. After about 6 mths of dating. The ex wife decided to visit their family house often because the children live with their father and refuses to visit the mother because she left...

Online love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - Hey there guys. I have a kind of weird feeling. Please don't judge as i have mo own reasons why i choose this type of love. So first thing is there is this guy i met online in April, and he is form an other country. we started as friends, but soon...

We're sort of in an open relationship but I don't want him sleeping with her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend was invited to a wedding with this girl that likes him...............? and he just told me yesterday that they will be staying in a hotel after the wedding just to let you understand a little better we are sort of in an open relation...

Why would he lie about having a girlfriend and why is he so persistant on keeping me in his life?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - a guy I've been talking to for 4 months lied to me about having a girlfriend,even though I asked him specifically if this girl was. we're only "friends" but we do have an intamate relationship.. when i found out i told him i didnt want to be his ...

Is it realistic to think that she could leave him for good and come with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

20 September 2010 (M) - A few months ago I came across a girl a knew from years back. We started talking and texting. And as time went by we would do it more frequently. At this point I was falling for her but I didnt want to tell her because I she had a boyfriend. Well ...

What is this guy playing at???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - hey guys, im 15 years old and VERY confused. There's this guy, lets call him bob. He's the kind of guy who likes to always have a girl there to hug and kiss, he dates, but he usually just likes to go around and make out with girls. well i te...