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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

He denies sleeping with her, but she is saying it is true!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I am four month pregnant with my boyfriends baby, I found Messages on his facebook suggesting he was doing something. I've asked him and he says he hasn't, I have asked her and she tells me that he has been seeing her and that they have had sex more...

I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. What is the best way to confront her without losing her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. I do not believe it is physical yet based on the evidence I found, but I do know that she is very attracted to this guy. Should I lay all my cards on the table and ask her to...

A choice between two people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hi! I have sort of a dilemma, and was hoping I could get some advice.. I have been dating with person x for a period of 2 years now. It has been a very rocky relationship with lots of break-ups and problems the main being that he lives with his...

Falling for my best friend but my heart loves another too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - hey there im stuck in a mess with my best friend and my heart ive been in love with someone for 3years but dosent know, my best friends dose me and him have got very close and the more im with him the more i like him, the problem is should i...

How can she love me but still have feelings for someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - Here's my dilemma.. I have been with this girl for two years.. We net at our old job. She has been wonderful to me, and we were very much in love, to the point we had a child together who is now 9 months old. Just recently she broke it off with me, ...

He's kept me as a secret lover for 3 years, and recently revieled he's got an 18 month old daughter! Now he ignores me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I come to this point that I’m, looking for others people opinion. Here is my story. I met this guy at work about 3 years ago we start sleeping together, there is a difference in years between us (he is 30 I’m 41); he said that’s not a problem ...

Remained friends even though she has a boyfriend, but she still hurt me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - Hi Everyone, I’ve been aware of DearCupid for a couple of months now but this is my first question. Well, it’s not really a question. I guess I need a place to vent and hopefully find some sense in my confusion. I apologize if it sounds too lo...

What am I supposed to do? Trust my ex or this creepy guy friend of hers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - Everyone has heard the phrase love is not enough. Me personally I find it hard to believe that if someone says they love you and continue to do what they want that is not love. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. Maybe I was a little over zea...

People say once a cheater always a cheater, but considering we were on opposite sides of the world, is this different?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - hi there Im feeling really insecure.Iv been with my partner for 5 years. He is from Germany I am from America.I met him when he came to university in america. As far as i was concerned our relationship was perfect and I wanted to spend my life wit...

I broke up with her Two weeks ago, so why is she still texting me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - I'm not going to explain the whole story, because it's long, but I broke up with my ex two weeks ago. We had been together for almost five years at the time we broke up. We've been through break ups before, but this is the first time I've brok...

Would you ever steal someone else's boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - I wanna make it clear right now--i DO NOT want to steal someones boyfriend. There's just been a lot of things happening recently and i was curious. So, would you or wouldn't you? Why or why not? And have you ever stolen someone else's boyfriend or ...

Is it possible to love two guys at the same time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Is it possible to love two guys at the same time ? And I want to be with both ! I'm really confused! What can i do? Choosing is very difficult. And how can i break off without hurting their hearts ?...

Please help me get my lover back!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - I am married with 2 teenage children. For the last 3 years I have been having an affair with. Beautiful woman 20 years younger - I'm 44. This woman is the most amazing person Ive ever met. She turns heads were ever she goes, her personality shines ...

Should I invite this old crush home when my parents are away, even though I have a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, well here is my story.I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4.5 years. We love eachother so much and I am grateful of our relationship. We go out with our friends once in a blue moon but would rather stay home, cuddle and chill ...

The girl my cousin is dating likes me! What do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - Today I found out my cousin's fling likes me and my cousin is really depressed and I want to talk to her about it, but I don't know how. I feel really bad because my girlfriend told me she liked me but I thought she was being paranoid. I also want ...

Do you think it would be ok for me to meet up with him, even though I don't know what is happening with the other guy yet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I'm not sure what to do. I was seeing a guy recently, but i'm not sure what is going on with us at the moment. We have only been on a few dates, so i'm not sure that you could say that we are in a relationship yet, but neither of us has said that we ...

I really like both these guys. My ex is now ignoring me. I need some clarity please? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I really like this guy. I will call him Y. And I really like my my ex, who im still in love with. I will call him X So X and i broke up in june last year...8 months later after a different girlfriend, he came back begging for me to take him back tha...

I don't want her to be with some other dude, especially a friend of mine!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - i liked this girl who knew that i liked her but she said she doesnt like me. There was alot of awkwardness between us for a long time and it was annoying, so i just said that im over her and i want to be just good friends. Since then we have become ...

I am in a committed relationship but in love with a man who lives far away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I met a man about 4 years ago and we spent about two weeks together. I absolutely fell in love with him, and he claims he felt the same way about me. But he lives on the other side of the country. He soon had to return home, and I found myself able ...

My GF thinks I cheat on her and is subjecting me to immense physical and mental abuse!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - hey guys n girls, longer story....help me.... im sorry if im not typing correctly to be honest im so depressed and sad. ok 3 yrs ago me and my gf got into a very big fight and she smacked me in my face then later she hit me with a bottle. I left h...

Found naked pics of a guy on my wife's camera. I'm not sure how to handle this...

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - My wife and I are married 4 years this summer. Everything seems to be great, my problem is something from the past. I just bought my wife a new laptop and digital camera last Christmas. Her old camera she had when we met and was about 5 or 6 yea...

How can I get over my paranoid fear that my bf might be talking to this other girl? Should I take one last look at his phone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Due to past relationships, it took me around 10 months to trust my boyfriend fully. I was on his phone the other day, I was using the internet to check my bank account when I found myself on his facebook. I'm not usually one to snoop, but after a ...

Have I completely misread the situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - I've been friends with a guy for a couple of years, he's been flirting, making all the right signals and chatting each day online. we see each other quite often, and recently met up on our own. all seemed fine, but then he started talking about ...

I'm sleeping with a married man and he wants me to stay at his house. Should I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

23 May 2011 (M) - I am seeing a married guy 3 or 4 times a year we meet in cities away from home in Fl and or Ca I am 69 and he is 40. When in Ca I have dinner with him and his wifr, I am goig to Ca next and he suggested I stay at his home. Good idea ?????"??...

My boyfriend wants my approval to be friends with another woman??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I would just like some perspective. I am aware I sometimes make mountains out of mole hills but I think on this problem, Im justified in being upset. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4.5 years. Back in October he decided to look up and b...

Three really is a crowd

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4720 days ago

22 May 2011 (M) - alright, i've been here before... asking about the safest way to broach the topic of a threesome with a couple i know. but i'm a punk, and while drinking tends to loosen many people's inhibitions, mine are fairly deep rooted, so it would take more ...

I shouldn't still care for this guy, but I do and it feels like my heart is just breaking...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4720 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Here it goes, me and this guy have been friends for a long time. An have been off and on again FWB's over the past three years. We have talked about being in a relationship, but never ended up in one cause he says he is in love with another women. ...

I don't feel I can trust my girlfriend anymore!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

22 May 2011 (M) - i'm a little bit lost with what i want to do with my girlfriend. i've been with my girlfriend with literally over a year and we're both in college doing our exams, and we're going through a rough spot. from the beginning of our relationship, i'...

I have accidentally got two girlfriends and now I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

21 May 2011 (M) - I have accidentally got two girlfriends and now I don't know what to do. I have a girlfriend and we have been together since our teens and have known each other since we were born practically. Although we have been together for so long our ...

I am torn between two guys and don't know whom to choose

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - I have a bf for the last 1 year. I fall in love with him for his good nature. So i only proposed him. Everythng went well for 1 month. After that, he started ignoring me. Situation became so worse that he even didn't talk to me. I was so depressed ...

I like him, my friends don't, and his g/f is evil

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4720 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - Hello! So I've started to really like this boy, who doesn't go to my school, but is part of my group. But none of my friends like him.. He is also a bit younger than me, which is another reason why I'm 'not allowed' to like him. He's known to ...

Help me with this situation. I wonder if I really love him and he really loves me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - i am married and have been seeing a married friend for almost a year. we agreed on no strings attached policy. in Feb we decided to break it of as i suggested he try and work things out with his estranged wife. he still comes over. we don't to...

Since I asked her to be my girlfriend she backed off, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

20 May 2011 (M) - Hi dear cupid, I'm 19, she's 17. I met her, got her number we started calling and texting each other very frequently. After a month it was almost like we were boyfriend and girlfriend but I hadn't officially asked her, but in theory we were. I...

I think I should go with the one I can see every day, yet I don't want to hurt the one I met online. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

19 May 2011 (M) - I like two girls but one (15) lives in the South West of London, and the other (17) Lives in the South East with me, I can see her more of less everyday, the one on the internet and I are close yet we don't really have a lot in common. yet with the ...

I am getting mixed signals from my best friend. Please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4720 days ago

19 May 2011 (M) - I am still getting mixed signals from my best friend. I tried telling him to back off and leave me alone but that didn't work since he gets full on and will almost stalk someone until that person has forgiven him. When I want to talk to him I ca...

Would it be okay for me to see him, even though we are on placement and he has a GF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Please help. I really lke this guy who i am on a work placement with, but he has a girlfriend. He has smiled and winked at me a few times, does that mean anything ?. He also sent me a friend request on facebook, and i added him. we havent spoken to ...

Do you think either like me? Right now it's my friend's GF and another girl I met online.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

19 May 2011 (M) - hi everyone i recently posted a question on here about a girl that i liked and my feelings towards her and all of the answers that i received to me that i was in love with her. she is one of my friends' girlfriends and since i have known her she has ...

Should I stick around and get my needs met without any commitment? Or break it off and lose my best friend at the same time?

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19 May 2011 (F) - Hi everybody, I met this guy about 10-11 months ago. Let's call him D. So D approached me in a coffee shop and we instantly became very good friends. At the time I had just gotten out of a LTR with another woman, and was convinced I wasn't ever goi...

Is it normal for guys to have crushes on other women even in a dedicated long-term relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - So I've had a pretty rough past two weeks here. My boyfriend of two years (lived with for a bit over a year) just broke up with me after a big incident. We'd decided we decided to move in too soon, and we figured a break would be ideal. We still ...

To be an army wife or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - OK, I really need some serious help! Let me start from the beginning. I have only been in two relationships and my first relationship lasted for about 6 years. My ex is in the Army and 2 years ago he was deployed to Iraq. He broke up with me before ...

My husband has had a 13 year affair. what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - I have recently found out my husband of 13 years has been having a physical and emotional affair with a woman at his work. This has been going on since the day we got married. I am in shock. He says he wants to "move forward" with me and "get ...

He's got a girlfriend but I think he's attracted to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4724 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - This is probably a silly question. There's a guy in my class - I'm friends with him and his girlfriend. We hang out a lot after school, sometimes all three of us, sometimes just me and him. I'm not looking to be his girlfriend or anything, because ...

I''m falling for my boyfriends friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - I'm falling for my boyfriends friend, what do I do? He gives me more attention then my boyfriend does!...

Current boyfriend wants to spend time with me but wont open up about his feelings, whereas my ex was the complete opposite! Now my ex is back in the picture, I don't know what to do......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a really great guy for about 9 months now. About a month before we started dating, I broke up with my boyfriend of almost a year. I wanted to get back together at the time, but he made it clear it was out of the ...

Living with my boyfriend and have a young child together, but thinking of meeting up with my online guy. Should I meet him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 5 years, we live together and have a 10 month old son. For about 7 years ive known a guy online, hes sweet and we phone each other constantly, before I met my boyfriend we were planning to meet up as we ...

In a relationship with a married man....where is this going?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm a confused, single woman, no kids, and living independently. But i am in a relationship with a married man for more than a year now. it's not like what most people think of when they hear of this type of relationship. we are not ...

I'm totally in love with him and I want to know how he feels. But how? He has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I'm a 20 year old girl and becoming crazy because of my heart racing and chaos in my mind. It's a long story but to make it a bit clear: in November 2010 I fell mindlessly in love with this boy after just meeting him once, I am sure it is love ...

I need help deciding on which love to follow: The love of my life or current girlfriend that I love dearly, equally!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - Okay, I know I'm young, but I'm in love. My situation: I am 19 and in love with two young women. They are both 18. So let's call girl 1 Lisa and call girl 2 Tina. Lisa (girl 1) and I dated for a little over a year with the addition of a few mont...

I need advice to get over my ex lover & focus on my family...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I had an affair w/a married man that lasted 2 years. He is my co-worker and was my husbands best friend, what makes it worse is that his wife was also my best friend. We were "soulmates" and very much in love. I got pregnant and asked him to ...

Broke up with my long term gf but am starting to freak out!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - I've been with my gf now for 4 1\2 years, almost 5. We've always had the most amazing relationship we could have possibly imagined with plans on getting married in the near future. Thing is she moved away to california 2 years ago but she's movin ...