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Archived questions from: January, 2017 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Do I have a realistic chance with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2639 days ago

30 January 2017 (M) - So, here's the situation: there's a girl I've known about 8 eights that I've just received starting seeing as more than a friend. I met her at church about 8 years ago and we weren't especially close then. She went off to school and I saw her very ...

What should I do? Is this normal behaviour or is there more to this than she's letting on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2616 days ago

29 January 2017 (F) - So, I have loved my best friend of over 5 years basically since I met her. We just had one of those instant connections and became best friends the second we sat next to each other in class. Both of us went back and forth about liking each other but ...

I still have feelings for him. He still feels the attraction too. But now he's living with another girl. How can we go forward with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

29 January 2017 (F) - Long story but need advice. In 2013, I dated a guy for a few months. I really, really liked him but he was very keen to make the relationship official (telling everyone), which at the time I wasn't ready for, mostly because I was really poor at t...

Affair with my best friend but I have a partner of 18 years and a one year old that we had after years of trying. What do I do now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2635 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - I've been with my partner for 18 years I do love him and we have a one year old which we tried for years to have. But for the last 3 year I have been having an affair with my best friend who's showed me so much love , a lot more love than I seem to ...

I kissed Max on the cheek and Mark thinks I cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2639 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - Hi, me and this boy have known each other for around 3 years now. Lets say his name is mark, me and mark have been quite good mates. The other day he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. I told him not to tell anyone we were together ...

How come I am not heartbroken?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2639 days ago

28 January 2017 (M) - I had a huge crush on a girl for about 5 years. I went to school with her in high school, but now that I'm out I haven't spoken to her in person just over text. Recently I found out she just got a boyfriend, at first I thought I'd be all heart ...

Do cheating married men usually have more than one mistress?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2639 days ago

27 January 2017 (F) - Do married men who cheat, cheat with more than one mistress at a time? Or do some men stay with just one? I am interested in everybody weighing in with their opinions. ...

I like him and enjoy his flirting. But what should I do? Because I think he has a Gf already

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2639 days ago

26 January 2017 (F) - There's this guy I'm talking too. The problem is, I think he has a girlfriend.. We've been speaking a while and a few months ago, he told me that he can't take things forward with me because he has someone. I respected that and we remained to j...

Is this an emotional affair? ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2644 days ago

25 January 2017 (F) - Is this an emotional affair? ? ? Last March- my husband of 27 years (M) was working at a customer's house (he's a contractor), and one day a woman (T) who lived across the street came over to bum a cigarette from one of M's workers. She a...

Should we talk things over or let him go ? His lies and his baby Mama have helped drive us apart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

24 January 2017 (F) - MODNOTE: two near identical questions combined with additional material from the second question combined below with the first question . . . . . . . . . Dear Cupid Am a 40 year old female with two children from my previous marriage. When I los...

My boyfriend prefers to be with my brother and housemate than with me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2632 days ago

23 January 2017 (F) - My boyfriend will spend more time with my Brother and Housemate then he does with me. My brother and housemate has been committing on my body appearance lately and my boyfriend doesn't say anything. I use to be extremely under weight but i'm now ...

Trust issues. Is it just my anxiety or should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2648 days ago

22 January 2017 (F) - This is a little bit of a long story. My boyfriend used to be in a band, and is still in contact with a girl who was really into them. She lives really really far away, and only knew about them because a band member was planning on moving away t...

How can I get him back? Or has the damage been done?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

22 January 2017 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me tonight and its my fault. I don't know how to fix this situation . I was with my boyfriend when 2 male friends who have a crush on me wrote me on Facebook. Ive known them since before my current relationship...

I love my partner but we've been having sexual issues and I'm starting to develop feelings for a colleague

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2647 days ago

19 January 2017 (F) - Hi all, I am having a bit of a problem at the moment. I have been with my partner for just over 5 years and we have been extremely happy. We are best friends and have been since the start. Very recently I have started developing feelings for ...

Is it my fault I got put into the FWB category?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

19 January 2017 (F) - I've always been a woman that holds myself with dignity and believe that I have a lot to offer a man in a relationship. I am in no way saying this to brag or boast myself but my personality has always shined and others have told me so as well. ...

Should I support my ex? I feel angry and ashamed of succumbing to his desperation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2650 days ago

19 January 2017 (F) - My ex and I were together for 2 years but in the end it became unhealthy and toxic. He became verbally abusive and was flirting online with other girls which made me depressed and anxious. In the end I had to go ‘no contact’ in an attempt to get ...

Is he using me? He's spending more time with his ex than he spends with me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2651 days ago

18 January 2017 (F) - I'm going out with this bloke on and off for over a year now, but what gets to me is he spends most off his time at his ex's house. He says he's there for kids but half of the time the children are not there. He leaves at 8:00 in morning and ...

Can two cheaters make a relationship work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

16 January 2017 (F) - I was in a serious relationship with a guy (it was long distance where we had to fly an hour to see each other). Then one day, I find out he had been texting this other girl 10 hours a day, and they were seeing each other for 3 hours a day for ...

He is still under her thumb. What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2654 days ago

15 January 2017 (F) - Hello, I am slightly put off and rather upset at the moment. I live in a small town with my boyfriend of almost six years, and he... Well he is always dragging me over to his ex's place, making me spend the night, doing all her "to do" lists, and ...

Boyfriend has been secretive about his female friend in the past and now she's invited herself to stay with him for a week. How do I handle this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2654 days ago

13 January 2017 (F) - I [21F] am in a relationship with my boyfriend [24M] (Mike, for future reference) for a year and a half, but our problem started about 6 months in. We met on the university both studying physics so it was easy for me to become a part of his college ...

My girlfriend's cousin seemed so flirtatious... am I imagining it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2658 days ago

11 January 2017 (M) - My girlfriend's cousin lives abroad. When we went to meet her, I got on with her and found her very friendly and enthusiastic. After a while I got that instinctive... is she flirting with me? feeling, but figured I was imagining it because my girlf...

Am I over reacting to husband's online interaction with another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2662 days ago

8 January 2017 (F) - me and my husband are having some problems, maybe its all me i dont know but anyway.. few yeas back i caught him deleting messages from a co worker he said it was nothing but just didnt want me to get the wrong end of he stick so thought he would...

I hope this can help you jump start a plan that can lead you to a better way of seeing things in a relationship.

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6 January 2017 (M) - Hi there, hope that everyone had a great holiday period and that much fun was had, lots of love thrown here and there, memorable moments were shared and great memories were made. With that being said here's a little about me and why I decided to ...

After my past life I can't face his sexual demands

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

5 January 2017 (F) - I am 42 and have been through a lot. I have been rapped when I was younger and beat by my mom and almost every guy I have been with. I need help trying to figure out something. My boyfriend gets mad at me for not wanting to do a 3-some. I ha...

Heartbroken, but I want to forgive him. What are my options? Found out my Bf has been cheating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

5 January 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. Lately he has been acting weird and always on Snapchat and never responds to my text but responds to me on Snapchat. One day he left his Snapchat logged in on my iPad and I became curious. ...

He is using me as his "get out" clause.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

4 January 2017 (F) - So basically me ex fiancé who I have a son with told me that he would stop seeing the girl he's talking to if I had an issue with her and her being around my son. He doesn't seem partically happy about them talking they hardly ever see each oth...

I'm dating one boy but think about another.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2666 days ago

4 January 2017 (F) - Hi I'm a sophomore girl in high school. I'm dating a junior boy, well call J, but I like a freshman, we'll call F. Any way J and I have been together for 2 months and he doesn't even hold my hand, I'm not sure I like him anymore, but he says he's ...

Should I tell her he cheated on both of us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2665 days ago

4 January 2017 (F) - Hi, I had a difficult abusive relationship before hand. I met someone from out the country and he made me trust again and go out again. I was content with his friendship but he pursued it to something more. Time for him to leave. He wanted me to go ...

My married lover wants me to move to his country with our son

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2431 days ago

3 January 2017 (F) - Dear readers, I am in a really complex situation. 8 years ago, I met a man - we were both married at the time. I didn't have any children, because my then husband did not want any, despite my wanting a child desperately. The other person (OP) has ...

He is also my colleague at work and we just broke up. How can I face him when I go back to work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2668 days ago

2 January 2017 (F) - Im from India working in a bank. I had a relationship with a colleague since last January.. he has one friend or girlfriend i don't know with whom he spent a lot of time..now even after our relationship they talk over phone. Once i caught him ...

Is there still a chance for us ? Maybe it has been way long over and I just didn't want to accept it? What can I say?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2669 days ago

1 January 2017 (F) - I've only known my boyfriend for eight months and we've been dating for sixth months but it has been an on and off relationship. The first few weeks or month was everything I ever wanted to be in a relationship where my boyfriend would take me ...