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Archived questions from: August, 2008 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

She wants to marry me eventually, but wants to date other guys now. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Im 21 now I started dating my girlfriend when we were 14. Last year we took a break, b/c she said she did not feel the same anymore. And I felt like our love was dying down. After about 7 months we started seeing each other and after 5 years we ...

Too confused. Husband not interested in sex with me, just wants threesomes or foursomes. Am I inadequate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Hi its me again. Ever since that foursome episode, my husband and I have not had sex with each other since we do not live together. (Its a discrete marriage) Now, we had made a plan to spend the whole day together and guess what? He hs asked me s...

I have romantic feelings for too many guys! Am I a horrible person or just bad at commitment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months. I really love him. We really click, we've got lots in common, we find the same things funny, we find each other hot, we treat each other lovingly... our relationship is brilliant. Howeve...

He claims he isn't trying to salvage his marriage but am I wasting my time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - He claims that he is not trying to salvage their marriage; but he seems to be bending over backwards to appease his wife. She wants everything switched over into her name and he does so without any hesitation. She says it's because of me and I might ...

My husband is in prison, and I am having enjoyable sex with another man, who wants me to make a decision, I don't want to leave my marriage, but should I continue to have sex with this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - THis guy has been flirting with me for awhile, then he started asking me out. I told him no that i'm married. He said he knew that. ANd he wasnt meaning anything by it. So after a couple more of him asking i finally said yes. After about 4 times ...

Should I have put up more of a fight? Will I lose him to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (?) - I have been seeing a 29 yr old guy for about a month. When he moved here to Boston from NYC for an 8 month freelance job, his girlfriend of 2 yrs broke up with him because of the distance, although "she would feel more comfortable with it if they ...

I cannot understand why he wants to keep me in the background when he preferred his wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Ok, I'm back with another question...how do I get him to stop calling and texting me without changing my number. I accepted the fact that he went back to his wife and am glad he did so because that's not what I want. I'm trying to move on again ...

What is my boyfriend up to with this "friend" of his?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for 3yrs 8 months now and we are in a long distace relationship.i notice a co worker of his calls him often. one day while we were out driving she called because she wanted to check up on him (he did go to work ...

Which boy should I go for?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Hello, rather basic question here: I currently have a rather embarrising crush on too great boys - one in the year above me and one of my friends mates who is just going into sixth form who i have known since year 2. I really REALLY like my f...

Is there any possible way to regain trust where he will still see the woman he was with for the rest of his life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - This is a long one, so brace yourselves. I probably have one of the most unhealthy relationships out there besides abusive ones. My boyfriend and I were both engaged to other people when we met. I was with my ex for 10 years, he was with his for ...

My depression broke her heart. Could get a second chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - This story is somewhat complicated but I will do my best do explain it. Basically, I was in a long-distance relationship with a girl. She was really in love with me and wanted to be my girlfriend. I was up at college, and was going through a ...

I thought he liked me, but stopped texting and has been asking abou my friend. Does he like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - i dont understand blokes..how can you tell if a boy likes you?? been friends with this boy for a while..recently started hanging out..he started coming out by himself with me n sometimes my mates..he usually texts me everyday but last two days he ...

I'm torn between two guys and I don't know who to choose!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I have been with a male that we will call ram for just about a year now. We fight we argue and practically tear eachothers heads off. There has been cheating from both sides in the relationship. All of my friends wonder why I am soo crazzy about him ...

This guy at work asked me out but I want noting with him. Should I ask him if he wants to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm really confused. I'm married and this guy at work asked me out. I've seen him around for the last few years and we talked occasionally. However, I was really surprised that he asked me out. I rejected his advances and then have been avo...

Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - is is possable to be in love with 2 people at the same time? iv been with my boyfriend 2years now and we were best friends years b4, i really think i love him and at the moment i feel like i wont to be with him for ever. But i'm very close to my ot...

I'm married and beginning to like a co-worker. Do I accept his invitation to lunch?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - i'm married and just started a new job few months ago. i'm beginning to like my colleague and it seems mutual as he initiated to ask me if we can have lunch together so he can get to know me. i don't like this as i know it is very wrong. should i ...

I don't want to hurt anyone. I don't love my husband, and I want a guy who has a girlfriend. I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - My husband says he loves me, I believed him. I thought I felt the same. When I got pregnant with our child thats when he proposed to me. I said yes. I was going to wait till after the baby was born to get married but everybody kept asking me why ...

"Stand By Your Man" should also apply for women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I really need to know if I'm right in this case because if not, I do want to apologize to my husband and his friend. Basically, his best friend, we'll call him D, lived with us when we were first married. Actually, my husband owned the house an...

How do I turn down my feelings for a business partner without changing our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - I'm married with children and have strong feelings for a guy who is 21 years younger than me! It's awful and I can't get him out of my head. I've never felt like this before. I could never act on my feelings or let him or anyone know so it's bot...

My wife left me, but now she wants to try again. I am torn between giving it another shot with her and this new girl I am nuts for.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - This is long so I appreciate anyone who reads it. I am 47 and married with a 7 year old son. I work as a senior manager and have lots of people who work for me. About a year ago a 24 year old came to work with the company, I'll call her T. She is ...

I don't think things are good with him and his new girlfriend. Would it be ok to step in and see?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - This guy I've liked for a long time has a girlfriend and they've been going together for about six weeks. It seems that they are having alot of relationship problems and he is looking for me. I backed off completely when they became committed - I ...

All my friends have dates and I am the odd man out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - This i pathetic really and i know it shouldn't bother me but it does, suddenly all my friends seem to have boyfriends [and girlfriends] and i'm the only one who hasn't got one, all off them are delieriously happy and i'm really pleased for them...

My husband cheated on me and I don't know wha to do. Please help me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - My husband and i have been married for 5 yrs now.he had a 2 and half yr long affair that started soon after we got married with a woman he was closely related to and said it was to get back at his uncle (that woman's husband). i forgave him for this ...

Do I abandon work and give up my rights to the t-shirt business? And should I confront my business partner and crush about what's in his head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (?) - M and J are best friends from college who are total opposites. I started dating M nine years ago. My son was 5 when we moved in together. Our relationship was loving but dysfunctional. We could not agree on how to handle my son or our finances. We ...

I don't want to hurt the guy that I'm with but I think I still love the ex that broke my heart. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - last year,i was with this guy that i really loved..he broke my heart,it was hard forgetting him even that i've never forgot him!but it took me a lot of time to get used to the idea that it was over between us..every guy i met was like an enemy to ...

I like him but he has still has a gf and I didnt want to mess things up! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - Theres this guy i know through an orchestra, iv only really know him prperly for 1 year. but ove that year weve become so close, and i now consider him by far one of my best friends. I never find it akward around him and we can always find somethin ...

My fiance went out on her "hen night" and denies giving oral to this bloke, as I was told. I can't tell if I want to continue to be with her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I hop you can help as I dont know what to do. I'm about to get married next month but my fiance did something horrible to me and i just cant tell if i even want to be with her anymore. She went on her hen night last week and her and her mates go...

10 years later, I think of my FWB and wonder why we couldn't have a full relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I was seeing a woman for four years and we were living together. She did not want to be in a relationship but we were very good friends and were having sex. We would go on holidays together, shop together, etc but she did not want a steady ...

Should I wait for guy 1 or go for guy 2? What do you think?

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27 August 2008 (F) - Well, i really two guys. they are both really amazing guys, and there is a few problems. first off, i have like guy 1 for a long time, and hes one of my best friends. but he is dating this girl, who lies, makes him jealous on purpose, and does stuff ...

My fiance was in bed with another woman... he says she was for me because I'm bi! I said no, he went to bed with her anyway. Do I forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I want to know how to trust a man again after he has lied to me. I live with my fiance for months and I came home early to find out that he was in the bed with another woman telling me he was bringing her home to me ---because I am bisexual. After ...

He says he loves me, but then tells me to stay away while. He keeps going back and forth between me and his ex from before me. What is the deal here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 1 1/2 yrs.He is 40 I am 29.I knew him from having our horses at the same farm,never paid any attention to him as we were both in serious relationships when he moved out there. After some time I broke up with my boyfriend ...

She still admits that I am the one for her, yet won't return to me, as I have betrayed her trust. Any hopes for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - I was with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years, the reason we broke up is becuase of general male ego. I started flirting with her cousin and we also talked about each others sex lives. No way did it go any further nor did i want it to. But she did, I ...

He wants to still date this other chick but he also wants me to just wait around. Do I wait or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Me ex split up with me about three months ago. I was his very first relationship ever and he didn't think he could go through with it knowing that there was a "what if". Our relationship was heading straight down the aisle and he didn't think he ...

My best friends boyfriend kissed me, I have no idea how to tell her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Sooo, I need some advice. The other night I got drunk with my best friend and her boyfriend. Me and her boyfriend have always had this unspoken tension between us. Well it finally came out when he kissed me. And then he kissed me again the next ...

My friends say I'm slowly falling out of love, could this be true?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Ok as some of you may already know...I have a boyfriend that i have been with for 2 years.Well I just started high school last week and a boy who i've been attracted 2 since 7th grade is there.I also found out that he likes me and wants 2 go with me ...

I am totally dependant on him but know this is wrong...how can I move on??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

25 August 2008 (?) - Hi everyone, I can't believe that I am writing about this so pubilc but here we go. I have been with my guy for 11 years. We have 3 kids together. Six yers ago he cheated on me and there was a little girl that resulted from it. I had no clue bout...

Why does he want threesomes after 5 years?! What happens if I say yes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

25 August 2008 (F) - i am 19 and for the last 5 years i have been with the same person. We now have a gorgeous son who is 5 months old. Ever since the beginning of our relationship everything was fun we didnt have sex untill about a year after we met just recentlly afte...

I'm in a relationship with a guy but I met the perfect girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

25 August 2008 (M) - Hello everyone, I'll try to make this short. I've been in a relationship with a guy for 5 years now. I used to date girls back in High School but started dating guys during college, then I met my current bf. The journey has been long, great at...

I love both my ex and my girlfriend. They give me ear ache about eachother. I need to pick one.. but which one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

25 August 2008 (M) - The Girl I Am With Now Is Called Tasha I Bin With Her Nearly 2 Month Now But I Was With Her A Year And Half Befor The Ex [ Natalie ] When I Was With Tasha For The Year And Half Tasha And Nat Were Best Mates But Then They Fell Out And I B...

My ex asked me to have dinner with him and his new girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

25 August 2008 (F) - My ex left me and have a new girlfriend soon. After that we seldom contact each other. He knows I still loves him and still in hurt. I moved house recently and gave him a sms telling him my new addr, and I said I do cherish him as a good friend...

I really love this guy, who is my friend with benefits, my girlfriend used to like him some time ago, I am afraid they will get back together, how do I stop worrying about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5723 days ago

25 August 2008 (F) - im 15 years old and i am like INLOVE wit this kid. hes my Freind With Benifits of 8 months. Him and my soppost to be best freind had a THING in 6 nd 7 grade and wile me nd her were fighting she made my life a living hell! nd ovcorse her and my ...

There are two guys at work I might like, and my friend likes one who probably likes me. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5723 days ago

25 August 2008 (F) - I work at a theme park with many other 16-19 year olds. I have fallen for one guy inperticular Anthony. His sister is a boss there too. We have fun, he get's me drinks and the door. He can be very quiet until I show up then he is much more out goin...

Can I continue to sleep over at a male friend's house after I get married?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - i am a 22 year old woman who has a guy friend for about 8 years. my boyfriend knows that i see him. my boyfriend and i want to get married. My guy friend and i say i love you all the time, we hold hands, we cuddle, though, i sleep over his house. Is ...

I love my boyfriend AND HIS FRIEND! I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now and I love him very much. In the past few months I have developed very strong feelings for one of his friends who I have known for as long as my boyfriend (2 years). Even though I really care about my...

Is there a "right" way to ask out a married woman at work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 August 2008 (M) - Hi! My question is slightly controversial (so humble apologies in advance!). Is there a 'right way' to ask out a married woman at work? Is the protocol different vs asking out single women at work? I know I should really consider married women to be ...

He has told me he would come to me if I was interested and I am but my conscience says no because he's married. Any views?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - I am very recently divorced. I was devastated by this , my husband left me and the children for another woman. For 25 years and long before I was married I knew this other man. I always liked him but sadly chose my ex husband over him and he then ...

My guy was going to marry his baby's mom so I dumped him, but now I can't get him off my mind. How can I move on?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

23 August 2008 (F) - Hi! I was dealing with a guy that i NOW love for over 5 years. He is Now involve with his Babymom for the Thousand times. Well some how she found out about me and pressure him to marrie her. She set a date and made some arrangment. He finally told ...

Why would he lead me on in a long distance romance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

23 August 2008 (F) - I met a guy(we'll call him Pete) two months ago at my friend's wedding. We were both staying there the week leading up to it, and hit it off...even though I have a boyfriend. The night before the wedding he kissed me. Nothing else happened because ...

I just wish he'd wake up one day and tell himself, I was the one he wanted, and not his girlfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

23 August 2008 (F) - I met this guy recently. It didn't take long before the innocent talks became outrageously flirtacious. I am totally into this guy, and I know he would definetly go for it, if he was single.. I don't know much about the two of them together, ex...

I'm in love with two people, one of them is my boyfriend! I see them both frequently and do not know how to deal.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

23 August 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 3 years and once we broke up because I thought I should just give up on account of there is no trust and well also I liked my friend. So we broke up but nothing ever happened with the guy but I neve...