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Archived questions from: May, 2009 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Don't know if wife wants a threesome?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - been married for 10 years my wife and i watch porn and when three somes are on she gets turned on and i would ask if she likes what she sees and she always says she yes when i ask her if she wants a 3-some she always says i would never do that one ...

I don't know why he's sticking around!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Im so confused ive been seeing this guy for a month but i have a boyfriend he knows this, so we said we would do the friends thing, that was fine as we get on so well, then we ended up getting drunk went to a hotel had sex, he said he was very sorry ...

Is it wrong for your boyfriend to stay at another girl's house with his "brother"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Is it wrong for your boyfriend to stay at another girls house with his "brother" after a night out on the town?...

He's with me now, was with her, now she wants him back, tried to seduce him, should I confront her or ignore it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 178 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - my bf's ex, who is also a friend of mine is unbelievable. i had gone out with him first, then she did, then he came back to me. we used to be really close but after she started going out with him the friendship just died from there. i was reluctant ...

My husband and I separated, having an affiar, feelings growing, but he also has a long distance girlfriend, am I asking for trouble?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I am recently separated from my husband of 4 years. I dont feel anything for him anymore because he was controling and abusive and did alot of things behind my back that hurt. A couple weeks ago I started a fling with a coworker who I've always ...

How do I get rid of this guy before my bf gets out of jail?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - The guy i've been friends with really wants to have sex with which is my weakness but i have already told him i dont wanna have sex with him. I've tried ignore his calls and avoid him. Some how he always finds me. When my boyfriend gets out of jail, ...

Am I right to trust him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - long story short, my boyfriend and i had been going out, my best friend was always very 'friendly' with him and caused a lot of problems, after we broke up they both snuck around behind my back and it didnt last long. she told me it was because she ...

Does he really want me or her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I have a friend who lives long distance. When he moves to my town he always breaks up with his girlfriend to date me, but when he moves home he gets back together with her. He hasn't told me about her but he is from a very small town so I hear about ...

Why does he keep going back and forth and not just choose one of us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 178 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - [Moderator's note: Please concentrate all the details in one question next time. It is harder to give accurate opinions on pieces of a fragmented question.] Help my mother is making me insecure. My mom doesn't like my boyfriend and she always says ...

Should I stay with the guy in rehab or try the new, clean guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I have started dating "lee" since dec i actually drove 2000miles to met him he drove w me back to my state to live w me everything was fine til he started his new job which was a nite job which ended up him finding drugs and booze... i kicked him ...

I have just broken up with my married boyfriend but I don't know if I've done the right thing...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Last year i met this guy and i didnt know he was engaged,we were seeing each other almost every night in my place,we were getting on with each other so well and after 5-6 weeks his fiance called me and told me that they are engaged but i didnt tell ...

HELP! Getting married in 4 months... But I still think about my first love!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - I definitely need some guidance and advice! My first love from when i was 13 we were on and off until 3 years ago when I met my fiance (I am now 23). We always talked secretly throughout the years when we were with other people, or when he had a...

Please help me. Is my boyfriend cheating? He says this is a set up.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Hello, I am 28 years old mother of a 10 year old daughter. MY past relationships haven't been all that great. My first husband cheated on me numerous times but I stayed with him to try and work things out. Well that was back in 2003 that we got...

How to break-up without breaking a good man's heart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - who to choose? how to break up without breakign a good man's heart? 5 months ago in Munich I met a silly, skinny Swiss boy. ok, he's 24 and I'm 22, but still... we laughed, got drunk, kissed, snowball fought, poked, and danced our way into l...

Is it possible to have a girlfriend for that long and fall for someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - hello, well i have a really confusing situation that's been bugging me for over a year now!!! last year, i met this amazing guy at uni, i liked him from the first time i saw him staring at me. for the first couple of months, i didnt know him...

Having an affair with a married man, he is attentive, calls and texts me all during the day, do you think there is a future here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - I have been having an affair with a married man for 11 months we have known each other for 30 years, we get on great together have good sex he has never made promises he can,t keep, when we talk about the future he indicates he wants to be with me ...

On-line friend and boyfriend, who should I choose to be with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 180 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Ok i'm really confused at the moment. I got with my boyfriend about 4 months ago and we seemed to get on great, well we do- but recently we've been going through quite a rough patch and we're arguing about everything and he's also extremly depresse...

Do I dump my current bf and go for this other great guy? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 180 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I am a thirteen year old girl, in a relationship with a great guy and i really like him. But yesterday, one of my best friends told me that the boy i have had a crush on since i first met him likes me. This boy is so much like me, we have so m...

I think my "soft" approach has backfired and she's gone back to her ex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - well i have been "dating" this amazing lady since March - we are both in out late 30s. Everything has been perfect. Our emails and texts have been out of this world and we both agreed that we can't get over how much we click. Recently we started ...

Should I forgive him, do I even have the right to be mad at him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Ok so my bf and I were together for 4 years, and he was always a great bf. We were in long distance relationship and eventually things became difficult and over the last year have been on and off. We stayed in touch, and when he came back to ...

He's totally changed, I can't even talk to him about a problem without fearing he will get mad at me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together, exclusively, for a little over years steady. Up until this past year, things have been wonderful, but it's suddenly all starting to fall apart and I don't know why. We've been great friends before we started ...

Love of my live, and memories

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - OK well we were together when I was 14 and he was 17 (yes I know very young love) but I can’t seem to stop thinking about him. He was and still is the love of my life I think, I am now 28 and there is not a day that goes by when I don't think about ...

Does she really care more about him than me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - Basically, my girlfriend of nearly eight months has been talking to this guy over the internet for about four years. She says they used to be, sort of together, long distance but then she broke with him (she says). Thing is, she always wants to ...

I love him but he loves her!...I cant win!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I love him so much.He loves her. She loves him. Everybody wins but me. I just can't get over him. He's my best friend and I'm happy for him, on the outside, but on the inside, I'm dealing with the pure agony of it all. I want him so badly but I know ...

Heart broken in two...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I need help I cant decide between two guys. I was dating this guy that I was totally in love with but we had to break up because he was going to rehab we had been going out for a year and i really thought he was the one my family wasnt too fond o...

She was my girl first, I dumped her, now has a boyfriend, there is sexual tension between us, what should I do to find out if this could work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

26 May 2009 (M) - I usually don't have to ask for help but this is a grinder. I dated this girl last summer, REALLY hit it off, I dumped her when I went to college (she was upset about it). Anyhow she got a BF, lost 'it' to him, convinced she will marry him. Durin...

Met a guy over World of Warcraft while yet in another relationship, things got confusing, what is your opinion of the state of affairs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I met a guy over World of Warcraft....he was amazing. He became my best friend and in no time we fell for each other. Well at the point in time, he was in a three year relationship, where I was in a one year. We still continued to flirt, until ...

What is my ex thinking? Me? Or her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - about 7 months ago i lost the love of my life he was my everything i loved himm sloooo much ... since he broke up with me we slept together on a few occasions ..im still madly in love with him but cant seem to move on other guys dont appeal to me ...

My friend is his girlfriend, and I like him as well, but she treats him badly, what if anything should I do about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 183 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - Okay so heres my story. me and this guy have had this thing for a while since last year. we know that we alwayss have will have feelings for eachother. he's going out with my friend and it was his party at a fancy place by the water. she was r...

He's gone home to his wife and isn't talking to me. Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend right now that I live with him already for 8 months, at the beginning he already told me that he had a cold-heart, he don't give a dump to the feeling of others, but I love this guy so I did my best to have a good relationship ...

I want to get with him but don't want to upset me friend over it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Okay, so there is this guy that I like, let's call him Ray, everyone kept telling me that he liked me, based on the way he was acting, but I wasn't totally sure. he asked me to hook up with him and I said yes. On the day when we were supposed to...

Boyfriend's ex constantly asks him for things and he's too nice to say no... What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Im seeing this great guy, so kind and caring and we get on so well. He has two children, this was hard but i accepted this, its hard sometimes as we cant spend loads of time together, but the real problem is his ex.....the kids mum, he can't say no ...

Am I letting old feelings get in the way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - k... here's the story. Me and this guy have been going out for a while now. He really loves me and i'm not sure if i feel the same way anymore. It is starting to get really boring and he is starting to get annoying sometimes. the only problem is ...

Pregnant with boyfriend's child, but attracted more to his best friend, any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - I havent been with my boyfriend for very long but we've already fallen madly in love with each other, he's told me i'm the best thing thats ever happened to him and i'm really special to him. I know how much he cares about me and loves me and i feel ...

Is he with her for revenge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I were together for a year and a half the first time. We broke up, he got a new girlfriend 3 days later, I knew that she was just a rebound. Well they broke up after 7 months because she didn't want to be with him anymore and ...

He wants a threesome and I DON'T!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - I'm a 25 year old woman and my husband's 26. We've been married for He told me that he wants a threesome with me and another guy involved. I told him outright no, but he insisted we should do it. I asked him if this was just a ruse so he could...

I find myself competing with his best male friend, and wondering if my guy is secretly bi-sexual, any thoughts, I am miserable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - My lovely relationship is going wrong because my man is going on holiday without me. We have been seeing each other for 9 months and are virtually living together. It hasn't been easy because he has child access issues with an ex and I am not able ...

Should I bow out, until he decides who he wants to be with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Ok so here it is. I met a guy and I started to like him alot. I am older than he is by 4 years. I am 29, he is 23 going on 24. It took him awhile to figure out that I liked him. I finally had to tell him. We were just friends for about a month until ...

Women: Threesomes--MMF or MFF??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - Quick question for the women out there, which do you prefer, a MMF or MFF threesome? My wife and I are talking about it and she finds both pretty hot. I said my main concern would be for her to be happy and enjoy it and am willing to do either or ...

No one is ever truly happy in a marriage... is this true?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. As my screen name suggests I feel like im ready to make a choice but I need some real strong non-hateful advice. I have never used a service like this so I hope it will make me see things more clearly. I really need help. anyway here ...

Heartbroken, confused and need advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - Okay, I need some help here and I don't know what to do. For the first time in my life, at 41 I have truly fallen in love. I wasn't looking and a mutual friend thought we would like each other. So 6 months ago I met this wonderful women. We ...

I need some help with my situation please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Hi I hope someone can help x This boy likes me , I like him back , but he has a gf , and I feel like I'm waiting untill they break up what should I do to help the situation ? Also when they do break up , another boy likes me but it's like he has a...

My wife or the love of my life? How do I choose?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - hello everyone. as my screen name suggests I feel like im ready to make a choice but I need some real strong non- hateful advice. I have never used a service like this so I hope it will make me see things more clearly. I really need help. anyway ...

I don't know what to do as he has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I've been friends with this guy for about two months, I've liked him a lot since I met him but I refused to say anything as he has a girlfriend. We've been flirting a lot and the other day he told me that he also likes me, I also told him that I ...

My affair ended and my husband forgave me....but the guy I cheated with wont leave me alone!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Ok, this is my story I have been working for a great company for 2 years now have a wonderful marriage well lets say we have our ups and downs but who doesnt. I started training this man that came to work in my department, well I started flirting he ...

Falling for someone I can never be with! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Well this is the short and long story.... I'm in a casual relationship right now, although i really do like him, actually love him alot. The thing is, i'm starting to have really very strong feelings for the company i work for, workshop manager! I ...

I think my mates girlfriend fancies me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - i know this sounds big headed, but i think my mates girl fancy's me.. she's always texting me and telling me i'm cute, she always wants me around and wen im not in she beggs for me to come in, WE recently had our school prom and she was on my ar...

Planning on marrying my fiancee but my other girlfriend is pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - morning, i'm a young guy of 33years old. i have a problem with my girl freind.the probleme is this.i have a fiancee in my own town,but i came in this small town for work almost 8 month now and i find another girl freind.before we started...

It's very hard for me to not "relive the memory"! But I don't want him if he isnt sincere!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 182 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - my ex and i dated for 2 years in high school and about 2 years on and off at college (we went to different colleges) and decided that it was too hard to have a long distance relationship and broke it off. We fought a lot, but untimately it was the ...

Every girl I like doesn't like me... why???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - i cant seem to get a girl. I'm not ugly, I constantly get told I'm cute, fun to talk to ect but every girl I like doesn't like me. Why? can anyone help?...