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Archived questions from: June, 2009 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I feel like such a sinking wreck...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I'm beginning to feel like my life has come to a halt. Just come out of a bad and messy split with my fiancee of 5 years-he has been emotionally abusive and has completely and utterly financially drained me-i managed to get debt help but my cred...

I am stuck between two guys I don't know who to choose.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I am stuck between two guys I don't know who to choose. guy 1)- ive known since i was 2 and he has diabetes same as me so he can understand a lot of what ive gone through ive not seen him in about 3 years and isaw him on friday (we were at o...

I don't know what to do. I'm falling for my ex's brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Helpp! im really lost and confused. need some advice because everyone keeps telling me something different everytime i bring it up. my ex and i broke up in january and we never told anyone we were dating. he always denies it now even his brother...

They are BOTH denying their affair! How can I know for sure?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My husband and I have ben married for 7 years and we have two daughters. The other night my husband received a text message from someone known as just the letter "J" on his phone saying "good night". I called the number twice and a woman answered ...

The guy I'm seeing already has a partner - what to do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Help!!!..... ok what do I do? I recently started seeing somebody the only issue is he has a partner of 5 years already! I know this was wrong but our feelings just grew for each other and it became difficult to keep away. Everything was g...

He proposed to my wife on our honeymoon!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - My wife loved a boy in her school days but that boy didn't accept her love. She told me this when i firstly came her home to saw her for my marriage. I was impressed with her honesty. I decided that i will marry this girl only. Then we married and ...

Which guy do I choose? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Basically I have to choose between 2 really great guys. Feel free to comment on any or all aspects of this, because I need all the help I can get! First guy: A beautiful person who helped me get out of a 3 year emotionally abusive relation...

2 guys... only 1 crush at the moment

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 17 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - There was this guy that I was interested in my Sunday School class and I asked him out. He flat out told me he wasn't interested in me or interested in dating. Now there is this other guy that I'm interested in that is a friend of that other guy. I ...

Should I end it with the older guy and find love with a guy my own age? Opinions please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I've known my boyfriend for 4 yrs and we've been a couple and living together for 3yrs... so here's the Deal...He's twice my age: I'm 21 he's 44. We haven't talked about it with our families yet...but they practically pretty much already know sin...

Help, I need to know... Is my boyfriend cheating on me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have found a text message on my boyfriend's mobile phone. From a woman who has cropped up many a time in our past 2 years together. it said 'i miss you, i want you, I need you'. Is he cheating? Should I confront him? Is there any way that thi...

I think my girlfriend prefers her friend's company to mines...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for 8 months now. We're really close and are important in each others lives. Her mom works a lot so she drops her off at my house and we get to hang out after school till usually 7 pm. A couple o...

Jealousy: appropriate or insecurity in this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Alright. This is a really long story. My current boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. Before we met he had this friend, let's call her Katie. He and Katie knew each ooher from a mutual job and she started out really cool and ...

Hey friend lied to me and nnow I am in trouble with my gf!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - i dated this girl for 4 years and after we broke up we didnt talk for a week or two. well i went to her collage graduation and things went well the next day was her birthday and i had lunch with her at my apartment... while we were eating luch she ...

I need your advice bad!!! My boyfriend got another girl pregnant, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - Alright, well this is going to be long, but here it goes. A couple of days ago my boyfriend confessed that he indeed cheated on me with a girl and that she is claiming now that she is pregnant with his baby. The girl he cheated on me with was with ...

Had a threesome with friends, afraid I'm falling in love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I just had a threesome with 2 of my best friends who are engaged to each other. I thought I could be ok with it, but now I'm finding that I have strong feelings toward him. He's made it quite clear that he has no interest in leaving his partner, ...

Do I go after this girl or not? She's taken!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - there is this girl at school i realy like it but she dont no but she is taken and i dont fink she will say yes to me even if she is single but i dont know wot shood i do ???...

How do I clear things up with the guy I've been leading on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - This guy who really likes me and I have been flirting a lot recently. My boyfriend hasn't been there for me in a long time, and I'm considering breaking up. The only problem is, I've been flirting with this guy only because I wanted to replace the ...

New baby but don't love the father. I still love my ex! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - i've just had a baby with my current bf but i don't love him anymore and i feel trapped we've been together only a year and everything has moved so fast i dont feel he's the one 4 me plus his family are horrible!! but i dont want our daughter ...

I don't want to step in but I want to date her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

26 June 2009 (M) - ....i need a little help here... there is this girl i met a few months back through some close friends, and she has this boyfriend who is kinda a jerk to her, but she says that she is in love with him and not willing to leave him yet, however i hav ...

Does he really love me in all this big mess?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend just jumped me for my best friend. He says she led him on and that he loves her buh he also loves me. He said he can not lie about it and hurt me any more than he already has and that he'd rather be honest wit me :( She told him s...

The ex g/f shows me that he's not good for me, but ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - I'm a smart, intelligent young woman and currently doing a degree in Medicine, I know I am beautiful because I get lots of compliments from both guys and ladies. I do not have any problem attracting guys but I'm so stuck on a particular guy that has ...

Going crazy here, need someone to help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

24 June 2009 (M) - My girlfried just moved. Shes been hanging out with her 30 year old land lord she is 18. We're on a "break" like were not together all the time. she is with him alot watching movies shopping exc.. im i just really jelous or does there seem to be ...

He says he only likes me, so why all the fuss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - Please this has really got me confussed,this guy. i'm seeing tells me we are not in a committed relationship because he's married so the other day when he txted me i just ignored him i thought if i did that and never replyed he would get tired ...

How can I trust her with her ex still in the picture?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

24 June 2009 (M) - I met a girl about 9 months ago she had a boyfriend for about 7 years and she said that he was her first and only boyfriend. Anyway as time moved on she told me that she love me and that made me feel good because I had no one in my life, but she ...

Why did he cheat if he says I'm the best thing that happened to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - This is new to me, so forgive me. I'm usually the one giving the advice, not asking for it. But for once, I'm stuck. I've known this guy for two years, and we've always been great friends and just about 6 months ago we started talking every si...

What if....I had a relationship with my wife's sister

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

24 June 2009 (M) - what if you are not in love with your wife, and discover that maybe you never have been. what if your marriage has gone bad, and you are not intimate any longer with each other and considering divorce. what now if you have fallen in love for her ...

Is it a good idea to arrange a meeting between ex and current boyfriends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 152 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for a while, but ever since we've gotten together, i find that my interests in other men have increased. i feel confident enough to be in the presence of other men i find attractive, and not blush and bow my head, like i ...

I need your help with regards to my husband and his work female friend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - i am married for over 6 years now and have 1 child. its been 2 years now that one day i have checked his mobile out of curiousity and seen a msg sent by him to her saying 'ok.kisses everywhere'. i have discussed this with him and claimed that it was ...

He wants me to sleep with another woman but I'm not sure...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I know this is probably going to be a stupid question in the long run and i kinda think i know my answer i just want others advice also, good or bad i will take. so my fiance of 3 years has asked if i would be interested in sleeping with another ...

I want to make our life as perfect as possible but her ex gets her down...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I fell in love with a girl who is married. When we started seeing each other her and her husband have been apart for a few months. She kept asking me out and i kept saying no. I was scared cause I'm a guy who has always kept to myself and worked ...

How do I get my ex to let me live my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - So i'm engaged to be married. I am currently still married trying to divorce my ex. He's giving me problems signing the papers. He believes that we should stay together for the kids. I believe I'm better off with my fiance. He's a great man treats ...

I'm picturing other women and NEED a solution!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - I'm a pretty young guy and I'm dating a beautiful girl who I have grown to love deeply. We have been through long distance relationship for about a year, the phase where women need to know if the guy is right for her and what not, and now I'm going ...

Falling for the wrong guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 153 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Okay so me and this guy had a thing last summer, we kissed, and blah blah blah, i was in love with him, but he always got high and ditched me, and then came back, he always got locked up, so i said fuck it, and then he got locked up for 5 months, so ...

BF slept with his ex after finallly seeing me, which he desired so much

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 151 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Recently my ex and I got back together. We broke up basically we argued too much, not because of diminished love. After the breakup both of us had such a difficult time - I've heard from his friends that he stopped functioning. During our bre...

I'm not fond of ruining relationships, but she is amazing...what should we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - I've been talking to this girl I work with a lot lately and we've really hit it off. I get along with her better than I get along with my best friend. Well, I'm really into her and I just recently found out she feels the same. But here's the catch: ...

I feel so stupid, alone and unwanted.! Help me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I just found out today that a man I have been in love with for the past 3 years was dating another woman while he was flirting and playing around with me. He never promised me anything and we never spoke about monogamy but it was implied that he ...

I keep falling in this cycle and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - im really gonna try make this short, i was going out with this guy for about a year, we broke up + he messed me about by seeing me afterwards but sayin he doesnt 'want a relationship' but anyway, we had been broke up for about 3 months, then he came ...

I introduced them and now they're texting one another, thing is I liked him first!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Okay so I have this best guy friend whom I love like a brother and he knows everything about me and I feel super comfortable with him, the thing is I introduced him to my best chick friend about a year ago and now she gave him her number and she ...

Why is he nervous and not as nice to me when she is around and very interested when she is not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 153 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - Thank you in advance to those who take the time to read and answer my question. I work with a guy who I like and I think he likes me too. Due to the fact that I am just out of a long term relationship though, I am in no hurry to get involved again. ...

Love or Lust? It's Confusing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I'm in my mid 20's. Me and my girlfriend "V" have been going out for almost 5 years. I love her with all my heart. we're pretty serious, and it's generally accepted by everyone we're going to be married. we talk about it. as soon as we both get our ...

His family keep inviting his ex-wife to family gatherings, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I am in a tough situation. My boyfriend is divorced but his family keeps inviting his ex wife to family functions even though he has asked them not to. She also invites them to her family functions and they accept. Last December his parents ...

Was I his rebound girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I contacted my ex boyfriend who recently had a terrible breakup with his girlfriend who he had after me. He broke up with me because of her and they were togetehr for about 7 months. I have always wanted to get back together with him - we were ...

How do I accept that my girlfriend had a child with a man twice her age

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - How do I accept that my girlfriend had a child with a man twice her age, a senior citizen and now the judge has given a very equal custody - entailing weekly visitation and weekend rights, severly disrupting our ability to have continuity in our ...

IShould look for him again or should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - Id just finish my High School last week and I'm pretty sure that I'm never goin to to see my secret crush which turns out to be my first true love. No one knows that I like him except me because im not out. We are not close in school and we only say...

How could he love me and still be on dating sites?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I just reunited with my ex. We broke up for about a month, during that month it was a back and forth deal, he would text me missing me terribly and vice versa. I can't say what my status is with him right now. He's been on dating sites while we were ...

I am 19 I have been seeing my boss since I was 17

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - i am 19 i have been seeing my boss since i was 17..the first time he kissed me i stopped it and said you have a fiance he said sorry but done it again and it led to something else i told him i love him he said it straight he wont leave his wife but ...

I feel like moving away from all friends I've known and starting a life with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I dunno what the hell to do. Me and my friends girlfriend have liked eachother for well over a year now and no one knows. Wev spoken about it in the past and brushed it to one side because it would be to messy and we dont want to hurt anyone. ...

I don't like the person I have become now I am seeing a married man

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - HELP ME PLEASE! im 26 seeing a married man for just nearly a yr now and im sooo unhappy, full of guilt, dont like the person i have become and i feel sick when i think of what im doing. I doubt he will ever leave her, she is lovely not a bit...

I was nosing around on his phone and found something I wasn't expecting! Any ideas?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - hi again! i recently posted about me and my boyfriend,we have been together for almost a year, but we split up for a month at one point and 2 weeks not that long ago. when we broke up the first time, something happened with him and another ...

I'm sick of being known as 'the slag'! Three months and they still won't drop it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - this is really beginning to upset me now, in march i had a small get together with friends, 8 of my friends came over from college and we got a take away, had alot of alcohol and we danced and sang, it was a great night! when it came to half 1, 2 o ...