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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Was he jealous about me keeping in touch with this other guy he knows?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I've being friends long distance more like a crush kinda thing with this guy I met 2 years ago in a meeting. He's military and in duty while I met him. We exchange emails and phone calls, well phone calls recently. When he was here in his duty there ...

Her aunt died just as I was about to break up with her. What do I do now?

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30 November 2008 (M) - I have a problem, my girlfriend's aunt died, right before I was going to break up with her. What should I do? ...

I'm in a loving relationship but I'm really falling for another girl...

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30 November 2008 (M) - Hi. I've been in a relationship with a girl I really love for a little over fourteen months now. We attend college in the same city as each other and met as a result of that. We know we'll be able to be together for at least the 2+ yea...

She's out of the picture but the thoughts still haunt me....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 13 years, but have been married for only 8 years. We lived together from almost the moment we met. We went through quite a bit in our lives together and this makes the story more and more sad. However, I ...

Falling Again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I have a Big problem!! I am married and find myself falling in love with another man!! This is so seperate from my marriage!! I still love my husband and we are happy! Is it possoble to be in love with two people at once? And, what should I do?...

How do I tell my boyfriend I'm in love with his brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I think I love my boyfriend's brother, and I don't know whether I should tell him or not?? I want to so bad, cuz I hate hiding my feelings, BUT I do not want to cause drama between family. Its getting to the point where I really dont care though... ...

Past love comes back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - hey Quite a hard situation, and I feel like a dick for some of it, get that out the way first. I was seeing a girl about a month ago called, let's call her J, and I really loved her but we didn't see each other much (she goes to college, me 6 fo...

I need to draw a wedge between them...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm Peridot. I was in a relationship with this great guy, but now it's somehow falling apart. I don't know how to get him back... And plus, there's this girl, who is trying to make problems between me and him purposely. She calls him up, chat...

We love each others but he is too afraid to leave his wife, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I am in love with a married man and we have been in this relationship for over 5 years. There is no question that he loves me. However, him and his wife own a corporate store together that he runs. He has told her about us and that he wants a ...

We're only friends, but I'm upset because he had sex with another girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hey guys i need some help or advice. The thing is this i have a friend who is a guy and we've known each other for 4yrs. At 1st i liked him and he liked me but nothing happened so we've decided to be best friends. I might stil have feelings for him ...

My close friend who fancies my boyfriend threw a fit, is this my problem?

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29 November 2008 (F) - Hey Im in a pickle ive just started going with someone. I really like him. We went out together for the first time and my close friend whos been depressed lately kept hugging me and pulling me away and crying on me WHILE I WAS WITH HIM. I was gett...

Why won't he walk away from me and save his current relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - hello aunts...i know what im doing isn't right...ive been seeing a guy who has a gf for almost six months...and have made 3 attempts to cut him off and obviously have been unsuccessful... i truely don't know what to do...he seems to be kind of we...

Should I wait until she returns from this "trip" to give her an ultimatum, me or him? What should I do?

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28 November 2008 (M) - Basically I am seeing this girl (not officially my girlfriend) who has a boyfriend of 2 years who lives quite far away. She has told me that she has fallen in love with me, and I have fallen in love with her too. But she also says that she still ...

He is so good-looking it makes me feel like a troll. Can he possibly like me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - There's this guy I like who's a friend of a friend, but he's too attractive. We get on really well and make each other laugh, but he is really really good-looking and although a fair few guys tell me I'm attractive, this guy is SO attractive that ...

He calls here at 3am and they have random talks, should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - First I'm sorry this question is so long~! I'm thinking or starting to go out with this guy. He's amazing in every way and so special, he's really sweet, generous and just a good person. He wants the same type of future I'm looking for and want...

Is it okay to feel contempt for the man that is dating my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - Is it okay that I feel great contempt for the man that is now dating my ex-girlfriend? They had been together before she met me, but had separated because he had 'a lot of baggage' (her words). We started dating and then he comes crawling back 'a ...

His girlfriend has his baby, but he doesn't love her, Can there be a me and him in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - hey everybody, just looking for some advice, 4 years ago i met a guy on a chat site whos the same age as me but lives in the uk.. (i live in ireland)... anyway we chatted as friends for nearly 2 whole years, got very close, but he made it clear from ...

He constantly tells me that we would be together if he wasn't in a relationship already, do you think we can be just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I met this guy over the summer and we became fast-close friends ever since. We like each other very much (not just a friendly way). However, he's in a 4-year relationship. We have not done anything with each other; not even holding hands. Yet, he ...

I have been having a sexual relationship with my two first cousins, do you have any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

27 November 2008 (?) - I too am sleeping with my first cousin..and I love him very very much. We dont see eachother often as we live in two different states...but this has been going on for years. The part some may find sick and twisted, is that he has a twin brother - ...

I kissed a girl and I liked it. Was it cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend i love very much. at a party last weekend, i got really drunk and kissed a girl i like hanging out with. I've never been attracted to women but i do like this girl alot. Was that kiss considered cheating on my boyfriend?...

I don't want to make a mistake by leaving my fiance, but I have feelings for another man...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I have been dating a man for almost 2 years. We have been engaged now for 6 months and wedding is 3 months away. Just a couple of weeks ago I started getting feelings about the wedding and about another man. I can't get this other guy out of my ...

Dating someone... but falling for someone else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - HELP!!! (Extremely long) I've gotten myself between a rock n a hard place here ppls. I've been with my g/f for over 9mts now. it has been graet except for the past 7 weeks or so. it's like just lately she gets on my nerves constantly. i hon...

My boyfriend flirts with girls in front of me and I can't even be mad at him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - my boyfriend flirts with girls in front of me and then he comes to me like nothing is wrong and i try to be mad at him but i can't and i want to break up with him but i cant i love him way too much to do that i need help ...

I love this girl... she says she loves me also, but she has a boyfriend who she has been with for nearly 2 years and won't decide immediately who she wants to be with. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - I started seeing this girl after I met her about 4 months ago. I got her number and we started texting. She said that she had just split up with her boyfriend of 1 and a half years and was really down in the dumps. I asked if she wanted to meet up ...

Does this mean I'm with the wrong guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hello. This is a messy one! I'm going through a divorce right now. I've actually started living with a guy from work. Meanwhile, a different guy from work (who did not know about the first guy) started coming on to me. I rejected him *of course*. He ...

I love and hate this man and every time I meet someone he comes around and mess everything up! What to do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - hey, i used to post on here quite a bit before i started seeing a counsellor... over the past few months my life seemed to be getting better. then suddenly my grandma was rushed into hospital and since then i feel like im right back at the ...

Is he just playing us both?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - So it's only been 2 months since my boyfriend and I broke up. He is the love of my life, my first boyfriend. HE means the world to me. I am still very close with his mom and dad. So close that although he is seeing someone else right now, that they ...

My husband has 2 children with his mistress and I feel lost and confused, what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I've been married for 20 years and we have 3 children. throughout my marriage my husband and I has had our hands full of ups and downs. I've had three affairs and he's had one long term affair of 15 years. He's forgiven me and I've forgiven him. At ...

Break up money trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hiya, I've recently had a relationship break up which has been very difficult. It was me that did the breaking up and obviously the feeling wasn't mutual so my ex seems to have been rather bitter about it, this of course I understand. However w...

I'm ashamed that I went through his private conversations.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I have been in this relationship for about a year and a half. He is married but since the start he repeated that he is in hell and is trying to get out. He convinced me to start this relationship by saying that things will be ok soon and that we ...

My boyfriend's brother and I have become really close - what would you do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - ok i have a 23 year old bf and i'm 18, my bf has a 19yr old brother. The brother and I have become quite close ever since we were introduced, we spend a lot of time just talking But now i really feel something between us, like a spark or somethin...

I want to make a move but I'm scared of rejection!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I have got this male friend for +- 8 months now and we’ve known each other for years but we only started to be close recently. We keep in touch regularly and I really enjoy his friendship. Now I am starting to have feelings for him, and suddenly he ...

Are there a lot of open marriages out there?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Are there a lot of open marrages out there? I should be more clear married couples that don't want to divorce but stay together as friends, parents, and partners ... but not romance or sexual partner. I'm in a relationship like that, I'm divorced ...

He asked me to dump my BF and get with him and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Hey x , I have a problem, well it started like this... my bf was off school for a week due to a bad cold however during this week one of his friends started txten me again sayin he likes me blah blah blah... but as i got talking to him over the week ...

His best friend is a girl! Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Is it normal for a guy to have a best friend who is a girl? My boyfriend's best friend is this girl he has been friends with for 5 years, and any time he tries to tell me about how he can be he always says "just ask (friend's name) she'll tell you ...

What should I do to ask him and get him to tell me the truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years now. His best friend is always around us and me and his friend have always gotten along. Over the past couple of months the best friend and i have gotten close and i have developed feeling about ...

Me, my boyfriend, and my ex-best friend / his ex-girlfriend have history, and he's still friends with her. Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Okay, there is a long story behind this question, so please bare with me while I try to summarize it: Basically, my current boyfriend is friends with his ex-girlfriend/my ex-best friend. Me and my boyfriend (I'll call him Eugene), have do...

I'm engaged to be married but can't get this other guy out of my head! Am I making a mistake here? Should I call the wedding off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm engaged to be married next year but haven't set a date yet, however, my fiance and I broke up in Febuary and I went on a date with a work colleague. When my fiance and I got back together my colleague moved to another branch a...

I love a married man! I don't expect him to leave his wife, but I suffer so much when not being with him, what can I do??

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - hello, i dont want any hurtful or rude comments, iam writing to everyone here because i think this is a site for evryone to write about their problems and feeling's. Well, iam seeing a married man. i have ben seeing him for 2 1/2 years now. i got ...

I met the love of my life, but he isn't ready to commit yet! How long do you think I will have to wait for him??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I desperately need guidance. My married of 17 years broke up a few years ago and one year later I met this wonderful man whom I believed was the love of my life....he was also part of my past growing up. We clicked instantly, fell in love, healed ...

Can a threesome really rekindle lost passion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Can a threesome really rekindle lost passion? Even if one of the partners isn't into that kinda thing? I've been with my boyfriend for a while and in order to get things up again, he wants a threesome. I'm not into that and of course, he found...

I think he is cheating on me! What shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - ive been with my partner for 3 yrs we got a little girl togerther know and i also have one from a previous relationship 2 yrs ago i found out that he took some girl back to his dads house and they stayed in the same bed my partner and the girl say ...

He wants an open relationship and threesomes! Should I give up on him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together two years now. He's 18, I'm 19. About a month ago, he met another girl (17) whom he really enjoys hanging out with. At first, it didn't bother me, but then he started hanging out with her a lot more than me and ...

I feel it's too soon for his kids to be introduced to her. Am I being unreasonable here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - My husband moved out 4 days ago with no warning.. he asks to see our sons and be part of their lives so far no problem. Thing is when he left he told me that although he had slept with someone else it was just a once in a while over the past ye...

Does he love me or her...? I'm lost.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - I was dating a guy for 2 years and 2 months. We were having the usual relationship spatting nothing major. He decides we need a break. We broke up for 2 months. I found out he liked another girl who is married so they can't totally be with one ...

Is he taking things too far with his "interest" in his band?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is a band teacher. I love him with all of my heart but he ALWAYS talks about his students and how much he loves them. There is this one girl, she's a freshman in high school. He always says "She's so awesome!" he has pictures of her and ...

He shows no concern. Does he love me?? Is it my fault?? What have I done wrong??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Hi, About four years ago I met a man who worked in one of the shops down the road. I didn't know who this person was but for some reason I had fallen in love with him. Soon after we started talking and texin 40-50 texts a day. He knew that I loved ...

He's the best thing that has happened to me in a long time but he's married, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - hi, i've been seeing a married man, we've known each other for 16 years, but we started talking again 6 months ago and hit it off straight away, we fancied each other all those years ago but never acted on it, until now. We've spoken about how thin...

My guy friend who I have fancied for years is falling for my best friend. I don't know what to do!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

23 November 2008 (?) - my guy friend who i have fancied for years is falling for my best friend. I don't know what to do!!! how can i fall out of love with him? any ideas..they both like each other but my bestfriend won't make a move on him because i like him. I don't ...

I can leave all other women I am seeing but not this married woman, and she wants to end our affair now!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - Hello I 'm here once again for ur guidness I realy love you all auntyzee who spare time for others. well this time, I 'm goin to show you the other side of my coin. it like this, I having an afair with the married women whos havin one kid too, al...