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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Torn between two lovers, who do I chose

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Do you love with the one you're with or wait for the one you love? Man 1: I've been dating a guy for 3 years. I love him more than anyone I've ever known before. Whenever I see him, I know I want to spend the rest of my life with him, even after ...

Text messaging problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Recently I discovered that my gf of 9 months had texted one of my really good friends at a party (she had been drinking) and the day after without telling me. I found a peace of paper that she had written this on (i think it was part of her journal) ...

I want to tell this new younger woman what a jerk this guy is but I'm scared of losing him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - i've been having an affair with a married man. he is now divorcing his wife and i found out he is seeing a younger woman. i followed him home from work the other night and he ended up going to her place. i want to confront her and tell her what a ...

I so want us to get back together and be exclusive but he doesn't know if he can do this...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend and he was crushed. A few months later, we still were talking/rekindling things. I spent Thanksgiving break at his apartment with him, and we realized we are totally not over each other. We had agreed to sleep with other ...

He has a girlfriend but wants me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - So I've liked this guy for a while but he's had a girlfriend as long as I've known him. I noticed he's been flirting with me somewhat since we first met but I assumed it was just his personality. Recently though, he's been asking me to kiss him and ...

I want to kiss my girl, but my Mom might be watching

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I have a date saturday night with my girlfreind. I have dated her before and we broke up. We got back together about 2 months ago via email and have been talking on the phone. We are going to the movies and my mother is chaproning us. I want to let ...

Now she has found someone else I want her back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - After a few months of ongoing fights and quarrels, I made the biggest mistake ever: I cheated on her. After a few more fights, we broke up and went our seperate ways. A couple months after we broke up, she started dating this other guy. I realiz...

I am torn between my wife and my lover

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Should I leave after 13 years? I have a 4 year old and a 3 month. I am a 32 year old male I've been with my current girl friend for 13 years we never married. I will refer to her as my wife. I have had my lover for 3 years. off for 1 and on for a...

Do I tell her how I how I feel, and how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for 2 and a bit months, and already I see it taking a nose dive towards another failed relationship. Well, she wanted me to go to hers last night because she had the house to herself, as much as I wanted to see her pret...

I love my husband but am living with an ex and I love them both!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I was in a relationship for 13 years, eight of which I have been married. Well my husband and I split up a few months ago and I started seeing an ex who is 30 years my senior. I have always had feelings for my ex and could actually say that I ...

The baby was born 11 months after I was home, is the baby mine?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - I have a question when i was home from Iraq last year 2008 the last time me and my wife had sex was april 4th 2008 when i cam back from iraq ahe told me she was preg and then on March 1st 2009 our son was born her due date was feb 26 2009 now is ...

I want my best friends wife, I already had her friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - I need help.... I find my friend's wife attractive and I am afraid that I desire her.... We were watching a game few years ago and when our team scored,everybod was jumping, congrulating each other and me and her hugged each other...It was s...

I kept it all in the familiy and slept with his brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I slept with my current Boyfriends brother about 3 years ago, at the time I had broke up with my boyfriend because a)he moved in with his pregnant gf b)he hit me with my daughter(his 1st kid)in my arms, c)cheated on me with 3 different girls. ...

She says one thing, he says another, who do I believe?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 29 years old woman, divorced with 2 kids. I met this guy almost 3 years ago and after 2 years he confessed me that he was still seeing his exgirlfriend behind my back. He accepted he was wrong and promised to change everythi...

He is my friend, I like her but she likes him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Well, there's a girl at my school and I love her to pieces. Anyway, I asked her out and she said she needed time. However to my shock, my best friend told me she liked him so now he's in a dilema. Really I am asking the question for him because he's ...

Will my feelings for my boyfriend change after an FFM threesome?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - So I was WONDERING, if my boyfriend and I end up having a threesome, with another woman, whats the likely it'll bring us closer? Or I wont feel the same about him?...

He has a girlfriend but wants a threesome with my friend and I

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - I like this guy and he likes me back. but he is 17 and im 15 so we cant date. we still hang out and go to his car and you know the rest of the story. lately he wants to do somthing with both my bestfriend and i,so i said yes beacuse i thought ...

He loves her, he likes me. Should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I think I've fallen in love with my best guy friend. I won't go into details, but I feel really strongly about him, but he loves this other girl, who has a boyfriend. He's admitted he likes me too. Every single one of our friends say it, even when ...

Totally confused with two girls... eughhh!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Hey guys, I have been in a relationship for two years now. My girlfriend have been through several ups and downs. Not to sound cocky but I have a thing for pleasing girls who have been hurt in a relationship. For a true example at school there is...

Who to choose; my long distance boyfriend who I love very much or the new guy who lives close by?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - i have a boyfriend who tells me he loves me very much.but i rarely get to see him coz he is very busy with work,we live miles away anyway there's this new guy who i have recently met and he also tells me he loves me yet he is very close what can i ...

I broke up with him because of his manipulative ex, but now I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I have a very complicated situation here. I'm in a long distance relationship with this guy. Now before I actually met him he had this female friend, I knew this girl was secretly in love with my bf. So he and I were just friends in the beginning ...

I'm craving a threesome, with me and two gorgeous men. How do I make this happen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I've always had very intense sexual fantasies about being with more than one man at a time (a threesome)... I think about it whenever I masturbate or have sex, it's the only thing that can push me over the edge into orgasm. Unfortunately in my real ...

Split from husband and seeing a new man... but still in love with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Her is the story long and true and I need help. I am 29 years old. My husband and I are currently seperated and have been since June. My husband and I had been together for 13 years. Married for 8 years. Well we had a very rouch relationship ...

In love with an actor and it is affecting my real life relationship??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - okay, so i am in love with an actor, ryan reynolds. the guy from the proposal, okay? its getting in the way of mine and my boyfriend's relationship. but ryan is so so so so so so so so hot. i have a poster of him in my room. and look at videos of ...

Cheated and fell in love..what now?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Here's my predicament... I've been married 17 years, contently, i would say, but not always happily. I love my wife but am not in love. we have two children (14 and 7). Two years ago, I started an affair with a co-worker. She and I each seemed to ...

I am falling hard for my best female friend. What can I do to kill these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - I am not married, but living in a relationship of many, many years. I love my companion very much, she has been my everything so far. In regards to my female friend, I have known this girl, my friend, for many years but only in the last year we...

After having an affair with a married man for 18 years he has finally left his wife, but now he is seeing another younger woman!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - i have been having an affair with a married man for 18 years. he and his wife of 28 years have just filed for a divorce. i didn't encouage him in fact i told him to rethink and try an make up with his spouse. he sais that its too late and that its ...

Girlfriend allows her Ex Boyfriend to stay the night with her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - This is very complicated. My girlfriend who has a 2 yr old with her ex... who abandoned them for a high paying job out of state.... began dating me knowing that I was married but ending my marriage. While we fell in love ..over a two month period of ...

Good Friend or The Boy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - A good friend of mine likes this guy, but i like him too. But, she dated him for a week, and they broke up, and i think he's really starting to like me. What should i do? Be a loyal friend or take a chance? ...

This guy likes me but I like his best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - This is a bit long and messed up. I broke up with my long term partner ( and fiance) last year. Soon after I broke up, this pretty close friend of mine (call him X) whom I hadn't met for awhile, contacted me to catch up. Not long after that, X ...

My husband has developed feelings for another woman and I don't know how to handle it...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - me and my husband have been married for 3 and 1/2 years and recently he realized that he has feelings for another woman. I'm in a battle for him with her. My friends tell me to go but my heart tells me to stay cuz he will pick me, what do u think I ...

Help! In love with my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I'm really confused right now and i don't know what to do. I like my boyfriend's best friend! but i still have feelings for my boyfriend. I feel horrible. Help! :( ..please :(!!...

How do I continue seeing my girlfriend when she has feelings for this other man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

25 November 2009 (M) - im in a bit of a predicament. my current girlfriend and i have been going out for almost 5 months now. i stayed with her for a month, and things were going great, really great. i found out about this guy that she was talking to her before me, he ...

In love with a married women but should I wait for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

25 November 2009 (M) - I am new to this site and have a few questions that I am hoping to get help with. I have been having an affair with a married woman for almost 9 months. She is fantastic. Neither of us thought we would ever be in this situation ever. ...

My wife wants a threesome with another man!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

25 November 2009 (M) - My wife wants a threesome with another man. She says she loves the idea of "spit-roasting." I am disgusted, when I first met her two years ago in Church she was innocent and caring, and she saved herself until our wedding night. I don't know where ...

Our mutual friends tell me my boyfriend is chatting up another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - hello guys... i m a 20 year old girl...i am in a relationship for last 4 years...this guy was very sweet initially...he proposed me and we spent lovely time together...but recently i dont know what happened, but my bf has stopped calling me and some...

Three guys like me so who do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - Ok, so here's my problem. For most of my life, i've dreamed and prayed to find someone who had feelings for me, and hadn't found anyone. Once I turned 17, I felt hopeless, because in my family, everyone falls in love/marries very young (My parents ...

I'm bisexual and attracted to my roomates

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

25 November 2009 (M) - Hello I'm a 14 year old sophomore. I'm a closeted bi. I guess I'll get straight to the point. I'm having feelings for two guys. One is my roommate and the other is a senior. My roommate could also fall into the criteria of best friend since I t...

My husband doesn't listen to me and I think there is more to his 'friendship' with an older woman

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - HI i just got married this year in may and me and my husband are having a difficult time. i am currently pregnant this is the second baby our first i miscarried and i have a hard time believing that he still loves me. i accuse him of cheating...

My sister sent him naked photos, how do I get over this and him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - A year ago my bf lied about being home one evening. Something told me he was lying I went to his apartment stood in the middle of it and called him. I asked what we was doing he said cleaning his apartment. Needless to say I got back with him. I ...

Stuck with another, but wants to be with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I started dating this guy, and we were together for a year but broke up when I found out he had another girl. We remained friends, and recently he has been wanting to get back together with me. He has been telling me he loves me. However, re...

My cheating man says he will change his ways!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I got my man in our house with a lady in our room,they admitted they had sex without condom?it was not for the first he cheated on me.he started cheating on me previously with his ex-girl friends.i do nt find a place in my heart this time to ...

I don’t know what to think about him now! I am so confused!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 1 ½ years, and we have been living together only 2 months, but its going really well. I thought things were perfect between us.. he is sweet, kind, thoughtful, considerate and the perfect gentleman. Really ...

My wife wants me back but I've booked a holiday with my internet lover!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - I develop an embarasing problem where i lost all of my head hair. resently my wife and i have drifted away and i was planning to leave her for another beautiful woman that i met online. she is dazling. since my head hair loss things have turned rite ...

I'm worried he has developed feelings for my best friend, after he performed oral sex on her!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for the better part of 5 years. I recently finished school and he asked me to move in with him so I agreed. It has been 5 months and were both under the impression we were heading toward marriage. For ...

I'm in love with a married man who is in an unhappy marriage! What should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - Ok so there's this guy. I've known him for about ten years, infact even longer than his wife. He's actually a family friend and all we have ever been is friends. However about 7 months ago after me, his wife and him went out for some drinks, we went ...

I love both men - my boyfriend AND the other guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - ok heres the deal..i am 25 years old with two kids and i am with my kids dad have been for about 4 years. about a year ago i meet this guy at work and he seemed to be everything ive ever wanted in a man! so things werent going so good with the kids...

She just admitted she loves me but she is thinking of going back to her ex

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24 November 2009 (M) - I'll try to make this as short as possible, but I might have trouble... I have been kinda seeing a girl for the past few months, who only recently came out of a long term relationship. I know you're probably thinking "rebound" but we did hit it of...

So in love with her..but she loves another guy! Help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - im in love with this girl called Emma, she has a boyfriend who she has been with for 6 months, shes always on about how much she loves him on her facebook, we do have a bit of history, before she got with her boyfriend i was sleeping with her, i ...

I am in love with my sister's boyfriend's son!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts. Please Help. A Few Months ago I Got together with my sisters partners son. Hes 16 im 20. it took a while for us to admit how we felt and 1 thing led to another. my sister then split from her partner and he and his son left. i ...